#How to avoid superficial connections

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Why I Don't Recommend Online Dating: A Personal Perspective

Online dating has become a cultural phenomenon, with millions of people swiping, matching, and chatting in hopes of finding love. As someone who spent years navigating the world of online dating, I can tell you firsthand that it’s not all roses and rainbows. While some people do find success, my personal experience—and the experiences of many others—paints a less glamorous picture. If you’re…

[m4jesty-love]

Why I Don't Recommend Online Dating: A Personal Perspective

Online dating has become a cultural phenomenon, with millions of people swiping, matching, and chatting in hopes of finding love. As someone who spent years navigating the world of online dating, I can tell you firsthand that it’s not all roses and rainbows. While some people do find success, my personal experience—and the experiences of many others—paints a less glamorous picture. If you’re…

[waywardsalt]

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[vastwillcurse]

Libra in the Houses What You’re Unconsciously Superficial About

Libra in the 1st House (Libra Rising)

• You’re superficially polished when it comes to how you present yourself.

• You’re hyper tuned into how others perceive your vibe, looks, and “grace level.”

• You maintain an outer image of being calm, sweet, well dressed, and non threatening even when internally you feel messy, angry, or unsure.

• You hate being “messy” in front of people. You’d rather fake a smile and charm your way out than admit you’re unraveling.

• You may tone down your personality to be more palatable or attractive.

• You sometimes care more about being liked than being real.

• Conflict makes you deeply uncomfortable so you often avoid it, sugarcoat, or play both sides.

Libra in the 2nd House

• You’re superficial about your values, money, and material security.

• You want the appearance of abundance even if your bank account says otherwise.

• You might overspend on luxury, clothes, or aesthetics just to “feel” secure.

• You associate self worth with elegance, taste, or having attractive things.

• May attach value to what looks refined even if it’s not fulfilling.

• You might mask insecurities around money by looking more put together than you feel.

• There’s a craving for comfort and financial ease but it can lean into aesthetic over substance.

Libra in the 3rd House

• You’re superficial in how you communicate, relate to others, and express your thoughts.

• You curate your words carefully to keep conversations light, likable, or diplomatic even when you have strong opinions.

• You avoid saying anything too uncomfortable or “ugly” that might disrupt harmony.

• You prefer polite disagreements over authentic, challenging discussions.

• You may be more focused on how something sounds than what it truly means.

• Your friendships and sibling relationships may feel emotionally distant because you smooth over every rough edge.

• Image matters in your voice you want to be seen as balanced, fair, and articulate, even if it means hiding deeper thoughts.

Libra in the 4th House

• You’re superficial about your private life, family, emotions, and emotional roots.

• You may come from a family where “appearances” mattered more than truth.

• You prefer a peaceful, aesthetically pleasing home even if emotional tension simmers beneath the surface.

• You avoid discussing childhood trauma or emotional dysfunction to keep the illusion of harmony.

• You may dress your emotional pain in pretty words or avoidance.

• You want your home to feel like a peaceful retreat even if it means pretending.

• There’s often a quiet need to be seen as emotionally “fine” even when you’re not.

Libra in the 5th House

• You’re superficial about romance, creative expression, and being admired.

• You want to be adored, but also in control. You charm, but with distance.

• You’re drawn to partners who are attractive, socially approved, or elegant even if the emotional depth is missing.

• You might flirt for validation, not connection.

• Your creativity may be polished, stylish, and likable but not always emotionally raw or risky.

• You care about looking “cool” in how you express yourself.

• You like attention, but on your terms, and you avoid showing your vulnerability when performing or dating.

Libra in the 6th House

• You’re superficial about work, health, routine, and being helpful.

• You want your life to look balanced and organized even if it’s secretly chaotic.

• You care about your job title, aesthetics of your workspace, and being perceived as competent.

• You suppress illness or stress if it makes you seem weak or emotionally messy.

• You may avoid difficult coworkers or uncomfortable workplace truths to keep things smooth.

• You might choose routines or health trends based on appearance more than actual wellness.

• You try to keep it all together externally, even if you’re crumbling inside.

Libra in the 7th House

• You’re superficial about your relationships, partnerships, and how others see your connections.

• You may choose partners based on looks, social status, or public image.

• You want the relationship to look good even if the emotional intimacy is off.

• You suppress conflict with partners to keep the peace or avoid rocking the boat.

• You mold yourself to fit the relationship, even when it erodes your identity.

• You care how others perceive your relationships more than you admit.

• You may prioritize harmony over honesty which can lead to resentment or passive aggression.

Libra in the 8th House

• You’re superficial about transformation, emotional vulnerability, sex, and death.

• You intellectualize pain or trauma, turning it into poetic phrases rather than facing the raw truth.

• You avoid emotional chaos even in intimate, sexual, or spiritual relationships.

• You keep your darkest feelings pretty filtered, curated, poetic.

• You’re drawn to seductive connections but struggle with full vulnerability.

• You might use charm or beauty as power, hiding the fact that you feel emotionally exposed.

• You crave depth but often maintain a mask of composure while silently unraveling.

Libra in the 9th House

• You’re superficial about beliefs, philosophy, and higher thinking.

• You want to be seen as cultured, tolerant, and enlightened even if you haven’t dug into the hard truths.

• You may adopt trendy belief systems because they sound refined or peaceful.

• You avoid moral gray areas or messy ideological contradictions.

• You may travel for aesthetic or social reasons rather than soul-deep growth.

• You want your beliefs to sound harmonious not controversial.

• You could speak eloquently about justice or balance, while avoiding deeper spiritual shadow work.

Libra in the 10th House

• You’re superficial about career, public image, reputation, and success.

• You care deeply about being seen as professional, likable, and graceful in your career.

• You want your public persona to be admired even if the work itself feels draining or fake.

• You may hide career doubts or dissatisfaction to keep the illusion of success.

• You choose career paths that are socially acceptable, prestigious, or elegant.

• You project control, charm, and balance in public even when your private life is in crisis.

• You avoid career controversy or stepping on toes, even if it slows your truth.

Libra in the 11th House

• You’re superficial about friends, community, and social causes.

• You curate your friend group to reflect well on you stylish, likable, popular people.

• You may join movements or speak on causes that make you look good, not always because you deeply believe them.

• You avoid drama in group dynamics, often refusing to take sides or express how you really feel.

• You want to be liked in group spaces even if it means betraying yourself.

• You care about social status in your network and may secretly seek validation through association.

• You perform “community connection” but may keep your heart at a distance.

Libra in the 12th House

• You’re superficial about your inner world, spirituality, and hidden emotions.

• You romanticize suffering turn it into poetry, art, or silence rather than letting it roar.

• You want your inner world to be serene, mystical, and graceful even when it’s chaotic.

• You may avoid shadow work that’s messy or uncomfortable.

• You hide your true self in relationships, keeping a gentle exterior to mask internal torment.

• You struggle to express resentment, jealousy, or rage it’s “ugly,” so you bury it.

• You often put on a peaceful spiritual front while quietly suppressing deep wounds.

[astrocafecoffee]

Venus observation 🙂

Venus in Aries is drawn to partners who aren't afraid to stand up to them or push their buttons. They don’t want someone who just agrees with everything they say. They crave that playful friction, someone who can test their limits and push them to grow. Someone who just tells them "yes" all the time will quickly lose their interest.

You might not expect it from their calm, laid-back exterior, but Venus in Taurus can get pretty possessive and jealous. Because they value security and loyalty, any threat to their relationship, real or perceived, can trigger a strong reaction. If they feel like someone is encroaching on their partner’s attention or affection, they might become a bit territorial. They might not say anything outwardly, but you'll definitely sense it.

If you can make Venus in Gemini individual laugh, you’re in! Venus in Gemini loves someone who has a quick wit and a sense of humor. They can be very attracted to people who can joke around, tell funny stories, or keep the conversation flowing with clever remarks. It’s not about traditional romantic gestures, it’s about sharing a mental connection that’s also fun and light-hearted.

Venus in Cancer often gravitates toward people who have emotional needs they can care for. If their partner is vulnerable, has some sort of emotional wound, or even needs a “shoulder to cry on,” Venus in Cancer might find themselves deeply drawn to them. They can’t help but want to nurture and protect those they love, and sometimes this leads them to take on a caretaking role that can sometimes be emotionally draining. They thrive on giving, but it’s important for them to find someone who also knows how to take care of them in return.

Venus in Leo is often stereotyped as someone who’s just interested in the thrill of the chase or loves attention from multiple sources, but once they commit, they are incredibly loyal and devoted. If they’ve decided you’re their person, they’ll have your back no matter what. They’re not interested in playing the field once they feel secure in the relationship,they’re looking for a partner who can offer the same level of passion and dedication they give.

Venus in Virgo doesn’t do unnecessary drama, fluff, or superficial romance. They’re looking for something real and grounded. Empty flattery, unrealistic ideals, or dramatic outbursts can turn them off quickly. They prefer sincerity and practicality in love,this could mean straightforward communication and avoiding overblown emotional expressions. They just want the truth, no matter how it comes.

If there’s any tension or conflict in their personal relationships, Venus in Libra is likely to step in and mediate. They hate disharmony and will do whatever it takes to restore peace and equilibrium. This can mean smoothing over arguments between friends or helping couples navigate rough patches. They’re natural peacemakers and don’t like to see anyone involved in conflict. But sometimes, this can mean they suppress their own feelings just to keep things peaceful.

Venus in Scorpio isn’t satisfied with a shallow or stagnant relationship. They want to be part of a transformative process where both partners evolve together. They are attracted to people who are willing to dive into the depths of themselves, face their fears, and grow. They often have a strong influence on their partner's emotional development and can help them uncover their true selves. This transformation can feel like a “rebirth” for both people involved.

Venus in Sagittarius is a dreamer when it comes to romance. They can often get swept away by the idea of love itself, rather than being overly focused on the practical realities. They’re optimistic about love and tend to idealize it in their minds. This can lead them to fall in love with the concept of a person or a relationship before they’ve fully gotten to know them. While they have a genuine love for exploring different types of love, they may sometimes find themselves disappointed if the reality doesn’t match their idealized vision.

For Venus in Capricorn, actions speak louder than words. They may not shower their partner with compliments or romantic declarations, but they’ll show their love through practical means. They may take care of everyday tasks, like helping with chores, running errands, or ensuring financial security for both people. They also appreciate these same actions from their partner,they want someone who is dependable, responsible, and willing to contribute to the relationship in a practical way.

People with Venus in Aquarius are generally very open-minded and accepting of others, and they want the same in return. They are non-judgmental and don’t like to impose conventional expectations on their partners. They believe in the importance of allowing each person to be their true, authentic self without restriction. In relationships, they tend to be tolerant and accepting of differences and expect their partner to respect their need for personal growth and individuality.

Romance is incredibly important to Venus in Pisces, and they are often natural romantics. They may be prone to grand, sweeping gestures of love or to envisioning a love story that’s straight out of a fairytale. Whether it's candlelit dinners, heartfelt poetry, or spontaneous acts of kindness, Venus in Pisces wants to create beautiful, memorable moments with their partner. They also enjoy being pampered with romantic gestures that make them feel special and cherished.

