violet-and-honey

[violet-and-honey]

[violet-and-honey]

Jeremy Dufrene is out here living my dream, sailing around swamps and have lana cry over him because she loves him so much

[violet-and-honey]

[violet-and-honey]

Sorry I am reading ACOTAR it reads like fanfiction if I actually read fanfiction and I can't put this book down

[violet-and-honey]

i <3 my balcony

[violet-and-honey]

Today on my afternoon walk I saw a woman in the distance and was struck by her, she had really black hair and a long gingham dress, which I was like 'oooh!' but then I saw she was pushing a pram and I went to 'oh she's REALLY playing up the trad wife aesthetic there with the long gingham dress ugh' but then I got closer again and was like 'that's a really small pram??' and then I got EVEN CLOSER and saw the pram had a cat in it. Anyway I went through the whole spectrum of emotions and landed on this women is everything I aspire to be and we have a soul connection

[violet-and-honey]

[violet-and-honey]

[violet-and-honey]

Honestly it boils down to reparenting yourself & rewiring your own neuronal pathways & telling yourself a firm “stop” when you notice your mind slipping down negative loopholes & being present in the moment & enjoying being mid task rather than waiting for it to end & not thinking of inertia as your baseline and natural way of living

[violet-and-honey]

can we please please please learn to differentiate between things that are good but devalued because of their association with women (caring for children, being compassionate), things that are neutral but seen negatively because of their association with women (the colour pink, having long hair), and things that are bad but associated with women because of misogyny (being materialistic, being stupid) because otherwise we’re gonna keep getting takes like “being gender nonconforming is anti feminist” and “not studying for your classes is feminist”

[violet-and-honey]

[violet-and-honey]

anyway you should always remember that all those foreigners you see dying on the news are just as real people as you are who have just as much interiority as you do. there is nothing about you that makes you more important and it is by pure chance that you are not in their position. in fact, this holds for all of history. every person, no matter the horror of the fate that befell them, had just as much interiority as you do. i feel like some people haven't fully internalized this.

[violet-and-honey]

Kiyoshi Kurosawa’s cameo performance in Shunichi Nagasaki’s Stranger (1991)

[violet-and-honey]

[violet-and-honey]

[violet-and-honey]

If there's one thing I love about watching Cougar Town it's how bisexual the men in it are

[violet-and-honey]

Door to hell, Turkmenistan