#that girl

[colebabey888]

The IT Girl Wardrobe Essentials | IT GIRL DIARIES

Creating the perfect IT Girl wardrobe is all about mixing timeless classics with a touch of trendy pieces for an effortlessly stylish look. The key is to build a closet filled with versatile staples while adding fun, fashion-forward items that show off your personality.

Here’s how to put together a wardrobe starting on your It Girl Journey :

The Magic of Basics 🎀

Every It Girl knows the importance of having great basics. Start with simple, well-fitting pieces, something similar to a plain white/black tee, a pair of skinny jeans or mom jeans ( skinny jeans are always trendy if you know how to style them ) .These items will be easy to mix and match, giving you endless outfit options. They can be dressed up or down and that's exactly the type of clothing items you want to have.

The Perfect Pair of Jeans 🎀

When it comes to my denims, I don't mess around! Invest in a good few pairs of jeans that fit you perfectly. Quality over quantity! Levi, Pacsun, REVICE Denim, these are are all examples on companies that sell high quality denims. Classic skinny or straight-leg jeans/mom jeans are super versatile and go with almost everything. It's never a bad idea to keep a few light denims around either but go with what fits your skin tone best. To keep things trendy, try experimenting with ripped jeans or wide-leg styles, but make sure to always have a classic pair for everyday wear. If you're going for a more classy/clean look, I would skip out in the spontaneous ripped jeans.

The Little Black Dress (LBD) 🎀

A little black dress is a closet essential for every It Girl. Whether you’re heading to a party or going out to dinner, the LBD is always a chic choice. Pick one that’s simple and elegant, so you can easily dress it up or down with accessories. There's nothing more to it, a simple black dress will do it for any occasion, any time of day!

Cute and Comfortable Shoes 🎀

Comfortable yet stylish shoes are a must. Make sure you have classic white sneakers, cute ankle boots for your rainy days , and a pair of strappy heels. On a hot sunny day, I love a good pair of black thong sandals, they pull every look together and give off the perfect touch of a 2000's vibe. Skinny jeans or a sundress, paired with good accessories and a handbag, black thongs for the win always.

Balancing Trends with Classics 🎀

The secret to It Girl style is blending your wardrobe basics with trendy pieces. Each season, pick a few fun items like a patterned scarf, oversized sunglasses, or a bold handbag to keep your outfits fresh and exciting.

The Power of Accessories 🎀

Accessories can really make your outfit pop! Invest in timeless pieces like gold hoop earrings, a simple watch. Then, mix in trendy items like layered necklaces, fun belts, or colorful purses to add personality to your look.

By building your wardrobe with these essentials and mixing in a few trendy pieces, you’ll achieve the perfect IT Girl style—chic, fun, and always effortlessly stylish. My style is definitely changing and upgrading every year so there will most likely be a part 2 of this next year. These are just a few tips and tricks I've picked up on throughout my It Girl journey so far, but we're are learning so if you have any tips yourself feel free to dump them in the comments, mwah!

xoxo, COLEBABEY8.88

[4theitgirls]

my weekend routine

9:00 : begin morning routine

make bed

take meds

stretch & meditation

brush teeth

drink water

make & eat breakfast

prayer for studies

11:30 : LSAT study session #1

1:30 : 45 minute break

2:15 : LSAT study session #2

4:15 : 45 minute break

5:00 : LSAT study session #3

7:00 : closing prayer & begin evening routine

exercise

shower

Bible time

8:30 : skincare & reading

9:30 : begin wind-down (cut off electronics & social media, begin to slow the mind)

11:30 : bedtime

[alora21]

😋

[nightbunnysong]

Fall semester

[photos from Pinterest]

[bbltheque]

she is so real for that

[daretoassume]

this is how you build your OWN beliefs from scratch

beliefs are the foundation of creating the life you desire, along with your inner conversations and emotions. this is why it is important to examine all the beliefs you have in every area of your life, especially those about people and yourself, to see if they align with your natural self, which is your divine self.

