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For many students, college represents opportunity. It’s a chance to learn, grow, and prepare for the future. But for transgender students, the path to college can feel much harder. Challenges tied to their gender identity make accessing and affording higher education more difficult. From financial barriers to social and institutional obstacles, transgender students face unique struggles that deserve attention.

The cost of college is a hurdle for most students, but transgender students often face additional expenses that make it even harder to afford. For many, there are costs associated with transitioning, such as hormone therapy, surgeries, or name and gender marker changes on legal documents. These medical and legal expenses are rarely covered by insurance or financial aid, forcing students to choose between their education and their well-being.

Even small costs, like updating a driver’s license or passport, can add up. Some students may delay these changes to save money, which can lead to other complications, such as being misgendered in class or during campus interactions.

Additionally, many transgender students lack financial support from their families. Rejection by family members is a harsh reality for some, leaving students to cover tuition, housing, and other expenses on their own. Without a financial safety net, they may struggle to stay in school or even apply in the first place.

Financial aid and scholarships are essential for many students, but transgender students often face extra challenges when applying. Many scholarships require students to disclose personal information, such as their legal name or gender assigned at birth. This can create anxiety about whether their gender identity will affect their chances of receiving funding.

While some scholarships specifically support LGBTQ+ students, these funds are limited and highly competitive. Transgender students may feel like they need to share deeply personal experiences to stand out in their applications, which can be emotionally taxing.

In some cases, students may avoid applying altogether, fearing judgment or misunderstanding. Others may lack access to information about scholarships tailored to their needs, especially if their high school or community provides little support for LGBTQ+ students.

Safety is a major concern for transgender students, and it can influence whether they feel comfortable pursuing higher education. Discrimination and harassment are common in many settings, and colleges are no exception. For transgender students, the fear of being misgendered, bullied, or excluded can discourage them from applying to schools or participating fully in campus life.

Housing is a particular challenge. Many colleges still assign housing based on the gender listed on a student’s legal documents. This practice can force transgender students into uncomfortable or unsafe living situations. While some schools offer gender-inclusive housing, these options aren’t always available or accessible.

Bathrooms and locker rooms also pose challenges. Transgender students often face hostility or discomfort in gendered spaces, which can make everyday activities stressful. If a college lacks clear policies to protect transgender students or provide inclusive facilities, it sends a message that their needs are not a priority.

The mental health toll of being a transgender student is significant. Many face high levels of stress due to discrimination, financial strain, and a lack of support. Depression and anxiety are common among transgender youth, and these challenges don’t disappear when they enter college.

The pressure to succeed academically while dealing with these stressors can lead to burnout. Without adequate mental health resources, transgender students may struggle to keep up with their coursework or stay enrolled. Some colleges offer counseling services, but not all counselors are trained to address the specific needs of transgender individuals.

Even the process of applying to college can be fraught with challenges for transgender students. Many application forms require students to select a binary gender, forcing them to either misrepresent themselves or out themselves before they even arrive on campus.

If a student’s legal name and gender don’t match their identity, it can lead to confusion or discrimination during admissions. Some colleges are working to make their applications more inclusive, but progress is slow and inconsistent.

Once enrolled, transgender students may face additional bureaucratic hurdles. Updating records, such as student IDs or email accounts, to reflect a chosen name and gender can be a lengthy and frustrating process. In some cases, institutions may resist making these changes, leaving students to navigate a system that doesn’t fully recognize their identity.

Representation matters. For transgender students, seeing faculty, staff, or peers who share their identity can make a big difference. Unfortunately, many colleges lack visible transgender role models, which can make students feel isolated or unsupported.

Without representation, transgender students may also feel like their concerns are not understood or prioritized. This lack of visibility can make it harder to advocate for necessary changes, such as gender-inclusive policies or programs.

Addressing these challenges requires action on multiple levels. Colleges and universities can take several steps to create a more inclusive environment for transgender students:

Increase Access to Financial Support: Schools can offer scholarships specifically for transgender students or expand existing LGBTQ+ scholarships. Simplifying the financial aid process and ensuring it accommodates diverse identities can also make a big difference.

Adopt Inclusive Policies: Colleges should implement policies that allow students to use their chosen name and gender across all systems, from admissions to diplomas. Gender-inclusive housing and facilities should be standard, not optional.

Provide Training for Staff and Faculty: Educating staff and faculty about transgender issues can help create a more welcoming environment. Training should cover everything from using correct pronouns to addressing discrimination effectively.

Expand Mental Health Resources: Mental health services must be equipped to meet the unique needs of transgender students. This includes hiring counselors who are trained in LGBTQ+ issues and ensuring students feel safe seeking support.

Foster a Sense of Community: Creating spaces where transgender students can connect with peers and mentors is crucial. Support groups, clubs, and events can help build a sense of belonging and reduce feelings of isolation.

For transgender students, college should be a place of opportunity and growth. Yet, too often, it becomes another space where they must fight to be seen and supported. By addressing the barriers they face, we can ensure that higher education truly becomes accessible to everyone.

The journey to college isn’t easy for anyone, but for transgender students, it comes with extra challenges that deserve recognition and action. With the right changes, colleges can create environments where transgender students can not only survive but thrive.

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Art G.Shvecova (Design graphics - SUMMER SEA_290718)

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ICE BRICKS

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“My son is on the computer all the time. He’ll start as soon as he gets home from school and goes until bedtime. It’s some sort of adventure game involving teamwork. He wears a headset and plays with his friends. His goal was to go outside more this summer but that hasn’t happened. Maybe I enabled him. I held off on getting him a phone and computer, but at some point every other kid has got one. And you don’t want him to fall behind with technology. He’s a good kid. His grades are pretty good. His teachers love him. He’s very polite. He helps his mother. I just wish he’d apply his interest in games to other things. He was in science club, but he quit that. He took some Tae Kwon Do lessons, but he quit that. I thought maybe coding classes would interest him because he loves being on the computer, but that didn’t work either. I also played video games as a kid. But we’d just beat a few levels of Mario, and then we’d get a call to come outside. But that doesn’t happen anymore. Because the person who’d normally call you is on the other end of the headset.”

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Andrew, 2016

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‘recollect’

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speaking of t-shirts, you can also get one with this graphic on it. i’m just saying.

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Sometimes I feel like this to an extent

“I’m pretty sure I’m a sociopath. Or something close to it. My parents were pilots, so I spent most of my early childhood on a small island in Tunisia. The only other kids were the children of a local hotelkeeper. I was so isolated that I even invented my own words. By the time I got to high school, I was a monster. I only cared about being the best. I was a bully. I’d argue just for the sake of arguing. I would destroy any belief, just to be right. My behavior is different now. But I think I’m still a sociopath. I’m not sure I feel empathy. But I do always try to make the empathetic choice. It’s an intellectual thing for me. I’m intellectually convinced of the need for empathy. I choose to help other people. I choose to be a reliable friend. I have a wonderful wife who judges me by my actions, and not my reasons for them. Sometimes I feel like Pinocchio. Was he a real boy? Yes, because that’s what he always strived to be.”

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