"The time has come," the walrus said, "to talk of many things." Jesse, 35, nerd extraordinaire. Trans man, queer, anarcho feminist, gender-binary refusenik. Married to my best friend. Parenting a fantastic 2yo. My idea of flirting is "Do you eat? I do. Want to do it in the same room sometime?"
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I promise you can be a girl. You don’t need a spark of womanhood within you. You can be a girl
#I'm mentally posting this outside my supervisor's office#I'm IN HELL because I'm one of two trans people in the office and I think neither of us know how to have the egg conversation with our boss#the pastel hairdye! the tasteful pearl necklaces! I SEE YOU BUT I DON'T KNOW IF YOU WANT ME TO SAY SOMETHING!!!!
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That is STAINED GLASS!!!



On set with Jenna, don’t text.
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'I asked chat GPT-'
oh did you? You asked something that steals shit to lie to you about a subject? And you just tell me this like I care to know what it said? Like I wanted to know its opinion? I regularly ask my cat Cheesey Gordita Crunch about many subjects and I think I trust his judgement more than whatever bullshit ur shitty algorithm spat out
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Beautiful older woman at the party asks me why such a cute kitten like myself wears a collar despite having no master and I, in turn, ask her if she knows what a Ronin is.
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we need to be doing everything in our power to acquire and consume tiramisu
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3-Ingredient Peanut Sauce
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Is this how you roll?
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Ok, loves, so we've all got the message that joking about suicide is bad for your mental health. Now we need to get on "joking that the planet/all of humanity has no future" is bad for societal health/encouraging resistance to bad shit."
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[“Glennon Doyle: The dead mother thing just blew my mind, because we talk so much about motherhood and how that’s almost seen as a valorous thing, that if we just ignore ourselves. But you said … This just is amazing. The dead mother is somebody who is unavailable, depressed, emotionally absent. This is fascinating. You said, “When the child gives up on bringing their mother back to life, they will try to restore the connection through the renunciation of their own aliveness. They will meet the mother in her deadness by developing their own emotional deadness.”
Glennon Doyle: So are you saying if I can’t connect with my mom, because she’s just there physically but gone emotionally, when I finally give up on her, I will become dead with her, almost in solidarity. That’s the last hope for connection I have. I will be as dead as she is.
Dr. Galit Atlas: Yes.
Abby Wambach: Whoa.
Dr. Galit Atlas: Connection is the most important thing. You would do anything to connect. So if I want to meet you and you don’t come to me, then I’ll come to you. I’ll meet you where you are. That’s my hope. You see, again, we always go back to hope and to feeling safe. It’s much worse for me to be without you. So I’ll meet you no matter where you are. If you’re dead, I’m going to deaden myself and meet you there. We’re going to be dead together.
Glennon Doyle: So this is the idea … This is the Carl Jung. There’s no greater burden on a child than the unlived life of a parent, because if what we’re trying to do down is just be alive, then a dead parent almost requires our deadness.
Dr. Galit Atlas: Exactly right. A dead parent, if we need to connect with that parent and we don’t give up on them … We can give up on them and hypercompensate, and go somewhere else and become super alive. But I think usually when we’re young, we want to connect with a parent, and it’s exactly what you’re saying, we’re going to have to deaden ourselves and meet them there.”]
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I like when the bus stops directly in front of you out of the line of waiting people and opens its doors. Chosen by the dragon
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The Southwest and its wild horses 🐴 🖤🥲
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dont play defense
#trans#took me a long time but I LOVE being trans too!#i may never have met my son if I didn't have that built in reason to look into adoption#now my funny-shaped unusual body is also the vessel that brought me here to my family
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Free ebook download in the sidebar! This one particularly interesting/useful for learning about etymologies/derivations, because derivations are listed under their roots.
Btw if you know a more modern etymological dictionary, please tell me!
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i love the -with mama trend but sometimes i get sad because that is clearly papa and he aint getting any credit raising those darn kids...
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lest this be lost in the bellicose noise of the day
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🌻🌼🌷🌸🏵️🌹🌺💐🍀
Some flowers for anyone not feeling their best today
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THE ENTIRE WEST IS BEING PUT UP FOR SALE AND I AM BEGGING YOU TO CALL YOUR SENATORS

Trump’s budget bill has many, many things in it, but buried amongst it is the MILLIONS OF ACRES OF PUBLIC LAND FOR SALE.
This is the entirety of the Arizona state forests, the entire Cascades mountain range. Swathes of pristine desert around the national parks in Utah. On the doorstep of Jackson Hole.
THIS BILL IS BIG, BUT IT CAN BE AMENDED AND ABSOLUTELY MUST NOT PASS AS IS please.
If you have ever enjoyed the wilderness, we stand to lose it all forever.
CALLING your senators - NOT JUST IN THE WEST. ALL SENATORS, is CRUCIAL.
Outdoor alliance has a great resource for reaching out.
I don’t have a huge following but please, everywhere I have ever loved, the forests I grew up playing in, the land I got married on, is all at risk and I am begging.
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