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Anyways. I'm possibly deleting this blog soon. Its got old shit on it and tbh I'm downgrading a lot of my blogs. I'll make a list of my terms and then probably delete/remake just to repost them.

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Anon you need to calm down and get a fucking life and some therapy (if you’re able) holy shit. No one is being nearly as foaming-at-the-mouth as you, anon. You’re projecting really hard

Ty! I'm really confused abot the whole thing. I dont remember sending anything to tgce, so im wondering if its just the post I reblogged theyre talking about? I'm worried i did something i dont remember, but like? I dont think so?

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shut the fuck up and leave tgce alone. fuckin christ. realise u made a mistake instead of being a big bitch. why would they send u anon hate?? have u seen the fucking blog

What 'mistake' did I make? This is fucking wild.

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tgce: "i'm torn because of this thing i found out about this blog. i'm unsure if i should proceed with this request." your whiny ass: "SO MUCH AGGRESSION AND SHIT-TALKING. DNI, YOU OR YOUR FUTUR GENERATIONS. SHAME ON YOU."

That's... Not what happened at all, but okay? Ey literally have said I'm problematic, reuploaded my flag without permission, and are spreading lies about me. I in return reblogged the post correcting em and stating i dont want interaction from em, which is by all accounts reasonable. I think I may have sent an ask at one point but i dont remember.

Why dont you calm the fuck down a little.

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Was it YOU who started that? No the fuck I don't. Or at least I havent in a while, because not tagging it was considered "ableism" when i was active several months ago. I AM queer, i do not tag 'q word', and I would appreciate not being talked about behind my back. Please do not interact with my flags.

not sure how long ago u posted the hq fluitic flag, but can I ask why the coiner is problematic? I haven't seen anything bad on their account?

I think my biggest issue is that they tag ‘queer’ as ‘q word’.

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Announcement and Donations

So, after a big fight, Admin Moonshine and I are both homeless (but thankfully together). It’s a very long story, but we are sharing this gofundme around!

https://www.gofundme.com/f/help-juno-and-kyle-afford-an-apartment

-Admin Starkiller

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So, this is probably the end of this blog.

Not to be dramatic or anything. I just think this particular part of my life should be over. I'm kind of done with discourse and most tumblr communities. Maybe I'll just take a break and come back in the future, but I dont know.

I appreciate all of you that have stuck with me. Ive seen not only my terms pop up, but the way I use terminology has also been adapted into a few communities. It means a lot to me that all of this has happened.

I'll make a list of things ive coined on here and post it some time, for ease of access. But for now, I think this is... See you later!

I'll definitely be keeping in touch with a lot of you, just on different blogs. And feel free to message me whenever you need me.

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This queer*gamic discourse is yet another example of how instead of working together to solve a problem both sides would rather bully and torment the other until one side ultimately collapses and gives up on the subject, only to start the cycle again in ohh.. Four months?

Please do not reblog this with discourse. I am remaining uninvolved in this term specifically and am deleting my past mentions of it accordingly. Also im aroace just to be clear.

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Tumblr publish my posts challenge

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Another "I personally havent seen these but I may be wrong" coining post!

Pixel- (romantic/sexual/etc) when one feels the tiniest possible amount of attraction. 'Tiniest' as meassured by the person of course. Compatable with things like flux/fluid/etc.

Nano- (romantic/sexual/etc) when one feels a small amount of one attraction, but mainly feels another type of attraction. The other type may be vague or unknown, so the person 'defaults' to the tiny attraction they know they feel. Otherwise could be used with any other term.

Obviously these are inspired by pixelgender and nanogender, with slight alterations to fit attraction.

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just going thro ur coined terms (again) and theyre so good agshdjsj u earn the mogai award for best terms 🎉🎊🎇🎆🎈

Jdndbd omg ur so sweet thank u!!