[darlingyus]

vespertine ݁݁✦ ⌇ lee jeno

GENRE: angsty romance (?), hurt/comfort, mutual pining, badboy!jeno x softhearted!reader WARNINGS: kissing, heavy tension, a lil suggestive, mention of physical violence, jeno is briefly described as being a player, somewhat superficial descriptions of visible injuries (bruises, cuts, blood). WORD COUNT: 475

Come to think of it, it wasn't a rare occurrence to see Lee Jeno show up at your doorstep at ungodly hours of the night, his skin sporting fresh bruises and cuts from all the fights he was often involved in on a day-to-day basis.

You had grown quite accustomed to it, actually.

You don't know why he always came to you for help, but you never complained; you almost enjoyed his company a little too much at times.

You thought you had already seen the worst of it, but apparently you were wrong. You barely recognised the boy sitting in front of you now, face half swollen as he continues to pretend like he is perfectly fine.

"Doesn't it hurt, Jeno?" you crouch down in front of him, eyes focused on the red and blue bruises that adorned his skin.

Yeah, it had never been this bad before.

"I'm fine," Jeno breathes, though he winces when your fingertips run over a darkening bruise. You involuntarily mirror his reaction, clenching your jaw at his battered state. It killed you to see the boy you loved tear himself apart in such a brutal way. You wished you could tell him how much it hurts you to see him like this, but you thought it was perhaps better that Jeno wasn't made aware of your growing feelings for him—partly because of his long history with girls.

You weren’t naïve. You’d heard the rumors. About his temper. His past. His ties to people you were probably better off avoiding. But you’d always believed in making up your own mind.

And that’s how you ended up here—in the quiet of your apartment, nursing the wounds of a boy the world had already decided was too far gone.

"Don't worry about me,” he says, dark pupils flickering from your worried eyes to your pouted lips. You shiver under his curious gaze, fighting against your ever racing thoughts to keep your composure.

You curse quietly when he flinches at your touch again, an apology quickly slipping from your mouth. You don't know what came over you, but you suddenly felt a boost of confidence when you let your fingers trail over Jeno's skin, rubbing each and every mark softly.

Before you even know it, you find yourself kissing the bruises and cuts embellishing Jeno's face and neck, cautiously, so as to not worsen the pain he was already experiencing.

"It hurts now," he murmurs faintly, his eyes closed as he exhales deeply from his mouth.

"Where?" you ask, hand resting on his jaw as his half-opened eyes now pierce through yours. It's quiet for a moment, the tension in the air almost suffocating.

"Here," he whispers back just as your lips trace over the curve of his lips, "It hurts right here," he repeats again.

It doesn't take long before he closes the gap between you two, his mouth connecting with yours in a hurry.

[saintshadow]

this PAC is for romantic and platonic connections!

The connection between you and whoever is on your mind.

P I L E O N E

You could have a very watery feminine energy & Your person could be a little strict or strained sometimes in their love language. Saturn as well as Black Moon Lilith in Aquarius came out here. So, we've got a lot of saturnian energy going on, especially with Libra being in the mix. Your person might encourage you to be your authentic self, while struggling to maintain that for themselves.

I keep seeing images of a couple arguing on a dock while a storm is just blowing. The woman looks frantic and upset, and the man seems very disconnected and unworried.

You could have very powerful thoughts and emotions, you could have water in your big 3 and you might be a beach girly or something, I also did hear marine biologist so idk if that applies to someone 🤣

It feels like your person has a hard time letting people know when it feels dark inside of them. I feel like they can be a bit restrictive at times, they could make you feel trapped or lost sometimes. Like you don't know where you're headed or what to look towards.

This person seems very unhealed. It feels like they will literally rip themselves apart for whoever they love. They intend well, they may have a tendency for secret self harm? Or very cruel and negative self talk and self image.

They could also be in the process of ending this cycle of self harm & being a martyr. It seems with the 6 of air that they are trying to start a new cycle in their lives. I guess we're getting a very balanced look at this person 🤣

They may be very traumatized.

Afraid of reality, or scared of vulnerability.

Mercury by Steve Lacy just came on, this person could be a Gemini!

Ykw. The 8 of earth just came out, this is some goddamn Virgo energy 🤣

I feel like this is the type of person who has a very practical improvement and solution oriented approach to life and relationships.

They could have Venus in capricorn, or DSC in capricorn (cancer rising).

It feels like they are fiercely loving & protective & loyal.

They really care about you, they care so deeply it hurts them sometimes. Because you may remind them of something or someone. Something they felt they could never have or attain. I feel like this person could be elevating your status somehow.

To me it feels like they're very methodical and forward thinking but also very eccentric and a bit chaotic mentally as well.

A very unique person, could be some intense uranian energy here as well. (Moon/mercury/ASC/10h aspect to Uranus)

I heard maladaptive but also thought of the word malediction.

So they could get very stuck in their head to the point they create almost like very negative manifestations of reality into existence in the world around them.

They're very scared of being hurt again & it honestly feels like they avoid deep connection. It's like superficiality can be easier because it is easier to maintain. This person could be very scarred by their past. It feels like a lot of trauma and loneliness was experienced by your person. They try their best to forget and it seems almost like whatever they experienced penetrated their heart very deeply.

They may have loved someone before that hurt them very very very badly. It feels like theres almost this innocent scared child inside of them. I heard sad eyes, it's important not to get into a savior complex.

Don't take on unnecessary baggage, if this is something you do want to engage with and they are working on themselves & healing I think this could be a really positive connection.

It feels like this person is a soul nurturer. They know how to make you feel like the center of their universe & It makes you feel very warm. I keep thinking of like velvet textures and sort of a 70's aesthetic in my mind. I'm also thinking of bootsy collins, they could have a retro aesthetic or vibe to them.

They may also like funk music, funkadelic/Parliament in particular comes to my mind for obvious reasons lol.

This person is really eccentric, they just stand out. It's weird the dichotomy of this person. They almost feel like a walking paradox 🤣

They could be very surprising, maybe they do & say a lot of unexpected stuff. You might never know how they'll respond to something or fully guess what they'd think about it.

They might really enjoy contrast, I also heard contrarian. So they may like to break the boundaries and barriers and ideas that people try to place upon them. This is very Aquarian/Uranian 🤣

We love a rebel

If you want a more detailed message on this person you can always dm me for a 1:1 in depth reading on this topic for 50$ 😚

Channeled messages:

Condescending, Let your hair down, Atrophied, Catastrophic, Nails on a chalkboard, Lonely, Drowning, Swallowing, Brown hair, Virgo, Gemini, Cap, Libra, Aqua, Cap venus

P I L E T W O

I feel like your person is goofy as fuck, they may be a stark contrast against people you've liked before. It seems like this person has brought you a lot of simultaneous joy and connection as well as heartbreak. I feel like this is someone who may be a provider, or who could be very humble. This is someone who will get the job done, one way or another. They may be the type to take on mundane or frustrating tasks. I feel like one of the ways this person shows love oddly enough is by dousing out their flame. It's not on purpose, but I think that this person may silence their selves and their needs super frequently in favor of allowing others to take up their space too. I feel like this person is very in their own mind. I heard "brother" and "sibling" so this person could feel like family to you. I also feel like this person makes you feel different. Like, almost as if you are your unique self expression. They could make you feel soft and feminine in ways you haven't experienced before. Which results in a lot of anxious, internalized, almost deflective energy between the both of you. In the Eve Oracle card which came out, her back is facing towards Adam as she holds an apple. It could be that you overlook this person's love at times, thinking that there is something better for you out there. That this person isn't worth your time, which, granted I can't tell you what to do or what your experience is. But, in my perspective, I think you actually need to give this person more credit. You need to be honest with them, and maybe put down the walls. I heard can't forget the past, so it's possible y'all had a difficult run. If that's the case & you can't forgive I feel like you need to ask yourself why you still participate in the connection. They clearly adore you, and it seems like you don't understand that they are capable of adoring you. They have a very deep admiration for you, I feel like they always have. This person may fight for you and defend you in ways you aren't aware of. It feels like a passive form of protection, you don't always understand that they are a bit more passive in their love language. This is someone who is more thoughtful than passionate. I feel like you two manifested each other in some way shape or form, especially if this is a romantic connection or friendship. I heard soul connection, your souls came across each other in this lifetime to help each other unleash and integrate your shadows. To purify your souls, and to release what no longer serves you. I just keep feeling that this person is very unique, they're nothing like what people might expect of them. I see here where you may not know it, but this person is kind of a master manifestor.

You could've also been family in a past life, the Mother Earth card came out with Saturn. So it feels like this is a very karmic relationship. I see where you may feel driven to let them go, or almost this push or pull to be with them simultaneously. I heard something about "the moon wants you to be together" which is weird? For someone this could have to do with Hekate. I also heard Lilith. I feel like this person is trying to step up to the plate but you aren't seeing it. For some reason astrology is extremely important in this connection, looking at the synastry between y'all could help you better grasp the magnitude of what you are both experiencing. It's crazy how this song is lining up in a way the lyrics are "Feel the warmth coming through Streams of light come into view In a daze, but coming to Slipping away, falling through"

I honestly recommend listening to this song for clarity, Invisible - The Groovy Nobody It feels like this connection was fated or destined, I heard written in the stars. You guys really need to look at your synastry together or something. If you and your person are into astrology. I also have Neptune with Black Moon Lilith in Pisces and Black Moon Lilith in Leo. It feels like your shadows almost become projected unto one another. The Sun also came out, it feels like you two Mirror heavily. I'm not big on twin flame shit, and never have been- HOW IN THE EVER. IF that's something that's come up HEALTHILY, and not in a dynamic that is actively harmful and abusive then MAYBE it's something you should POSSIBLY consider pondering as a concept and learning about soul connection. If this person treats you like shit then forget about it, immediately, and do not engage. I don't care how much they love you, if they're actively causing you intentional or unintentional damage in the same pattern even if you've communicated about it, and if they are unreceptive and unwilling to change kiss their ass goodbye.

Know your worth. I just want to make one thing abundantly clear here, which is the matter of the fact that any point you can come out of alignment with someone. The thing is, that everything is part of a cycle, and part of a collective. That's how collective energies work, so just as there are plenty of you in this particular collective having this particular experience there are more and less evolved versions of that same person. Different people of course, who are unique and different from your person. Yet, who have a similar energetic composition or depending on how things go that could even be YOU shifting into a new collective or them shifting into a new collective. This is about matching energy, but not in a petty way. Learning that the two of you are literal mirrors to each others souls', so just keep that in mind.

Astrological placements: 12H Sun, Gemini moon, mars in cancer/4h Mars, Mars square moon, Mars conjunct sun, moon in the 9th house or 9 degree moon, Aquarius Sun, Aquarius Moon, Venus in Capricorn.