i said "own" because we picked up beliefs from the people we were surrounded by as children, having no choice at that time but to accept them. however, the idea is that you always have a choice to choose or create your own beliefs that align with your true self and will shape a whole new reality. if you want to build your beliefs from scratch, you need to:

identify the old beliefs – you cannot change something you are not aware of.

unlearn the old beliefs – ask yourself if they are true for you or if they align with your truth.

list the "new" beliefs – form beliefs that are true for you, true to your divine self.

act on the "new" beliefs – behave in a way that is more aligned with those beliefs.

persist – continue to choose the new beliefs you created moment to moment, even if the situation remains the same.

i definitely recommend having a journal when practicing unlearning beliefs that don't serve you, as it makes you more aware of them, making it easier to remove or replace those beliefs. doing shadow work is one way to deeply investigate what is happening inside you, why you believed the old beliefs, where they came from, how to make peace with them, and how to let them go.

once you have chosen those new beliefs, you must perpetuate them every day, especially when a situation challenges you—particularly your emotions—to choose that new belief for you to experience a new reality. because you cannot just list them and then forget about them. your behavior should match these new beliefs until it becomes natural for you to think and act in that way.

"..because in the next moment it is a whole new reality. you actually have to keep choosing the belief every single nanosecond in order to actually have an experience of ongoing perpetuation." ♱ bashar (darryl anka)

to truly experience this whole new reality you desire, persist in your new ideas, new beliefs, and the thoughts and behaviors aligned with those ideas and beliefs. it may be uncomfortable at first, but that is also just a belief. if you find it hard to attain, as i said, doing shadow work will really help you. this is just a reminder that you always have a choice. always choose what is aligned with your natural self.

[ins4nebxtch]

ultimate IT girl guide

a guide to looking effortlessly perfect

"You’ve got the false narrative of a girl who spends 30 seconds on her appearance, when, in fact, you probably spent hours.”

1. basic hygiene:

having clean teeth and good breath

smelling good 24/7. i highly recommend finding a signature scent as a scent is associated with memory, id suggest something sweet yet not too overpowering like vanilla.

being clean in general. regularly shaving and exfoliating your skin to get rid of bodily hair and dirt that accumulates on your skin to make your skin glow.

clean nails. having clean and maintained nails (with a simple design if you wish) looks better than having acrylics that are wayyy too long and appear tacky.

2. hair :

having smooth healthy hair looks much better than dry and damaged hair. take care of your hair by finding the best products for your natural hair. get rid of your split ends as they make the hair appear really damaged.

in my opinion, loose waves look the most effortless yet pretty. but don’t ruin your natural hair by applying too much heat! you can try heatless styling methods to achieve this look.

3. diet and exercise :

being toned is the way to go to fit this aesthetic

avoid oily foods or sugary foods that damage your skin. don’t completely get rid of these as we all have our cravings, but try your best to avoid it

find a workout plan that works best for you, keeps you healthy but doesn’t burn you out! moreover exercise releases endorphins that improve your mood.

4. makeup and skin care :

natural makeup on clear skin fits this effortless aesthetic perfectly!

take care of your skin by finding a routine that fits you the best, consult with a dermatologist for the best results.

having smooth, blended makeup creates an illusion that you aren’t wearing any at all! this appears much effortless than a full face. also try to avoid those really huge false lashes that make you look tacky.

maintain your eyebrows and find a shape that fits you best!

5. outfits :

having a signature style which suits your body type is essential. experiment until you can find what suits you best! you can use a body analysis app for this.

wearing outfits you’re confident in, hot but not too revealing goes a long way. confidence is key. wearing overly revealing clothing might seem like one is trying too hard, but if you can carry it with confidence then that’s great!

jewellery : having dainty, signature pieces is key! find out which suits you better (gold or silver) through an ai analysis and invest in timeless pieces. personally, i think minimalistic pieces such as solitaires, simple pendants, classic hoops etc. look much more effortless.

6. personality :

don’t be too judgemental towards anyone as you don’t know what they’re going through and this makes you seem unapproachable

don’t talk too much or overshare! this creates a mysterious aura which draws people to you more

confidence is key! posture is very important too, carry yourself with confidence and walk with your head held up high.

