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Financial “abuse”

If you are or going to and go for total power exchange you might go for this. Make sure that your slave has no money, no savings. You might want to check that your slave has no secret stash or account, checking documents and mail and if your slave has online banking get access to it to check there as well.

Nobody will recommend doing this and instead recommend that your slave has emergency savings. However your slave’s behavior will most likely improve a lot once they realize they really don’t have any money and can’t even feed themselves without you. It will also drastically reduce the risk of your slave leaving you without prior notice because not only won’t they be able to afford a place to stay but not even be able to afford transport anywhere.

Plus it allows you to use money as punishment, to “abuse”: if your slave does not behave you can simply cut their allowance or remove it entirely. Likewise you can use it as reward and give them extra on good behavior.

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Fun idea for long distance

If you don’t get to meet your slave or only rarely and your slave is shy to show themselves you could try to establish the following:

For your slave to get permission to do a luxury (could be anything, an orgasm, watching tv/movie, playing games, eat unhealthy etc.) they have to video record themselves masturbating for x minutes.

Now in order to get permission to delete the recording the slave has to edge/masturbate for x minutes (specific idea: 30min the same day, 60min the next day, 2 hours rest of the week). The slave has a week to delete it. After that the recording becomes yours and either the slave has to send it to you or depending on the situation you could also establish some time your slave can beg You/do extra tasks to get permission to delete it.

The idea behind it is to have your slave be horny more often. To turn them into a “goon” in some way. The original idea was therefor specifically designed with orgasm in mind, that an orgasm is expensive and needs to be compensated by edging since it has a negative impact on obedience. 

If you are more advanced in a long distance relationship you could also have your slave only allow orgasm on cam with you of course. If you want to stick to the idea having or telling them that YOU make recordings of it.

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VR

This is more of an expensive fun but especially in times of a global virus has some more appeal.

If you and your slave both get a VR headset you can have some fun in VR, for example in VRChat. That in particular also works without VR headset but of course it’s more immersive with one. It’s also a good option in case of a long distance relationship in general.

You can have your slave wear sexy clothes, expose your slave, humiliate your slave. If your slave isn’t good at meeting strangers it could even be a punishment. That said VRChat doesn’t allow adult content in public so there are limits.

You can go further without VR in Second Life, they have adult worlds and there even used to be an unofficial client for BDSM/adult content that for example allows you to put someone on a leash without the person on the leash being able to release themselves so essentially restricting their movement. It’s very powerful as you can take almost full control of the “slave”

If you add a remote vibe like lovesense to either virtual solution you can have a lot fun. The biggest downside probably is there isn’t much for the Master/Mistress except from having control and witnessing some fun situations. But it’s good practice, a good way to show who’s in control, who’s the dominant when meeting isn’t an option.

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Priority

Make yourself a priority in your slaves life. Slowly but surely the highest priority.

Your slave wants to visit friends or family? Have them ask You for permission and deny it. Talk with them about it and reward them if they show support for Your decision

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Clothes

Also wrote about this one before but once again, try to control the clothes your slave wears by controlling the clothes they own.

Try to have them throw away or destroy as much items as early as possible that you don’t like. Maybe as early as part of the ceremony of becoming your slave. Perhaps not all items but some. Then have a weekly or monthly schedule where you both get rid of another item until your slave owns only clothes you like and approve. In the best case try to buy your slave a new item of the same kind they got rid of to replace it with one you like and approve.

It’s better than simply choosing what they wear or have them do it to your liking because it takes away the choice, the thought about wearing something you don’t like. Further it ensures your slave is dressing properly even without your instruction at all times - even during “off” days.

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Disconnect

I wrote about it in other forms before but I want to do it again with the background of recent events.

Try to disconnect your slave from the world. What that means is try to make sure that your slave does not read, watch or hears any news - ever again. If possible also remove or discourage the use of encyclopedias (wikipedia) and in the very best case also remove or discourage the use of a search engine altogether or possibly replace it with a custom one like this www.kiddle.co 

You should establish yourself as the source of information and news for your slave. They want to google something? They should ask you. What’s going on in the world? It shouldn’t matter to them unless you tell them about it. When you tell your slave something make it simple. Use simple words. Only explain as much as necessary but be eager to answer questions especially at first to get them used to it. If you have some kind of consent (...for that kind of power exchange), encourage your slave to ask questions using simple words as well and to ask for help and explanations of things they know or think they know to also make it easier for you as master to get into being the source of information.

Finally if you manage to establish yourself as the only source of information you not only get your slave closer as they kind of depend on you more but you also gain a lot power as you can remove information and news from your slave’s world that distracts them and and you can bend reality or even feed them wrong information and wrong news if that works in your favor. Plus if you enforce it very strict it’s also a reminder of their and your position as your slave will have to seek your help much more often.

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Twisted

Reply to insulting, degrading, mean, stupid ... messages, in a kind way.

Someone is asking for nudes but you don’t send any, reply and apologize for example.

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Fun game...

In written communication with you have your slave write every single word wrong. Have fun watching them struggle to not sound stupid.

