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Adriana Smith’s neonate was delivered today, 3 months early (around 28 weeks).

She will finally be allowed to rest and taken off of life support.

Her family’s fundraiser is nowhere near its goal, and now they have tremendous NICU costs to look forward to based on how her son was able (or unable) to develop under the duress of all those life saving drugs they pumped his mom full of.

Please allow this mother’s spirit to rest and support their family as they’re finally allowed to grieve poor Adriana being used as an incubator for the state.

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I’m making this post on the behalf of Sami and his family. Fundraiser here.

Sami says:

"A simple picture, yet it holds a powerful meaning. Tell me what did you understand, and what will you do? 'I understood that these children are in urgent need of donations, and I will donate. I will also share this post—it might help in some way. This image is full of sorrowful meaning, and I will do everything I can for these innocent children. I will donate so that they can go to school, eat clean food, and sleep in peace.' This is exactly what is happening right now with me and my family in the heart of Gaza. Please, donate—share—speak up. Don’t stop. We are between life and death. Don’t leave us behind."

Please do anything you can to help, any engagement is appreciated even if you cannot directly give to the campaign. Thank you so much <3.

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This is coming from a man who has been struggling with mental illness for most of his life and comes from a long line of severely mentally ill men, the problem around discussions about ‘men’s mental health’ is that everyone is dancing around the fact that a lot of mentally ill men don’t want to get better.

I don’t mean they enjoy being severely depressed and unhealthy. I mean they have zero desire to try to get better. Not just a fear of seeking treatment due to ‘stigma’, men are less likely to be compliant with medication and treatment and therapeutic methods. This is what gives rise to things like the incel movement, choosing to do anything but attempt introspection and try to improve. And so many mentally ill men develop the crab in a bucket mentality where they try to drag people down with them, where they’re hurting so they hurt others and put the burden of their mental health on them.

You hear stories of 45 year old men who blew their brains out alone in their apartment and weren’t found for four months and you think ‘oh my god, no one was there for him’ but in all likelihood that man pushed everyone out of his life long ago. They cut ties with him for their own health and wellbeing. He felt deeply unpleasant so he behaved deeply unpleasantly.

I’ve seen this spiral in the men in my family and it is part of the reason I keep trying and I refuse to give up. I try different medications. I try different therapy and thought techniques. I try to recognize when I’m in a bad headspace and choose my words more carefully. It is my responsibility. Sure, I can ask for help and love and guidance from my loved ones but it is ultimately my job to keep trying. And many mentally ill men, especially cishet men, simply will not take on that responsibility.

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Im really sorry to do this again but I need $510 to pay last months electricity bill and Id really appreciate anything you can spare

venmo @ contemptiblescoundrel

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hello my friends, i am extremely thankful for all the help i have gotten from here, not just me, but the people i have raised donations for, but i am stuck again. my parents have refused to help me with moving in etc (and i told them i would need help this month)

i need money to move to a place, and i dont get paid until july 1

feel free to make use of me and my limited talents in whatever way you want. i am also currently looking for quick paying jobs like tutoring in the city to raise some money butit has been hard.

i have been squatting in a shitty placeand i dont want to divulge details but yeah i am fucked 😛

sorry and willing to work for the dime and whatnot

k O f I

also pls dont bother sending mean messages to me i have been hungry for two days u cant do shit to me tha i havent done already

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Chroma V - Yunchul Kim

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tldr: I'm a trans woman in dire need of help paying rent and bills. Anything you can spare helps tremendously.

Hi! I'm a trans woman who's been on tumblr for well over a decade posting my photography, my writing (political and smut), and can say the people here have changed my life tremendously over the years. Right now I'm really struggling and hoping that ya'll can help me get through this rough patch. I have been trying to get a job for months now and no companies have so much as graced me with a rejection e-mail or phone call. Last month my husband had to spend the last of his savings on replacing tires on his car, that money was very pivotal to paying rent + having money to grocery shop off of. We're in desperate need of help with rent, electricity, meds, etc. etc.

If there's any way you can help here's how:

My venmo is catgirlprincess

My ko-fi is here: https://ko-fi.com/mioxenoblade

My PayPal can be found at https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/catgirlprincess

If that link doesn't work, you can dm me and I can give you my e-mail for paypal.

Thank you for any support 💖

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Hey all, Crips for Esims for Gaza has been purchasing E-sims for people in Gaza and need help to continue their advocacy!

We link them in our Hi Nay episodes but want to remind people to help out if they can and donate! They're an offshoot of the E-sims for Gaza program created by Mirna El-Helbawi, and allow you to, if you are overwhelmed by the E-sims purchasing process, streamline it.

You donate to Crips for Esims for Gaza, and they do it for you. Help these fantastic disabled activists if you're able!

Link in replies so Tumblr doesn't hide this!

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My good friends are making fun of me bc I spent several dozen hours building a Spanish mosque in the community Minecraft server

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Hey I’m sorry to beg on the internet again but I am -$40 after my hrt bill and could really use some help. I kinda want to get me and my gf some groceries this week and help would be so appreciated.

C@$happ: $RJM7703

V3nmo: @/stopmotionname

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Once again recommending donations to the Palestinian Children’s Relief Fund. Not only is it a credible organization, you can donate any amount, so even if you don’t have much money, you can still contribute what you can towards humanitarian aid in Gaza. It takes donations via credit, PayPal, and mailed checks.

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i love you black trans people. i love you asian trans people from all over asia (not just east asia). i love you hispanic trans people. i love you indigenous trans people. i love you poc trans people. you're doing great, i promise you, and i'm so fucking sorry the community erases you as much as it does.

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Don't worry, she enjoys when you play video games on her, it's like parallel play

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Nothing shuts down a bougie conversation like "well, when I was homeless—" Nothing. It's one and done. They are fucking taken out. The conversation is dead. Done.

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i dont want this post to be like one of those "if you arent talking about this then you're evil" moral ocd posts but. i gotta talk about this.

i only just today heard about Kumanjayi White, a 24 year old disabled Warlpiri man who was killed by northern territory police on May 27th. He was handcuffed and forced to the ground, face down, with an officers knee on his neck. He was walking around a grocery store, by himself. A worker at the grocery store described him, saying, "One look and you can tell he's got special needs".

A poor and disabled Aboriginal man was killed in the northern territory and i can't help but notice the similarities to George Floyd. Murdered in a public place, knee on the back of his neck. Only difference is i havent heard a word about this anywhere, in the news or otherwise, since it occured 2 and a half fucking weeks ago. where's the anger? i dont like making political posts, i hope this doesnt break containment its just. god its fucking pissing me off right now.