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Giving up my man and my closest friend. I’m so hurt rn

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you deserve someone who is sure about you.

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It's my 9 year anniversary on Tumblr 🥳

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It’s hard to hope and hurt.

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It’s me knowing I’m being toxic if i send this good morning text but i won’t and I’m both eyes crying and my face got warm. I can’t imagine dating at all in 2023 if it’s not the man i want this is so sad. I pray all of us heal from our breakups. What’s sad is when y’all just aren’t functioning well but both want to be together. You can’t make anyone put in work they aren’t willing to do but it’s sad when you have mutual feelings about breaking up and staying together. I want a healthy relationship from a God-fearing man and I have to remind myself of this while I’m walking away mind you I could just send this good morning text and make plans as if we don’t have anything to work on but because we love each other we should make each other miserable trying to be together knowing we don’t satisfy each other emotionally. What i can say from this is that I am very pleased with myself for not allowing negatives to make me lessen my standard for myself and my future husband. What’s most important is that i was never in prayer asking for him to be my husband i was just praying for him. If i end up just having to move on then the Lord will be my help where I feel helpless and I’m blessed to be hopeful 🥹.

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I mind my company now and I love that for me

Relationship Status:

⚪️Single

⚪️In a Relationship

🔘Trying to figure my shit out, but wouldn’t mind some company. 👀

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My military ex explained that we are involved with this foolishness because Russia is very close to our territory overseas and if they get Ukraine they’ll be at an unsafe advantage so we need Ukraine indebted to us and we need them to keep their land so Russia doesn’t get it but tbh we could just give up our world status and focus on our actual country and how it’s citizens view us instead of worrying about how the world views is but i see how hard that is given Americans past.., could you imagine if your bully fell down.. you would think to kick them so it makes sense the defense concept but chillle Bernie should’ve been president 😒

I can’t believe this man has to even explain to someone that war with anyone at any given time is not and will never be a priority!!

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Accountability! One of the easiest ways to be gaslit is by saying something like this to someone. This is so easily twisted yet this concept is truly so simple. Just because you understand someone or even why they’re doing something doesn’t make it okay for them to do what they’re doing wrong and if they don’t want to accept that there’s an option for them to simply stop doing what is wrong especially after you come to them to explain what is wrong with what they’re doing then it is possible they are telling you that they agree with their actions and should not be disassociated from them.. basically, some people aren’t gaslighting, they’re telling you indirectly that they are wrong not just their actions. Accept when someone is wrong and be encouraged to pray for them because there’s is always possibility of improvement when you take things to God in prayer!🥹

unfortunately, not everyone realises this 

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The concept that you can be sexual and not a whore is such an undiscovered truth that idk what to say about it truly but even with the whole Tems thing in mind.. please don’t hold me accountable to any moral standards unless you are my prayer partner accountability partner or a prophet. Even a fellow Christian would need to go to God about their concern for my soul before coming directly to me as if my personal decisions has offended their relationship with God. Be saved for yourself and pray for others not pray for yourself and try to save others, the Holy Spirit will guide me even to conviction if that’s what’s applicable but trust God’s correction or atleast pray before addressing people about themselves fr! And tbh i think you should rebuke people in private anyways twitter is not private and the whole goal seemed to be to criticize her. Her reaction was poor but harsh words stir up wrath and anger can lead to sin so easy on Tems. I hope she finds strength in the Lord during this time of attack because her pics weren’t even that bad, the bad things were her responses to the tweets where she kinda disassociated herself from God seemingly but let’s talk about all the people who were coming for her morals while judging her like fr if you care that much read her in her dms but public humiliation is not love. And just because a fan doesn’t have many followers doesn’t make their public posts not public anymore and it could become popular overnight so it could have humiliation potential… a mocker and a whore are both “sinners” so let Tems embrace her look and just pray for her instead of trying to put her down. Today was unfortunate news regarding her and this post being on my page made me instantly think about how people were coming for her lest i ever be came for because I agree that pussy is poetry and sounds poetic during love making but okay if that’s not a Christian enough stance for me to have on sex then just pray for me.

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I just recently was this type of friend and experienced someone being this type of friend to me. Imposter syndrome would call me a hypocrite but love calls this growth🥹🫶🏾

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We are back friends just a tad more distant of friends which is better. More boundaries on my part this time and I’m excited that she will start setting boundaries for herself and make more responsible decisions.

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Please unadd me on here if you are offended by Christian/ religious content. Just excuse yourself from following me like i do y’all after i see too many risqué posts on one of y’all blog. Fr because I haven’t started yet but I assume I’m about to start talking about God on here fr and i really don’t want to be bothered about it so please just unfollow. I would prefer random people interact with post they like on my blog instead of trying to follow me in general anyways.

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A word🤍

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When I got a friend like me I unfriended her😭