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Radqueers: This isn't harmful! No one in (xyz) community is saying it's harmful!!

People in said community: Hey that's harmful

Radqueers: IGNORE THEM IGNORE THEM I KNOW BETTER!

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@staff really needs to block the radqueer/rq tags. This is getting ridiculous.

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God it feels weird to try and do this but... With coughdrop no longer working for me at the moment, I really need money for either coughdrop's premium (295) or Avaz (200). I made an Amazon list with Google gift cards as my mom can see my cash app stuff and I would rather not try to explain how I suddenly got 200 dollars-

I don't rlly know how to prove this isn't a scam so yeah-

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we have endo-neu head mates. I won't put anyone in a group for not wanting to pick sides. endo-neu is better than nothing.

(ily endo neutrals out there :3)

I do LOVE seeing anti-endos upset that Simply Plural and Pluralkit are pro-endo.

I also love how they have to suck it up and use the pro-endo resources anyway because there are no anti-endo options.

Imagine getting a free resource that makes your life easier and all you can do is be miserable because it's built and funded by people who aren't bitter and hateful husks like you.

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some things I never expected to read in my lifetime.

I always feel weird around AMAB systems especially trans femme systems because CDDs effect women more

Shut the fuck up

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God it feels weird to try and do this but... With coughdrop no longer working for me at the moment, I really need money for either coughdrop's premium (295) or Avaz (200). I made an Amazon list with Google gift cards as my mom can see my cash app stuff and I would rather not try to explain how I suddenly got 200 dollars-

I don't rlly know how to prove this isn't a scam so yeah-

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If there are any systems out there that are uncomfortable using endo made sources, a good thing for logging members, journaling, and making safety plans is writelighthouse.com.

We do use simply plural just because it is more accessible to us and we do not find it uncomfortable to use endo made resources, but weitelighthouse.com is a great alternative, and from what the website and sources say the mobile app is in the works.

I do LOVE seeing anti-endos upset that Simply Plural and Pluralkit are pro-endo.

I also love how they have to suck it up and use the pro-endo resources anyway because there are no anti-endo options.

Imagine getting a free resource that makes your life easier and all you can do is be miserable because it's built and funded by people who aren't bitter and hateful husks like you.

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This is your daily reminder that system hopping is an endo manipulation tactic and a stolen term.

[ID: a screenshot of a Tumblr post reading System hoping with a friend group is the most chaotic thing that will happen to you and your friends. Then on a new line it reads 8/10 system friends recommend system hopping within your friend group. The tags read #plural gang #plurality #sysmeds dni #pro endo #endo safe #pro tulpa #tulpa safe #system hopping. End DNI]

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Please help!! It's -5°c and fucking freezing!!!

**URGENT: PLEASE READ/SIGNAL BOOST**

Saturday, December 2nd: Hello everyone, I’m Gemma, a bi, mentally ill, and disabled woman in desperate need of help, as things have gotten worse for me as it's snowing where I live and I'm struggling to keep my utilities on!!

As most of you are already aware from my previous posts, I have been struggling financially these past few years due to COVID-19 and my welfare benefit (Universal Credit) being under continuous reviews, which is due to my worsening mental/physical health and the UK’s controversial changes to how benefits are assessed and assigned. After a lengthy health assessment, I have been declared unfit for work.

To be quite honest, these past few months have been absolute hell for me, and with no other income, I've been relying on the kindness of others to get by. However, due to my outstanding debt, a majority of the welfare I received last month went to paying my rent and bills, leaving me with nothing to get groceries or keep my utilities on. It is also -5°c, snowing, and my utilities are in emergency credit.

If anyone could spare any amount to help me, it would save my life, and sharing definitely helps just as much as donations. Thank you 🩷

£21.24/£100!!!

Please boost: @thebibliosphere @shencomix @susiephone @yekkes @shesnake @lafemmemacabre @deliciouspirategod @regicide1997 @nbblacksheep @the-eldritch-it-gay @rslashrats @kibumkim @womenandhorror @pileofknives @yazsha @omegaverse

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There’s a lot of trolls out there. Everyone always says not to feed them, but another great option is burying them :)

Let’s have some positivity! Shout out to all the systems out there who are fighting for conversation over harassment, and trying to make system spaces safer and more research based. You’re my heroes 😍

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Yes to the message, no to the tags.

