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Do you know lots of white girls personally who secretly want to go black? Or tried and can't stop it? I don't want to believe this is a huge movement, but if you know otherwise please enlighten me.

I think that the point of view you're coming at it from, like many others on here, is that white girls are suddenly expressing a desire to date black men, like someone flipped a switch and now its a whole trend or "movement".

But I think that's actually almost completely backwards, it's not that white girls are suddenly choosing black men out of the blue: it's that, with the historical social barriers imposed on women and people of colour now (mostly) gone, white girls are no longer basically forced to settle for white men.

Since white women now have much more choice in their dating life it makes sense that you would see more interracial couples, that doesn't make it a movement or anything. And especially from a dating stand point, I can understand why the question of white girls wanting to "go black" would pop into your head, but for me it's like: why would she want to "stay white"?

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Do you think this is happening evolutionarily because of genetics, women's biology, or because of something more spiritual? I mean the white population is dropping so fast, it might never recover. I'm just wondering if it's inevitable or not. I mean I don't agree but I can see people scared of disappearing because of better genetics. Do you see this as a passing thing or on your experience are a lot of women or men giving into the lifestyle?

😕🤨 I'm not really sure what you're going for with this question. If by "lifestyle" you mean you're seeing more interracial relationships now then you were before, I think it's pretty obvious why considering they were literally illegal not even 60 years ago.

As for the whole "white population" thing, Idk what the fact that white people tend to have less kids has to do with anything, like interracial and non-white couples are fucking more than white couples? ok? how is that any of our business? 😂

And if we're talking women's biology, isn't sex naturally meant to be kind of competitive biologically speaking? Like it would make sense for black men to be having more sex than you if women were preferring them as sexual partners, you're not entitled to pussy after all.

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You said that's its a biological attraction like a girls ass and hips being more fertile. Do you think that there's a biological reaction that's saying these guys are better in evolutionary sense? People always say it's just an attraction they can't explain, but that's cause there's something subconscious about it that they prefer. I just don't see how people have a preference for a race, unless a it's a trend, or b there's something there underneath that they want more, that's better in the long run. I mean I think we both agree black and white guys are the same physically, sexually, and mentally. The last one might depend on how you're reared but.

I don't think anyone really has a preference for race. Most women have certain traits that they look for in a partner and that's what they have a preference for. If a certain group of men tend to tick those boxes, then it's only natural that they'd be more popular with women who are looking for that.

For example if Becky likes assertive guys, and black guys tend to be more assertive, then of course Becky is more likely to date black guys; it's just one of those things.

Now obviously that doesn't mean that all women are into assertive guys, or that white guys can't be assertive or anything like that; it just goes to show that if you notice that a women is going for certain types of men it's probably not some trend, you're probably just not her type and they are.

And obviously it all depends from person to person, but I think if we're talking generally, white guys and black guys do tend to be different, especially when it comes to thing like sex and dating and that's a good thing, after all we're all different and not everyone is looking for the same things in a partner.

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Who are the artists of the comic/art you've posted (the ones in your top posts)? Thanks!

It's from twitter, no clue who the artist is unfortunately 🙁

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What inspired you to start this blog? Honestly I think the world needs more women like you! The truth can hurt but white boys need to hear it lol.

I'm glad you like the blog 💖

as for starting the blog, I definitely have to shout out @africanization101, @chelseainlovvve and @snowbunnywatching, I'd been stealth following them (and a few other blogs that I don't think are up anymore sadly) for a while, but they're the main ones that really got me interested to start posting.

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I wonder what goes through the mind of a homosexual/confused White guy like yourself, when you come up with all these snarky replies. Guess everyone has a specific kink that needs tending to.

projecting

when you point out actions in someone else, that really are the things that YOU do.

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Not really an ask just wanted to say your blog is amazing and my only complaint is you don't post more often! Ignore these salty white dudes who can't accept that women want something better than their fragile egos. They're just jealous cause deep down they know everything you write is true.

Glad you like the blog 🤗💕

And yeah ikr, white boys being fragile on the internet, who coulda seen that one coming 🍤🤷🏼‍♀️

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I am getting mixed vibes from some of your posts. You have one that is fairly encouraging of open interracial relationships, where a white man would let his girlfriend sleep with black men. But then in other posts you tell white guys to stop pushing cuckold fantasies and just to be happy jerking off to it on their own leaving white girls alone.