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Take the risk

If you want a special and strong slave experience look for a Master or Mistress of another country whose language you don’t speak at all and move to them, if possible. Of course you should have one language in common but it’s even better if your future Master/Mistress isn’t good at that either or you aren’t good at it.

If you don’t make any efforts to learn the language (will depend on the Master/Mistress though), you’ll kind of have to resort to basic commands and on top of that your Master/Mistress can talk about you with other people even when you are around without you knowing plus you’ll depend on your Master/Mistress for everyday situations.

Of course though, as the title says, it comes with a risk obviously. As you’ll barely be able to ask for help is something goes wrong nor might you completely understand what you get yourself into if you don’t understand each other very well.

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one for females

Throw away all your pants. All of them. Except one. You keep the pair of pants that fits you the least, that you don’t like nor want to wear. The rest, get rid of them. Don’t just store them for later. They need to be gone forever. Another exception are hot pants or short shorts. If they expose at least 1/3 of your butt cheeks you can keep them if not either cut them to make them fit or get rid of them as well.

From now on you are going to wear only skirts and dresses. Haven’t heard that one before eh? Preferably mini skirts and mini dresses but realistically any skirt and and dress does the job. 

The main point is that you actually get rid of your pants. To force yourself to wear a skirt even if you don’t like it or it feels uncomfortable at first. You might want to make sure you have some savings to buy yourself a few nice skirts to treat yourself before going for it.

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a classic

One of the classics is having your slave ask for permission for everything. Especially every “core” needs/necessities like going to the toilet, eating, drinking. You might not be around 24/7, due to work etc. but in many cases your slave can still ask remotely via (smartphone) message for example. As a backup plan, if you are not available or your slave has no access to a way to contact you, your slave should at least maintain a list with timestamp, task and reason for doing said task (e.g. ”hungry”) and report that you as soon as possible.

Although doing such micro-management can be bothersome for both you and your slave it can also be worth it in the long run. You probably also don’t need it forever but at least a couple of months if not a year or two before making quality of life exceptions.

That is because your slave needs to learn its new position and your position compared to a normal life.

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(n)opinion

Have your slave always apologize and ask you to ignore or disregard what they said whenever they say “I think”, “I believe”, “I guess” and similar whenever they express their own thought or opinion. Don’t make it a big deal out of it when they forget for a long time in terms of punishments but be very persistent on it like “what did you forget to say?”, perhaps kind of jokingly with a smile at first especially when it’s a kind of serious situation where your slave tries to make a point that’s important for them.

You and especially your slave might wonder how to talk if your slave can’t properly express themselves without having to apologize over and over again. There are two obvious options and probably a lot other but I’ll cover the obvious ones. They are both very similar the first should be the common approach. 1) Instead of saying “I think”, “I believe” etc. your slave should simply ask you. What do you think about X? Since your slave’s opinion doesn’t matter it’s alright to simply ask what you think and that’s all you both need to know. 2) If your slave needs to make an important point it can ask instead “Don’t you think X?” suggesting an answer/choice/opinion without fully expressing itself and giving you the final say.

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The opposite

Another rather simple one. Works alone and as Master/Slave. Explained from a Master/Slave point of view.

Either you, as Master, know your slaves likes and dislikes or you might want to get to know them. Then you disallow things your slave likes and enforce things your slave does not like. Example: Music. Obviously this works best if your slave hates the music genre you love. Simply disallow your slave to listen to their favorite music and instead limit it to music you like or in other words music of the genre your slave hates. Depending on the circumstances this can be difficult to control and enforce but one way would be the use of a music tracker like last.fm. The slave might cheat by turning it off when listening to their “own” music so it’s easier to set a minimum time a day they need to listen to music. If you know your slave has been vocal about hating that certain genre of music you could even have them put their last.fm profile as link on other platform profiles if mixing vanilla/normal life with kinky life to that extend is okay. In addition to just listening you can also have them learn about the genre and/or some artists. If it’s online only give them a writing task, if you meet in person often/daily have them tell you. The mission: fake it until you make it. Have your slave become a big fan of the music your slave once before hated.

It works with other things too. Have your slave eat food they don’t like (as long as it’s not for health reasons like allergies or intolerance). If your slave likes to be a smart ass you could have them watch trash tv (and have them write a summary for you). Especially if they previously said they wouldn’t never watch this or that If your slave likes to read (or probably even more so if not) have them read trashy novels (and again, have them write a summary for you).

If you are more serious about slavery, going more towards total power exchange, you can also include politics and such. Have your slave support what you believe in or simply the opposite of what they previously did. Climate, environment, “metoo”, laws (prime example gun laws if living in the US) and so on. Again have them fake it until they make it. This part will work well with my initial post about controlling their internet access so that you become the only source of information.

With all of these, as extra, if you don’t like the thing your slave likes have them write a list of like 10 or more reason why they hate X in the form of “I hate X because Y” Obviously it’s okay if they have to make up reasons.