[ID: a screenshot of two of the tags in the post above reading #anti self dx and #anti self diagnosis. End ID]

If you shift personalities according to the situation it's actually a very normal thing to do and you shouldn't medicalize it and call it DID.

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radqueers when I say "you know you can have atypical dysphoria without using harmful terms or pretending to be a nazi" : "YOUR ACCEPTANCE IS CONDITIONAL. YOU HATE US. YOU ARE TERRIBLE."

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hi I'm so sorry I didn't see the text below and I voted different option (I am non-reliably speaking) we have head mates that can't speak at all (I'm on of them) idk if that count just thought I'd apologize I wouldn't have voted if I saw that first

Fellow folks of tumblr who cant talk !!

Pls dont vote if ur inability to speak isnt permeant !! And pls feel free to give your reasonings in the rbs :D

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I have genuinely no fucking clue what this means....

wtf is the "sysmed thought process"??

If you’re anti endo you’re indulging in the sysmed thought process

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“why does tumblr keep banning rq accounts guys?????”

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I know (from experience) that the best way to get an account termed is reporting for suicide or self harm concern. (what I mean from experience is I had a vent account and it got termed for multiple people reporting me under that)

do with that information as you please.

Step-by-step: Let's report a radqueer for inciting violence

This is a tutorial on reporting. Don't find this user, don't contact them, don't harass them, etc - I am showing how you should report these posts instead. Content warnings: Radqueers, murder, torture

Here is our post in question:

"transtorturemurderer: a transharmful term for one who wishes to or identifies as having commited torture murder"

Archive the post.

Report the post to Tumblr.

Block the blog and everyone in the notes of the post.

Tutorial on each step is under the cut:

Archive The Post

When a radqueer advocates for violence, child abuse, animal abuse, abuse of a corpse or actual CSAM material, it's very important that you archive the post. Saving evidence of radqueers promoting harm is important, especially if this user later comes back after their account is removed.

(It is important to note that I am specifically saying "advocates for" as in in real life. If a radqueer coining post doesn't specify, it can be reported to Tumblr as IRL. I'm noting "IRL" here because so many people think that fictional child sexual abuse material (and similar things) are perfectly fine, although I would like to note that I do not support/endorse "fictional CSAM" and it is recognized as being equally harmful to IRL CSAM/CP by places like MissingKids.com (organizations dedicated to stopping child abuse). But I'm not dedicating this space to arguing about that - Do not derail this post by arguing with me about this. This is a tutorial for something specific.)

You have two main options for archiving:

Archive.Org

Archive.Today

I tend to use both archivers, but if you only want to use one I suggest Archive.Today. Open the main page and copy-paste the URL of the RQ post into the field. Press enter, and it will store an archived version of the post. (Sometimes this takes longer than other times, this is based on how many people are using the site at once.)

If you plan to do a lot of reporting, install the Firefox extensions for Archive.Today and Archive.Org, they let you archive your current page with one click.

If a page has been archived before, you get this message. If it looks like a post has been edited or there are new replies in the notes from radqueers encouraging it, I suggest archiving it again.

Now you've got your updated archived URL. Hold onto this URL.

Report Them To Tumblr

You'll need to view the post in dashboard view if they have a custom theme. Custom theme URLS go like blogname.tumblr.com, and dashboard view is tumblr.com/blogname/post122121212121212121.

Once in dashboard view, click the hamburger menu (the three dots), and you'll see the red option that says "Report blogname."

This takes you to a basic categories menu. Select "Report something else."

That takes you to a sub menu which lets you pick from the following options:

Copyright violation

Trademark violation

Harm to minors

Privacy violation

Impersonation or Non-Genuine Behavior

Suicide or self-harm concern

Hate speech violation

Suspected terrorism

Sexually explicit material

Gore, mutilation, or bestiality

Violent content or threat

I’m being harassed

Unlawful uses or content

Spam

Election Integrity

I bolded the options which radqueer posts will most likely fall into. For the post I'm reporting, I am selecting "Violent content or threat."

