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“The children of single mothers are the children of absent fathers”

What about the fathers who died? Or the ones who never knew they were fathers? Or the ones who were divorced and refused custody?

I blame the criminal first and foremost but if your kid grows up to be a criminal, outside of a few rare exceptions, you failed as a parent.

Lesbian couples have nothing to do with single mothers, I’m not sure why you felt the need to put that there but I suspect it’s you’re convinced I’m trying to say that women are the problem, that is not the case. I’m merely pointing out the irony of that statistic given the attitudes of the people in the OP, an attitude that’s almost universally shared by modern feminists.

I find it very interesting that you keep trying to frame the issue as always being the result of a deadbeat father abandoning their kids (which is an issue) when we both know that’s not the case.

About the only thing in your post I can agree with is that children need loving parents. The rest is just typical feminist rhetoric trying to blame men for everything, no surprises there.

So glad that women started slowly waking up after all that abortion ban bullshit. It's really not worth the unpaid, unappreciated and hard work so that at the end you'll just end up raising a living monster who will continue torture women...

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Do women not also know the consequences of one night stands? why is the man the only one in the wrong when they have a one night stand? Especially if they might not know that the woman they slept with is pregnant? Why is it the man’s fault? Sounds a lot like you don’t want women to be held accountable for their actions and you just want to blame men for something that takes two people to do.

The hypocrisy of a radfem of all people claiming men only complain about inequality when it affects them is astounding, have you ever looked in the mirror?

None of your sources actually prove anything, you cherry picked a couple of videos from the internet as if that means anything compared to sources that used government data

Single men have higher rates of killing their children proportionate to single mothers, and it’s 0.13% compared to 0.12% so statistically speaking the child fatality rate would barely change, if at all. Which I pointed out already but you clearly either ignored it or can’t read.

As far as the male crime statistics, I’m willing to bet you pulled them out of your ass much like the rest of your argument.

The rest isn’t worth addressing honestly, it’s all opinions and typical radfem bile that every radfem feels the need to include in their rants.

TL;DR: a random YouTube video and a Fox News article don’t disprove two sources backed by government data and the rest of your post is the same crap every radfem has spewed since I joined tumblr in 2014.

So glad that women started slowly waking up after all that abortion ban bullshit. It's really not worth the unpaid, unappreciated and hard work so that at the end you'll just end up raising a living monster who will continue torture women...

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So glad that women started slowly waking up after all that abortion ban bullshit. It's really not worth the unpaid, unappreciated and hard work so that at the end you'll just end up raising a living monster who will continue torture women...

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That’s a funny way of saying you can’t refute anything I’m saying. Also find it fucking hilarious that you say in your bio that you aren’t a feminist but both your opinions and behaviour are exactly the same as that of a feminist.

So glad that women started slowly waking up after all that abortion ban bullshit. It's really not worth the unpaid, unappreciated and hard work so that at the end you'll just end up raising a living monster who will continue torture women...

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Been seeing this argument a lot since I came back lately and it’s been pissing me off…

“It’s fantasy so you can make up whatever you want because it’s pretend” is a copout. As a DM of about 3 years now, one of my favourite things to do is to come up with some mystical bullshit coupled with a completely plausible explanation as to why it would work in-universe.

Just because it’s fantasy it doesn’t mean that you shouldn’t have an explanation for how your fantasy bullshit works, even if it would never work in the real world an explanation that makes sense given the nature of the fantasy world you’ve created is far better than bitching out by saying “literal dragons and potions that heal gaping wounds exist but you’re gonna ‘x’?”

Yes, the easy answer to that is that both dragons and healing potions have prior establishment in fantasy. But realistically, you should also have an answer for why those exist in your world and how they work. Anything that doesn’t exist in the real world should have a “plausible” explanation for how it works, just like how everything in the real world has a “plausible” explanation, even when those explanations sometimes sound crazy.

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Come manifest then

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The percentages I cited were adjusted for proportion, I understand radfems don’t know how statistics work so you’re trying to pick any little hole you can in my argument to try to score points but you’re still wrong.

Also the irony of trying to shit on men in the same breath as the sentence “it’s logical to have more abusive single mothers than fathers” is pretty fucking funny to be honest.

My preferred number of abusive mothers (and fathers) is zero but that’s just me, I understand that radfems don’t care about things like child abuse unless it’s men doing it, which is why the other radfem above us (incorrectly) argued that the child murder rate would skyrocket if more men got custody of children (my post above already showed, with a source, that the impact on child murder would be minimal if not negligible as far as statistics are concerned).

