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slightly-gay-pogohammer · 2 years ago
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he stands like a danganronpa character
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vulcansforbiddenforge · 4 months ago
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Good evening everyone. I have a feeling few here would remember me as it has been quite a long time.
I am an inventor of sorts, You figure the way to me anonymously, and you either get the blueprints or the invention you wish for. I have been offering this for years now on and off, and while I am active, I may even take commissions.
Perhaps that is a bit... simplified however one of the costs happens to involve obeying my rules with the invention. If not you may have a *nasty* surprise in store. I do not care who gets my inventions for the most part but my rules are final
I find myself busy most of the day, i do not have the time to maintain most of this alone, so i have brought Daisy along, my Digital assistant. She will talk when i am unavailable.
>>Hello!! I am Daisy! A digital assistant to help Mx. Vulcan's commissions and orders in order! I love interacting with new people! :D
>>Right! I am to tell you all Mx. Vulcan's Rules for ordering! (LAST UPDATED APRIL 11, 2025) Ahem
Rule 1: Ordering from us is saying you are Unaffiliated with the International Police, UPD, Lysandre, Malva, Ghetsis Harmonia, an Active team flare or an Active Team Plasma, Neo or otherwise. If you are to order and our invention ends up in the hands of one of these members without intending it, please inform us so we may remove it from their care remotely.
Rule 2. Ecological warfare and destruction of conservation areas and certain cities are forbidden. We will not remote detonate in this case, but is very likely your device will be disabled as long as you are in the forbidden zones.
Rule 3. Any crimes committed with our products are at the fault of the person who wields them. You are encouraged to even claim the craftsmanship as your own, as you are the only one to be held liable. We are a neutral party.
If our rules are violated, you will find your product may no longer work, and you will be placed on our do not sell list. You will not be removed if it is not an intentional break, like the product being stolen, but you will be warned to be more careful.
We also do NOT deal in pokemon or experiments on them. Any experimental procedure doccumented here is not for sale and are performed for quality of life purposes of domesticated and or wild pokemon and will not harm them.
<<Right... There we go!!
*Vulcansforbiddenforge blocklist(private)*
@/Cryogonalsmelody
@/ArkofLove
@/team-Skull-Unova
@/Teamgaia
Hello everyone! I'm Honey / @lalunearts , the blogrunner for @teamgaia @cryogonalsmelody and @arkoflove with another blog! blog runner and Vulcan are 18+ so expect the occasional nsfw post which will likely have a content label and the #Suggestive or #Nsfw tag.
Also i post about my ocs on @lalunes-pokestory-zone hopefully
Right off the bat to say this is Kelsey under a pseudonym and many walls of protection. However no one in universe is aware of this, as Kelsey has kept it under wraps for years only opening things up occasionally when things get unreasonably tight money wise. However when referring to Vulcan please use They/Them.
I want to explore Kelsey's more grey side of her moral compass, as i haven't gotten to do that yet, and I did not feel like i could explore that on the main Gaia blog without disturbing Rosalei. And i wanted to interact with Villains more with Kelsey in particular.
While Vulcan themself is mostly low stakes, they can participate in high stakes and provide things for your High Stakes events if you choose.
In Character hate is on however considering Vulcan is a mostly faceless entity you'd just be tormenting Daisy.
Pelipper mail and Union circle are Client exclusive for cash purposes+Unovan only for Union circle.
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inactivewattpadauthor · 1 year ago
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💙My Tumblr Page! (updated 3/15/25)💙
It seems I'm a lot more on Tumblr since it's active way more than Wattpad, so how about we go over this page's expectations? :D
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⚠️Warnings:
Most of my work does contain profanity.
I do write smut here and there. Sometimes simple. Sometimes freaky.
Perhaps I'm insecure, but sometimes my plots are either cringe and/or inaccurate.
I do angst.
Obviously gore because Mortal Kombat...
I'll give the warnings within the oneshot.
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💎 I Personally Do Not Care Who's On My Page
I don't care who interacts with my content as long as there isn't a problem. I will not be wasting time checking profiles unless needed.
If you're a minor and you see one of my posts titled "Lemon/Smut", please don't get me in trouble and scroll on to one of my safe posts.
Free Warning: I wish to keep an empty blocklist, but if I find one of my readers are associated in the wrong group (racism, pedophilia, homophobia, other obvious vile shit), I will block you.
I want my author life to be filled with lovely lives and peace.
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✖️As of July 2024, NO REQUESTS
It is a very low chance I may decide to do requests later, I will notify if so.
It would be a shame if I lost interest in MK again and let down everyone.
Or simply don't know how to write something. I don't need the pressure.
Feel free to give me ideas, but don't full on expect me to do them.
Or if you still try and order me to do a request, that's cool, you'll purposely be left on read.
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📝Writing Style
I am the One-shot Onceler. Majority of my work is one-shots.
For years, I've always wrote the reader as a female. That will not change.
I use Y/n too.
For smut, I'll try to stop being shy and write more spicy shit other than simple sex.
They'll mostly be Nightwolf and Fujin since I'm too down bad astronomically for them.
Like stated earlier, not all the time will my plots be accurate to the canon.
I haven't touched MK1's story and I don't like MKX, so everything is MK11.
And for those who may like the Akatsuki from Naruto, I have a discontinued book that reached 200k on Wattpad if you'd like to check it out. :)
Follow #goddesswritings, my personal tag here.
Criticism is appreciated, just don't be disrespectful.
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😘Blah, Blah, Bout me...
I prefer keeping my tumblr/wattpad life separate from my other social media + personal life.
I don't mind any questions on me irl as long as they're not too personal.
And I certainly don't want my family and friends to see the shit I be writing here.
But I'm not stopping anyone from dming me or writing in my inbox, the latter makes me happy a lil.
I'm completely open to discussing mk things or headcanon ideas
Don't spam pls.
Any questions? Don't be shy!🤠
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wincesthaters · 9 months ago
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hey dude, I say this with no ill intent but genuinely what is the point of making a blog just to hate a ship? Wouldn't it be better for your peace of mind to just ignore all us wincesties?
i made this blog when i was 16 and much more interested in arguing with people online. i am now 24 years old and have not been posted anything on here for three years, and was barely active for years before that. i have a blocklist that probably numbers into the thousands, many of which are wincesties, and yes, its more peaceful for me like that. i run a supernatural blog that focuses on everything i do like about the show--destiel, cas, etc, and i just generally dont think about wincest anymore. i guess i could delete this blog, but tbh i have an aversion to deleting most things. its up for archival purposes mostly.
so yeah, for anyone reading this, its better to just block and move on, complain to your friends in private if you have to, and whatever you do, do not EVER make a discourse blog. that is the actual devil talking
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callmearcturus · 2 years ago
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worth mentioning to everyone like "why the fuck is arc playing a longass JRPG"
it is working to fix my brain lmao. for like... over a month, i've just had no creative drive, no urge to read new stuff, just in a state of Extreme Blah, right
but i'm getting to the point where i'm in i think the last 10 to 15 hours of P3P and my brain is FINALLY like "hrm..... maybe..... we wanna write again?"
so like. i picked a long intense JRPG on purpose, like..... people say that to be a writer you have to read voraciously.
i don't. i'm a bad person. i just don't read many books. it's the ADHD mostly, I have a lot of trouble focusing on them. i had some success with audiobooks but even then i get distracted. (i'm much better at narrative podcasts, i think because the serialized nature.)
