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Just a thought, but I think that something that often gets overlooked in the romance vs friendship/QPR debate is how those things are just as socially constructed as gender, and do not, in fact, fall into a strict binary, or even trinary system. Relationships between people are fluid, negotiated things, and terms like partner, boyfriend, girlfriend, wife, husband, friend, etc, mean different things to different people, cultures and eras.

Whether two or more people decide to make their specific type of relationship exclusive, or committed or intimate; whether they’re attracted to each other, or decide to have sex, or live together, or cuddle; whether they do all, or none, or some of those things, they should be allowed to label it how they please. QPR, bromance, FWB, open relationship, polycule, etc. Sure, those terms carry connotations and assumptions, but hailing them as absolutes without any gray areas shows a lack of understanding for human behaviour, and creates unnecessary stigma and difficulties for people who are poly, ace, or aro, as well as anyone whose hierarchy of relationships is just different from the expected norm.

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Literal TEARS in my eyes rn

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silly seals from outer space

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Commission of a chill hangout with Miles and Hobie! 🕷️

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This is lea and she wants you to know that she found your frog and that its under that big box over there propped up by a stick

oh wow thanks so much here i go!!!!!

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me when i have to put proper citations: ugh this is so annoying who even cares what i do in the footnotes

me when i can't find a source because it hasn't been quoted correctly: i am going to track down the authors and they will answer to me. i will find out who caused this suffering. there will be blood.

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And now a new fit for Ragatha! Inspired by Raggedy Andy

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I haven't been feeling my best lately, but here's a crumb

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Shelley Paulson Photography

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top 3 toys

#3 webkinz frog

#2 anything that you can shake or squeeze for sensory feedback like a cool sound or a lot of little beads inside

#1 steam deck oled

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05.10 - Morningstar

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unicorns in love

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no words, just angst

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More Webkinz! ☀️

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