7. examples and references :

serena van der woodsen (gossip girl)

mia thermopolis (the princess diaries)

cher (clueless)

elle woods (legally blonde)

rory gilmore (gilmore girls)

robib scherbatsky (how i met your mother)

gigi hadid

[angel-dustblgs]

back to basics 🌱

[healthfullysol]

take your dreams seriously 💫📝

[urfavgirlsgirl]

One of the best ways to grow and glow up, is to get rid of any negative energy around you. Trust me girls, it could be a friend (with insecurities, negative thoughts, bad energy), a thought you have about the future, arguments with the family over stupid things,people who would look at your finger instead of the moon,your space, your habits or routine.

[honeytonedhottie]

important announcement⋆.ೃ࿔*:･🍰🎀

hey guys 🙈 so im going to be taking a little break from posting. school is really picking up for me and i want to focus solely on getting ahead (im a junior) also im going to be taking some time to focus on my manifestations...

and preparing myself for some big things im going to be manifesting so i'll have LOTS to post about when i get back. you'll still get the it girls magazine on a monthly basis and i MAY or may not be active on my twitter, but i just need time to prepare myself and direct my focus. all the love in the world ~ honey

[nenelonomh]

a journey to find myself

i am going against the constant influx of short-lived trends. i want to know who i am. i want to learn and try new things and grow. i'm only sixteen years old, but i feel a little bit like i'm wasting my life, like i'm running out of time.

i'm so sick of planning changes (and seeing others do the same thing) without actually experiencing any great changes.

so, a new start: welcome to finding joanne. i'd like to record this journey and share it with you guys, hence i'm going to be starting this new series.

hopefully this will also help you find yourself.

_________ ׂׂૢ་༘࿐

my plan for this series is as follows:

every month, i am going to try 3 new things. this could include listening to different music, a new hobby, a new habit, a different style of food, the way i dress. anything. but, i have to stick with it for a month (at least do it twice, if it's definitely not for me). i'm also going to share what i think of it in a reflection.

there is only 25 months until i finish high school. if i keep going the same as i am now, that's not a huge amount of time.

my goal by the end of this is to know myself; who i am; who i want to be.

_________ ׂׂૢ་༘࿐

series post masterlist:

knowing yourself (my why)

the bucket list

[4theitgirls]

my weekday routine

7:30 am : begin morning routine

make bed

take meds

morning exercise & meditation

brush teeth

drink water

make & eat breakfast

prayer for studies

9:00 : do anything else needed to get ready for the day (dishes, start laundry, drink coffee, prepare desk, to-do list, etc.)

10:00 : school work & studying

12:00 : 20 minute break

12:20 : LSAT study session #1

2:20 : 20 minute break

2:40 : additional school work or productive brain break

4:00 LSAT study session #2

6:00 : closing prayer & begin evening routine

exercise

shower

Bible time

8:30 : skincare & reading

9:30 : begin wind-down (cut off electronics & social media, begin to slow the mind)

10:30 : bedtime

[miririw]

Rhode espresso aesthetic🤎🎷☕️🐆

[berrydastudygirl]

Self Care Day Plan

Hi! In this post I want to share with you my self care routine and give you some ideas on how to have the best self care day ever.

Ideal Self Care Morning

wake up early

do skincare

fill your waterbottle

eat healthy breakfast

choose an outfit

(additionally) do some make up

Ideal Self Care Evening

eat healthy supper

clean your room

make the bed

fill your waterbottle

take an everything shower

do a face mask

do skincare

clean your hairbrushes

do your eyebrows

brush your teeth

do your nails

Self Care Activities

reading

home spa

movie night

make matcha

yoga

play instruments

grocery shopping

make a smoothie

watch the sunset

go for a walk

sleep (trust me)

clean your make up brushes

do laundry

meal prep

pilates

meet a friend

upcoming week planning

visit art museum

listen to podcast

change your bed sheets

make a cupe of herbal tea

declutter your space

room makeover

become a plant mum

go biking

paint

read/write poetry

make a playlist

I hope I inspired you to have the best self care day. Remember, you are worth the time it takes.

[harvesti]

I am my biggest fan. nobody can stop me 🌷