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The 2025 Gender Census is now open!

[ Link to survey ]

The 12th annual international gender census, collecting information about the language we use to refer to ourselves and each other, is now open until 30th August 2025.

It’s short and easy, for most participants it takes 5 minutes or less.

After the survey is closed I’ll process the results and publish a spreadsheet of the data and a report summarising the main findings. Then anyone can use them for academic or business purposes, self-advocacy, tracking the popularity of language over time, and just feeling like we’re part of a huge and diverse community.

If you think you might have friends and followers who’d be interested, please do reblog this blog post, and share the survey URL by email or at AFK social groups or on other social networks. Every share is extremely helpful!

Survey URL: https://survey.gendercensus.com

The survey is open to anyone anywhere who speaks English and feels that the gender binary doesn’t fully describe their experience of themselves and their gender(s) or lack thereof.

Thank you so much!

[ Link to survey ]

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Tumblr as the loud, alt, gnc nerd with coloured hair, a ton of Pride pins, and lots of merch

Ao3 as the quiet, unassuming book nerd that's secretly freaky as fuck

Does anyone else see my vision

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"you really should pay attention to female characters! and not just male characters you hc as trans girls"

listen. you don't need to add that last part. the overlap between "people who categorically don't care about women" and "people who are comfortable reading a fictional character as a trans girl" is like MAYBE two people.

you are perhaps misunderstanding the modern nonblack fandom use of the word "babygirl". this is not transfem headcanoning, this is people using feminity as shorthand for submissiveness and infantalization.

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​i’m such a fake idgafer everything bothers me tbh

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i still just wish i was allowed to give up

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Some Queer discourses of the past couple years.

1. "Former TERF" Trans mascs create new theory of transmasculinity that just so happens to be foundationally oppositional to trans feminist theory. They resurrect an old slur and claim a secret cabal of mean transfems is poisoning the queer community.

2. "Trans Women reaching out to someone they perceive could be a closeted trans fem is bad actually. Why can't he just be a feminine cis guy?"

3. People wanting to redefine Trans Woman as a fundamentally separate gender from Women, and start calling Trans women who point out the transmisogynistic implications of this as "upholding gender roles" and/or "intersexist" (no they don't care how actual intersex Trans fems feel about it).

4. "This is my emotional support transmisogynistic caricature, and trans fems not letting me uncritically enjoy it is tearing this community apart."

5. "Hmm, trans women have created a term describing an isolation from the greater queer community. Clearly, this term is itself responsible for the separation, as there's no way anything has ever happened that has made trans fems isolated from the queer community. I need to harass any trans fem who uses this term."

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STOP LINKING ATTRACTIVENESS WITH MORALITY (“notice how the person with the bad opinion is ugly?”)

STOP LINKING WEIGHT WITH MORALITY (“lmao look how fit all the people with Good Opinion are, Person I Hate is Fat”)

STOP LINKING AGE WITH MORALITY (“people with Good Opinion just don’t age I swear!”)

STOP LINKING HEALTH WITH MORALITY (“Well xyz health problem is what Person I Hate gets for being shitty!”)

STOP IT STOP IT STOP IT

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Best webbed site in the world btw

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ever engage with a media you really really liked and thought you were going to become obsessed with but it doesn’t quite lodge itself into your brain at the correct angle and you can just brush fingertips with the version of yourself from the alternate reality where it completely corrupted your every waking thought

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ⓘ Tip You can skip part of the day by taking a nap.

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lying in front of the street cleaner

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i love when cats roll around all cutely and then they look up at you like ₍^. .^₎ umm hi did you notices how cute i just was? did u see?

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i love hearing about the declining birth rate like yesss that is a major problem considering our dominant economic model. a problem i plan on contributing to 👍 joining the war on declining birth rates on the side of declining birth rates

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chat is it okay to be in love with a fictional woman

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Racism is a value born from your environment that you need to go through fire to get it out of you. There's no "I've stopped being racist" phase. There's only "I need to get it beaten out of me everyday" phase. It's a process that will never stop, shouldn't stop until we die.

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There is no crime where torture is an acceptable punishment.

There is no crime where sexual assault is an acceptable punishment.

There is no crime where slavery is an acceptable punishment.