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why is it raining why is it raining why is it raining

IN 

FUCKING

NOVEMBER

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My mom keeps forcing me to cook and if I don't, she thinks that I'm acting like a rich spoiled brat when I'm just not interested in cooking. My mom, keeps guilt-tripping me saying that I don't care about her and I'm not helping her but she doesn't mind if my brother sits idle. When I ask my mom why she is not asking my brother she just turns the arguments around saying I should stop comparing myself with my brother and that I'm using that as an excuse to not do work. How can I make her understand?

Oh damn, anon. That's quite a tough place to be in, i'm so sorry. Also sorry for answering so late, i've been a tad busy haha

So first things first, I'm a Desi kid, so I know how it is. Thankfully, I grew up in a house where gender roles aren't that strict, although my dad is pretty orthodox in his thinking.

I'm a rebellious person by nature, so my first instinct would be to oppose whatever is told to me. But I feel that diplomacy helps, esp. in Indian households, where emotional blackmailing and gaslighting is soooooo common. Just know, that your worth isn't determined by how well you manage the house or how well you cook and clean. Everyone, irrespective of gender, should know how to cook and clean and manage bills (something which is not taught in schools, but that's a whole 'nother topic).

As for your mom, it's easier said than done. What i've learnt is, if you say something inflammatory or even something that can be mildly construed as backanswering, it'll get you in trouble. Instead, do a tactic called, "Yea, sure. I'll do it in 10 minutes." Trust me, it works wonders. This way, you're defusing the situation, and also, most moms have ZERO patience, which means that they'll end up asking someone else to do it. :)

But on a more serious note, be honest with her. Tell her you don't like to cook. But also, learn basic stuff coz trust me that shit will help when you're alone in a flat on a Tuesday night.

Hope this helps! Take care, nonniee!!

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Stop this stupid blatant Hinduphobia. Thanks for this well written answer @ginasholtsoundboard 💓

hinduism is a sinful religion. it's just paganism run by nazi fanactics.

hAHAHAHAHA

a) it is the oldest surviving religion on earth, widely practiced by approx 1.2 BILLION HUMANS TODAY. FOUR TIMES THE US POPULATION.

b) it has multiple features which are unique to itself, some shared by the Norse. Hinduism essentially is based on plurality, duality, secularism, acceptance and tolerance, and eternity - the world is created and recreated continuously, we are born and reborn continuously until we reach peak ourselves, and there are millions of universes out there with stronger and weaker creatures than us.

c) the hindu pantheon has to be one of the most diverse and fascinating pantheons ever with equally magnificent tales. the vedas record, weirdly, 33,333 devas. also, in its rituals and tales, hinduism clearly glorifies and accepts trans people and gives them exclusive rights, often calling them as “people with divine births”. homosexuality is also honoured, with multiple celestial same sex relationships existing.

c) yes it’s subsequent degradation is tragic. the varna system, the manu smriti, the sati pratha etc are all stains and blots on this religion which can never be washed, which still wound thousands of people today. also it’s current state is pitiful. these people who claim to “salvage” and “run” hinduism are doing the complete exact opposite of it. 

hindutva is nazism. hinduism is not.

now why don’t you go and suck your dick op

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I got 9 whole notes. I'm famous. I'm going drunk with power. There's no stopping me now. Just you wait.

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Wow almost time for holi eh

🌟🌟Humpe yeh kisne, organic holi colour daala🌟🌟

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Hello fellow desis/non desi hindi music enthusiasts,

Can we all agree that the music now is shit and remixing songs is not the way to go?

Even early 2000s had good music. What happened?! Why did we let the Kakkars take over?!?

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SHOELACE COMPLIMENTS. <3

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wish we could turn back time

to the good ol’ days

The lyrics make sense now

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*clicks page 2 of google search results* the deep web

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yes, a really good book.

seriously is there anything sexier than sustainable farming

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seriously is there anything sexier than sustainable farming

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Happy 10th birthday, Loss!

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If a dude came up to me at a ball and said that I struck him as a woman who has never been satisfied, I'd probably agree with him lmao

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Love it

A priest, a Baptist minister, and a rabbit walk into the Red Cross to donate blood

The nurse asks, what’s your blood type?

The rabbit says, “I’m probably a Type O”

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Nooooo dont get a nosejob your ethnic nose is so sexy

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Legendary post omg

but it only works if 4 people are having sex lol