Channeled words: Dominance, envy, compassionate, bones, baby blue converse tennis shoes, Santa muerte, stellaris, Planetarium, Cassiopeia, Vashti, Cereal Milk, Vampire Diaries, Courage the Cowardly dog, City of Angels,

P I L E T H R E E Whoever holds Feminine energy in this connection is a very powerful being. This is someone who has a commanding energy, very womanly, very witchy, very much dark Feminine energy. This Feminine is very in tune with their shadow, it seems like second nature to them low-key. This person may push the boundaries and limitations of what you previously thought you knew. This person may be contemplating their next moves at the moment. They could feel like they want to make shit work out in their favor in life for once. It's such a cosmic energy, it's so powerful. I feel like if you're the feminine energy this is your energy, I don't think the feminine energies in this pile fully grasp their power. You deserve what you desire. Anyways, back to you and your person! It's so crazy, because as I was pulling cards I kept thinking to myself how your person feels like outer space. Or like a void, but not in a negative way, it's just that their energy is very deep and almost reminds me of the darkness that exists within and without. This connection is likely deeply transformative for you in some way shape or form. Anyways, but ASHERAH fell out and I remember my mentor telling me before that when Asherah divorced from Yahweh she went to space. He told me about this because at the time I was super curious about Jack Parsons and asked about his suicide. A lot of people believe he killed himself to be with Asherah. ANYWHO LOL, This connection is meant to guide you towards your purpose. I heard high level soul mate, so you and this person could be very in tune and in a healthy state. There feels like a lot of passion and admiration. I'm channeling Dirty Woman by Pink Floyd, lmao wowww the song is 3:33 3 is the number of Saturn, and I low-key see this in a sense of longevity. This may be your person frfr, I feel like there's sooo much passion here. It's giving Aries. You could have Aries Mars, Moon, Venus, or Sun. This is deep awe-inspiring passion that lights your heart on fire. It feels like there is a deep creative or sexual connection here, take what resonates!

I just heard Mars in the 12th house? Idk why I started channeling I wanna be Evil by Eartha Kitt, I feel like this person is incredibly unorthodox. They may be a bit of an edgelord (it Is very Aries energy tho, so are we really surprised?) I feel like this is someone who can be sultry, passionate, and outgoing, but also is highly intelligent. Someone with a huge personality, they could be very Theatrical in their self expressions. It's very much giving Leo and Black Moon Lilith in Leo actually came out LOL with Queen Jezebel and The Black Madonna, and The Sun... so like, are we surprised at how big this person's energy is? It feels like you've never experienced someone like this person almost? I'm getting a lot of channeled Songs for this pile, The next one is 11 AM by Incubus. Your person could be depressed. They may be struggling with a lot of difficulty in how to move forward with this connection. They may feel estranged or disconnected at times, I feel like there is a deep wound they are healing. I also keep hearing evil eye, so you may need to be more private about your relationship or this friendship. This connection is very special, and people don't always understand it. I think there is at times judgement from others regarding this connection and it makes them feel pessimistic and isolated.

Don't be afraid to communicate with your person, I feel like they really care a lot for you. I keep feeling a weird feeling in my stomach, it could feel like the prospect of love is scary for one or both of you. Connection could be something that feels very dissonant at times to someone? It's important for you guys to not dwell in the past, to move forward with great passion and vigor is the best thing you can do. I think this pile needs to do some cleansing and hex removal, you'd possibly benefit from revisiting some of your old notes for some of you? Something in a notepad, or on a computer. Notes of some kind. Something about clues? that's so specific lol. Channeled Songs: I wanna be Evil - Eartha Kitt, Dirty Woman - Pink Floyd. Placements: Aries (Sun, moon, Mars, Neptune, Venus), 12h Mars, Mercury conjunct Jupiter Channeled messages: Past life energy, "keeper of keys", I heard "master of none" as well, catch me if you can, count your blessings, "I can't wait to meet you", FNAF?, LMAO tell me why I just channeled master builder (I need to rewatch the lego movie soon fr),

[fishnapple]

How you can find love

This reading is about romantic love, but you can use it for other kinds of love, just change the details a little to suit you better. How you can find it or accept it, what are the obstacles and opportunities.

This is a general reading meant for multiple people. Take only what resonates and leave out the rest.

Your feedback is much appreciated. If you find the reading resonated with you, leave a comment, I’d love to know 🎐

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AMETHYST

There's an element of downplaying yourself, settling for less, or just wanting to float on the surface. Maybe you've been used to the kind of relationship that only centre around the superficial mundane matters, just gliding on the surface without going deeper like talking, sharing about the past and the future together, about dreams, inspirations, fears, life philosophy, etc.

You might keep going for the same kind of people, those that remind you of something or someone from a distant past, the unconscious memories. Even though these people don't actually bring you fulfilment or help you going forward, on the contrary, some can even hinder you.

You also have the tendency to keep your thoughts to yourself, refusing to voice your opinions and feelings. Maybe it makes you feel vulnerable, or you're not too sure of what you actually feel about someone and how they feel about you. There's maybe lots of crushes, fleeting moments of attraction that you kept hidden, not allowing them to materialise into something more concrete.

All of this needs to be changed. You need to go to the opposite direction of these tendencies, to give yourself a new space to explore and dive deeper. You might feel the urge to runaway, to avoid when things start to get more serious, when you feel like you have to open yourself up and share a part of yourself while receive a part of the other person. Both the act of giving and receiving are scary but necessary.

If in the past, you were more tolerant of many behaviours of others that weren't in alignment with your values or make you comfortable, you would easily accept the possibility of a connection with someone if they managed to remind you of those familiar patterns. Now, you should be more selective of whom you can share that possibility with. There's a need to be more discerning and choose what's best for you. Choose someone who actually can go far with you, not just from shallow compatibility viewpoint. To do that, you need to be more vocal and express your desire more clearly, which starts from keeping a clear head even when you find yourself falling for someone.

But if you're sure of someone, don't try to hide it, don't try to stall for more time. The more you keep them hidden in your head and your heart, the more distorted their image are, you will begin to prefer the distorted version of them in your head rather than the real person.

ROSE QUARTZ

You have many conflicting ideas regarding love. This conflict of different ideas is what makes you feel confused and hard to find a suitable person who can satisfy all those criteria.

There's this definition of an ideal love and partner you've been observing from the community and the society you're living in. A traditional viewpoint that you can't help but subconsciously absorb it. It may be about how you have to do many hard work to be a perfect lover, a perfect spouse, how you have to have this skill or that skill, how you need to behave, how to talk and act in a manner that can attract potential suitors.

Then there's also your own version of idealistic love, what you think love ought to be. You put love on a pedestal, making it a sacred and mysterious concept that hardly any mortals can touch and possess it. This view might have been influenced by what you were taught and what you saw in the media. You've put love onto such a high place that you couldn't find anyone fit for it, nor did you find yourself capable or worthy of it. If someone managed to trigger an association with that perfect ideal, you would put that person also on a pedestal, trying to be the right partner to them, regardless of how you really are. On the opposite end, if they showed a sign of failing, you immediately judge them as not right for you and discard the possibility of a connection.

While a part of you think of love as a fairy tale, another part of you just want to live a normal, realistic life with mundane concerns. So then sometimes you might wonder, when will this ordinary life sparkle, transform into a fairy tale?

You might think that being in love will stifle your independence. The energy is directed inward. You're so used to spending time and effort on yourself, making your life as much fulfilling as possible. There's this tendency of when you are in a relationship, you focus on the security of yourself in that relationship while neglecting the necessary compromises to make a relationship work. These compromises mean changing your routines, making an effort to understand the other person's, working out your own shadows, and taking care of each other.

So to find love, a love that you can hold in your hand, not admiring from afar, you need to take the vision of love down from the pedestal, make it mundane and real with all the ugliness and awkwardness. Stop waiting for the moment when you'll become a perfect human to love and another perfect human will come to love you. Just remove the "perfect" part. What you need to be ready is how to be with another person. Not in an individualistic way like "I do my part, you do yours, then the relationship will work", but more like "we do this together". It's not wrong to look for an ideal love, but you need to realise that love exists just around you too.

FLOURITE

For this group, it is not so much about how you can find love, but it's more about how you can let love in. The thing that you need to realise is that it's okay to open yourself up, and that love can make you feel safe.

I think many people are attracted to you, but you seem to keep them at arm-length, not pushing them away but not letting them closer either. One part of you wants to love and be loved, but another part of you seems to doubt your ability to love and the chance of meeting someone who can truly love you. I think your end goal is marriage or a long-term commitment. So choosing someone means that person has to have the potential to be your life partner, someone you can see a future with.

I sense some negative talks surrounding you. Maybe they come from your own mind, you might worry about how you come across to other people, are you attractive enough, are you lovable. Or the negative talks could come from people around you, they might rush you to find a partner, or saying things that make you fearful of relationships, those opinions could come from their own experiences and their beliefs but their words have the opposite effect of encouragement.

There's a heavy shadow hidden in you that affects how you perceive romance and relationship. This could come from a domineering figure in your life that imposes a set of restrictions and control. Or some painful past memories that left a deep wound in your heart, making you build walls around yourself. There's this belief of being "deserving" or "worthy" of love. You tried your best to be someone loving, but sometimes you might feel that your efforts weren't rewarded, that you weren't appreciated enough. Which made you questioned yourself why it was so, and the answer that you've arrived at might not be entirely objective and correct, you might think that it's because you lacked something and you needed to try harder. While the answer might be just that you haven't met the right crowd, the right person yet.

The greatest components of an ideal relationship for you are the feeling of safety and unconditional love. Some people might seem perfect on paper, they might do all the right things but if you don't feel safe and accepted when you're with them, they are not the right one for you. What can be considered safe is pretty subjective. The definition could be formed by past experiences and upbringing. What one considers safe might not actually be healthy for them, so a certain level of objectivity is needed.

Someone who will not trigger your wounds and hurt you further, someone whom you can be yourself with, someone who can give you advice and guidance when you're feeling lost, someone who is strong enough to be your rock in difficult times. The person having these qualities will likely be the one who can get past your walls.

CITRINE

The answer can be pretty straightforward, you have the Sun stone landed on the centre. You can find love when you put yourself into the centre of your life. When you're confident enough and consider yourself being in a good place in life. It might sound egotistical, but focusing on yourself can mean many things.

One thing is you allowing yourself to shine your brightest. You might have some reservations about expressing yourself fully to people. Maybe you're afraid that you will be judged as selfish or too assertive. There's a desire to be rebellious, to be free, and do whatever you want, but there's also your ego wanting to be in control, to retain your dignity. Between them is a wall of fear that can be linked to the unconscious realm. You might be used to the idea of sacrifice, serving others, being selfless. Acting in any other ways would be considered not desirable. But by expressing yourself fully, you deliver the message to the world that you care about yourself and allow yourself the freedom to be. This message can be translated into the care you have for other people's expressions, the freedom you can give them. This can be very attractive and open up many new opportunities for you to explore.

Another thing about putting yourself into the centre is that you have a chance to examine yourself closely, getting to know yourself, unravel all the hidden desires, the unspoken fears, both the good and the bad.

