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woodyboots-blog · 7 years ago

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CHUP CHAP

We all know the instant when a normal touch goes into a wrong touch. Why do we wait chup chap when we know this is the moment we must shout back? Why we show dislike only in our body language but not in our voice?

Here are the 5 reasons that i can think as a girl:

1. Because he might be a good person, but we misunderstood the situation

2. Do not wanna make scene

3. Will be an insult to him

4. He will loose respect in the crowd

5. Scared about the climax of that scene

Summary: why to create a scene

I remember those times when i squeeze into myself, taking short breaths assuming that it might keep me little far away from him. This is ridiculous isnt it? why didnt i say it to him that it makes me uncomfortable. As a matter of fact i said it which only he could hear no one else in the public could, yet the result was same. Even when saying them politely doesnt work, it definitely needs more than words.

I will help a woman who raises her voice against these. Will any girl raise her voice? Will they be silent? Will others support her? Will other men support her when it goes into violence? Will the whole public be in favor of her? I guess we will never know untill we try it.

My mom had been through this, my sister has been through, i have also been through this. Which means every girl here has experienced it. Atleast our daughters should not face this. So lets raise our voice, if need be lets raise our hands.

- Women India

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woodyboots-blog · 7 years ago

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Do you do anything to tick that off your bucket list?

Am speaking to the millennials. Having a bucket list is cool and accomplish each of them are like filling the energy bar in games. The level of craziness in them is individuals perspective. Having a fire pan and in the same list having a life vision of starting your own business makes your fire pan thing cheaper or makes you life purpose look less in strength, so what goes into the list matters. Each of them must be done so that you overcome a fear after you accomplish this task. Having to complete the basic needs are necessary, bringing that up into your list is agreeable eg:sex. Sleeping with a women and experiencing sex makes you the real man, I have no clue how that both relates. In an hurry to run this task you cannot make some girl a prey for you and random do it with even without getting into the mood of romance. It is very important that you like the girl, I am not even going till love. You need not be proud about this atleast you should not be ashamed of this act. Just because you wanna accomplish this you cannot do it with anyone who has boobs. You must know what she feels abt you, you must understand what are your feelings for her then understand her and then you trying to impress her, it's a very big process. You cannot just swipe right, skip to the last bit. These need not be this way because you are missing the nice part, it's like you skip whole of the seasons and skip to the last to whitewalkers fight not knowing who are the players and how they came together. My message is simple just to put a tick mark there you cannot play a short version of it as a trial because you are missing a whole lot experience there.

Having to accomplish a crazy attempt gives you a good feeling but you do not understand is that all of it is done because of dopamine addiction. Dopamine is just a creation of some Harmon's in us when you look at the notifications. You are doing it just so that you your friends looks at it and gives an impression that you are way more cooler and you are way more unique and that you are enjoying your life. Kid just enjoy why say it to the world, just because you enjoyed and putting up this update is different and just enjoy in order to put it out to the world is different. Right now 90 % fall into the second category. Very few into the other side. So don't put these kind of motivation into the bucket list. Bucket list has a better scope to it than putting up future FB timelines. So plan better and prepare the list with all your heart and live your life.

This is not a advice message. Just read it take the message and move on don't try to attempt them, just in your mind that i spoke about this.

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woodyboots-blog · 8 years ago

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My Mindset, here it is !

I couldn't sleep that night after having that conversation with my colleagues. It showed me the fact that I am living in India which believes "Gandhi is a bad person and where fake cooked up history which is mind blowing fucking awesome", yes am talking about game of thrones. I personally am a fan of the GOT, waiting for what's next, but am surprised for its popularity. It of course gained it by sudden nude/ sex scenes. But I always wish that he took some live history itself and add some imagination instead of the whole plot as an imagination.

Anyway, what is up with our Gandhiji, we studied our whole childhood for almost 20 years as how great he is and what he did. Then suddenly one fine day you choose to buy a book for 200 rupees, read the 200 page book, finished and concluded as Gandhi is a bad person? Are you so weak that a few words can change something that you believed for so many years? Unbelievable.

How sure are you that this book speaks the truth? did you do a research on it before concluding? We all know that what we see on TV news is not the exact message. We know that they are blowing up the news to get their TRP on their channel, we all know that yet still why are we exaggerating about it in the office? It is because we all want to be smart, want to speak and show-off that you know thing and that you are not a dumb.

It is a good thing that you want to know more. Very Good. Collect the information, store the data, but infer the data if it is valid. Storing Junk is not good for the organization. Here 'organization' I mean the world and 'Junk Invalid Data' I mean the concept that you hold in your mind which you have accepted it without a research on it.

I want my kid to see the world for itself. I don't want my kid to be against Gandhi just because an elder person told so.

Please, do not say your kid that "Gandhi is a bad guy". Please, let us not. There is education to teach them what is good and bad. Let us not try to educate them by few Facebook scrolls or reading some crappy books. Who are those selling such books in India, ban them in our country. It was even more painful to see that it is sold for just 29 rupees as a kindle version in Amazon.

For those who think that am speaking out of the blue, here it is - There are some news/Information that is flying around as "Gandhi wanted to test his control so he asked few young girls to sleep with him at night and also that Nehru is a big time playboy". This does portrays as a negative image. Yes it does. I do not want to debate if it’s true or wrong because now no one is alive who was around Gandhi at that time.

Who amongst us do not masturbate? Isn't that bad? If it is not bad then how many of you will agree it when asked in public? I mean I will not agree even if I have done it, because it is going to give me embarrassment. Why Embarrassment? Because it is still believed that it is a yuck thing to do. What would they think about me? What if they picture me doing that?

What I am saying is everyone will have some negativity which is hard to erase. Why hold on to that? Instead see the good things that he brought us. He may have done 90% good deeds and 10% bad deeds, are you going to ruin all 90% over this 10%? Think!!! This is what broad minded thinking is. I do idealize him and learn from the things he did, but here am not trying to speak for Gandhi just speaking what people are. All that I wanted to say is, be very very sure about it before you say it out.

Thank you so much for reading my frustration till the end

#gandhi

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