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'sex and death by murder and suicide' by bruce nauman, 1985 in twentieth-century erotic art - gilles néret (1993)

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Bruh I never have normal sex dreams I just woke up from a dream where an eldritch forest goddess ate me out while feeding me chocolate

She had multiple bodies that spun in a circle around her chamber and they all like. Combined when she noticed I was there. The bodies were like... Black but with green and red sheen (like on a bird) and we're like... Something between a bird and a goat...?

When they combined I couldn't even explain what it looked like. She seemed nice though, although she was torturing the soul of someone who had terribly wronged her people while I was walking up to her

Also I was inhabiting the body of a meowth

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hi, pls take this as a genuine question and nothing more: how are you anti profiction but pro para? respectfully it confuses me and id like to know your opinion

First, let me explain what I mean by anti-profiction. I am against creating or intentionally consuming fictional content that portrays beings that can't consent being abused, for the purposes of sexual gratification (aka fiction discussing or including it is fine, just not for the purpose of getting off). I'm mostly referring to children and non-sapient animals here. I also think that fiction portraying consensual acts is 100% ok no matter how "fucked up" it is (or would be a bad idea or impossible irl) so my anti-profic status does not mean I'm against portrayals of cnc, extreme gore, or anything else intense like that.

To answer the question. Just because it's okay to have a paraphilia (which you can't control) doesn't mean it's okay to intentionally get off on the abuse of fictional beings, and it's my opinion that this sort of content is unethical to create or consume for sexual purposes because it encourages and enables those with these paraphilias to engage with that attraction in unhealthy and unethical ways. You cannot control attraction, arousal, intrusive thoughts, or fleeting unconscious fantasy, and it does not mean you will act on it and it is morally neutral. I believe that, in a relatively very small way, getting off to fictional portrayals of the abuse IS acting on it, because it's crossing the line from uncontrollable to controllable and intentional, and para or not, I disagree with anyone engaging in abuse material to get their jollies or the creation of material for this. Abuse should never be portrayed as sexy, fun, or in any other positive light, and people with those paraphilias should never cross the line from "this arouses me, but the idea of acting on it is still repulsive because it is harmful" to "this arouses me, and it's ok to treat it as a sexy fantasy and indulge in porn of it as if it's just a harmless kink". Fiction does affect reality and nobody should ever let their arousal and attraction override their understanding that something is harmful, even if it's in private. And if you engage in this stuff knowing it's harmful and feel understandable guilt afterwards then that's just not healthy for YOU on top of all of this crap.

Tl;dr I just don't think that children or animals should be portrayed or treated as desirable sex objects under any circumstances idk what else you want from me.

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WE FUCKING UNDER THE UNIRONED INCINEROAR TWEET FLAG TONIGHT !!

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butch tits

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hey i may be tumblr user girl balls but shoutout to guys with boobs btw. giving you a high five and motorboating you and so on

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Gerard P Donelan

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i mean what really kills me about the "uhmm your kink is NOT special and NOT immune to critique" shit on here is that actually critiquing and thinking about kink is important to me! and it looks like looking at your desires and scenes and interactions with partners and going "is this something that's bringing me and my partners joy and pleasure? is it sustainable? have we been checking in with one another? what impact is it having on our relationship or as individuals? is it harming us in any ways that haven't been pre-negotiated and accounted for? are our prior negotiated boundaries still in a good place for us currently?" all of which are things that can't be safely encouraged and practiced if the general approach to ~weird~ kinks is "ewwwww ew icky ew BAD you're BAD you're a BAD person you're playing the VILLAIN 😠" any time you see somebody having sex a different way than you do. and the reaction lately has been this self righteous over the top "how DARE you accuse me of being a Southern Baptist Republican monster for calling you a degenerate" because these people have nurtured a deep reactionary instinct and brought it into line with their queer identity by adhering to the idea that conservative politics can only ever be espoused by the ontologically monstrous figure of The Republican, and that their glorious vision of a mass return to sexual and social normativity by-force-if-necessary is hallowed and queer

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Making a CKP discord group soon

Only requirement is that you're bodily 18+ and you agree with CKP principles (everything in the CKP post). That's it

Message me or like this if you want an invite as soon as I make it

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It is possible that somewhere off the coast of Newfoundland there is an iceberg shaped like a giant dick.

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Sorry I forgor to add the mature community label to my objecto/plusho post, I just noticed and fixed it qwq

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THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU FOR THIS BLOG omg!!! It is so refreshing to see a kink/paraphilia pride blog that doesn’t condone harmful stuff or sides with radqueers 😭🙏 You are awesome!!!

I'm so glad I'm not the only one! All the kink/paraphilia positivity content on tumblr is dominated by people who either support harmful stuff or who hate people for having consensual kinks that they think are icky weird. I'd say that the vast majority of kinksters and consensual paraphiles aren't in either category, so I felt a need to make this blog to have more safe but inclusive positivity for the community as a whole

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jsyk, using the words radqueer or proship uncensored anywhere in your posts/tags makes them show up in the search results for those communities. br/ea/k up the words or use sïmïlär but dïffërënt characters to keep them from appearing within the communities you don't want interacting ^^ /nm /gen - a rq who gets your posts in their tag

I know, but it's more important to be accessible for text to speech users than it is to keep y'all from seeing my posts and that I don't like you. Cope

Edit @ everyone else: that being said it would be cool if tumblr allowed posts to NOT be listed in certain tags, I think that would help lots of people and I'd definitely use that if it was a feature.

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Objectophilia and plushophilia flags, for non-radqueer use. These are specifically for those who identify their object attraction as a paraphilia or objectums who simply prefer to use the -philia term. They are NOT general objectum/plushum flags!

Objectophilia: a paraphilia involving sexual attraction to, sexual interest in, or arousal from objects. Sometimes (erroneously) used synonymously with objectum.

Plushophilia: a paraphilia involving sexual attraction to, sexual interest in, or arousal from plush toys.

RADQUEERS/PROSHIP/PROFIC DNI THESE ARE NOT FOR YOU

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