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Pregnancy dreams are Wild My Chemical Romance Edition

Last night I dreamt of Gerard from My Chemical Romance and he was my best friend since childhood and I hadn’t seen him in years. So now this morning I’m reliving my early high school days of when I was obsessed with them trying not to rage in my office.

Also I think it’s a sign that I need a mommy vacation after I give birth to go see them in concert since they’re touring again.

We’ll carry on.

#mychemicalromance #MCR #pregnancydreams

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meirl

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Don’t yell at people for the eggshells you placed in their path.

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“They turned her into a weapon and then complained when she learned to defend herself.”

—unintended consequences

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You shouldn’t have to spoon feed gratitude and admiration to people because it’s the only way to stop their toxic behavior. It’s not your fault or responsibility that they require your adoration in order to fill the hole caused by their own inadequacies.

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Shame

Don't you just love it when your family shames and humiliates you in public for thinking something that happens to be expensive is pretty then proceeds to shame you for not enjoying a certain activity or food

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Setting boundaries is the best. I love watching people squirm because they no longer have a hold on me.

You’ll always be a “waste of time” to someone that can’t control you anymore. When you start doing you and stop checking up with people who won’t check up with you, people start acting funny especially when you set boundaries. It’s literally the craziest phenomenon I’ve seen. If you doing what’s best for you offends anyone that was supposed to want what’s best for you, they never wanted what was best for you in the first place.

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reminder that abusers can act nice once in a while but that doesn’t invalidate the instances where they were abusive to you, EVER. You deserve to cut ties, still. You may feel confused but reality is not black and white at times, abusers can attempt to do good things out of maintaining their image of ‘niceness’. Do not trust anyone who can be fine one second and snap at you for nothing in the next one.

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I am quickly learning what an attachment is. Its something that drains the life force out of you.

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Drop a 🙋‍♂️🙋‍♀️ if you are the black sheep

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Toxic people will make you feel like you’re holding a grudge. No, dude. That’s a boundary.

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More young men need to be taught this. And more men need to realize their girlfriends/wives are not their caretakers! I don’t care how much you work, you are a part of this household and are apart of the mess that was created!

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Pine grosbeak 

npekonen

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When a toxic family member tells me I NEED to come over for Christmas dinner a day before I leave for Christmas with nontoxic family....I don’t NEEEEEED to do anything. If I make it, I make it, if not, oh well. 🤷🏻‍♀️ I’m not here to appease you.

#toxicfamily #toxic #family #christmas

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The Prince of Darkness is a gentleman.

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