vivianheart101

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Moving accounts permanently!

Heyo! Decided that I don’t want to flip back and forth between this account and my askblog. For that reason I will be moving to that account only! See it at @vibrant-universes !

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Where you might see trash, others might see treasure… or compost for new tomatoes! 🍅 It can be hard to not feel like trash sometimes, so it can help to remember that even “trash” has value! 

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I'm begging ya'll not to skip medication/therapy/doctors appointments because you've been feeling better.

You're feeling better because of your regime. Because of the time & effort you have put into treatment. Don't set yourself up for a relapse by skipping.

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I know I said a Peter Parker voice might be Huey’s teen voice but then I rewatched Adventure time and well…

(despite it being better synced in photoshop the audio always renders some frames behind so this is as good as it gets =n=)

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Reminder that “processing trauma” doesn’t just mean “talk about the traumatic shit that happened to you” (especially if you aren’t ready to do that yet). It also means:

Giving yourself time, safety, and rest. Letting your brain learn how to feel safe again by giving it a safe place to rest and recover. Rediscovering the feeling of peace is a fundamental part of recovery.

Examining your day-to-day feelings. (Not just your feelings about what happened in the past, but the way you feel just in general, day-to-day.) Observing and understanding your present emotions, the things you are struggling with, the things that are getting easier, recognizing the good, the bad, and the gray.

Identifying triggers and brainstorming ways to avoid them.

Identifying goals, concrete or otherwise. (E.g. my goal is to have more good days this month than last month, to have fewer days spent in bed, to have fewer moments of panic, to be a little happier and feel a little more safe.)

Mapping progress

Talking about your fears & negative feelings is important. But you can start by talking about your desires & hopes for the future. In therapy, you get to choose what to talk about, and how far the conversation goes.

Reminding yourself that you are working to overcome obstacles specifically because there are good things waiting ahead.

Recovery is a journey, and everyone carves a slightly different path. You don’t have to follow step-by-step instructions, as long as you learn how to keep moving forward.

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lol just received a Forbidden Thought

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I was reading It this morning and at a certain point Eddie admits to being ticklish and Richie confirms it saying something along the lines of ‘yeah very ticklish’ and I immediately thought ‘wait how does he know that if the other losers don’t’ and now I can’t stop picturing Richie and Eddie laying in Eddie’s bedroom, Richie tickling him and Eddie just laughing so loud and freely Richie just,, stops and looks at him lovestruck for a while

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This seems pretty spot on 🤣

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instead of calling an ‘evil’ character a psychopath, sociopath, psychotic, narcissistic  or etc. use any of these words instead:

self-centered 

violent

manipulative

remorseless

wicked

cunning

mean

abusive

dangerous

corrupt

morally corrupt

insensitive

bully

foul

vile

cruel

aggressive

threatening

brutal 

vicious

rampaging

out of control

because there are so many ways to describe someone as ‘bad’ than by assigning them a misunderstood, demonised personality disorder and if i see anyone using personality disorders as substitutes for evil then you’re getting blocked plain and simple.

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Door

“Can I seduce the door open?”

“I-… Its a door”

“And i wanna seduce it”

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So let’s talk about comparing OCs to other characters, If the verbal intention is there, that’s fine. If there isnt, and saying something like “Oh this character looks like ___!” Is, at least in my opinion, The BIGGEST demoralizers for someone to draw those characters. Especially if it snowballs, or just gets constantly spammed. Its not fun at all to do anything with those characters anymore. Its why I havent done anything with Chie and Gelo in ages Chie was constantly compared to Isabelle Gelo with SCP-999 Kevin to Wii Fit Trainer And even older character designs Robo-Cy/Lassuli to Megaman Azuri to Evie The Twins to Steven Universe Gems Grape to Seabunnies from Aphmau and also why Cyana’s design and story got constantly updated to be what she is now.  It’s exhausting.

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When the tunnel is out the party never ends

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