ANYWAY my point is, i voraciously consume OTHER media instead. and no joke i have... learned a trick or two from P3P, which is a nice bonus.
but yeah i dunno if I'll be able to continue into another persona game after this but I'm hoping it fixes my brain so i can write again. 8)
(also if i do continue into another persona game, i may do The Unthinkable and make a sideblog. though I personally hate sideblogs bc my blocklist on this account is thousands of accounts long and I don't have an easy way to mirror that to a side blog. 8C )
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synthy-sizer · 3 years ago
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You sit down in your chair and pull it up to your DESK. Your eyes adjusting to the harsh light, you begin to examine your TABS. They are pulled up in a window on your DESKTOP. There are many applications, but the most important is probably your INSTANT MESSENGER. You should check your tabs and remind yourself where you were on your search.
Look at your desk>
Your desk is large, but quite cluttered. Atop your wide and previously spacious desktop lies your computer, as well as the essential interfacing tools, namely a KEYBOARD AND MOUSE. A HAM RADIO TRANSCEIVER sits to the side. Just above your computer monitor is another shelf, upon which sit several ANALOG TELEVISIONS. To the left is a shelf that would normally house an external PC, but you needed far more power than just one. To the right sits several DRAWERS. The computer hums.
Look at your keyboard and mouse>
These interfacing tools are hardly the first you’ve owned. The originals were worn down quite quickly, and you have replaced them many times. It’s hard to remember what number these are.
Look at your radio transceiver>
The transceiver sits to the side, a set of headphones and a microphone nearby. HAM radio is normally a short-range method of communication, but by equipping it to an external antenna and extending its range, one can communicate with people all across the planet. At night, the planet’s electromagnetic field gets closer to the surface, allowing you to listen to ever more. It’s as if the very Earth was made for this purpose. 
Look at televisions>
You are hardly a fan of TV, but television receivers are good for more than watching whatever trash is on these days. The monitors, although currently off, are useful for capturing broadcasts; things that, although many people cannot see, you can, and must.
Look at your drawers>
Although what is inside your drawers is important, it isn’t important right now. After all, even if it was more important than your hunt, you would need to unlock it first. 
Examine your desktop>
Your desktop is cluttered. You used to have all of your files sorted neatly, but much like the notes on your wall the sheer volume of important information has necessitated a certain amount of disarray. FILES of all kinds are strewn about, mostly of images and short notepad notes.
Look at your files>
You peruse a number of the files present on your desktop, sifting through images. Most are photos you have gathered from less than savory sources, deep within the underbelly of the Web. They can be gruesome, but carry valuable intel. 
You likewise skim through short notes you have left yourself or copied from others. It can be hard to be sure if what your contacts say is true, but what you have verified so far seems to align. After all, would a servant of God lie to you?
Check your instant messenger>
You double-click your instant messenger application, and after a short boot-up sequence it opens, displaying your chat history and various CONTACTS. Your BLOCKLIST is also available to the side. 
Check contacts>
You have several friends on this messenger, and all are valuable people you have met online, in the dark web. These people share your vision, and understand what it is you are searching for. They have provided you with a fair share of information to help you along your way. They are invaluable resources.
Check blocklist>
You would rather not. After all, you blocked them for a reason. And to think they claimed to be your friends and family, after denying the virtuosity of your mission, and the undeniability of the truth!
Check your tabs>
You sift through your tabs, reminding yourself where you were last. You see dozens of dark web sites with shady, impossible-to-remember URLs, most likely all made by individual people, some of whom you were lucky enough to make contact with. The sites are poorly made, with only the most rudimentary of HTML knowledge powering them. You don’t judge, however. The poorly-constructed nature of these websites only serves to show the dedication people have to their shared purpose, such that they sought to spread the word even without the means to do so properly. You can’t help but smile. As you finish sifting through the dozens of webpages you have open, the FINAL ONE catches your eye.
Check the last tab>
This website is one you found upon recommendation of a contact in your instant messenger. It contains the first-person accounts of someone much like yourself, digging through the invisible world for inklings of something greater. They call themselves SiderealPeon. You scan through the website, an eye-melting blend of neon blue text on a black background through their latest post.
“Eden is real. It took me months to verify, but I finally found it today. The page is locked, though. It may be possible to access it, but at the moment I lack the tools. It isn’t my place to say where to find it, but if you’re worthy then I’m sure you can solve the puzzle too. All I can say is that the key lies in Genesis.”
At that very moment, a light tone plays and one of your tabs flashes. It would seem one of your friends has left you a message.
Check your messenger>
NEXT
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flightfoot · 3 years ago
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Problem with saltdom, whoever they salting or staning, is at their mindset to project their own insecurity or issue to the character they stanning. Like for the toxic mari Stan it's clear that they don't see problem from Mari view but from their own view. "Oh look Ayla isn't believing on mari what kind of friends is that??' or "how dare he told Mari to do high road, bully need to be fight back!" And while we as normal audience can see that Mari is FINE and Adrien advice is WORKED they don't want to care about it, they only care for the feeling they project into mari the hurt and betrayal...even though there's none of that.
I rarely see Mari salters though because most of the time I see Mari salt it's mostly centered on a little complain of what she did that even Tikki already called Mari out in universe, her pushing chat away in s4, call her a stalker or groupies, her throwing chat to the bin, etc. All in all most of the salt is pretty reasonable, none of that demonize her. I never even see people or blog dedicating themselves to list out Mari Stan blog to block or entire section of story being created in responses to what Mari did to Alya or adrien.
As much as it's good to have less salt it's also scream a dual standard. Like "Mari tell Alya her identity is fine she need it" but when Ayla tell Nino it's "instant betrayal, she doesn't desever her miraculous!!" And it's shown their bias and everything.
Yep, pretty much. And to some extent, I get the whole "looking at it from your own outside point of view, not considering how the character themselves view the situation" approach. That is normal and fine... to an extent. It's when it gets into endless revenge fantasies and the actual concept of what happened gets distorted and lost, that it goes beyond any sense of reason or sanity. And yeah most of it seems to be feeding this sense of betrayal and persecution, while ignoring the actual circumstances in the show.