Now obviously white guys shouldn't try to impose it on girls who are clear that they only want to date black guys. But other than that? Would it be a bad thing if open interracial relationships did become more normal?

I have no problem with open interracial relationships, I just think it's important that like any relationship, everyone is comfortable and on board with the dynamics. That's why I said I generally wouldn't recommend these types of relationships to women as they are often one sided and basically just a re-enactment of her white bf's fantasy.

Even the way you described it: "a white man would let his girlfriend sleep with black men" shows you're coming at it from that exact angle. It's almost a weird sense of entitlement, when you should really be seeing it as your girl being in a happy relationship with her black bf, and you being grateful for any peak into their sex life that they may let you have.

As for these types of relationships becoming more normal, I really couldn't say, what we can see is that culturally, socially & sexually "whiteness" is seen as at best corny and at worst problematic. If I had to guess I'd say that being "white" will generally be viewed in a similar way to how being "short" is viewed now in the dating scene.

With that in mind, I think the more likely relationship dynamics we'll see will be not so much open relationships but rather the "boyfriend" role in the relationship will be seen with very different connotations. i.e. a "white boyfriend" becoming more of a "whiteboy friend", with it being completely normal and accepted that dating certain types of guys would be classed as a completely different type of relationship to others, they wouldn't be seen as comparable and so there wouldn't be any sense of competition. Think of it as you being her emotional support bf while he's her ✨physical🌟 support bf.

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Since there's no genetic reason for white girls to go black, and no difference between white guys and black guys I can only guess you have no real evidence for this idea and that your deluded. It's alright, you'll probably end up with a white guy anyhow. Just please stop teaching white girls to go black, there's nothing for them

It's hella cute how you assume that;

a: we care what white guys think about who we have sex with

b: unless we're "taught" we wouldn't go for black guys

also, I love the low-key attempt at an "own" by implying I would end up with a white guy.

Like ok pumpkin, I'm sure all those big black men that I was "taught" to have sex with are shaking rn knowing that a white boy is gonna end up with their pre-owned pussy.

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I understand that big and black looks better for penises. What about faces? They’re not as good looking or culturally appealing. Big wide noses, fat lips, barely intelligible accents, poor clothing choices, nasty tattoos. And if you ever have children with one of them, it never looks like you.

Yikes 😬😶, imagine unironically believing that & then imagine actually thinking that black men are not "as good looking or culturally appealing" as white men.

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Are BBC really superior Miss?

The whole "white girls are obsessed with BBC" thing is definitely overblown, but I think pretty much everyone would agree that black men have better looking penises. Aesthetically "big & black" just looks better than "small & white".

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I think interracial relationships are fine. But when girls say they prefer a race I think that's weird. I mean we're all the same. I don't understand why someone would only date Asian girls or black guys or white women

Of course having a preference doesn't mean you only date within that preference, I don't think anyone would argue that lol. It's all down to what you like sexually, for me black guys just hit different 🤷🏼‍♀️ It's not about bashing anybody or saying that I would treat someone differently just because they're not black; it's just being honest about what I like.

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your style in some ways reminds me of blackedisthenewblack, I dunno if you're them or were even aware of them though

I can't say I'm aware of them & I can't seem to find their tumblr either, but I'll take it as a compliment 😅

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Why do you prefer black guys though, in a serious way. People say they have preference but it has to be coming from somewhere. I mean I know this whole movement is a myth, in a kink sense. Just a trend.

Because black men are sexy. Not just physically obviously, the chemistry and just 'vibes' in general tend to be better and I think that's what's most attractive.

I think most people in general don't really look too deeply into the "where" and "why" of their preferences.

It's like when boys see a girl with a nice ass they like to look, the "why" is pretty much just biology, like it's an indication to them that she is fertile or that there's a bigger chance she'll be able to have healthy kids and so therefore she's attractive as a potential partner.

Of course they're never really thinking about it in that way, or maybe some subconscious part of their brain is but they're never really thinking about the "why" or the "where it's coming from", they're just thinking " damn, she's got a nice ass".

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Why don’t you convince more white girls to fight racism by gradually training their white boyfriends to clean up bbc cum out of their freshly fucked pussies?

I've mentioned this before but I think cuckold relationships are fine as long as you are always putting your girlfriend first. As long as she's in control of the relationship dynamic and happy then I see no problem