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I'm back (again)
I forgot about this blog lmao
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Came across your blog recently and its helped me self-actualise. Given me the drive to start lifting weights again regularly for the first time since November and it feels great. Im also packing more regularly which has done spectacular things for my self confidence.
I’m hoping to go cruise some guys at the local men-only leather bar soon with the confidence of a man who knows he belongs there
Proud of you. Keep going. Be the man you are.
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“I’m shy” gf 🤝 *makes her cum in public* bf
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Do you have any tips on how to feel more comfortable as a man with wide hips? I know a lot of trans guys hate their hips, but I personally don't. I think having a big ass and (relatively) strong legs is plenty masculine, it's just that my waist tapers in. Going to be on T pretty soon so it might change anyway, but I feel like I should be more uncomfortable with my hips like other guys are.
If you feel comfortable, don’t worry about it. And if you’re starting T soon, the little insecurities left might go away. There are no rules to what you should and shouldn’t feel comfortable with as a man. If you feel good and comfortable with your masculinity, that energy will radiate.
But for tips. Finding stuff that fits your build and/or hides what you don’t like. When it comes to hips/waist it might help to wear something that gives you a boxy build, like looser but shorter T-shirts etc. Skater vibes, if you get me.
Congrats on the T!
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to all my newfound transmascs: do not listen to your cis women friends who think you would make a cute little petite gay twink. you can be whatever kind of fucking man you want
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There is such a big focus on separating trans man and cis man cock on this website and it’s driving me crazy. Yes, you’re gonna have different experiences with different types of men. But holy shit some posts are literally like “omg I love bottom growth blah blah blah but I want the real gay experience of cis cock in my ass”
And it’s written by other trans people? Are y’all hearing yourselves?
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I'm glad it's not just me but the "boycunt" stuff just bothers me. I shouldn't be bothered or whatever but I just. WE'RE MEN.
Real, I hate ittt
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Hello, trans male 22, pre surgery pre T (can't afford it now).
I pass as a male but as a very young male. People consistently (at least a few times a week) assume I'm TWENTY. I dress my age but I can't change my face or voice. Heck I work officially, they see me in uniform and even that doesn't stop them. I don't know what to do to fix this. Probably nothing.
I can suggest the obvious like voice training. That takes time and effort. There are free resources, like YouTube etc.
If you can afford minoxidil, that works for facial hair. It should be cheaper than T, depending on where you live.
Are you muscular/bigger? That can also help sometimes (won’t change your face much or voice but can help your general image).
Do you have any peach fuzz? Dye it. Can make a huge difference to create some shadow.
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i had only heard years ago out of context a trans guy mention trans guys are into forcefem too (i assumed he meant cis and trans guys, but he apparently meant trans men and women), so i was confused when i got back on here recently and saw that trans women are into forcefem (i thought it was just a dysphoria-based humiliation kink, not euphoria-based), that forcemasc exists, and that there was so much "disk horse" around them. but after finding your blog, i see the vision. it's a cool as fuck vision, too. i love how manly you describe men who are trans to be, mind, body, and soul. keep posting
Honestly my posts aren’t even properly “forcemasc”. I just don’t know what else to tag it? I motivate trans men to be men unapologetically, to be unapologetically masculine. I see too many trans men afraid of being masculine for various of reasons. Forcemasc is also for cis men, not just trans.
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For pre-surgery trans men. You’re allowed to extend what’s going on in your head to your real life. And you’re allowed to “act” to limit the dissonance between your physical being and your head.
This is what I mean:
Whatever you use during sex, that’s your cock. If you’re able to remove that mental block, it might feel a lot better (when you’re not using your actual dick to fuck). Whatever you have between your legs is also your cock. You don’t have to use terms that don’t match your brain.
Sex is not just a physical thing. It’s even more so a mental thing. You can creampie your partner if you want to. You can experience a “pregnancy scare” if you want to. My cis wife does this: Her period is late and she’s telling her friend about it? Bet your ass she’s mentioning pregnancy. I’m stealth so it both affirms me and helps me remain stealth. There are no limits. You’re allowed to have this if you want it. This applies to whatever you want in relation to being a man.
Having a small dick is fine and your cock is hot no matter the size. And you can get good blowjobs. This again is a mentality thing. You’re allowed to say things like “take my whole length” and “I’m gonna fuck your throat”. You can fuck a face no matter the size of your cock. You can cum down someone’s throat no matter what actually happens. Again, no limits.
Every man’s chest looks different. You’re allowed to refer to it as having gyno if you want to. Or whatever the hell you want. Having mantits is not feminine. Because it’s on a man.
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i just found your blog and i cant stop reading and rereading your posts 😵💫 a lot of my identity and self confidence have been rooted in being twinky and pretty but now thats going away since im on t so your blog is really helping me out with that
Accept masculinity and grow with it. You’ll be fine. Masculinity is great, and you shouldn’t be afraid of it. You can still be a pretty twink, if that’s what you desire. There are solutions to almost everything.
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