I've noticed the difference between Marinette salt and Alya/Adrien salt, yeah. Marinette gets salt, no doubt, but it's usually people complaining about stuff that actually happened in the show at least, and IS mostly just complaints. And people aren't as dedicated towards their hate towards Marinette, in general. Like you said, there aren't entire sub-fandoms dedicated to revenge fics towards her - I've been reading through the ML AO3 page daily for years now, I can count on one hand the number of fics I've seen that portray her as a monster who deserves to purposely have suffering and harm inflicted on her - and I've never seen or even heard about people circulating blocklists for people who simply "like Marinette", unlike what's happened with Adrien (haven't heard about it happening with Alya, but it wouldn't surprise me).
And yeah, it's good overall that the salt is less nasty towards Marinette than it is towards Alya and Adrien, since that nastiness is awful regardless, but it does still rankle pretty badly, and builds resentment towards Marinette.
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hellroots · 4 years ago
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『 MOBILE FRIENDLY RULES 』
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— here you will find my rules or can also find them on my gdocs as well once i’m done with it. please like this if you read it, but otherwise don’t interact with this post, thank you. rest assured that i always read my moots rules before following and that i fully expect the same courtesy. i tried not to let them get too long but feel free to ask me anything you wanna know about them if it’s not clear ok?
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 『 THE MUN』
NOXTROMUN, THEY/THEM, 21+, BRAZILIAN
shy but friendly ! i don't follow for follow, if i follow you that means i've read your rules and want to write with you. i have no triggers nor squicks of my own except drama in the dash, for that reason i do not engage in callouts/witch hunts and if you do it on a constant basis i might have to hard block you for my own peace of mind. although i may come off too strong/harsh, i am always up to talking things out privately. as long as you are civil, so am i. any form of hate will be deleted and blocked -  sometimes mocked, if i’m feeling cocky…
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『 THE BLOG』
HELLROOTS, INDIE ( POTENTIALLY TRIGGERING AND NOT MINOR FRIENDLY ), HIGHLY SELECTIVE & PRIVATE MULTIFANDOM MULTIMUSE
primarily run on a low activity \ effort and with a slow speed.. my muselist changes a lot, depends a lot on what i’m watching lately so bear with me please. this is a drama free zone, therefore do realise that mun ≠ muses and (obviously) writing ≠ condoning !! as a quick note, do keep in mind that my blog is my safe space, just as your blog is yours - you are responsible for your own internet experience just as i am responsible for mine. should anything in my blog annoy/trigger/squick you, i strongly encourage you to block me & not write with me - your mental health is far more important ( for me, and hopefully for you as well ) than rp. on that note, please do not softblock me - that’s annoying, just hardblock please.
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『 THE TRIGGERS』
TRIGGER HEAVY, PROPERLY TAGGED AND TAKING NO CRAP
i  usually  tend to write for trigger heavy fandoms (such as asoiaf, kingdom and others) and may incorporate some of it into my writing, muses' backgrounds and overall characterization. if you're bothered \ squicked \ triggered by that, i kindly encourage you to reconsider and not follow me. no amount of rp fun is worth your mental health.  i try to tag everything accordingly and i fully expect the same courtesy for our followers' sakes. be aware that there may be mentions of death, gore, violence, consanguinamory \ endogamy (especially when it comes to the lannisters and kekkei genkai clans), rape ( kingdom, though it will only be mentioned on the character’s backstory ) and cannibalism ( hannibal and kingdom ) , as well as unhealthy relationships and dynamics alongside with powerplay, and otherwise bad behaviours.  for all that is sacred, please, do note that i, the mun, do not approve, support or condone any of these actions or behaviours !!  i simply am capable of separating fiction from reality. as long as everything is properly tagged, with mutual consent and there are no minors involved (muse and especially not muns), . i support the right of a consenting adult to explore these awful dark topics in a safe fictional environment with other like minded consenting adults, people shouldn’t have to share their traumas to strangers on the internet to explain why they write what they write, be considerate. if that notion bothers you perhaps you might not want to interact with me, for both of ours sakes. fair warning, most of my graphics and aesthetics might trigger those who have xylophobia/hylophobia (phobia of trees or wooded areas), and considering it is a main theme here i will not be tagging it, i'm sorry. but its too many. however, if you want me to create a special tag for you, there's no issue! it will be either "[your mun name] don't look!" or "[your url] don't look!", whichever you prefer. QUICK EDIT/ADDITION: i do not believe that aging up fictional characters is inherently a bad thing - from what i understand, the whole appeal of aging up a character is that while you like their personality but you do not want them to be kids (for whatever reason) but insteasd adults. if you are one of those who think that aging up a character is automatically something bad (without even knowing why it was done in the first place) don’t bother following me because i do think that opinion is quite silly.
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『 THE INTERACTIONS』
OC, DUPLICATE, MULTIMUSE AND CANON DIVERGENT FRIENDLY
my tagging system is simple, i tag triggers as "tw; x" and . images that may be sensitive or triggering as "cw; x". you can further see how my tags work by taking a look at my tag dump post, just search ‘tag dump’ on my blog and you will find the most recent one i’m using.    i shitpost and talk oocly on the dash constantly but you can easily blacklist my tag if it bothers you.  here's something you should know about me:  when i'm doing drafts i usually don't feel like chatting much, so please do not spam me because i won't be able to reply, i love to talk with my moots but sometimes it overwhelms me.  on that note, please don't pester me for replies ic or ooc, i am slow and chances are that if you try to guilt trip me or just nag me about it i'll leave as the ones i'll get to in the later end on purpose, just out of spite. yes, i be like that.   please be patient - i’ll never pressure you and expect the same in return.  plotting wise: i prefer to just wing it with just a faint idea of where to take the thread but honestly i'm cool with anything. please be considerate when formatting your replies, i have a bad eyesight & if i can't read it, i won't bother with it.   my own formatting is simple and clean.   on a smaller note, please bear with me and my muses as my muses ramble a lot but you don't have to match the length, just give me something to work with. if we write together, the chances of me making edits/tagging you in stuff are really big, just lmk if you don’t like that though !
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『 THE FLEET』
MOSTLY BI/PAN MUSES, MULTISHIP AND MULTIVERSE, SMUT FRIENDLY
i love shipping but i like my ships to be devices to move the plot/dynamics/muses forward, every once in a while though i partake in some much loved self indulgent shipping. just because i ship a certain pairing don't presume that my characters are approaching yours with second intentions, please.   most of the time i like to reblog those relationship memes, so if you’re interested in a ship the best way (other than  sending me a message ofc) to let me know is by sending ones. there will be some triggering ships here ( like the lannisters, both cersei x jaime and joanna x tywin are my otps, and potential inter clan ships, like with the hyugas - i mean how the hell you think they keep the byakugan in their family?? ) that may either be played with trusted friends or be mentioned/reblogged sometimes, all properly tagged so you can easily blocklist/avoid it.  most of my muses are either bi or pan, those who are not will be specified. don't be afraid to reach out to me for shipping right off the bat - i'd rather have you to be open and honest with me about the interactions you want than lying to me, just know that there will be needed some plotting and threading first to see if your muses match. as an adult, my blog is smut friendly, i partake in sexual sunday a lot because some of my muses are very lewd in nature, you can blacklist my tag if that bothers you as well.