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i have a couple more Thoughts on the whole bi lesbian mess then i’ll probably shut about about it unless someone like tells me to kill myself or something about it 

1. it’s a term from the 70′s/80′s when about’s the bi/lesbian split happened. before the split, bi women were simply lesbians. not “mistaken” for lesbians. we were lesbians. lesbian did not always mean exclusively attracted to women. for a long, long time, it just meant a woman who was attracted to other women. a lot of lesbians from history we know of we would consider bisexual today. if older bi women want to cling to that part of their history, who am i to stop them? hell, if younger bi women want to romanticize that part of history, frankly we should let them. in this toxic separatist hellscape the internet has become lately i can’t fault them for that. 

2. even if someone is using it because they’re harboring internalized biphobia/lesophobia, do y’all really think harassing them, suicide baiting them, threatening them, and concern trolling them is gonna help?? like, fuck, if i was a young girl struggling between being bi and a lesbian and slapped that on myself during that time and had a shit ton of ppl telling me to kill myself or whatever or just had a bunch of ppl being like ‘ummm sweaty you’re probably just a lesbian’ or ‘you’re probably just bi’ that…wouldn’t help??? sexuality is a process for people to figure out, especially in this heteronormative, mononormative (is that a word? it should be), society we live in. society expects us to be straight. society expects us to be monosexual. people have to figure out for themselves where they fit on that spectrum. they have to figure it out from within themselves, maybe with the help of their friends/family/therapists, whatever. but random strangers on the internet sending them waves of hate and harassment will not fucking help. 

basically what i’m saying can we just…leave bi ppl/lesbians alone??? can we just?? fucking leave them alone?? is that so goddamn hard for y’all?? 

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I am quoisexual so the concept of sexual attraction confuses me to all hell when I try to apply it to myself, but sometimes you've gotta say "to hell with it," and have fun creating a term for what might be attraction?? Might not be?? Listen it's a mess.

So anyway, without further ado:

Quilccion/quilccion attraction!

This a term for quoisexuals and quoiromantics, for feelings that might be romantic/sexual attraction, but that can't be determined as attraction. It's a term for the blurred or confusing attraction-like feelings you have, that might not be attraction at all, let alone romantic or sexual attraction.

Essentially, it's: "I have a strange feeling that might be romantic/sexual attraction, but since I'm quoi I can't tell what these feelings are nor be completely sure what label they'd fit."

Some examples of when someone might call their unsure feelings quilccion attraction are:

+ a quoisexual is sex positive and finds their sexual fantasies revolve mostly around one gender

+ a quoiromantic is romance positive and finds their romantic fantasies don't have any specific gender they tend to focus on

+ a quoisexual feels like their libido might be connected with attraction

+ a quoiromantic wants to cuddle or kiss someone, but isn't sure whether their want is connected with attraction

You can leave quilccion as a term on its own, or combine it with other terms to be more specific in your feelings! So you could be homoquilccion, panquilccion, abroquilccion, etc!

The word quilccion comes from the etymology of "attraction" and "what," similar to how the quoi- in quoisexual and quoiromantic is "what" in French. Like how "quoisexual" is literally "what sexual," quilccion is "what attraction." Which is fitting for attraction that 1. Isn't clear on what it is, and 2. Might not even be attraction and instead just be something else that seems like attraction.

The flag is based off the queerplatonic flag, as they're both terms used to mean attraction that sort of goes with one thing, but is also different in its own way. (How queerplatonic could almost be called platonic; how quilccion attraction could almost be called romantic/sexual attraction.)

The flag colors are all taken from the quoisexual and quoiromantic flags, and mean:

- Green: attraction like feelings that might be romantic attraction

- Blue: attraction like feelings that might be sexual attraction

- White, gray, and black: the aspec, as well as the spectrum of experience of what quilccion attraction could be/feels like

If you're not quoi, you can still use this term, just like how you can use the queerplatonic term even if you're not aro or aspec. But it's a term meant primarily for those confusing feelings that quoi people might have!

I hope this helps other quoi people! I know it helps me!

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Does anyone know why sometimes my bio shows and somwtimes it doesnt?? And its only for this blog :(

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Sapphic men are phenomenal

This post is for nonbinary people.

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Oh my god y'all one of the posts tagged q word was literally queeritic I'm HOWLING imagine being this asshole oh my stars

Blocking you for tagging q word. Exclusionist.

I'm queer asshat

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Blocking you for tagging q word. Exclusionist.

I'm queer asshat