I see a lack of action. There are things holding you back, gripping you immobile. There are offers of love and connection, but you don't see them, or you turn your back to them while focusing on other things. It's like when things come to you, you dismiss them because it's not what you want, you are waiting for the things that you want to come to you, they have to be chosen by you first. You get into a tunnel vision of seeing only the things you want. But then you tend to be passive and wait for them while falling into over-thinking mode, dissecting every nuance and scenario. In the end, too tired and pessimistic from the conclusion you've reached, you choose to stay still and withdraw. Another failed dream goes unto the archive.

So instead of waiting for love, this group truly needs to actively recognise and find love and seize the chance when it comes to you. This will require you to completely overhaul your beliefs. Especially about how one should act.

There's a greater chance of finding love through groups of friends, through a community of shared interests. An emphasis on communication, talking about what you love, communicating openly, sharing lighthearted joys while also being able to discuss more serious and philosophical matters.

TIGER'S EYE

I see that you're already on the journey of love. It started with an open heart in the subconscious realm. I feel that you're very guided and protected. It might come from your own intuition or a higher spirit. Who knows, maybe they are the same. Right now, there's a gate opened for you, a new opportunity, your intuition can guide you towards it.

But I also see there's a wall obscuring that opportunity from coming into life. You might be dealing with some difficulties in material, physical plane. Trying to stabilise yourself. You might think that now is not the right time to be in love, a relationship right now would be impractical. You would be in thinking mode, trying to be logical and staying still, denying the possibility of love even when your intuition is saying otherwise. It's like you're trying to restrict yourself, trying to control, to bring order into your life, which might be the opposite of what love could bring you. You discard feelings that you deemed frivolous and silly fun, only looking for serious commitment but failed to realise that frivolous fun can develop and grow into something more serious and long lasting. You're sceptical of the feeling when you are in a truly fulfilling relationship. Is that really wonderful like how those romantics are telling us? Or is it just an elusive idea, fused by loneliness and the longing for completion?

But there will be an event or events shaking you out of that mode. It will be when you decide to leave the old way of living behind and try to find who you really are. I see travelling to distant lands, somewhere with a different culture that can open your mind and expand your ideas, somewhere that can make you forget all about your current reality in a moment to find stillness within. Love comes to you when you have the space to hold it and can give it to others

You might find love from a faraway land but sustaining it, keeping it alive and growing with it will be an ongoing lesson that you need to never cease learning. It's easy to slip back into old thinking mode, putting on suspicion and caution. Sharing yourself with another person seems daunting enough, navigating all the ups and downs of a relationship will require even more hard work. But I think you are brave. Beneath all that scepticism is an unwavering faith and an adventurous spirit that needs to come out boldly to take the reign, once in a while.

RED JASPER

I feel that love is something very intense for you, something that you may get drunk on, putting it on a pedestal. When you're in love, you want to be all in, emotional fulfilment comes before anything else. If a connection doesn't elicit strong feelings in you and things seem mild and lighthearted then you could not sustain it for too long.

There's a tendency to be obsessive, especially with potentials. If you catch feelings for someone, you will immediately think about how to cement the connection and then worrying about potential discords. This tendency might have put you in situations that left deep scars. On one hand, you want to love blindly, on the other hand, you are cautious of potential hurts and pains, of the past repeating itself.

There's might be a focus on the unusual, a liking for the differences. The more someone is different from you, the more foreign they feel, the more likely they're to catch your eyes. Exotic features, foreign accents, alternative style and taste, an element of other-worldliness.

Physical compatibility might be an important criterion. You want to immerse yourself with the other person, holding them closely, both physically and emotionally, mentally. But doing that can put a burden on you, everything feels so heavy, sometimes to the point of suffocating. You hold yourself and the other person prisoners of love. And when the unbearable weight keeps pushing both of you down and down without a way up, one of you or both will want to break away, resulting in a seemingly sudden break.

The advice for you is to take things more lightly, lightly is different from not being serious. Seeing things in different angles, imagine being someone else looking in from the outside, detach yourself a little bit. Focus more on the mental compatibility, not just how many things you both agree with each other but also how you can disagree with each other, how different you are and how that difference contribute to the growth of the connection.

You might be in a more masculine energy when pursuing love, the act of going after something and trying to control it requires masculine energy. On the contrary, accepting love and nurturing it needs you to be in feminine energy. I'm not saying which energy is more preferable but there's a need to balance them out, to be in more of one energy when the other is being too dominant.

Then you will find love is not a burden to hold on your shoulders or a fruit that can be devoured completely, but like a plant you want to nurture steadily and see it grow day by day. It's something to be celebrated and enjoy, not something to be chased after and then be kept away in a safe.

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JUPITER IN THE ZODIAC SIGNS. PART 1

Jupiter in Aries

For a person with Jupiter in Aries, qualities such as optimism, enthusiasm, entrepreneurial spirit, and directness are characteristic. Natives with Jupiter in Aries are full of energy and always ready for action. They cannot sit still, they are constantly seeking new opportunities and adventures. They are brave, energetic, and self-confident, but can sometimes be impatient and egoistic. Their optimism is contagious and helps them overcome any obstacles. They strive for independence and dislike being told what to do. Therefore, they prefer to act independently and make their own decisions. Sometimes they act too impulsively, without thinking through the consequences of their actions. This can lead to mistakes, but they quickly learn from them. It is recommended that they learn to use their energy constructively and consider the interests of others.

Jupiter in Taurus

Jupiter in Taurus bestows upon the native practicality, sensuality, and a desire for comfort and stability. People with this placement of Jupiter know how to earn and manage money, value material comfort, and strive for financial independence. They enjoy the beauty of the world around them, appreciate art, and have good taste. In their actions, they rely on common sense and prefer stability and predictability. They are capable of working long and hard to achieve their goals, without being afraid of difficulties. However, they should avoid excessive attachment to material values and develop flexibility and adaptability, as sometimes they can be too stubborn and unwilling to accept necessary changes. The desire for material well-being can turn into a craving for accumulation. It is necessary to learn to find a balance between the material and the spiritual.

Jupiter in Gemini

Natives with this placement strive for new knowledge and experiences, love to learn and explore different areas of life. They easily make acquaintances, have the gift of persuasion, and know how to find a common language with different people. Jupiter in Gemini helps its owners look at the world positively and believe in the best, thus energizing those around them. Travel for them is a way to expand their horizons and gain new impressions, which may also be related to an interest in learning foreign languages. But not everything is as sweet as one would like, as Jupiter in Gemini is in its detriment (exile). Superficiality is characteristic of natives with this placement. They should learn to concentrate on one task and delve into it. They can quickly lose interest in something that recently seemed exciting to them. Therefore, it is necessary to develop perseverance and patience.

Jupiter in Cancer

Natives with Jupiter in Cancer have developed intuition and the ability to understand the feelings of others. They are always ready to support and help loved ones. They are generous not only materially but also emotionally. They are ready to share their love, care, and attention. They value family traditions, the history of their family, and feel a deep connection to their lineage. They often have culinary talents and love to cook for their loved ones. Home for them is associated with warmth, comfort, and delicious food. They are good at sensing the moods of others and can foresee the further development of events. Jupiter in Cancer can bring luck in matters related to real estate, home decor, and family business. Sometimes natives can be too sensitive and vulnerable. It is important for them to learn to manage their emotions and not take everything too personally. And, unfortunately, a love for home comfort and delicious food can lead to weight problems. Therefore, it is necessary to monitor their diet and lead a healthy lifestyle.

Jupiter in Leo

Jupiter in Leo is generous, magnanimous, self-confident, and craves recognition. Natives with this placement of Jupiter love to be the center of attention, possess creative potential, and strive for self-expression. They also love to give gifts and share their well-being with others. They enjoy seeing the joy and happiness of those around them. Natives with Jupiter in Leo are natural leaders, capable of leading others. Their positive attitude energizes those around them. They love luxury and entertainment, and sometimes can be too proud and egocentric. It is important for them to develop modesty and learn to appreciate not only their own but also others’ achievements. They are prone to dramatizing events and can exaggerate their emotions. They should not forget that attention needs not only to be received but also given. Developing empathy and the ability to listen to others will help avoid communication problems.

Jupiter in Virgo

Natives with Jupiter in Virgo are practical, modest, most often possess analytical abilities, and strive for perfection in everything. They approach problem-solving practically and rationally, are not prone to fantasies and dreams, preferring instead to act based on facts and logic. Natives with this placement of Jupiter are attentive to details, hardworking, and always ready to help. They are not afraid of routine work and are willing to put in a lot of effort to achieve their goals. They value order and cleanliness, but sometimes they can be too critical of themselves and others. They can also be prone to fastidiousness and excessive attention to detail. They need to learn to relax, find a balance between striving for the ideal and accepting imperfection, and not be too critical of themselves and others.

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The difference with Sun, Moon, and Rising in signs: Libra - Pisces

Libra Sun:

A Libra Sun expresses identity through relationships, harmony, and aesthetic sensibility. These individuals see themselves as peacemakers, valuing fairness, diplomacy, and cooperation. Their ego is shaped by the quality of their connections—they often define themselves in relation to others. Libra Suns are charming and graceful, with a natural talent for seeing multiple perspectives. They’re motivated by beauty, balance, and justice, and may avoid conflict to maintain peace. While they strive for harmony, they can struggle with indecisiveness or people-pleasing tendencies.

Libra Moon:

A Libra Moon seeks emotional balance, often processing feelings through intellectual or social filters. These individuals are soothed by calm environments, pleasant company, and thoughtful conversation. They have a strong need for emotional reciprocity and may feel unsettled when relationships feel imbalanced. Emotional expression is usually tactful and controlled—they prefer to avoid drama or confrontation. There’s a desire to be liked and emotionally validated, which can sometimes lead to suppressing their own needs to keep the peace.

Libra Rising:

Libra Rising people present themselves as polite, diplomatic, and socially conscious. They have an approachable, charming demeanor and are often concerned with how they’re perceived. First impressions are marked by elegance, grace, and a sense of refinement. They approach life through the lens of relationships and often take on the role of the mediator or aesthetic curator in new environments. They may have symmetrical features, a stylish appearance, and an innate ability to attract and relate to others harmoniously.

Scorpio Sun:

A Scorpio Sun identifies with depth, intensity, and transformation. These individuals have a magnetic presence and are often emotionally powerful, even if they keep their true feelings hidden. Their ego is tied to their ability to endure, transform, and maintain control over their emotional world. Scorpio Suns are passionate, loyal, and fiercely protective—but they may also be secretive or possessive. They have a strong drive for truth and emotional authenticity and often experience life as a series of emotional rebirths and psychological breakthroughs.

Scorpio Moon:

A Scorpio Moon feels everything intensely, but rarely shows the full depth of their emotions. They crave emotional intimacy and loyalty, yet often protect themselves with emotional walls and secrecy. Trust is essential—and once given, their devotion runs deep. These individuals can be prone to emotional extremes, holding onto pain or passion long after the moment has passed. There’s a need to feel emotionally powerful and in control, and they may become withdrawn or suspicious when vulnerable. Their emotional world is private, complex, and deeply intuitive.