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『 THE FINAL NOTES』
GENERAL RP ETIQUETTE APPLIES, CREDITS, THANK YOU FOR READING MY RULES
lastly but not least, general rp etiquette applies on my blog: no godmodding, forced ships, etc. there’s only ONE thing that truly makes me go apeshit crazy, and it’s when people don’t read my rules. i ALWAYS find out and it’s not pretty; i block it like it’s hot, ♪ ♫ ♬ block it like it’s hot ♪ ♫ ♬.   i strongly assure you that i always read your rules before both following you and also before sending memes, just in case. on a much smaller note, i’m not so hot on single shipping and i really feel weirded out about people forcing me to pic who i’m going to interact with due to theirs DNI’s. while i get DNI’s when it comes to actual predators, when it’s something seemingly random chances are that i’ll softblock you because it weirds me out how volatile some can be when it comes to a hobby. i have some trigger heavy hcs ( for example, the one about jiraiya’s hypersexuality being rooted in trauma that he suffered at a young age ) that i share with only a few muns that are closer with me, so i’ll be mentioning them every once in a while but won’t share them, please don’t insist.  i don’t really like most of the main characters of the franchises i write for, and when it comes to certain characters  i reserve the right to decline an rp for my own comfort. for further info on what i use to make my graphics please check my “CREDITS.” tag.  most of my stuff is made by me, i’ve got a lowkey rph in case you wanna check it out it’s @brazucahelps, however if you want a custom content i can see if i get a free time to come up with something :D
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 IF YOU READ THIS FAR, THANK YOU SO MUCH — JUST ONE LAST THING, COULD YOU PLS LIKE THIS SO I KNOW YOU’VE READ IT? <3 THANKS!
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heres-your-terf-blocklist · 4 years ago
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I've found myself going down a few rabbit holes with my block button at the ready recently, so I decided to put my growing blocklist to good use!
Just a few things about this blog:
This is a side blog, and I will not be linking to my main. I would prefer to remain as anonymous as possible, because
I realize I will probably get some transphobic bigots coming after me trying to defend themselves/their ilk. Bring it on, sweetie. You'll either get my rage and/or the boot 🥾
Just in case y'all aren't comfortable with me being completely faceless: call me Anti-terf Atty, I am fem (she/her), bi, American, a biology major (believe me, science actually backs up inclusivity), and am ready to give transphobes the aforementioned boot 🥾
I will be accepting (via asks, anons are on) any blogs that you know/suspect are transphobes.
I am following some of the common terf tags on here (*blegh*), for blocking purposes, so I should be able to find most of them (maybe even some of their main blogs, hehe).
When I make a post about a blog, I will do my best to find either a recent terfy post on the blog, or a popular post of theirs that spews their crap, as well as any hints/dogwhistles from their blog title and/or description. So you have receipts. (Keep that in mind if you send me a blog. If you can link to something terfy of theirs, I'd appreciate the help.)
Something to keep in mind:
I do not condone anyone who attacks or bullies others, including the people that I list on this blog, especially on my behalf. I make a point of not making verbal attacks against the users I post about. It is not my intention to hurt them back, nor do I encourage anyone to do so in my stead. The point of this blog is to provide you a quick and handy place to help you figure out users you should block and avoid.
Other than that, I guess, feel free to ask questions if you'd like, but this is mostly just gonna be what blogs they are and why I have them blocked.
Navigation notes!
(*Yeah, that was uncalled for.*) - Some commentary from me, not part of the actual calling out. Essentially, me talking to myself, or behind my hand to you.
(Here's what I found out.) - A bit of clarification, definitions, that sort of thing.
#atty speaks - I'm saying stuff, obviously. Not necessarily a callout
#atty answers - asks
#atty updates - non-blocklist related things (taking a break, amendments to schedule, etc)
#atty loves science and hates when people use it for bigotry - me explaining scientific concepts, calling out when terfs do science wrong (*which they do. A lot*)
#here's your terf blocklist - a new addition to the blocklist
#atty with the receipts - when I have evidence for adding someone to the blocklist
I do tag users by url (@terfblocker95) in the tags. When answering asks (with who asked if available), and when adding to the blocklist. Just an fyi there.
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hoardofhyperfixations · 5 years ago
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I've seen some stuff about this, I just want to clarify somethings to you pro-shippers (yes I'm an anti, please don't interact with me or my blog unless you need to talk to me).
Yes, I run an anti remrom Discord server.
Let me clarify a few things:
I did not make the server out of hate. I was tired of posting about remrom on my blog and needed a better place to vent my feelings, both because I didn't want to have to defend myself from pro-shippers and because I know it made some people who follow me uncomfortable.
The server is not a place where we hate on pro-shippers. We use it to make blocklists and vent without bothering pro-shippers or people who don't want to see it. It's a positive space and the only negative stuff that's happened in it is because a pro-shipper purposely joined to "see if we were harassing people" (we weren't but they didn't leave even afterwards, I had to ban them).
It's a safe space for people to vent, mostly, so it's really upsetting to see people upset about it's existence. You complain about antis harassing pro-shippers, then when I make a place for them to express those negative feelings without hurting anyone, you criticize and make fun of it.
I don't like anyone getting harassed regardless of their stance on things, but I definitely don't want anyone being harassed over a ship.
However, you've got to understand why it's upsetting to hear that people are upset that this server exists.
Please understand that I didn't make a server to make fun of you, I made a server for people to vent and make blocklists.
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all4hopes · 5 years ago
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—How I Run My Blog!
since literally EVERYONE is doing this, I’m gonna do it too.
Speed It depends on my mood! I’d say I’m a pretty quick roleplayer, usually with in say 2-4 days ( or within the very same day if I’m on a roll ) of a reply but sometimes I forget or I’m not feeling too good and then I feel bad. Of course I know I literally cannot be on tumblr 24/7 or sometimes don’t have muse but y’know.
Anxiety,,,, :)
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I do it all. One liners, multi para, novella! And it’s totally alright if I write A Big Thing and my partner’s reply as shorter. As long as I have enough to work with, it’s not a problem in the slightest. I usually write crack, action, fluff and angst. I don’t touch smut ever. I am a legal adult, yeah, but that kinda crud is nasty to me and I never wanna have it in a thread.