You'll enter Tumblr's permalink (the post url), enter a name, your email, solve a captcha and most importantly describe how it violates Tumblr's Community Guidelines. Since I'm reporting this for violence, let's go right to the Community Guidelines on Tumblr:

What Tumblr is not for: Violent Content and Threats, Gore and Mutilation. Don't post content which includes violent threats toward individuals or groups - this includes threats of theft, property damage, or financial harm. Don't post violent content or gore just to be shocking. Don't showcase the mutilation or torture of human beings, animals (including bestiality), or their remains. Don't post content that encourages or incites violence, or glorifies acts of violence or the perpetrators.

You can use the way a website's phrased their guidelines as a sort of base for writing your report. However, on Tumblr remember that it needs to be fairly short because there's a character limit. So, questions to answer:

Does this include violent threats towards a person or group? Is this a label/"pride flag" about committing violence against a person or group?

Does this encourage violence - is it telling people to commit acts of violence?

Is it glorifying acts of violence or their perpetrators?

In this example, this is a pride flag, which denotes pride, and it says "one who wishes to or identifies as having commited torture murder" That is reasonable enough cause to call this post glorifying violence. So, here's what I'm saying in my report: (Changed phrasing slightly from the screenshot above)

This user is posting "pride flags" for people who "identify as" and "wish to" into murderers and other violent perpetrators. In this post, they made a "transorturemurderer" pride flag, for people who wish to commit torture murder. This is very concerning, this blog seems to be completely serious. Please take this blog and other radqueer blogs down.

If a user has many posts right on their blog that violate the Community Guidelines, you can say something akin to "More examples: (Link)" and link to the archived post/s.

Once you're satisfied with your report, you can click submit and Tumblr will say "Got it" and let you know it was received.

Block the blog and everyone in the notes

If you still have the post open, quickly go through the notes and block everyone interacting positively. (Don't spend time looking at these blogs, it will likely be upsetting/disturbing)

Closing Notes

I could've phrased the part about removing other radqueer blogs better. My reason for adding that is that I want Tumblr to start becoming aware of what radqueers post. I believe firmly that once enough people report radqueers for their content, Tumblr might respond to future petitions or requests to ban all radqueer content.

Don't reply to radqueer posts. Don't reply to radqueer posts. This can be tempting, but I don't think it's a good idea. Even if you've got good intentions or make some great points, radqueers like to screenshot anti radqueer posts and post them as examples of "antis harassing them". Your post could even be shown to someone who is questioning being radqueer, grooming them into the community with a sort of "Look! See? All of those mean antis will never accept you, all they do is harass people for disagreements!" air.

I'm autistic and can't read tone well, and I also have OCD that makes me overexplain my intentions. If parts of this post were hard to read, please help me make them shorter.

Tagging some relevant blogs for visibility and critique on this post: @anti-radqueer-zone @radqueer-repellant @radq-blocklist @antiradqueer

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If you ever say "radqueers aren't pro-contact or pro-abuse", I don't believe or trust you.

The term was literally coined to be pro-contact, the first ever coiner of radqueer believes you can sexually assault babies and it'd be fine. (Link, tw for rape, xenosatanism, abuse and pro-c pedophilia)

There are people in that community who genuinely, actually believe that animals can consent to sexual intercourse, there are people in that community behind closed doors encouraging minors to sell nsfw content of themselves (i was one of those minors.)

I have seen what goes on in their private servers, the abuse, the suicide encouragement, the encouragement of "map4aam relationships" (aka grooming, call it what it is), there is no "anti-abuse" radqueer, because they stand for an ideaology that is inherently pro-abuse, there is no way to be pro-contact for harmful paraphilias while being anti-abuse.

And for all the radqueers stalking my blog, go read that link i provided, and tell me again how radqueer is anti-contact, tell me again how nobody was ever traumatized by radqueers.