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super not normal about non-sexual dominance like

making me hold his hand while crossing the road

ordering for me at restaurants

always keeping a hand on me, especially when we're out

grabbing my chin to make me look up at him

picking things for me when shopping

shushing me when i speak poorly about myself or say something bratty

patting my head and petting me whenever and wherever

there's more but just...idk it would make me feel so small and owned... ♡

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when he dropped a casual “good girl” mid convo 🫠🥴

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I want to make her more blank and obedient because I see how often her own thoughts lead her astray. Because when she's focused on what I do/say and obedience to me there are less anxieties in the world, she puts her brainpower towards what I tell her to and she finally gets to relax in that head of hers, being able to let go of her thoughts so I can drive and pilot her body and actions. It's not about me getting off, though that is an excellent perk that I also need, it's about providing her happiness and relief by giving up control and autonomy to me. No thinking, just obeying and feeling.

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u don’t understand i have to bite u

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I love the word needy. It's so simple but so powerful. Need to feel me owning you? Need to feel me using you for my desires? Need to feel my body and smell my scent? Need to lose yourself in the moment as I ravish you? Need to be utterly, obediently mine, blank and happy? But they're too shy to admit to these things out loud. So instead they just say... "needy." And it's up to the dom in their life to imbue that word with all its meaning.

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“look at me when i come inside you” 😵‍💫😵‍💫😵‍💫😵‍💫

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if a butch ever calls me "poor baby" in a condescending tone, i'm folding on sight. attitude gone. knees weak. suddenly so, so quiet.

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I am so horny

I've been craving the feeling of being full

To be fucked so hard that I can't think anymore

To be marked everywhere so that I can remember every little thing that happened

Fuck

This next play session is going to feel SO good

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dry humping where he’s on top of you and you can feel him against your core with every faux thrust and you’re both panting into each other’s mouths and it’s needier because you aren’t quite there he’s not actually inside you and you’re grabbing at his clothes and his hands are in your hair and he’s desperate and whining and

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normalize no-pressure sex where u just practice fucking n learning each other’s body n rhythms n idiosyncrasies n letting each other know what feels good n doesn't while discovering things u didn't know felt so good to u along the way

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Finders Keepers || Chiara Bautista

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"Let me take care of you"- god yes please, somebody fucking hold me already and stroke my hair ugghh my heart's gonna burst just thinking about someone's deep, unyielding affection for me

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want cuddle fuck while it's raining hard outside ugh

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being dominant about consent

“you will tell me if something makes you uncomfortable.”

“can I touch you here, sweetheart?”

“would you like me to think for you for a bit, smart girl?”

“i will always take care of you. you can put your trust in me.”

“tell me your color, or i will stop.”

“tell me with words, or i will stop”

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"kink doesn't exist in a vacuum and deserves to be interrogated" okay. I interrogated it. I understand that kink and sexuality are inseparable from the socio-cultural context(s) of individual people and populations. I'm still horny about it tho

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I need to be used SO badly.

I can only think about being manhandled. I can't focus on anything else.

I need to be fucked hard. I crave to be bruised and bitten. I want them to leave marks all over my body. I want to ache and feel sore from being used so thoroughly.