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[get-ungendered-idiot]

this is an ❌❌ anti “boy cat”/“girl cat” zone ❌❌ your neutered male cat is not sitting on your chest and purring because he gives a shit about being a boy. he’s doing that because he’s a domestic animal that you house and feed and pet

[get-ungendered-idiot]

softies, romantics and the sentimental be like "i know a spot", and then keep you in their hearts forever

[get-ungendered-idiot]

You called them beautiful, but do you know why they keep apologizing for every small thing? Why they don't celebrate their birthday? Why it is hard for them to trust people? Why they never talk about their family? They are beautiful, but do you know any of that?

[get-ungendered-idiot]

Im nonbinary and it really annoys me that there's a lot of texts posts that could easily be FOR EVERYONE if they just used they/them instead of gendered language

Unless the post is directly about a unique queer experience, there's really no reason to gender a post about love. Using they/them makes it so anyone can put themselves or their partner(s) into that post. Gendering w/ no clear queer sign posting prevents that

So, to make a point, I'm being a goblin and blatantly pirating texts posts that are needlessly gendered

This is t h e gay site, and you're gonna exclude the vast majority of ppl and experiences here by specifying only one gender and not making it about mlm or wlw or t4t? Go back to Twitter

Don't like your post getting ungendered on the gay website? Please consider sign posting your stuff with what it's about orrrr just stop needlessly gendering your vague posts about romance