Scorpio Rising:

Scorpio Rising individuals come across as intense, mysterious, and perceptive. They have a penetrating gaze and an aura of quiet power that often intrigues or intimidates others. Their approach to life is strategic and instinct-driven—they observe before engaging, and prefer to stay emotionally guarded until trust is established. First impressions may be marked by a sense of secrecy, confidence, or magnetism. Others often see them as serious, private, and psychologically sharp, with an ability to see through façades and superficiality.

Sagittarius Sun:

A Sagittarius Sun identifies with freedom, exploration, and truth-seeking. These individuals see themselves as adventurers—whether physically, mentally, or spiritually. Their ego is nourished by learning, expanding horizons, and living authentically. Sagittarius Suns are optimistic, enthusiastic, and often have a bold sense of humor. They can be blunt, freedom-loving, and allergic to constraints. At their best, they inspire others with their zest for life and philosophical insight; at their worst, they may struggle with commitment or tact.

Sagittarius Moon:

A Sagittarius Moon needs emotional freedom and stimulation. These individuals process emotions through a broad, philosophical lens, often preferring optimism and logic over emotional depth. They may downplay heavy feelings and seek escape through travel, humor, or learning. Their emotional security comes from feeling unrestrained and having the space to grow. While friendly and open, they may avoid emotional intimacy if it feels too confining. They thrive in relationships that allow for adventure, intellectual connection, and shared ideals.

Sagittarius Rising:

Sagittarius Rising individuals come across as enthusiastic, energetic, and open-minded. They have an adventurous spirit that radiates outward, often attracting others with their optimism and philosophical nature. First impressions are often marked by a sense of humor, spontaneity, and an eagerness to explore life’s big questions. Their approach to life is direct, bold, and future-oriented—they’re not afraid to take risks or break from the norm. Others often see them as inspiring, curious, and refreshingly honest.

Capricorn Sun:

A Capricorn Sun defines themselves through ambition, responsibility, and long-term achievement. These individuals take life seriously and often feel a strong sense of duty to build something meaningful—whether in their career, family, or reputation. Their ego is fueled by discipline and accomplishment, and they identify with being competent, respected, and self-sufficient. Capricorn Suns can be cautious and reserved, but underneath is a deeply driven and loyal spirit. They seek success not for vanity, but for stability and legacy.

Capricorn Moon:

A Capricorn Moon feels most secure when they’re in control of their emotions and environment. They may struggle to express vulnerability and instead focus on practicality, productivity, or long-term planning as a way to cope with feelings. This Moon placement often has a serious emotional nature and may carry the weight of responsibility from a young age. Emotional needs are met through structure, trust, and achievement. Though they may appear stoic, they feel deeply and show care through consistent, tangible support.

Capricorn Rising:

Capricorn Rising individuals come across as mature, composed, and goal-oriented. Others may see them as serious, responsible, or even intimidating at first glance. Their first instinct is to plan, assess risk, and take a measured approach to life. They tend to present themselves in a professional, classic, or understated way, often giving off an air of authority. Over time, people discover their dry humor and quiet loyalty, but they lead with ambition and reliability in any new setting.

Aquarius Sun:

An Aquarius Sun expresses identity through originality, innovation, and social ideals. These individuals value independence and often identify as unconventional or ahead of their time. They’re drawn to ideas, systems, and causes that benefit the collective, and their ego is nourished by being seen as unique or visionary. Aquarius Suns are often cool-headed, intellectually curious, and a bit rebellious. While they may seem emotionally detached, they’re deeply loyal to their principles and communities, valuing connection through shared ideals over emotional intimacy.

Aquarius Moon:

An Aquarius Moon processes emotions through logic and detachment, often analyzing rather than feeling them directly. These individuals need space and independence in emotional relationships and may resist clinginess or overly emotional displays. Their inner world is driven by ideas and ideals—they feel most at ease when aligned with a larger purpose or surrounded by stimulating conversation. Emotionally, they can be unpredictable, but they care deeply in a quiet, abstract way. They feel nurtured through friendship, innovation, and mental freedom.

Aquarius Rising:

Aquarius Rising people come across as quirky, cerebral, and one-of-a-kind. They often make a striking first impression through their style, ideas, or unpredictability. Their approach to life is future-focused and experimental—they challenge norms and seek truth through innovation or rebellion. They instinctively stand apart from the crowd and may appear emotionally cool or eccentric. Others see them as interesting, unconventional, and open-minded, though sometimes hard to fully pin down.

Pisces Sun:

A Pisces Sun identifies with compassion, creativity, and spiritual sensitivity. These individuals are deeply imaginative and empathetic, often blurring the lines between self and others. They may be drawn to art, music, mysticism, or helping professions, as their ego thrives on emotional connection and transcendence. Pisces Suns often have an elusive quality and may struggle with boundaries or staying grounded. Their identity is fluid and dreamy—they see life through an emotional and symbolic lens and seek to dissolve limitations of the material world.

Pisces Moon:

A Pisces Moon feels emotions on an almost psychic level. These individuals absorb the emotional energy of others and the environment, making them incredibly compassionate—but also vulnerable to emotional overwhelm. They are nurtured by beauty, spirituality, and imagination. Dreams, intuition, and artistic outlets often serve as emotional processing tools. This Moon placement may feel misunderstood or overly sensitive and benefits from solitude and creative expression. Their emotional world is fluid, poetic, and often beyond words.

Pisces Rising:

Pisces Rising individuals appear gentle, mystical, and dreamy. They often give off a soft, ethereal energy that makes others feel safe or intrigued. Their first instinct is to flow with life rather than resist it, and they often adapt to their surroundings like water. This can make them seem elusive or hard to define. Others may see them as intuitive, imaginative, and deeply empathetic. They may unconsciously mirror those around them, blending spiritual sensitivity with an almost chameleon-like presence.

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࣪✮🕷🖇️✮⋆The 6th House talks about how we deal with everyday work, our routine, health and service to others. It is the space where we see how we relate to what keeps us busy, in the most practical way possible ࣪✮🕷🖇️✮⋆

ִ ࣪✮🕷🖇️✮⋆˙ Aries in the 6th House: Your routine is anything but boring. You like challenges for sure. You are motivated by a good challenge at work and you never have trouble launching yourself into new experiences. But, be careful not to overload your schedule, because your energy is so strong that sometimes you get exhausted quickly. The important thing is to find balance so that your passion does not turn into exhaustion.

ִ ࣪✮🕷🖇️✮⋆˙ Taurus in the 6th House: Stability is your mantra. You need a routine that provides you with security and comfort, both at work and in your health. Your practical approach makes you excellent at repetitive tasks, and you take self-care seriously, especially when it comes to good food and rest. The challenge here is to avoid the tendency to fall into routine without excitement.

ִ ࣪✮🕷🖇️✮⋆˙ Gemini in the 6th House: You always have something to do. You love to keep yourself busy with various tasks, and above all, you need variety. You are not attracted to monotonous routines. You like to interact and learn in your work, so being in an environment that allows you to talk and share ideas is ideal. Health-wise, you are likely to forget to take care of your body because you are so mentally active.

ִ ࣪✮🕷🖇️✮⋆˙ Cancer in the 6th House: Your work and health are deeply connected to your emotions. You feel most motivated when your work environment has a personal and familiar touch. Routine is important, but you need to feel emotionally supported. Health-wise, you can be very protective of others, but make sure you take care of your emotional well-being as well.

ִ ࣪✮🕷🖇️✮⋆˙ Leo in the 6th House: You are the kind of person who puts heart into everything you do, even the most mundane. You love that your work gets recognition, and your creativity can shine through even in everyday tasks. Your health is also an expression of your identity: when you take care of yourself, you do it with pride. Avoid burnout from wanting to impress too much, Leo, rest is part of your magic.

ִ ࣪✮🕷🖇️✮⋆˙ Virgo in the 6th House: The 6th House in your home! You are in your element when it comes to organization, details, and efficiency. Work for you is not just a task; it is an opportunity to hone and serve. Your attention to detail can make you very effective in what you do, but you also have to be careful of the tendency to self-criticism. Beware of being too hard on yourself.

ִ ࣪✮🕷🖇️✮⋆˙ Libra in the 6th House: You need balance in all aspects of your life, including your daily routine. Harmony in work and work relationships is essential for you to feel good. If your work environment is stressful or disorganized, your emotional health may suffer. As for physical care, it's sometimes hard to maintain a balance if you're too distracted by others. Find time for yourself.

ִ ࣪✮🕷🖇️✮⋆˙ Scorpio in the 6th House: When you get involved in your work, you do it thoroughly. You don't settle for the superficial; you need depth, even in the smallest things. Your health is a topic that interests you deeply, and even if you don't show it, you obsess over finding the best way to take care of yourself. Avoid extreme cycles of stress that can affect your well-being.

ִ ࣪✮🕷🖇️✮⋆˙ Sagittarius in the 6th House: Daily routine is hard for you. Your soul seeks adventure! You need a job that allows you to explore, learn, and grow. You're motivated by freedom more than repetitive tasks, so if your day-to-day is monotonous, you can switch off quickly. In terms of health, you need variety in your exercise and a way to release your energies.

ִ ࣪✮🕷🖇️✮⋆˙ Capricorn in the 6th House: For you, routine is an art. You know how to work hard and how to structure your day to be productive. You are very disciplined when it comes to your health and well-being. The problem is that sometimes you forget to rest because you are so focused on your goals. Don't feel guilty about taking time to recharge.

ִ ࣪✮🕷🖇️✮⋆˙ Aquarius in the 6th House: Your approach to work is quite innovative and unique. You don't like traditional routines, so you look for original ways to carry out your daily tasks. You are interested in health in an intellectual way and are often attracted to unconventional methods. Maintain your independence, but don't forget to take care of your body while exploring new ideas.

ִ ࣪✮🕷🖇️✮⋆˙ Pisces in the 6th House: Your work has a touch of sensitivity and creativity. You may like to help others in an intuitive way, but you must make sure you don't get lost in the emotional chaos of everyday life. Your health sometimes depends on your spiritual and emotional connection, so finding moments for mental rest is crucial. Creativity can be your best medicine.

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how can you glow up: your 7h - relationships and balance within them

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7h aries (1°, 13°, 25°), 7h mars, and/or mars aspecting 7h ruler

setting and maintaining healthy boundaries

avoid asserting dominance: being direct is fine, but ensure your heard and understood shouldn't mean overpowering your partner’s needs.

balance independence with being a team: i know you value your freedom, but healthy relationships require mutual consideration and everyone's favorite word *compromise*.

don’t rush into commitment: often this energy can led towards being impulsive - take your time to evaluate whether any relationship you enter aligns with your long-term needs.

recognize when conflict is unnecessary: not every disagreement has to be a fight - learn to pick your battles wisely.

how to improve communication

express your desires without aggression: your passion is your strength, but delivery matters; approach every conversation with clarity, not force.

practice active listening (and patience): "aries goes first" - not necessarily... let your partner fully express themselves before you respond; avoid interrupting out of impatience.

be mindful of reactive tendencies: slow down before responding to avoid saying things in the heat of the moment that you might come to regret.

embrace vulnerability: not every conversation has to be a debate - sharing emotions openly builds deeper connections.

how to attract balanced partnerships

seek partners who match your energy but also ground you: a mix of excitement and stability creates the healthiest dynamic.

avoid overly passive partners: you need someone who can keep up with you, not someone who lets you full on take control of every situation.

seek relationships built on mutual passion and respect: you thrive in partnerships where both people are equally invested and independent.

be open to different love styles: just because someone expresses love differently than you do doesn’t mean they are less devoted.

how to become more confident in relationships

own your assertiveness: you know what you want, and that’s powerful - your confidence will come when you embrace this without fearing this power will ruin your relationships (that being said balance assertiveness with control (don't succumb to being overly controlling within your relationships)).

let go of the need to prove yourself: you don’t need to be “the best” in/at relationships; love isn’t a competition.

trust that the right person won’t see your fire as “too much”: your intensity will be attractive when matched with the right person.

learn to identify what you deserve

relationships where you feel free yet supported: you need both your autonomy and a deep connection.

a partner who values your drive, not one who competes with you or tries to put you down: someone who encourages your ambitions rather than challenges your authority.

excitement without unnecessary chaos/fights/argument: love can be passionate and spontaneous without being dramatic or unstable.

a partner who respects your strength but also sees your softer side and knows when to support you: emotional security is just as important as adventure.

