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There are 4 things I learned when I was 25:

You do not have to be affectionate all the time to care for someone, in fact, caring can also mean a couple of texts or silence for a few days while you both live your lives happily and separately.

People do not care for you less when they’re busy with their own lives. It’s your reaction to them being their own person - and your ability to make yourself happy - that determines how they feel about you.

Not everyone reciprocates to your actions the same way. If you want someone to acknowledge, be interested in, or treat you a certain way for your efforts, all you have to do is let them know. They will try their personal best to accommodate that within their personal spectrum of feelings.

No one owes you 100% of them, not even after 30 years, because someone having a percentage of themselves is what keeps them sane at the end of the day and that’s okay.

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Everything I desire is already mine, and it is coming to me.

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me: *procrastinates necessary things*

me: *procrastinates enjoyable things*

me @ me: why are you like this

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fake conversations in your head of you venting to someone

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When the whole squad looks good

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“You don’t get to choose if you get hurt in this world, but you do have some say in who hurts you.”

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Special shout out to Trayvon Martin...RIP baby boy.

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i don’t think i will ever not be heartbroken over the fact that some people speak in your heart all the time, but they will never speak to you in life anymore.

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me, with tears in my eyes: time to make a joke

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“When you meet the right person, you know it. You can’t stop thinking about them. They are your best friend, and your soul mate. You can’t wait to spend the rest of your life with them. No one and nothing else can compare.”

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i just wanna support your goals and make you the happiest you’ve ever been

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grace_ajilore🌟

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me watching my own snapchat story: she is so damn funny i love her 

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