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Having an emotionally mature partner is TOP TIER. You're able to express yourself freely and openly. They don’t insult you. They don't give you the silent treatment. They don't become aggressive or manipulative. They listen, they respond—they patiently hold a safe space for you.

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“I’m not into convincing people I’m worthy. I’m into people who’ll convince me on my worst days that I’m still worth the world.”

— Reyna Biddy

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Maturity is not seeking revenge. It's healing and moving on, so you don’t become like the people who traumatized you.

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“A healthy relationship is where two independent people just make a deal that they will help the other person be the best version of themselves.”

— Unknown

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“Spend your time on those who love you unconditionally. Don’t waste it on those who only love you when the conditions are right for them.”

— Unknown

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would have started saving money in kindergarten if i knew life was like this

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“You have to get to a point where your mood doesn’t shift based on the insignificant actions of someone else.”

— Unknown

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Most relationship taught me the more chances you give someone, the less they value you. They aren't afraid to lose you bcoz they know no matter what, you won't walk away. Never let anyone get too comfortable disrespecting you. Love yourself & choose distance over disrespect.

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My childhood trauma didn't make me stronger. it made me a people pleaser. it made me forgive way too much. it made me not speak when i'm supposed to. it made me an extreme empath.

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You can always start again, my love. No matter how bad you feel, how hard you have hit rock bottom again or how little energy and will you have left to keep holding on, deep down you know that recovery is possible. You have made it out of dark places more times than you could ever imagine, so what makes you think that this time is different? You are so strong and capable and you can absolutely do this. Please do not be so hard on yourself; you have not messed up, you have not failed - you are given the opportunity to start over and recreate yourself and I know that you will get through this.

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Manipulation is when they disturb your peace, provoke you, trigger your mental health, and then blame you for your negative reactions.

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