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[xxxsharpcheddar]

Momma I made it

Looking at all the different kinks/fetishes, and spending LOTS of time in the feedism bubble led me to following conclusion:

We (the feedism community) have the HOTTEST WOMEN of ALL kink groups.

It doesn‘t matter if you‘re a FFA, a FEEDEE, a FEEDER, an ENCOURAGER, a silent spectator, a GAINER…

Y’all are hot and we love you!!

Tag your hot mutual and tell her that you think she‘s gorgeous.

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Me again

My heart hurts a little when I think of all the space I intentionally carved out for “the one.” All my life I’ve believed, or wanted to, that there was someone out there for me. Sure, there still could be, but keep up lol. I kept half of the closet free. I’ve always slept curled up to the very edge of my bed. I created space, both literally and metaphorically, physically and mentally. I was so sure my someone was out there because why else would I have so much love in my heart? My life is exceedingly abundant. I have the best forged family I could ask for, a beautiful home full of love.

I finally put clothes in the empty space in the closet. (I still sleep on the edge of the bed, don’t tell.)

I’m taking it slow. I’m enjoying the ride. And I’ve got a closet full of my clothes.

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Sry for like completely falling off the earth it will 100% happen again

But for real I am sorry. I’m in such a weird headspace and I’ve had so many positive changes but change is still scary and hard that’s what she said ok bye

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Here is a nicer ask 🙂

Any new personal bests set while working out?

Aw thank you!! Yes new deadlift PR even after I accidentally lost a little weight when I was sick and I’m stringing muscle ups together!

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I can just imagine all those dinkballs typing out their dinky little messages, sending them, then sitting back and going “yeah that oughta show her. Alright where was I, oh yes, back to my own misery.”

Keep your head up, fuck someone else trying to yuck your yum 🙏🏻

Hahaha all good! Thank you friend 🫶🏻

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Obviously was talking about your comments on other blogs. That I made. Without wanting your input. Genuinely, why would you act dumb like that? He really did a number on you didn't he

I uh

Who’s acting fella

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The difference being??? Pull that leg in mister and we can fry an egg on that pan

What is this in reference to?

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You're such a fucking weirdo fawning over every other happy relationship blog. Imagine someone making these sad quotes about you and yours?? Admire quietly, like everyone else.

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Dunno why you feel the need to shout and comment on everything that you enjoy. Such a sense of entitlement. Most people are happy in their own skin, without another needing to seek validation. Flip the switch and you'd be livid if it was your man. Fat people aren't yours to scream over just because you go to the gym.

I uh

I shout things I enjoy…on my blog…..that is mine…that I made…for me

I think you meant flip the script

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Oh sheittttt how’s the image rehabilitation going? 🤣

Hey! I just wanted to reach out and say I’m really sorry for what you have experienced in this community. I remember when you joined Feabie, I had also started dating a guy around that same time (we have also since broken up ha). I’ve experienced violence within the community as well and I know how isolating it can feel. There’s so much stigma around this kink and the nuance of this community does impact how abuse shows up and how we seek care and support following trauma. I just saw your post about PizzaWolf being friends with your ex and…… I use to interact with him quite a bit in a fat liberation/feedist organizing capacity. He was always vaguely misogynistic (interrupting us women, forcing us to be his therapist, taking up way more space than any other person) and he was always so quick to sympathize with and apologize for abusers. So it tracks that he’d befriend an abuser. If ever you are looking for someone to process stuff with or are just looking for any support or solidarity relating to this experience, don’t be shy in reaching out because I totally have been where you are. Sending you care 💗

Hi love. Sorry I deleted my tumblr app from my phone so I’m just now seeing this but thank you for the kind message ❤️ I’m so sorry you had a negative experience as well. Unfortunately it seems like the baseline with so many of us.

I’ve heard similar things from many people in the community. I’m also a big believer that the company you keep says a lot about yourself and how you hold your loved ones accountable.

Thank you again ❤️

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Hey! I just wanted to reach out and say I’m really sorry for what you have experienced in this community. I remember when you joined Feabie, I had also started dating a guy around that same time (we have also since broken up ha). I’ve experienced violence within the community as well and I know how isolating it can feel. There’s so much stigma around this kink and the nuance of this community does impact how abuse shows up and how we seek care and support following trauma. I just saw your post about PizzaWolf being friends with your ex and…… I use to interact with him quite a bit in a fat liberation/feedist organizing capacity. He was always vaguely misogynistic (interrupting us women, forcing us to be his therapist, taking up way more space than any other person) and he was always so quick to sympathize with and apologize for abusers. So it tracks that he’d befriend an abuser. If ever you are looking for someone to process stuff with or are just looking for any support or solidarity relating to this experience, don’t be shy in reaching out because I totally have been where you are. Sending you care 💗

Hi love. Sorry I deleted my tumblr app from my phone so I’m just now seeing this but thank you for the kind message ❤️ I’m so sorry you had a negative experience as well. Unfortunately it seems like the baseline with so many of us.

I’ve heard similar things from many people in the community. I’m also a big believer that the company you keep says a lot about yourself and how you hold your loved ones accountable.

Thank you again ❤️

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You mentioned Pizzawolf before, I remember the name from Feabie, he seemed to be a big part of the community, has stuff gone down with him now too?

I’m not sure. He’s friends with shit stain but that’s all I know, sorry!

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I literally love you so much

There's no one local you could make content with? No need for a flight.

No✨

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When you said "I need to relearn that people can be good", I felt that in my SOUL. I had a bad experience with someone on here (who has a popular presence still) and it's taken me literal years to relearn that. I still am if I'm being honest. I want to call them out so bad for what they did, but I always feel like 'oh it happened so long ago, it doesn't matter' but I also feel like 'no this person needs to be held accountable for how they made me feel and what they did to me; it doesn't need to be an IRL thing to be a problem'. Sorry for rambling, the long story short is that I relate so much to that phrase and I'm always rooting for you.

Your experience and your pain matters. Thank you for feeling safe enough to share❤️ there’s no need to apologize.

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There's no one local you could make content with? No need for a flight.

No✨

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I see you say you’re not comfortable meeting someone online, because of shit stain. As you say, lol. What could someone do to make you comfortable? To show you it’s ok to try again?

A friend said it best. I need to relearn that people can be good

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Since I’ve had a few people ask and I’m not on feabie, yes, “monolith” and pizzawolf are friends. He would be able to provide additional context. Be safe, friends.