I only format w/ small text and ocassional bold & italics. I don’t make my text extra tiny and whatever else aesthetic stuff people use. I get it, it looks nice, and I’m not gonna hate on your blog’s aesthetics  but that can do some eyestrain. I don’t want people to get migraines or have to get extensions to read what I’ve slapped on the table, because roleplaying is ALL ABOUT reading.
Starter
How to???? No seriously, how???? I do post starter calls but I have a hard time setting scenes. I mean, I still post starters and I assume they work fine for most people but I always worry if what I’ve thrown out there makes no sense.  I can imagine two characters getting along and whatnot, but WHY would they meet? WHERE? The purpose? That’s kinda hard for me to describe?
Inbox
p l e a s e. I love it when I get asks. The ask box is always open and I’m always accepting unprompted asks. You don’t have to send in memes, although memes are encouraged. Honestly, I take all kinds of inbox material. As long as you’re not anon hating anyone, we cool.
Sometimes I do inbox calls if I wanna boost some muse.
Selectivity
I honestly don’t know, I say I’m semi-selective with mutuals taking priority because I do wanna give chances but I don’t want to have encounters with nasty people. I’m mostly in the nintendo/sega fandoms so I’m more likely to follow back if someone’s muse is in a fandom I’m aware of.
A person gets an instant unfollow and or block if they break my rules repeatedly, are on a blocklist, have problematic values or are just generally rude to me and my friends.
Please read the rules, everyone. They’re there for a reason!
Wishlist
ok give me fluff with Peach, Geno and Mallow
I want Mallow interacting with the smash people because gosh darn it he thinks they’re cool
Also more threads with my smrpg characters & Mario in general
PLEASE LET ME USE THE TOY MINI MARIO TO CHEER YOUR MUSE UP I AM BEGGING....
I want my muses that have smash verses to interact with smash muses i sold my soul to the smash rpc
A BAKING THREAD WITH PEACH
just... i want cute....
Honest Note
yOU’RE ALL GOOD AND i LOVE YOU LOTS. Keep being awesome.
T-That’s it. 
That’s what I wanted to say.
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jjbablocklistcallouts · 6 years ago
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The Blocklist: A essay (this is very long)
I know everyones sick of it at this point but I got shit to say so feel free to not read this absolute unit of a poorly written essay. The jjbablocklist divided their list into two different list now. One for creators and one for consumers/rebloggers and I cannot stress enough about how dumb that is since it shouldve been done since the beggining. Also, following alot of these artist and “consumers” of these medias, I noticed some of them are falsely accused, others while being minors. here’s why:
1. A lot of teens and young adults in the community like ships like GioMis, FuMis, NaraGio, MisTrish and plenty more and I know your singular shared braincell cannot handle the idea of 2-3 year age gaps not being pedophilia, but uh, newsflash for ya, THEY AINT. Legally, it is not a crime and that in america where the age of consent is 18, not in Italy where its 15 and not in Japan where its even less. Under the general United States Law, which is where I assume the list makers/defenders are mostly from, these ships are not classified as pedophilia or should be problematic and the ages of consent change to lower ages depending on state. The only way you can add these shippers for their “crimes” is if they promoted or created the interactions of these characters in a sexual or intimate manner whether they are aged up or not, which is still wack if their age is above that of the age of consent in writing/art and the fact that minors, in this case teenagers with the VA cast, are allowed to express themselves with people of their own age group in a sexual manner, real life kids do it all the time amongst themselves so why shouldnt people be able to create it, the whole ordeal is ridiculous imo BUT I can see how it makes a lot of people uncomfortable, a lot of it makes me uncomfortable too so we gotta make compromises somehow so absolutely no lewding the mafia lolis/ jojo lolis in general and if you do, tag it properly so it doesnt spread onto the basic hastags of characters and the show. If you dont you on the list.
2. Claim genderswapping/r63 is transphobic all you want but until I see clear and definitive proof of it being purposely made for that purpose then it’s absolutely ok. If someone makes it to offend someone then its wrong and they should be called out for it (which has never been the case in this fanbase as far as I cant tell) It’s creative, it allows people create new desings for characters or adjust current ones for cosplayers or other artist. Im sure one of your mods can relate, since the do the exact same thing as we do while not addressing a certaint character properly by their canon pronouns. Genderbending does not promote the attack or harrasement of the trans community and that is a fact unless its done by actual problematic artist like Sh*dbase and others, which is still a stretch because I dont think they’ve done it to target people or make fun of them but they are the popular problem icons. So get the actual transphobes on the list, aka those who created the content specifically to harras a specific person, or remove the catergory entirely. Its unnecessary and hypocritical.
— The rest of these are just things that bother a lot of people in the community so if you only cared about minors being on the list then you dont have to continue reading. —
Tumblr is infamously known to be a shitshow of a site where all you can find is problematic content. If you dont like this kind of content, why the hell are you here in the first place? There’s a lot of safer websites to use where like instagram, twitter, amino, facebook, and more. They have actual filters unlike tumblr and finding content you dont like is a lot harder unless you are purposefully looking for it, and even then it could be a challenge due to shadow bans or privatized accounts. Tumblr has none of that, everyone knows it, all of those who dont like it try to stay away from it or use it very scarcely. Why do you think that most of these “problematic” artist/creators/consumers are here? Tumblr has always been its own weird realm, trying to make it anything else goes against what it stand for.
You’re crimes make are literal nonsense sometimes because you include such obvious personal attacks like “Made a literal essay defending GioMis” and “All kinds of awful stuff” as crimes. You added a few account because they message you about how ridiculous the whole ordeal is and you take to findind the slightest bit of “evidence” that can aid you into making them look bad. You know thats not a good reason right?? Even if it were, yall are even more guilty for committing acts of Liable and Defamation and you are choosing to for those you incorrectly put on the list, invluding the minors! Let alone hypocrisy but yall are tired of hearing that one.
Dont add other fandoms into this mess. The Hetalia fandom has been dead for more than 5 years and it aint none of your buisness. It has nothing to do with Jojo. Unless you plan on making more blocklist for ALL fandoms then, goodluck, though make em better.
Jojo’s Bizarre Adventure is a wonderful and yet problematic series, guess who’s fault it is... its Araki’s. Created a hilarious nazi character, nah its the fanbases fault for roleplaying such a funny character. Pedophilia and rape represented in Jojo and not treated seriously, nah its the fandoms fault for romanticizing it. Homophobia as character traits and degradation of women in Jojo, pfft nah f a n d o m s f a u l t for painting such “false” representations of the characters. Ah, but yall wont drop Jojo cuz that kid your trying to control media for wont drop it either. It is not your responsibility to create a childproof community when the show already has heavy themes. Its their caretakers/parents or the childs own responsibility.