7h gemini (3°, 15°, 27°), 7h mercury, and/or mercury aspecting 7h ruler

setting and maintaining healthy boundaries

avoid superficial connections: it’s likely very easy for you to keep things light, but deeper emotions/conversations are necessary for real intimacy.

balance social time with personal time: you thrive on interaction, but ensure you’re not overextending yourself in relationships.

set limits: make sure both you and your partner respect each other.

be clear about your expectations: ambiguity can lead to misunderstandings, so express your needs openly and directly.

how to improve communication

be mindful of overanalyzing: not every conversation needs to be dissected.

avoid deflecting with humor or distraction: playfulness is one thing, but true communication requires depth and honesty. so focus and try to read the room.

practice active listening: immerse yourself fully instead of thinking about your response.

express your emotions clearly: love isn’t just about words - allow yourself to feel your emotions, not just explain them.

how to attract balanced partnerships

look for partners who stimulate your mind but ground you: lntellectual chemistry is key for you, but emotional security is equally important.

avoid partners who are too rigid or overly possessive: you need freedom given this airy influence to explore ideas and connections without feeling confined.

choose relationships that allow for variety and spontaneity: routine-driven partner may not suit you long term.

look for someone who communicates: these people's relationships thrive when both partners are curious, expressive, and engaged.

how to become more confident in relationships

own your adaptability: your ability to see different perspectives makes you a dynamic and engaging partner - you are anything but boring. know that.

trust that depth doesn’t mean loss of autonomy: real intimacy can exist alongside independence and exploration. just because you feel locked in doesn't mean you aren't your own person.

commitment doesn’t equal monotony: long-term relationships can still be exciting and full of surprises especially if you are with the right person.

learn to identify what you deserve

communication and mental connection: deep conversations and shared curiosity keep your love alive - there is nothing wrong with that.

freedom to explore: you deserve space to express yourself without feeling boxed in.

someone who understands and embraces your duality: you deserve a partner who appreciates both your playful and serious sides.

7h cancer (4°, 16°, 28°), 7h moon, and/or moon aspecting 7h ruler

setting and maintaining healthy boundaries

recognize emotional enmeshment: your relationships may feel deeply personal, but ensure you’re not absorbing your partner’s emotions as your own.

avoid mood-based decisions: your emotional status influences how you approach relationships, so take time/space before making major commitments.

separate past wounds from present situations: your attachment style will be shaped by past experiences, so aim to heal (or learn coping techniques for) any unresolved emotional patterns prior to relationships if possible.

how to improve communication

express emotions without fear: emotions are strength; don’t suppress them to "keep the peace".

avoid passive-aggressive tendencies: if something bothers you, say so instead of expecting your partner to guess at your feelings.

communicate beyond emotions: all feelings are valid, however, logical discussions are also necessary for resolving conflicts effectively.

recognize emotional triggers: be mindful of how past wounds and insecurities influence your reactions. make your partner aware of these potential triggers.

how to attract balanced partnerships

seek emotionally mature partners: you need someone who understands deep emotional connections and at the same time doesn’t rely on you for all their emotional needs.

look for nurturing but independent partners: a healthy relationship supports emotional depth while allowing for both partners to maintain their own identities.

how to become more confident in relationships

trust your intuition: your emotional intelligence helps you read people well - don’t second-guess yourself. "a spade is a spade".

embrace vulnerability without fearing rejection: the right person will appreciate your emotional openness rather than see it as weakness.

learn to self-soothe rather than seeking constant reassurance: trust yourself to navigate tough emotions independently.

learn to identify what you deserve

someone who respects and values emotional depth: you need someone who embraces emotional intimacy, not someone who avoids it.

a safe space to express feelings without judgment: emotional security should be number one in your relationships.

7h aquarius (12°, 24°), 7h uranus, and/or uranus aspecting 7h ruler

setting and maintaining healthy boundaries

allow for freedom without creating distance: you value independence, but emotional closeness is just as important.

avoid impulsive decisions: the urge to seek (or create it if you get too bored) excitement may lead to relationship instability, so take time before making major decisions.

define what “commitment” means to you: you definition may be unconventional to say the least, so ensure you and your partner are on the same page.

balance personal space with connection: too much distance can create instability in relationships, so maintain open communication at all times if you can't be in each other's space.

how to improve communication

be clear about your need for independence: your partner should understand that love for you doesn’t mean constant togetherness.

avoid being emotionally detached: deep emotional discussions are essential for intimacy - i know i know that's likely tough to swallow for logic loving aquarius.

recognize when you’re being obstinate just because: not every disagreement needs to be a challenge for authority...

how to attract balanced partnerships

seek partners who enjoy change and excitement: you need a dynamic relationship that allow room for growth and new experiences.

avoid overly controlling or possessive partners: you need both respect and autonomy - make that very clear.

look for intellectual and energetic chemistry: mental stimulation and shared passions are essential to holding your interest.

how to become more confident in relationships

own your uniqueness: your unconventional approach to relationships is a strength, not a flaw. love is changing in today's world and you are well suited to step into this new romantic era.

stability doesn’t mean boredom: you can have a committed, fulfilling relationship without sacrificing your excitement for life.

find confidence in flexibility: your adaptability allows you to thrive in various relationship dynamics without fear.

learn to identify what you deserve

someone who appreciates your unpredictability rather attempts to tame you: you deserve someone who enjoys change and spontaneity - they will complement you well.

excitement without chaos: you deserve a love that is thrilling but also emotionally secure.

mutual respect in an unconventional relationship dynamic: whether it’s non-traditional roles, unique ways of expressing love, or alternative commitments (open relationships, polyamory, long-distance, etc.), you need a partner who understands and/or is willing to try your approach.

7h ruler in 1h

setting and maintaining healthy boundaries

avoid losing yourself in relationships: your identity can easily get deeply tied to partnerships, so make sure you maintain your individuality and fight against codependency.

set clear expectations from the start: your relationships will impact your self-image; make suee they align with your values and needs.

balance personal desires with relationship dynamics: avoid over-prioritizing your partner’s needs at the expense of your own.

how to improve communication

be direct about your needs: relationships influence your sense of self so have clear and honest communication to prevent misunderstandings.

self-reflect before reacting: your responses in relationships can be immediate and personal; take time and space to process emotions.

make sure conversations are 50/50: since you likely take the lead, make sure you are allowing space for your partner’s thoughts and perspective.

speak from personal experience, don't make assumptions: avoid projecting your thoughts and beliefs in the relationship; focus on understanding both yourself and them.

how to attract balanced partnerships

look for partners who complement you rather than define you: a good partner will enhance your identity, not "wash you out".

avoid overly dominant or passive partners: you thrive in relationships where you both stand strong.

seek someone who values your independence: a partner who respects you as an individual creates a more overall fulfilling relationship dynamic.

how to become more confident in relationships

embrace self-sufficiency: you don’t need a relationship to feel whole; your strength lies in your own identity. love with come when you aren't looking for it.

recognize that relationships reflect your personal growth: how you engage with others mirrors your self-awareness and growth.

by empowered by love, not dependent on it: partnerships should support your autonomy rather than diminish it.

learn to identify what you deserve

you should be valued and respected: you need a partnership that acknowledges and respects your individuality.

partners who inspire self-growth and confidence: relationships should encourage your personal development rather than limits it.

love is a choice, not a chore: you deserve a partnership where both you and them choose one another, not out of need but out of genuine connection.

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[astrobydalia]

🪐 Astro Observations!!!✨

Happy 2024 babes! Here’s to another year sharing astrology stuff with all of you 🤩

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Yes water moons have great intuition and could be psychic but I very often notice they tend to allow their personal feelings interfere with their decisions and could tend to not follow their intuition as much. The ones that have a more reliable or unbiased intuition imo are Earth moons and Aquarius moon.

Scorpio Venus really do gravitate to unhealthy relationships… All their connections tend to have unfair or imbalanced dynamics to them where there’s no equal give and take. They believe love means throwing yourself and your life away for another person (or they expect someone to give everything away for them) with little to nothing in return. They may not understand the difference between deep intimacy and unhealthy attachment

Libra placements and their ability to appear likable even when they have the shittiest personality deep down

In my opinion Moon is the most important planet if you really wanna begin to know someone at their core. Ultimately no planet can give you full info without the context of the whole chart tho (#AllPlanetsMatter), but you can really uncarcarve sm about someone just by moon placement/aspects/degree, etc. Moon rules your needs and so it really cements your personality and its an energy that you'll project in so many areas of your life (relationships, career, etc)

Fixed Mars are ARGUMENTATIVE fr fr. They need to have the last word and will die on that hill if they have to💀Honorable mention: Virgo/Gemini Mars due to Mercury influence but they’re more about friendly banter and aren’t as stubborn

80% of Aries Moons I've met were very philosophical/spiritual/religious. They can develop a self-awareness that gives them a lot of wisdom. The other 20% were just adult toddlers and very egotistic...

Capricorn placements and their internalized elitism. They really do believe some people are better than others which is the shadow of Capricorn unfortunately

Aquarius Moons are some of the most traumatized people I know fr fr. Whenever I get to know their life and backstory Im always like bro….😶😶 It makes me so sad cause they always bring such good vibes everywhere (they have a playful aura) when in reality there’s a depth of pain underneath you wouldn’t even fathom through that unbothered persona. The OG misunderstood.

We all know Scorpio is all about depth, intensity and looking beyond the surface but I’ve very often observed the exact opposite in scorpio placements. They could tend to be very superficial, greedy and materialistic, more obsessed with wealth and status than any earth placement (it all comes down to power). In such cases their interest in occult or deep topics could also be superficial or opportunistic, like they only see it as something that could give them a leg up in life or help them avoid unseen threats but that's about it.

Cancer Risings do not come across as sensitive at all. They tend to have a rather sassy personality and are pretty defensive 90% of the time tbh. Think about it, are crabs 🦀 cute and cuddly? No, you actually actually have to be very careful around one cause they sting lol. They do wear their heart on their sleeves and are very sensitive and perceptive but because of this they constantly feel like their vulnerability is out for everyone to see hence the guarded attitude.