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Friend of foe

This one is simple, can be. You can do it alone or as a Master to a slave. What’s good is you can design it to your liking.

Rule #1 for this however is to not bother other people with your fetish/life style. That’s important to keep in mind.

Now. The idea is to find the person you dislike the most or A person you dislike a lot. So either someone you know or you look for someone. As Master, have your slave tell you the person your slave dislikes/hates the most or look for one together.

Once a person is found, you or your slave needs to try to become friends with that person. Initiate conversations, praise/compliment on things you/your slave doesn’t like or hate about the person.

If the person is into a kinky lifestyle it’ll be a lot better and easier, as you can be more open about it later on. Although if you do this with a slave you probably don’t want your slave to do that with a person of the gender your slave is naturally attracted to - even if the person is aware unless you like to share...

At the end of it, you should make the person you hate/dislike the most a person you submit to in some way. To establish a structure where the person is above you.

Now like I said you can change it a lot. For example tell someone who bullied or bullies you that you like then even if you don’t. But stick to it. Of course, be more careful if you have a high chance to meet the person/people in person.

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Bimbo

If you want to be a bimbo try not to say “I know” or “I’ve heard of this” or “I’ve seen this”. Don’t argue. Listen to what people say and show interest to what people say. Even if you already know or think you know better. Instead, if possible, act surprised and impressed.

If you got a partner, especially one who knows of your bimbo goals, ask them simple kids questions. Simply observe nature and your surroundings. For example “Why is the sky blue?” or “Why are clouds white?” or even “What are clouds?”. Try to formulate the question as simple and basic as possible, don’t get into details (you supposedly don’t know about). And most importantly, accept basic answers or even wrong answers.

Good practice is probably every time you want to say something like “I know” or think it, you should instead say “oh i didn’t know”. You have to get yourself comfortable admitting you are stupid and at the same time make other people feel comfortable to treat you like someone stupid. Essentially you have to re-wire your thought process to make it based on another persons thought. Forget about your own ideas.

If you want to go one step further admit to yourself that you are stupid. Stop trusting yourself and your decisions. Plant a seed of distrust for yourself. Maybe you are wrong all the time and it’s just your mind that tells you you are right? Maybe you make a fool of yourself following your opinion and other people are just too nice to tell you you are stupid?

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Prison

Locked in a cage, having to beg You for the most basic things like water and food. No privacy. No rights. That’s bliss.

If you have the consent of your slave that’s the jackpot. That allows you to rewrite your slave’s brain entirely. To turn you yourself into an actual god from their point of view. The idea behind is is very much like how hostages eventually fall in love with their kidnappers. Of course it depends on how you treat your “prisoner” long term, you should work a lot with rewards.

But be careful and aware. There are cases where hostages eventually flee once they get the chance. It’s A LOT of work. i’d say 10+ years of constant conditioning (or brainwashing). Now with consent your “hostage” isn’t one but it’s a good idea to learn from what people already tried and did. You simply can’t overwrite 20+ years of learning in a week unless you use like drugs to completely reset/damage the brain.

So to start with, it also works without a prison and is to teach your slave to always tell you when they are hungry for example. So that you get a message before they eat and/or drink anything. Without any punishment. If you are around you might even help them get something. Just to make it a normal step in their mind to inform you, to be as vocal about their needs as possible around you.

That’s also important because you get a chance to learn your slave’s needs to later anticipate them.

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Mind numbing

A mind numbing task and a way to control time...

Have your slave count rice grain. But not just like that. Have your slave group them nicely, perhaps 10 per group. So that you can easily count them by just counting the first group and then visually checking that all other groups look alike. That way your slave also doesn’t need to count them individually, if smart. Though you could have your slave count them aloud for your entertainment if you are around or when you have your slave record it.

Of course you can also have your slave write lines as a classic. But the difference is that counting rice grain is entirely pointless except maybe for a funfact about how much actually fits in a cup. Yet you can make your slave do that for hours, just because YOU want. If you keep in mind that the lifetime is limited it’s a very powerful tool to have your slave waste some of that time with something entirely pointless (and isn’t even fun or relaxing like watching a movie). That’s also why I don’t recommend to do this often and rather use your slave’s time for something to improve your life like cleaning, cooking or other chores or sexual service.

But if your slave is bratty or complains about tasks and orders it can be a good lesson.

If you have the power and you are in the situation to enforce or control it you could punish your slave by allowing them only to eat as many rice grain as they counted - how many you can visually verify they counted. If a group looks odd exclude that. Either you have them count as many again or they leave that many counted somewhere like floor or table so you can simply take those away. It certainly helps if you have a goal or plan in mind before starting.

Additional difficulty: once done with counting and you verified the amount. Either throw them all around the room/apartment/house (esp. if you want to demonstrate power) or later without their presence or them seeing hide them all around and have them find every single grain again. The latter is especially useful if you are unhappy with your slave’s cleaning as you can hide them there to check if your slave is aware of those spots. So that also works quite well if you are otherwise a “kind” Master as you can use it as “game” to bring up the topic and question them and point them to what to improve.