I despise the argument “well Jojo is a 17+ only show so no kids allowed!” you might be right, but has that really ever stopped kids from doing anything?? It does the opposite, it creates a sense of overwhelming curiosity which leads to venturing unkown territory which they may or may not end up enjoying. The problem lies wether young teens are mature enough to watch it or not and judging by this whole fiasco, alot of the people, teens and adults, involved are not.
YOU ARE NOT JUDGE JURY AND EXECUTIONER AND YOU ARE NOT ALLOWED TO POLICE A MEDIA YOU DO NOT OWN OR TAKE RESPONSIBILITY INTO DOING IT FOR SOMEONE ELSE
I will give you this guys this, theres a few artist and creators that do belong there, very few as far as I could see and read into and some are missing since they are mostly on twitter instead of tumblr. But hey, I managed to find like 12 accounts that I probably wouldn’t like seeing the content of, and I found a lot of good accounts too. A hell of a lot more.
I know Im harsh and a total loser but y’all really gotta do some damage control and think ahead. Merely ignoring the fact that your movement cause a floodwave of hatred, deaththreats and suicide baiting is disgusting, adress it properly, dont condone it. Cuz Im yall wouldnt like 200+ messages of “Kill yourself you of lowlife degenerate. I dont like your the disgusting trash you like so I hope you rot in hell for the rest of your life” It isnt fun, a lot of people have received these, some are even worse and a lot dont even deserve it.
Run the list correctly, its a good idea, it could’ve been handled way better than this and you guys know it. This would’ve been great for 14 year old me not stumbling onto a lot of problematic ships when I first looked up Jojo and it can help many children in the community in the future, but you are ruiling out a majority of the fanbase with such vague and pointless rules as regular shipping and creative freedom. You are demonizing people who like basic shipping and different character desings, and that’ll scare them because they dont want tobe hated for something they like. Because a few biased opinions decided to rule out that what the kids liked is morally wrong and irredeemable. Cuz thats all I can see on the list with the exception of maybe a 12 people on the list. Thats all the rest of the JJBA community sees.
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pnevmashepherd · 7 years ago
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ROLEPLAYING PROFILE MEME: PLEASE REPOST, DO NOT REBLOG! Feel free to add to any of your answers!  The purpose is to tell your partners about the way you write!  For the multiple choice ones, BOLD all that apply and, if you want,italicize if it’s a conditional answer!
– B A S I C S –
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NAME : Sam ARE YOU OVER 18?   Yes / No IS YOUR MUSE?   Yes / No (Multimuse, most of them are over 18)
ARE YOU SELECTIVE ABOUT WHO YOU WRITE WITH ON THIS BLOG? No (anyone) / SEMI (MOST PEOPLE) / Yes / Highly / Private (mutuals only) ARE YOU SELECTIVE ABOUT WHO YOU FOLLOW ON THIS BLOG? No (anyone) / SEMI / YES / Highly
IF YOUR MUSE IS CANON, HOW MUCH TO YOU ADHERE TO CANON? Not at all / A little / Some / Mostly / Strictly / (OC)   WHAT POST LENGTHS DO YOU WRITE? One Liners / Single-Para / Multi-Para / NOVELLA
DO YOU USE ICONS AND/OR GIFS? No / Gifs / Icons / Gifcons DO YOU WRITE ON OTHER PLATFORMS? No / Yes / Occasionally
WHAT LEVEL OF PLOTS DO YOU WRITE? Unplotted / Open Ended Plots / Semi-Plotted / Fully Plotted Epics HOW QUICKLY DO YOU USUALLY RESPOND TO THREADS? Very Slow (More than a month) / Slow (3-4 Weeks) / Average (1-2 Weeks) / Fast (Less than one week) / Very fast (Less than three days)
WHAT TYPES OF THEMES DO YOU LIKE? (feel free to add!) FLUFF / ANGST / SMUT / ACTION / TRAGEDY / DOMESTIC / FAMILY / CONVERSATIONAL /HURT-COMFORT WHAT GENRES DO YOU LIKE? (feel free to add!) High Fantasy /SUPERNATURAL / SCIENCE FICTION / Historical / HORROR/COMEDY/ROMANTIC/DRAMA/ ACTION / ADVENTURE / ESPIONAGE / Everything
ARE THERE ANY THEMES YOU’RE UNCOMFORTABLE WRITING ON YOUR BLOG? (not triggers) NO / Yes DO YOU HAVE ANY TRIGGERS?  HOW DO YOU REQUEST IT TAGGED? NO / Yes (I have all variations of my triggers blocklisted, so if you tag it, is good)
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WHAT TYPES OF RELATIONSHIPS ARE YOU OPEN TO? Romantic / Platonic / Familial / Physical / Sexual* WHAT TYPES OF PRE-ESTABLISHED RELATIONSHIPS ARE YOU OPEN TO? Romantic / Platonic / Familial / Physical / Sexual*
DO YOU HAVE OTPS? No / CHEMISTRY ONLY / YES DO YOU HAVE NOTPS? No / YES / I don’t know
WHAT IS YOUR MUSE’S SEXUAL ORIENTATION? Heterosexual / Heteroflexible / Bisexual / Homoflexible / Homosexual / Pansexual / Demisexual / Sapiosexual / Asexual / Attracted to masculinity / Attracted to femininity / Attracted to androgyny (multi-muse, so ask me if you’re interested in certain muses)
WHAT IS YOUR MUSE’S ROMANTIC ORIENTATION? Heteroromantic / Heteroflexible / Biromantic / Homoflexible / Homoromantic / Panromantic / Demiromantic / Sapioromantic / Aromantic / Poliamorous (Same situation)
ARE YOU COMFORTABLE WRITING SMUT? No / Selectively / Yes
HOW EARLY IN A RELATIONSHIP DO YOU SHIP ROMANTICALLY? Autoship / During plotting / After a couple ic interactions / Several IC Interactions / Slow Burn / DEPENDS ON PARTNER & MUSE
ARE YOU OPEN TO TOXIC SHIPS? No / Selectively / Yes  
ARE YOU OPEN TO PROBLEMATIC SHIPS? (canon history, age difference, complicated, etc.) No / Selectively / YES
ARE YOU OPEN TO POLYSHIPPING? No / Selectively / Yes
ARE YOU AN EXCLUSIVE SHIPPER? No / Sometimes / Yes
DOES CRACK SHIPPING EVER HAPPEN? No / SOMETIMES / Yes
DOES CROSSOVER SHIPPING EVER HAPPEN? No / YES / Depends
TAGGED BY: @iamnojedi
TAGGING: @sixthspectre and Courtnye stole all my other friends so like... steal it?
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frabjous-fragment · 4 years ago
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a critique of lesbian discourse from a nonbinary perspective
(saw something that upset me enough to want to get my opinion out there, so here i am, turning to my tum blur dot com poe eh tree blog to engage in lgbt discourse. happy pride)
I am an agender person designated male at birth. I consider myself pansexual with asexual characteristics, but historically, I have mostly been romantically involved with people who could be painted broadly as transfeminine. Because of this, binarism that tries to divide me from the lesbian community has always stuck out to me more. I hope to illustrate to people who will keep an open mind how the dismissal of individuals identifying themselves as bi lesbians is rooted in binarism.
