muddyboywiththemuddyboots

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@heislovey

In today's episode of things that are definitely not about systems but sound like it:

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Posting opinions has always been scary for me, but I will say this, please dni if you post Hazbin Hotel/ Helluva boss content.

I firmly believe people can enjoy shows/games/movies etc. without being supportive of the creators who make it, however it does make me severely uncomfortable seeing people who post content from this fandom follow me.

I mean no disrespect in this because I don't believe in hating an entirety of any fandom.

If you enjoy the shows, you're free to use my coined terms as you please! I'd just prefer if you didn't follow. Thank you so much for respecting this!

This message also applied to dsmp fans, homestuck fans, and people who post ed content.

Please respect my dni! (I will make a more specific dni at a later date.)

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Petition for Agender and aroace tags to have the flag colours thanks

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Cishet aro men will always be valid and should be welcomed within the queer community!

It's their choice whether they want to identify with the term queer or not but it isn't okay to deny them the right to be queer.

Thank you so much for this post! /gen

In light of the recent discourse, I would like to say that if you think that cisgender heterosexual aromantic men aren't queer, or are somehow inherently predatory,

YOU CAN FUCK OFF.

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A does not mean ally.

my mother is an ally, but to say she's part of the LGBTQ+ community is wrong. she'd laugh at the thought. allies are appreciated but it is the bare fucking minimum. A is for Aspecs.

its like calling yourself an octopus since you support ocean life conservation.

shut the fuck up <2

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Reposting as a masc non binary person who will only wear dresses and skirts :D

Never let people tell you that you aren't trans because of the way you present! You're valid, you're enough, you're wonderful!

Present the way you want because you deserve to be happy with yourself!

trans men are allowed to paint their nails.

trans men are allowed to wear dresses or skirts, or any generally "feminine" clothing.

trans men are allowed to wear makeup.

trans men are allowed to embrace their more "feminine" side.

it does not make us any less of a man.

EDIT! : ALL MEN are allowed to do these things, but this post is more centred around the idea that "oh, people who 'claim' to be men and wear dresses and shit are not trans!" yes, we are. skirt go spinny. painted nails are nice. its not that hard to understand.

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hey, yeah you! the angry ones, the aggressive ones, the violent ones. cm'here i got something to say to you.

hey there...

the ones who get irritated really quickly and snap at the wrong person.

the ones who get angry quickly but it goes away quickly, especially when the ones around you don't get over it so fast.

the ones who first thought is to hurt the one who caused you this anger, or just the first person in sight.

the ones who direct their anger at themselves.

the ones who direct their anger at their environment instead of themselves or the people around them.

the ones who get so angry their body burns with heat, causing the anger to worsen.

the ones who get so angry they flip the numb switch and can't feel anything for a while.

the ones who act on those violent thoughts.

the ones who hide their anger and bottle it up over and over again until it explodes.

the ones who can't tell their anger apart from other emotions.

the ones who get stuck in their head due to their rage.

the ones who spiral when they get angry.

the ones who get even angrier when you let yourself spiral cause of your anger.

the ones who get angry over the littlest thing.

i see you, and despite all of this you are still worthy of being loved. worthy of being seen as an equal. worthy of being cared for. worthy of being treated as another 'normal' person.

i love you (/p). your anger doesn't define you, even though it might seem like it does.

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All aros are valid!

Even aroace people?

All aros are valid!

Even aroace men?

All aros are valid!

Even trans, enby, or agender aros and/or aces?

ALL aros are valid!

Even cishet aros and/or aces?

ALL AROS ARE VALID!

Even cishet aromantic allosexual men?

ALL. AROS. ARE. VALID!

This is not up for debate.

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i got a b in personality disorders??? did i not study enough?

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tiktok "leftists" when you ask them to be normal about people with cluster b or paraphilic disorders

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"I'm sorry but all narcissists have the capacity to hurts others. (Which is how I justify invading a NPD safe space and spewing hatred at you guys)"

Everyone has the capacity to hurts others. It came free with your fucking humanity dipshit.

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sonic sez

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therian tips! (food)

so, I CRAVE raw meat a lot even though I can't eat it :( BUT I have compiled a list of foods that beings with human bodies can't eat (or just prefer not to), but that most animals eat that I could translate to human foods :D

worms = gummy worms :3 if you want them to be slimy like real worms, you could put water or a thin layer of oil on them

little insects = raisins

bigger insects = you could prob eat plain chips, I think it would have the same crunch affect. or chippers! (chocolate covered potato chips)

carrion (dead animal flesh) = jerky

raw meat = meat sticks (I believe you can get them in beef or turkey) or raw pepperoni (you can get it small bags)

mice = marshmallow mice (credits to @ink-man-sam )

kibble = cereal (I think most of you know that though)

treats = Scooby snacks!

Snacks:

Go-gurt (if you freeze them, they're really good!)

nut bars, such as Nutri grain or Kind (good protein/energy + tasty)

Chex mix

assorted nuts/trail mix

smoothies!

(i may be updating this a lot so keep in mind)

Have fun!

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@heislovey this is so you <333

Us being drawn to fucked up characters and relating to them hard;

Us, forming them;

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because the og post had reblog bait and really doesnt help people with ocd:

Depression Hotline: 1-630-482-9696

Suicide Hotline: 1-800-784-8433

LifeLine: 1-800-273-8255

Trevor Project: 1-866-488-7386

Sexuality Support: 1-800-246-7743

Eating Disorders Hotline: 1-847-831-3438

Rape and Sexual Assault: 1-800-656-4673

Grief Support: 1-650-321-5272

Runaway: 1-800-843-5200, 1-800-843-5678, 1-800-621-4000

Exhale: After Abortion Hotline/Pro-Voice: 1-866-4394253

If you ever want to talk: My tumblr ask is always open.

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"Narcissist doesn't mean a person with NPD, it means [insert sanist stereotype and/or a definition they pulled out of their ass to justify their belief in narcissistic abuse]"

Here's an idea! Use a word that actually means what you're trying to say. Try a dictionary. Or a thesaurus. They even put them online!

Narcissist means a person with NPD. It was stolen and twisted to mean "a person who is a jerk and self-centered", and now it's being twisted again to just mean abuser. Both of those definitions are wrong.

It's our word, keep your hands off it.

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Aroaces need this

Reblog if you believe Tumblr should add the aroace colors to the aroace hastag. Make this a trend to get their attention