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THAT'S AN ELVIS PRESLEY SONG?!?!?!

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she's right

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My past self -"wow I wish I could be a trans woman too bad I'm not because that would be great but I don't want to be a woman definitely maybe so I guess I'm not :c"

Me now - hon do you not see how that's wanting to be a woman like you literally want to be a woman god damn it you dumby you silly you absolute fool!!!! *Shaking her violently by the shoulders*

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I’m not plural but the other me is

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i am not a religious person…….. but if you’re out there, giant rat that makes all of the rules,

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3p를 요구하는 여친 by 이상성욕@0rCod

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so many of the transfems i know spent their time pre-transition performing a kind of lifelong exercise in self-deprivation, the goal of which was to find out exactly how little a person needed to live. they starved themselves, dressed carelessly, shunned friends, and hollowed themselves out so as not to be burdens on anyone but themselves.

i see it now, too, in the girls around me. i'll ask if they want care – a home-cooked meal, relaxed company, sex without the expectation of reciprocation – and they say no, no, thank you, i don't need it; what would you like, what do you want, because in their head they're still doing that awful calculus, still training themselves to disappear in the eyes of the people around them.

i don't think i'd have died without transition – not in the conventional sense, at least – but to take that leap, i had to stop thinking of myself as a human experiment in fuel-efficient living and start nurturing the anemic, atrophied flame of desire in my heart. i had to learn to eat well, to exercise, to style myself beautiful, but harder than that, i had to learn to ask the people around me to work on my behalf in order to enrich my life and give me the things i wanted.

and i did it; i learned. and it was agony, but courage is a muscle you can train, and every day i get better at accepting gifts with the hungry gratitude i never learned in my years and years as a sad, scared, lonely boy.

so be patient with the trans girls in your life. better than that: be proactive, attentive, generous; be forceful, if you have to, and learn to distinguish real discomfort from the terrified reflex of self-denial that so many of us once learned to rely on.

and if you are so lucky as to love a trans girl, you must insist upon her. you must insist upon her happiness, her comfort, her pleasure, and her rest, because she may still not yet know how to make those demands for herself. if you can devote any amount of energy to becoming an engine that nurtures the flame of even a single tgirl then there is a place for you in trans heaven, which as far as i'm concerned is the only one worth going to

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Every relationship post on trans subs is “help I came out to my partner and they said that if I transition at all they’ll hate me. Advice? Edit: I’m not breaking up with them, we’ve been together for 10 years” like please please dump your shitty transphobic partner I’m begging it will make your life better

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and like obviously Yes a mutually agreed to polyamorous relationship has several differences from a relationship wherein both partners have agreed to monogamy and one or both of them is not keeping up that agreement. but also this year i think it would be a fun experiment for us to all stop capitulating to monog people's cheating neuroses by explaining over and over why poly is totally completely absolutely worlds different than cheating, which is obviously still a sin against your divine right to control your partner and must be appropriately punished as such

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This is fucking awesome LMAOOOO

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okay but awawa is actually really cute so the awawa haters should be quiet

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adhd will get you thinking "i should make this doctors appointment" every day for 7 months and counting

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some silly free-to-use emotes