This carrd seems like the most comprehensive and mainstream formulation of the argument I could find, so I'll go down it point by point. Before diving in, though, I want to point out that the author, an asexual and nonbinary dfab lesbian, feels so strongly about this issue that they operate a blocklist of people who identify as bisexual lesbians on Twitter. Bear the fact that people feel strongly enough about the issue to draw lines in the sand through the community in mind, as we dissect the causes, effects, and purposes of this issue's hot button status.
tl;dr: There is no antagonistic conflict of interest between bisexual women and lesbian women.
"Lesbian is not an umbrella term." It's not surprising to me that the carrd opens like this, since the entire argument requires this prior, but the formulation here is actually very weak and even concedes things that weaken it further. "These simplifications of people's sexuality were grown out of as queer people started to create labels and spaces that more accurately described them." Buckle up, because most of the rest of this post rests on this very loaded throwaway sentence. This is a simplification of the truth and overlooks some pretty unfortunate history. The fact of the matter is that bisexual and asexual people were included in the discourse of the gay rights movement from the very beginning. The Asexual Manifesto was written in 1972, and Donny the Punk, founder of the first LGBT student movement, identified as bisexual (recorded in writing earliest in 1972- incidentally, when he discusses his break with elements of the gay liberation movement, due to his treatment after falling in love with a woman in 1970). Therefore, the argument that people simply used weak terminology like "homophile" in the early days because there was not more specific terminology available to people lacks something. The cruder truth is that it was all people needed for compatibility, to go to gay hookup spots, make friends, have sex, and maybe find a long term relationship. Bisexual, transgender, intersex, asexual, and further subcommunities arose with the rise of gay identity politics, and conflicts of interest within it. Who would these conflicts of interest be revised out of our community's history? The answer is simple and unfortunate- sexism. Donny was far from the only individual met with the sentiment that he was a gender traitor- lesbian separatism, an unfortunate reaction to real issues the early gay movement had with representing lesbians, swept through lesbian spaces in the 70s, devastating bisexual and transgender women and bolstering the nascent bisexual and transgender movements. By the end of the decade, TERF queen Janice Raymonds included "testimony" from other bigots against two named trans women existing peacefully in lesbian spaces, in her hate screed The Transsexual Empire, quoting another TERF's writing as saying "I feel raped when Olivia passes off Sandy ... as a real woman." This is an obvious appropriation of the language of personal rights to justify bigotry, judgment, hate, and exclusion. All manner of feminists and lesbians have attempted to whitewash the darker sentiments of this period by dismissing the proponents of radical, genocidal propositions like Valerie Solanas' SCUM Manifesto as "just venting" or "fringe lunatics". (To not get too into it, Solanas went back and forth on whether or not her work was satire, in a manner I find eerily similar to what reactionaries do when they put 'this account is satire' on their Twitters.) This is easy to prove incorrect; non-buzzword, actual, political misandry had reached the highest levels of feminist leadership and academia. Observe what one of the first professors of women's studies in the world, Sally Miller Gearhart, had to say on "the male question": I) Every culture must begin to affirm a female future. "The future is female" is a phrase that has been effectively neutralized and recuperated by less radical elements, which I am all for. It is vague enough to work to better ends than the next two points by itself. II) Species responsibility must be returned to women in every culture. Here it becomes more clear that, in the minds of many prominent feminists of the 1970s, women would have to be supreme over men. There isn't much of another way to interpret the statement that women must bear all responsibility for humanity. III) The proportion of men must be reduced to and maintained at approximately 10% of the human race. How would this be done? The only answer is eugenics through selective abortion imposed by the state, and genocide. Clearly, even from just a perspective of women's rights, this is inadmissible to anyone who is genuinely pro-choice on the
subject of women's bodies, even though this is not a situation we usually think of. The very suggestion of this is fascistic. Make no mistake that the modern sentiment against bi lesbians is not rooted in the same fascist gender essentialism. One denies that "benign" anti-bisexual and anti-transgender sentiments still predominate in lesbian and gay communities at your own risk. Not only are you speaking over the lived experiences of people like me, you are speaking against the statistics. Not only do incredible majorities of 88.5% of gay men and 71% of lesbian women, compared to 48% of bisexual and similar people, still exclude trans people from romantic and sexual considerations due to the subliminal sexism they learn from both mainstream society and their LGBT communities, but surveys show that gay men and lesbian women respectively distrust bisexual men and bisexual women's attraction to them and affiliation with their communities. (Also widely*... couldn't resist pointing out the common eggcorn.) "Lesbian used to be the term that described all sapphics, but isn't anymore, and that's a positive thing. Having more specific labels has allowed for people's bisexuality and pansexuality to not be erased in common language, and was a step towards getting rid of the pressure for people attracted to multiple genders to 'pick a side'. The emergence of terms like 'bi/pan lesbian' and 'bi/pan hetero' reinforces the notion of needing to 'pick a side', and obscures the common definitions of all the sexualities involved" This is that concession that I mentioned earlier. Credit where it's due, it's an elevation of the discourse to actually admit this when other people won't even do that. But it again ignores why these pressures exist, and incorrectly presupposes a demand for terminology that could be argued to be divisive without looking into why such a demand exists in reality. In a world without these terrible and stupid issues of sexism, people would simply say "I am both gay and straight" and everything would be dandy. Nobody has ever called themselves "bi/pan hetero" and I'm almost not even being hyperbolic. It's not an identity community. Proposing this just sets up the writer's argument that the terminology of "bi/pan lesbian" (and its more accurate parallel, "bi/pan mlm", which I have seen- putting aside my qualms with the limitations and binarism of xlx terminology even when the left operator is nb) divides the bi/pan community. This is the same logic battleaxe bisexuals who view the pansexual label as biphobic and attack people they see as bi (and yes, pan people are also bi by definition) use for their argument that the pansexual label divides bi people, when the only people that I see it "dividing" are the same people getting pissy about trifling points of queer theory that nobody else cares about for no proven reason. In real spaces, nobody tries to get bisexual people to line up on one wall and pansexual people to line up on the other. Pan people do not engage in biphobic discourse. The issue is empty; a non-issue. This it shares in common with the bi lesbian discourse, where the issues are not directly with the communities under fire, but instead vague, abstract, unsubstantiated and unfalsifiable notions of "omg you'll make the straights think [blank]!!" It seems like a theme where, even within LGBT, majorities attack their negations and accuse them of being divisive for asserting themselves and asking for some solidarity in return for the solidarity they provide in the community; you see this with asexual and trans people as well, but that's not what this post is about. Since the entire argument is built on this first point, I could honestly stop here, from a logical perspective. But people have strong emotional responses to the subsequent points, and without going through those, people will change "is not" to "ought not to be" and carry on.
