#Erectile dysfunction

[sirenm3lody]

THIS POST IS FOR SEX EDUCATION AND HELPING TOO NORMALISE EXTREMELY REAL CIRCUMSTANCES!!!

Rilyn: he/she/xe/it

ok so I know I’ve spoken about erectile disfunction across all genitalia havers on my blog before but I feel I should go into more detail about specific aspects based on personal experience as someone with a vagina.

When I’m having having sex or masturbating yes there are times I end up finishing, but I also experience sudden flash backs and overthinking that cause my brain to try and stop focusing on sexual stimulation and instead trigger an anxiety attack, panic attack or depressive episode. This will lead me to push harder, to try harder, I will end up in pain because of how badly I just want to finish but physically can’t, in those moments it’s best for me to stop, but unfortunately you aren’t thinking of that when you’re telling yourself you aren’t worth love or affection if you don’t finish, something that should take a short amount of time alone for me takes me over an hour because I’m forcing myself to continue despite the end getting further and further away. I want to finish, but I can’t. I end up either finding something new to get me off or I give up, both options lead me to feel like shit if I am not reassured.

You don’t often see people talk about their personal experiences with their sexual life as it’s been made taboo, and embarrassing. But if you don’t know what’s happening in those moments and you see no one speaking about it you will feel so much more alone. These aren’t taboo subjects. They may feel awkward or scary but they’re important.

I’m hypersexual. My hypersexuality has been active since I was a kid and I have been living with it, and been getting affected by it for that whole time and still continue to struggle today, this affects how my body experiences sexual stimulation, whether it’s aimed at someone or not, masturbation for me is a tool to get rid of an inconvenient situation, but if I don’t finish in a specific time span when I’m thinking of it as a job or chore [I can’t decide if I do think of it that way, it’s just the context in the situation] then I will be in pain, I will feel like I’m not worth love, or like I need to work harder, push harder, think of something new and arousing, but even if I find something exciting to think about my body is still giving up, I want it, I want to finish but when my body is beginning to force that feeling away and I need to push harder to get off to finally finish so I can be done with it and get on with my life I feel awful.

It is ok if you experience this. It is ok if you need to stop. It’s ok that your body is stopping. It’s ok that no matter how much you want it your body simply won’t let you. That is ok. It will always be ok. No matter what anyone says it’s ok. If no one if validating you, let me. If that’s what you need that’s what I’m here for. Because I didn’t know what I was experiencing were the symptoms of ED until now, and it would’ve helped me through so much if I knew sooner. But I know now. And now I’m going to bring awareness to this.

If anyone has anything to add to this, please do, if you want to share your experiences and thoughts that’s also very helpful, bringing any sort of awareness to how different bodies can experience sexual feelings is important.

Remember! You are all amazing, perfect, worthy beings and I’m proud of you, even if I am some random person on the internet. I’m proud of you.

Use protection if you can, if you feel tingling or pain even with the right prepping, try a non silicone based lube or condoms, because it’s not normal to still feel pain even if it’s a little bit after all the correct steps. Make sure you don’t have your joints out of place for too long if you’re hyper mobile, drink plenty of water, eat food after sex even if’s a little bit, go pee, or you will get a UTI. That’s why you feel the need to pee after sex or sexual stimulation. Be safe. Be kind. If your partner says they’re experiencing anything I’ve mentioned in this post, stop. Tell them they are still amazing and assure them they are loved and cared about. If it’s a hookup situation, and they experience this depending on how close you are I still recommend comforting them, even a little bit, even if it’s a hug.

I hope everyone’s doing well, my asks are open for anything sex education related if needed :]

[unbfacts]

The bite of the Brazilian wandering spider can cause a prolonged ėręctįøń that can last for several hours.

[hotwife-fling]

[omowitty]

Art wearing Tashi’s strap on because he can’t stay hard long enough to fuck her 😋😋

[mistyyyy]

Cannon Art Donaldson who has ED.

When he finally does get rock hard he waste no time, trying to hype you up, talking about how good his weenering is going to be only to bust two thrusts in.

[cannibalistic09]

I suppose that’s accurate

[satellitecock]

i want you carnally

NoFap and kratom will change your life, I promise you.

Some impotence is good. Gets you on track spiritually.

[lvgoonerboy]

[mother-mommy]

shoutout to every single person who's ever contributed to the erectile dysfunction tag on ao3 yall are doing the good work

[vegandude73]

[tremere-messy-girl]

Soooo.....

I had been at doctors lately, because I had (and still do) some problems with my libido and erectile disfunction, that makes me kind of sad. I had gone through some analyses and it turns out that everything is okay, but one thing is out of ordinary...

I have low levels of testosterone, not sure why, because I'll still visit doctors to understand what to do next, but the thing is that as a Transfemme I should be happy (and I kind of am) but problems with a boner make me sad, don't know what to do, tbh

Maybe that's a sign to start my hrt?

Will keep this post updated if someone is interested in what happens with me next

Your fellow tremere vampire girl Ellis

[covid-safer-hotties]

Reference saved in our archive

Zero Covid radicals want your dick to keep working!

[hubrisinnate]

Tying that old man's hands up over his head and sliding under the blankets and making him so very confused why his cock is surrounded by warmth and wetness when he's flopping back down against his thigh every so often until he hears the vibrator between my legs as I'm sucking off his flaccid cock

[mindblowingscience]

A new study of nearly 270,000 men suggests a pharmaceutical commonly used for erectile dysfunction sold commercially under brand names like Viagra may lower the risk of Alzheimer's disease by some 18 percent. But more research in the form of clinical trials is needed to understand optimal dosage, treatment time, and whether the slight protective effect extends to women.

Continue Reading.

[sunny-daze-days]

I wish I had to worry about erectile dysfunction instead of executive dysfunction 😞