^I've also noticed they are VERY opinionated and will hold on very tightly to how they think/feel about something. This results in having a reputation for being kinda bold and sharp (Aries 10th). Pro tip: do NOT question these native's morals or integrity unless you wanna see a very snappy side to them, they respond very very very badly if you even insinuate that they might be hypocritical in their values/what matters to them

The interpretation that Aquarius in the 4th house means you’re an outcasted black sheep in the family low-key doesn’t make sense to me tbh. Aquarius is the sign of camaraderie, friendship, inclusivity and community. All the people that I’ve seen with this placement were actually very bonded to their roots and considered their family (and the people they bonded with during childhood) to be "their people" (they also keep their friends close to heart). These natives do tend to distinct themselves as they grow up but this is due to Leo 10th house. I've noticed their family is in general very supportive of them or at the very least they received some input in their upbringing that made them feel special and/or like their uniqueness was celebrated. Feel free to share your opinion/experience tho

I've noticed Virgo Mars people have a perfect balance between being confident in themselves and fulling trusting their abilities while also staying humble and acknowledge room for improvement. Very mature and self-accountable and they're also great people to work with cause they are highly appreciative of good contribution

Sagittarius placements and their ability to be casually rude in a charming way??? 😭

Moon in the 10th house do not have a reputation for being emotional at all, it's quite the opposite they dislike exposing their feelings like that. A lot of their energy is spent trying to appear put-together and emotionally stable. The ones I've noticed have a reputation for being moody or sensitive are Mars in the 10th house

Venus-Moon aspects probably grew up in an environment that fed up this idea they had to be beautiful and conventionally likable in order to be worthy of love. These natives tend to base their self-worth on the amount of emotional validation they get from others and struggle telling the difference between kindness and love

A couple notes on everyone’s fave topic: 8th house synastry

We all know this overlay deals with power dynamics. On a general basis I’ve noticed it’s the planet person who tends to have the upper hand. Exeption: Moon. When your moon falls in someone’s 8th house you tend to be vulnerable one due to the soft nature of this planet, but the house person secretly feels more intimidated

You will NAWT be able to keep secrets from someone you have 8th house synastry with specially if you’re the house person. Sooner or later they’ll see through you, circumstances might force you to expose yourself or you’ll simply feel drawn to revealing the truth to them. With water synastry in general you will feel drawn to share more deep or hidden parts of yourself/your life but with the 8th house you can’t help it, like there’s almost an accusatory tension between the two that grows the more you try to hide something from them

Something I see no one mentioning about 8th house synastry is the planet person always feels intimidated by the house person's success. The planet person will try to take part in the house person's success by taking some credit and have a sense of control over what belongs to the house person, it's giving Kanye's "I made that bitch famous". At best the planet person would want to help boost the house person's endeavors. Either way, when someone's planets land on your 8th house, you will never feel like something is completely yours anymore, somehow the planet person will "take" something away from you that you can't get back making you feel like you owe them or they owe you something big (8th house=debt), which is why this overlay very often goes south and tends to be very depleting.

If we're talking business (which 8th house deals with that) the house person is likely to take a risk on the planet person, invest on them (can be money, time, resources, trust, etc) in hopes that it'll pay off. The house person is most likely to loose something from their involvement with the planet person, but they can also gain a lot from the planet person if the investment pays off. In either case, one could tend to exploit the other if there’s any ill intent from the individual

Water mars people are very smothering in their affection tbh. Once you’ve been chosen, get ready to be bombarded by their attention a bit more each time. Secret stalker vibes.This doesn’t always mean they love you tho, if underdeveloped they may want to “bond” in order to have emotional control over you and use you. For them it’s easy to get what they want through manipulation so leading people on or fooling around is something they tend to do a lot

Going back to the affection topic, water venus are smothering too but they go about their obsession devotion in a much more soft and non-domineering way where they give a lot of power away to their partner

People with Gemini+Scorpio placements in their chart embody the mischievous trickster archetype fr fr. They’re funny but also a menace. Have an ease to become that type of deceitful manipulator who thrives in chaos

I have a theory that your Moon represents the kind of bond or relationship you have with your mother but Ceres represents how your mother actually is

Capricorn and Scorpio placements are huge tsunderes imo 😭

Chiron in Sagittarius/9th house have become disappointed with religious and/or academic institutions. For them both systems are essentially flawed and don't work or don't make sense

+When it comes to religion I've seen a lot of them being atheist and skeptics. Some others still believed in god/universe/etc. but they did not want to support any stablished religious institution and instead have preferred to craft their own belief system. In both cases, they saw the institutionalization of believe systems as something that hindered their freedom of thought and expansion

+When it comes to academics a very similar thing happens. They felt like collage and the educational system restricted their mind instead of expanding it so they just preferred to walk their own path and find growth elsewhere. A friend of mine with this placement quit collage and the other people I've seen who did finish it all said they had a kinda dreadful and/or unfulfilling collage experience which they low-key regret

If you’ve ever felt powerless in the house where you have your pluto, that’s because you gave your power away to the opposite house. For example, if you have Pluto in the 5th house and you felt powerless when it comes to expression, your creativity, etc that’s because you gave too much power to the public opinion/peer pressure (11th house) and what they may say about you if you express yourself genuinely

Scorpio Moons always battle with that "am I a good person?", "am I a monster deep down?" inner conflict. They are more in touch with darker emotions and experiences than the average person so for them it's particularly easy to channel their shadow. This can often make them doubt their own integrity or think they are doomed to never feel happiness and inner peace. This is moon's debilitation for a reason, their inner emotional world is ruled by chaos and turmoil and they tend to be a bit too comfortable (moon) in toxicity and drama, nothing is ever light-hearted for them. If developed this ability of staying in touch with the shadow side of things can actually give them lots of awareness and resilience for the darker sides of the world as well as a very solid moral compass and compassion

Leo Moons likely had grandiose standards forced on them that inflated their self-importance. It's giving "mommy told me I am the best and most special of all" which is great but now they be carrying that mindset for the rest of their lives and this is where lot of their infamous sensitivity and fragile ego comes from cause not fulfilling these standards deeply hurts their heart. In consequence they tend to be more unprepared to accept humbling experiences that'll make them mature

virgo risings are funny!!!! I haven't seen anyone mention this, but every virgo rising I've met cracked me UP, they are so witty and never misse a chance to throw in a cheeky joke every 2 minutes. I think this is overlooked because they keep a rather awkward demeanor to them which often makes for a rather dry delivery. Best examples of this are Ryan Raynolds, Keanue Reeves, Emma Watson, Cole Sprouse...

Also, all Virgo risings I've met tend to come across as huge snobs so it's very common that people don't take their humor or friendliness seriously

Honestly I've noticed this theme with Virgo/6th house inner placements in general where their judgemental nature always makes them unfriendly or snarky to some degree. They can be the kind of people who are never happy with anything and always have a bone to pick.

My main theory as to why Leo risings are the most shy out of all Leo placements is because a lot of them grew up in very problematic and dysfunctional families (Scorpio 4th house) where they were shamed for showing vulnerability or being genuine (Cancer 12th house)

I’ve noticed Aries Suns and Capricorn Suns tend to relate a lot to their fathers, they tend to have very similar character traits as their fathers. For good or for bad their relationship with their father is always very important in their personality.

I find that LEO Suns and Sagittarius Suns always be having daddy issues tho like 😭😭😭😭

One thing about Capricorn is they can be literal billionaires and yet will still refuse to spend a dime on something they think is not worth it

Mutable Moons don’t commit 10000% to things, they’re the type to always have a foot out just in case. They're most likely to commit to things if they don't feel forced or expected to stay permanently

Cardinal energy is very consistent and responsable. People with prominent cardinal placements have a really developed sense of agency, focus and direction (imo this will be more obvious with moon, mars and asc). There's something about them that always gives me this put together "I've got this" kinda vibe, they always seem like they've got it together and always know what to do even when they're lost.

Fixed mercuries and their inability to understand or accept that two different points can be true

Sun/Leo in the 3rd house could want to have a nice car, an expensive or luxurious car from a well-known brand

I’ve seen people saying Venus-Mars conjunction gives it girl vibes. This is also HIGHLY true for Mars-ruled Venus (Aries/Scorpio Venus) or Venus-ruled Mars (Libra/Taurus Mars)

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[lilou0401]

Choi Seunghyun, An Angel ²

Choi Seunghyun x american!reader

Summary: Seunghyun invites reader to a cozy cafe to escape the commotion and apologize for the chaos. As they chat over drinks, the conversation flows easily, with the reader playfully teasing him about his blue hair from Fantastic Baby. Seunghyun, initially embarrassed, starts to relax, enjoying how down-to-earth and genuine she is. They find themselves drawn to each other, and as the evening unfolds, they realize there's a connection neither of them can ignore. What started as a surprising encounter becomes the start of something more.

Warnings: none

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The soft ringing of the bell sounded happily as the large glass door with a cute welcome sign was pushed open, the large hand of Seunghyun, who held the door open for you with a small nervous dimple smile. After asking you if you wanted to sit down at a cafe instead and you agreed, he mentioned a nice cafe around the corner, which you immediately headed towards. On the way there, Seunghyun's mind was wandering wildly, nervous that you wouldn't like the cafe, while you walked next to him with a sweet smile.

As you passed by you thanked him, with slow steps, while he exhaled deeply as the door closed behind him. A few heads turned towards the two of you, curious as to who had entered the shop, before everyone went back to their conversations. Seunghyun's hood had found its way back over his hair, as a protection to avoid being recognized by anyone on the way. Especially now that he was with you, he wanted to avoid another run-in with one of his fans.

His palm carefully and a little uncertainly placed itself on your lower back to push you towards a cozy free table in the corner. The table was made of old wood, in a round shape with a baby pink tablecloth and small scented candles, the two chairs that stood opposite each other were each decorated with a seat cushion, matching the tablecloth. The table seemed to be made for the two of you, so you gave him a smile as you sat down on one of the two chairs, and were pleased to find out that it was quite comfortable.

He stopped just before the table, eyes on you as you rolled your two suitcases into the corner next to you, before he exhaled deeply, straightened his coat and sat down opposite you, thankful that you had left him the seat that had his back to the others to avoid recognition.

He slowly pulled his black coat off his shoulders before hanging it over his chair behind him, to which you also took off your baby pink coat. Your hands rested on the table in front of you, the cold wood touching your palms as your thumb ran awkwardly over the soft skin of your other thumb, your breathing shallow as you tilted your head slightly uncertainly.

"So..." Your voice was soft and a little uncertain. You hadn't known him long enough to know what to talk about, but long enough to know that he didn't seem to like talking about his job, or at least making a big deal out of it. You were sure that he was pretty proud of his band members, you had enough chances to watch their interviews, and it was obvious that they were very important to him.

You liked that he cared so much about others and that he was less superficial, although you thought he should be pretty proud of himself as well, as he had come a long way. You knew that at the beginning of his career he was very insecure about his deep voice, but over time he learned to like it, grew more comfortable with it and let himself go. He was now the main rapper in the band, and he inspired other people with deep voices to start making music too.

