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the southern US genuinely scares me like my map of ‘states i will willingly go to for college’ looks more or less like

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Those people on Tumblr you never talk to but you reblog each other so you assume you are friends.

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me: *gets an f* me: all i know is that this won’t effect me in the long run. what will this “pop quiz” mean to me in two years? will i already have entered the bright world of freedom on my own? the sunlight will encompass my soul. this pop quiz means NOTHING to me. me: *gets an a+* me: excuse me who are you people??? who is this?? where am i? where’s my throne

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LOOK HOW AMAZING THIS IS!

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Reblog if your best friend is pretty.

sometimes i try to scroll past this but then i feel guilty

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ATTENTION STRAIGHT BOYS

do you guys watch porn and jerk off together?

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I’m really proud of Bruno Mars because he’s made nearly every teenage girl go “I’m too hot hot damn” and even just saying that once can help someone’s self esteem and no one is making fun of the song so girls aren’t constantly made fun of for listening to it like with other artists. I’m just really proud of Bruno for making a ton of young girls a little bit more comfortable in their own skin.

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"NAME ONE THING THATS BETTER IN AMERICA THAN IN BRITAIN" 

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happy anniversary

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Social skills: noticing when repetition is communication

So there’s this dynamic:

Autistic person: The door is open!

Other person: I *know* that. It’s hot in here.

Autistic person: The door is open!

Other person: I already explained to you that it’s hot in here!

Autistic person: The door is open!

Other person: Why do you have to repeat things all the time?!

Often when this happens, what’s really going on is that the autistic person is trying to communicate something, and they’re not being understood. The other person things that they are understanding and responding, and that the autistic person is just repeating the same thing over and over either for no reason or because they are being stubborn and inflexible and obnoxious and pushy.

When what’s really happening is that the autistic person is not being understood, and they are communicating using the words they have. There’s a NT social expectation that if people aren’t being understood, they should change their words and explain things differently. Sometimes autistic people aren’t capable of doing this without help.

So, if this is happening, assume it’s communication and try to figure out what’s being communicated. If you’re the one with more words, and you want the communication to happen in words, then you have to provide words that make communication possible. For example:

Other person: Do you want the door to be closed, or are you saying something else?

Autistic person: Something else

Other person: Do you want to show me something outside, or something else?

Autistic person: Something else

Other person: Are you worried about something that might happen, or something else?

Autistic person: Worried

Other person: Are you worried that something will come in, or that something will go out?

Autistic person: Baby

Other person: She’s in her crib, and the baby gate is up. Is that ok, or is there still a problem?

Autistic person: ok

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What do these women have in common?

Oh right, they are all MERYL FREAKING STREEP!

PS. This rabbi too

In case you were wondering why she has 19 Oscar nominations, well, now you know.

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what you say: nicki minaj is untalented and a whore what i hear: i’m boring and misogynistic

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Gehe, what is you position in bed? are you top or bottom?? ;)

ah… nice question Anon.

I’m bottom. I prefer laptop-san to warm up my tights.. and sometimes tablet-kun joins us for some fun.

I have a pic of three of us, look:

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thats actually a pretty shitty idea but thanks for trying

me in every group project (via trust)

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hey no offense but [just starts screaming]