Because as far as radfems are concerned even if women do terrible things, it’s actually because of men, yet they’ll harp on about men lacking accountability.

My intent was not to ragebait, it was simply to show that the other radfem that decided to try to blatantly lie about reality was wrong, which I did.

Why are there more single mothers than single fathers? I know you’ll try to twist it otherwise but the actual answer is that children’s courts are biased in favour of women, which is a problem in and of itself.

And somewhat unimportant but funny to note, I’m neither celibate or a virgin, so I don’t fit the definition of an incel and haven’t for about 5 years now but in typical radfem fashion you assumed that I did… because baseless assumption is about all radfems are good at

So glad that women started slowly waking up after all that abortion ban bullshit. It's really not worth the unpaid, unappreciated and hard work so that at the end you'll just end up raising a living monster who will continue torture women...

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Another classic radfem trying to twist someone else’s argument by cherry picking their post, nice stereotype btw.

The reason you don’t understand what I proved (cited and sourced), that both you and the other radfem that responded are both wrong and idiots is because, as is typical for radfems, you ignored the actual evidence that was put right in front of you.

But sure, if you ignore my entire post except for the first seven words of the last paragraph (which ironically is probably the only part of it that isn’t backed with a source), it would seem like I agree.

So glad that women started slowly waking up after all that abortion ban bullshit. It's really not worth the unpaid, unappreciated and hard work so that at the end you'll just end up raising a living monster who will continue torture women...

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I met maybe a dozen women in the 4 years I worked on construction sites, one was a dogman (person that runs around hooking shit up to the crane and making sure it’s the straps balance the weight properly so nothing falls out while it’s in the air), one was a roofer, both were good at their jobs. The rest were all traffic controllers that spent most of the time looking at their phones.

Plenty of women are working in the fields you’ve mentioned, we just need for efforts to encourage girls to aspire to these roles.

Just as a sentence, this makes no sense: "there's already plenty of women working those jobs, that's why it's absolutely imperative that right now "we" engage in mass-propaganda campaign to brainwash little girls into thinking they want to work those jobs".

On top of that, your argument is once again rooted in the far-left ideological assumption that human beings are a "blank slate" that can - and should - be coerced by the state to get the outcome their specific political agenda wants, regardless of the wishes of the people under their thumb.

This is a belief about reality that has no basis in fact and actually runs contrary to everything we know about evolution and biology. Men and women are, self-evidently, not the same, and so for there to be universally-observable differences in the interests and fields males and females tend to gravitate towards is mostly the result of nature, and adaptation to basic immutable realities of life, not some fictional and invisible worldwide conspiracy to keep the wimminz down.

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“Over supporting a guy who lies through his teeth”

I take it you’ve never voted then?

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Now that my parents have gotten a smart fridge, I’m anticipating this

rotting

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Classic radfem trying to shift the blame on men by pretending that every single mother ever is caused by an absent father when the reality is it’s more commonly a divorce that leads to the mother being given custody of the kids because of the bias of family courts in favour of women.

According to https://www.fixfamilycourts.com/single-mother-home-statistics/ 37.8% of single mothers are divorced and 41% never married (meaning they got pregnant to either a boyfriend or a one night stand/stranger) in 2004. It also states that 60% of rapists and 70% of juvenile murderers came from single mother homes

This source proves them wrong on two counts, the rate of single fathers killing neglected children (from 2001-2006) is only 0.13% (859/661,129) (killed/neglected) vs 0.12% (1704/1,452,099) for single mothers. So the likelihood of a single father killing a child is only just higher than a single mother. Meanwhile the data collected from the same period show that of all single parents that abuse or kill their children “either acting alone or in concert with someone other than the child’s other parent”, single mothers make up 70.6% of cases of abuse and 70.8% of fatalities. So more men having custody of kids would have a very minimal impact on child fatalities.

The data providing these statistics are also cited in the source to have been taken from the US department of Health and Human Resources

So in summary, @redfemmay’s response is completely wrong on all fronts, which is why there’s no sources to back any of it up

Men who abandon their kids are assholes (funny how people never talk about women that do the same) and the people that commit the crimes are obviously at fault. But to pretend that the parents (or in many cases parent) that aren’t raising their kids properly, especially when the statistics show that it is a factor, aren’t at least partly to blame so you can spew radfem propaganda is reductive and stupid, which is about what you can expect from a radfem.

So glad that women started slowly waking up after all that abortion ban bullshit. It's really not worth the unpaid, unappreciated and hard work so that at the end you'll just end up raising a living monster who will continue torture women...