Seunghyun cleared his throat, a little embarrassed, not knowing what to talk to you about now, even though he hadn't thought about anything else on the way there. "So..." His deep voice sent a shiver down your spine as you shifted nervously in your seat.

"Uhm so what brings you to Korea?" His hand ran over his chin and your eyes followed his every move while you imagined how it would feel to run your hand over his chin, so sharp it could probably cut paper. He seemed really interested in the answer and that warmed your heart, his brown eyes shone with interest and he looked so innocent at that moment that you suddenly got the urge to squeeze his cheeks.

Embarrassed by your own train of thought, you cleared your throat as your elbow rested on the table, your chin resting in your palm. You paused for a moment before answering him. "Well, I finished my degree in fashion design, and... now that I have that behind me, I have decided that I don't want to spend my future there anymore." As you spoke, you tilted your head slightly, your gaze wandering uncontrollably, a habit you had had for ages.

Seunghyun's lips twitched a small dimple smile as he looked at you quietly while he listened to you and nodded for you to continue. "I've lived there my whole life and I just had to get out, you know? I need a new place, new people around me." It was surprisingly easy for you to talk to him about private things, as you usually find it difficult to quickly become comfortable with strangers, but he made it quite easy for you and that made you very happy.

"And for Korea- I've always wanted to visit Korea since I was little, I used to watch a lot of kdramas, I still do and I don't know- it was always my dream to experience a story like that." A short laugh escaped you as you placed your arm flat on the table, shaking your head, one of your curls slipping from your right shoulder.

Seunghyun didn't even notice how he was slowly fading out the conversation of the other people in the cafe and how you were taking up more and more of his focus and how everything else except you was becoming unimportant. His body had never felt so relaxed and his heart was beating in a calm rhythm. He couldn't believe how you could make him feel, even though he had only known you for an hour and he couldn't imagine a minute without you, that was crazy for him, because never in his life had a woman made him feel like that.

He always had problems with committing to someone, especially touching was a big part of it and no woman ever seemed to be able to handle it, so it was even more strange for him the many times you had touched each other in the last hour and how he didn't seem to mind. If not, it was actually him who longed for one of your touches and always found himself reaching for you.

"I guess it's kinda silly, but I believe in it." You finished your explanation, a hint of pink now covering your cheeks, a little embarrassed about what he would think, although the opinion of others was usually pretty unimportant to you. It was a new feeling, but you didn't necessarily mind. Seunghyun couldn't help but laugh too, his heart warmed, your gentle laughter as sweet as music to his ears.

Your fingers found the cold iron of your bracelet, which you had received as a farewell gift from a friend you met at university, as your laughter slowly died down, now a small, somewhat shy smile on your lips covered with liogloss as you heard his laughter for the first time. Maybe not completely for the first time, as you had heard it several times in his bigbang interviews, but at least for the first time in person, and from that moment on you had decided to do everything you could, to hear it even more often in the future.

"It's not. I get it, believe me, better than you think." He replied with a twitch in his lips as he exhaled shallowly, a gleam in his eyes as he leaned back slightly in his chair, his brown hair tickling his forehead as he folded his arms over his chest and adjusted his seat. A lump formed in your throat, which you immediately swallowed down, as this movement of his was strangely attractive.

Seunghyun leaned his head back briefly in thought as he replayed your words, his chin slightly tensed before he looked you in the eyes again, smiling, his facial features unrealistically soft and you couldn't help but want to melt away. "So you studied fashion design? That's pretty impressive." He couldn't help but think that this fact about you had made you even better.

Since you are working a lot with creative and artistic talent, and he was quite interested in art and the like, you both had something in common at this point already and he couldn't help but be overjoyed about it, which was pretty obvious to see. He would be lying if he said he wasn't interested in learning more about your experience with fashion design and he couldn't wait to learn more about you in general.

Your eyes widened a little after his statement and a little tingling formed in your stomach, and without being able to control it, you found yourself longing for more of his compliments. You couldn't believe how sweet he was to you, you weren't used to men like that in your home country, everyone there was pretty unfriendly and disrespectful, especially towards women, which was one of the reasons why you were never able to really commit to a man in a deeper level.

Your fingers brushed a strand of hair behind your ear as you smiled at him a little uncertainly. "Thank you." His eyes looked at your lips for a millisecond where he could see the shine of the lip gloss before he licked his own and looked back into your eyes, swallowing. "Don't thank me, Angel." He spoke quietly, not noticing how the nickname slipped over his lips again without any problems, but you did.

And it made your heart skip a beat, your lips parted and a shaky breath escaped you as you forced yourself not to turn pink. It was really weird how you were acting and your body seemed to do what it wanted, you couldn't even control it. Your lips pressed together as he gave you a sweet dimple smile before you returned it.

"What's your plan now? Anything in mind?" Your conversation seemed much more relaxed than at the beginning and that calmed him down. His fingers reached for the menu that he hadn't noticed before, before he handed it to you, whereupon you gratefully accepted it and opened the first page made of plastic.

"Well, so far my plan would be to become self-employed, I would like to have my own Label." You looked up briefly to catch his reaction, his eyes widened a little, a gleam of admiration visible, and his lips were slightly parted. To say he was impressed would be an understatement. It wasn't that he was surprised, he was simply speechless, because this fact not only made you even more attractive, but also officially made you his soul mate, it had to be that way, there was no other explanation.

A certain emotion of pride bubbled in his chest before he could stop it and as he watched you press your lips together, your eyes gently glancing over the menu in your hands. He felt the sudden urge to press his lips to yours, to taste your sweet taste and to let himself fall into that feeling. He didn't even seem to be able to control his thoughts, he was so caught up in you.

He shook his head, berating himself as he shook his head, palm now resting on his forehead, before exhaling deeply and forcing himself to relax and appear calm. "That's really wow- I really hope that this works out for you." His deep voice had a hint of intensity that made you look up again, goosebumps spreading across your arms before you gave him a sweet smile that warmed his heart.

"That's really sweet of you." Your soft voice made him blink slowly as you decided on a waffle and a latte before slowly pushing the menu over to him, carefully past the burning candles. His cheeks warmed and he nodded in agreement, not knowing what to say in response. He decided to just stay quiet to avoid saying anything stupid before turning his attention to the menu.

After he also decided on a waffle and a mint tea, a lady wearing an apron came over to your table, a polite smile quivered on her lips as she asked you what you wanted to order, smiling, you did your best to answer her in Korean before she nodded and got to work.

Seunghyun's chin tensed to keep it from falling, still surprised and impressed by how good your pronunciation was, you just seemed to get better and better by the minute and that drove him crazy. So many thoughts were running through his head, one of them was the fear that he seemed to completely misjudge the situation and that you saw it all as just a friendly gesture, because that was exactly what he didn't want you to think. He had hoped that the invitation to a cafe would give you a hint that he was at least interested in you and not on a friendly level.

He still couldn't tell exactly how you felt about the situation, but he did notice the few times your cheeks turned pink, or how you avoided eye contact with him, or how you gave him that sweet little smile. Of course, he could have misunderstood it all and you were just being friendly, but god, he hoped not everyone would see that smile from you.

Not to be dramatic, but he would die for that smile.

In the short time that he had known you, he had become so addicted to that little smile, to you in general, and of course it scared him, but on the other hand it also gave him hope. Hope for something good in his life, because he knew that if you gave him the chance to continue to be in your life, he would never be unhappy again. How could he with you by his side? Maybe he was a little hasty, but from the moment your eyes met in the train station, he just knew. There was a connection between you and his heart had already decided before his head could even think twice.

"May I ask you something?" Your voice brought him out of his trance and, somewhat embarrassed, he raised his hand to scratch the back of his head before nodding at you. Your lips were pressed together to stop a smile. "How did you come up with the idea of ​​dyeing your hair a bright blue?" A quiet giggle followed before you could stop it.

Instantly his eyes closed and his head tipped forward and fell into his hands with a low grumble that only made your grin grow even wider. He had already figured that such a question would come from you sooner or later, after the comment about his blue hair in the alley half an hour earlier, but he had hoped that he could avoid it. He had never thought about it before, but now with you, someone he obviously wanted to impress, he couldn't help but feel embarrassed about his actions a few years ago.

When he dyed his hair, years ago, he thought he would look cool and that people would look twice as they walked by, but right now he would do anything to undo it. " Please don't remind me." He muttered into his hands after a long silence, his cheeks pink.

Your face softened as you exhaled in amusement before your hands slowly reached for his, your touch gentle and instantly your skin tingled like an electric shock. You paused briefly before carefully removing your hands from his face and giving him a smile. Both of your hearts were pounding in your chest as your eyes met. "Don't get me wrong. I always thought it was so cool, I even considered dyeing my hair that color too, but my mom stopped me." Laughing, you put your hand over your mouth to stop yourself from laughing even more and his shoulders immediately sagged in relief before an amused smile appeared on his lips.

"Wait really?" His eyes shone with emotion as he looked at you, his eyes blinking slowly while he could still feel your touch on his skin, the spot tickling in longing to feel it again. If his friends heard how he was behaving right now, they would laugh at him, but he couldn't force himself to care.

Nodding, your laughter ended, but a wide grin still on your lips. "Really." You replied a little breathlessly before leaning further back in your chair, your arms now crossed in front of your chest, which shook a little heavily up and down while your warm breath flowed from your lips.

A boyish grin graced his lips as he tilted his head back slightly, his Adam's apple poking out, a taste that made you swallow. "Well in that case... when I was brushing my teeth I got the toothpaste from one of my friends Daesong, it was baby blue and when I looked in the mirror I imagined what it would look like and the next day I just did it." It wasn't a particularly imaginative story, quite simple and boring, but that's how it was. He shrugged his shoulders a little to downplay it when he noticed the gleam in your eyes.

To be honest, you had already thought that it would just be something like that and it wouldn't be anything creative, but hearing it like that made you grin in amusement, your eyebrows raised a little. "Seriously? You just decided on the spur of the moment?"

He nodded and let out a breath, but he didn't feel as stupid because of you as he did before and he was happy about how relaxed he was in your presence. You really didn't seem to judge him at all and he really appreciated that. "I'm a pretty spontaneous person." Was his answer with a playful grin.

Nodding, you tilted your head slightly to the side to get a better look at him, it felt so good to talk to him, you hadn't felt like this in a long time and it warmed your heart. You had only been in Korea for a little over an hour, and you couldn't wait to see what it would be like to live here forever, with the hope that Seunghyun would be with you in that future.

"I like that." You answered him softly as you exhaled deeply and looked at him with a warm look, the same look he looked at you with. A few tables away, some heads turned towards you, admiring the two of you looking at each other, thinking that you were both in a relationship, but you both didn't even seem to notice, too engrossed in the little bubble you had built for yourselves.

You both hoped that it wouldn't be the last time you would see each other, and Seunghyun would make sure that there would be many, many more such meetings between you, Because he wouldn't miss this opportunity to have you in his life for anything in this world and he would do anything to keep you in his life. And that forever.