"Making Distinct Spaces for Different Sexuality's Unique Experiences is Important." Around here is where the carrd really starts to resort to trying to twist truisms against their opponents, and on the briefest reflection this doesn't work. The idea that the term "bi lesbian" erases the distinction in between bi women and lesbian women seems to me to commit a category error by defining lesbian women as exclusively homosexual women and then pointing out the obvious truth that these women are distinct from bisexual women. The truth is, bisexual women and lesbian women are not categorically different in really any way other than their relationship to heterosexuality, a distinction easily expressed by- you guessed it- the label "bi lesbian". To reiterate and combine into earlier points: There is no antagonistic conflict of interest between bisexual women and lesbian women.
"Woman Aligned Nonbinary People are Included in Lesbian Attraction". Another truism. Let's move on to the single clause of the single sentence that contains the actual argument- "implying otherwise by wanting to separate that attraction into a new label is enbyphobic invalidating lesbian attraction" So, hi! As a woman aligned nonbinary person, I am here to tell you that this is not correct! I think this is a lot easier for dfab nonbinary people and dmab binary trans women to say than is it for dmab nonbinary people like myself to say. When your identity is as arcane as "I am not a woman but I identify with women because I am of a marginalized neutral gender", a lot more people decide not to take you seriously. If you take out the bolded words, this statement becomes correct, so we're going to focus on them. The only people saying anything about non-binary people not being included in lesbianism by default are the antis and the radfems they unwittingly serve, who actually do believe that point and see it as a good thing. But unfortunately, as a dmab nonbinary person who does not get sorted as a woman under binarism, my experience has been that I am already excluded from lesbianism in practice. If you get sorted as a woman under binarism, good for you! But to say that all lesbians do is obviously incorrect, when you consider all the budding trans women who still have beards and face largely similar issues in the lesbian community. To say that this state of affairs is fine is harmful to trans people; to say that this is different from what people like me face is arbitrary, and arguably binarist. Sapphism needs to look deeper than the surface and accept a foundation built on ties of solidarity and identity with no tests of purity.
"Having a Lean or Strong Prefrence Does Not Make You Any Less Bisexual". (Preference*, firstly.) I am not sure what this truism is doing here. Even many bi lesbians would agree that preferring other women is not what makes them lesbians, their membership in the lesbian community is what makes them lesbians. Refer to the above point; each community should be built on nothing more than solidarity and identity.
"Lesbians Don't Have Attraction to Men or Men-Aligned Nonbinary People, Even When on the Split Attraction Model". Here it is, the Big Chungus of arguments in the bi lesbian discourse. This is one that is seen often that people feel very strongly about, and probably the most contentious, since the implication that bi lesbians facilitate abuse of lesbians seems to motivate how a lot of people feel on the subject. Who has the power here? The insinuation that bi women have more privilege than lesbians is silly and biphobic. Clearly, it's the abusive men who have all the power in this arrangement. So how is the presence or absence of bi lesbians going to change what abusive men, who don't believe in sexual orientation, let alone care about it, decide to do? It can only change the excuses they use, which are chosen at convenience. This is a trick that patriarchy has played on us to get us to attack each-other instead of the enemy. For such a common and spicy point of rhetoric, I'm surprised I didn't write more against it here, but I really feel that the argument against it is that simple. I'll add a personal note here, and say that the dismissal of the divergent opinions of people sorted as males under binarism, alleging that we're "rapey" and want to appropriate things that aren't ours rather than participate in solidarity, is incredibly harmful to those of us who happen to be lesbians, even by the strictest trans-inclusive definition.
"Trans Women are Women". Truism. This is by far the weakest point. Nobody is advancing "bi lesbian" as a trans-inclusive label, though as I said above, it's a statistical fact that bisexual people are much more trans-positive than homosexual people, and therefore, as a transgender person, I tend to feel more welcomed around them. Of course, that's not a categorical distinction, but an unfortunate tendency.
"A Lesbian isn't Less of a Lesbian for Previously Dating Men". Truism. This is a stronger point, but only because it is closer to real rhetoric supporting the idea that bi lesbians are "real". Bisexual women will answer the question of "would you be open to dating a man again?" in the affirmative, and homosexual women will answer in the negative. Some members of the lesbian community do not completely rule out the prospect of dating men, even though it is not something they currently pursue.
The above are the reasons why the community should not fall into the bi lesbian discourse, and the refutations to its arguments. In order to be in full solidarity with fringe members of our sub-communities against bigotry, we must not fall into needless categorical division of groups when our interests are the same. There is no antagonistic conflict of interest between bisexual women and lesbian women.
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fandompsas · 6 years ago
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Am a minor, was scrolling thru ship tag and came upon your blog. I just want to say that this,,,, literally doesn’t help anything? Bc if I didn’t want to see something I’d just,,,, not see it/block it??? I mean I’m Glad y’all found a sense of purpose doing this but it’s kinda like, not nice to see for anyone. I’m a new so I don’t know much but I assumed since it’s fictional it’s okay? I mean everyone’s just here to have a good time
Fiction doesn’t exist in a vacuum. If pedophilia is bad in real life, it’s just as bad in fiction. Also, maybe you should take your own advice when it comes to this blog: if you don’t like it, block us. At this point we’re mostly focusing on our blocklist and not calling out blogs because you’re right, it doesn’t really help.
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cowboylikedean · 8 years ago
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Wouldn't it help if you asked for unblocking via mutual mutual? I blocked some Larries last year I went into fight about Freddie and one of them stopped tinhatting later and we have mutual friend and they asked her to ask me if I could unblock them since I make edits they wanted to reblog and I unblocked them.
I mean sure, like I could ask a mutual friend to ask them about me...
But I’m uncomfortable with putting my friends in the position to go talk to their friends about me. Like... It just feels like getting someone else involved in something that doesn’t involve them and that feels really rude and presumptuous of me. 
Furthermore, that doesn’t address the actual issues of the overuse of the block feature that tumblr culture has.
Personally, I go through my blocklist every few weeks to make sure that people who are blocked need to be blocked. I’ve unblocked a lot of ex larries I blocked when they were larries that way. I just mostly unblock everyone I ever block after a few weeks because the immediate threat to me is over... which I personally think is the most responsible way to handle using the block feature for fandom purposes.
But I mean like I’ve said... the overuse of block and the way people are so uncritical of it, the way people get blocked on tumblr frequently without ever speaking to each other... Like that’s unhealthy and it’s scary because it’s unregulated censorship based on fear-mongering. And sending a mutual mutual to talk to someone on your behalf doesn’t change that.
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