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Most annoying thing to remember is that you're litterally just a homosapien. You're just a very smart animal. If you feel like shit, imagine you're an exotic pet for some alien species and do what they'd do to keep you healthy. You gotta be well cared for. Animal abuse is a crime for a reason
"My pet human, Greg, hasn't left his bed in a long time. He's just scrolling his phone all day" Greg needs enrichment. Add enrichment in his enclosure and take him on walks
"Greg has been super lethargic and sad recently for seemingly no reason" Greg need vitamins, take him outside for some vitamin D and fresh air. Perhaps a picnic
"Greg won't sleep even though he's been super lethargic" Greg needs a schedule, especially for the lights in his enclosure.
"Greg has been super distant recently and keeps crying to sad music" Humans are pack animals, he needs to hug another human and hang out. Perhaps pack bond with a rock together
"Greg has been flailing around and panicking, his breathing is way faster than it should be" Greg is overwhelmed. Take Greg out of the situation and give him time to calm down. Perhaps somewhere cozy with tea and a movie
"Greg won't do what he needs to do" Train him. Humans do great with positive reinforcement, give him little treats when he's doing good
"Greg he's been super anxious and tired, he can't seem to enjoy his days" Humans needs to move around. Give Greg something to exercise with. Things like stretching, weight lifting, walking, or even dancing will help
"Even though I've taken really good care of Greg, he still has been having issues" Greg is ill, take him to the doctor. You might need a specialist (therapist, optometrist, oncologist, etc)
I know it feels patronizing, and I know it feels embarrassing or that you're "just giving into the clichés", but you are literally just a creature. You need to sleep/eat on time, you need enrichment, and you need to take care of your social needs. Humans are complicated animals, but they are also beautiful and all deserve proper care. This obviously isn't a perfect analogy, nothing is, but if you saw your friend taking care of their pet the way you take care of yourself, would you be concerned?
#self care#mental health#health and wellness#self love#human rights#you are loved#mental illness#mental ill health#positive thinking#mens mental health#womens mental health#space orcs#yes the space orcs tag is relevant#suicideprevention#self care is not selfish#self care is important#self care is hard#self awareness#important#current events#gonna add more current event tags because i feel very strongly that this is especially important right now#us politics#politics#civil rights#and queer/neurodivergent tags because im both of those things and find this important#adhd#autism#adhd problems#trans rights#lgbtq
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dream closet . ݁𝜗𝜚˚
#girlblogging#girlhood#hell is a teenage girl#lana del ray aka lizzy grant#lana del rey#coquette#girl is a gun#girlblog aesthetic#im just a girl#just a girlblog#closet#dream closet#baby doll#sleepy girl#older man younger girl#girl blog#cinnamon girl#girl problems#girl interrupted#girl core#girl hood#girl rotting#girl thoughts#girl things#girlcore#older man <3#i love old men#i like older guys#girly tumblr#bed rotting
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i love my tavs but also i think they should kiss
#bg3#baldur's gate 3#bloodweave#astarion#gale dekarios#i need to go through my mountain of ao3 bookmarks#i used to think their dynamic was Bitchy Old Men but actually#i think it's 'nauseatingly in love and making it everybody else's problem while also complaining a lot'#also there are no morning people in this relationship#gale is a sensible 8:30. astarion has to be winched out of bed with a crane
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#coquette#girl interrupted#girlblogging#girlhood#lana del ray aesthetic#lana del ray aka lizzy grant#this is what makes us girls#coquette aesthetic#hell is a teenage girl#pinterest#tumblr girls#girl things#girlblog aesthetic#girlblogger#this is a girlblog#lizzy grant#the lisbon sisters#tumblr aesthetic#girl problems#pintrest girl#girl's girl#i hate men#girl interupted syndrome#daisy randone#cecilia lisbon#lux lisbon#love#layla buffalo 66#lana del rey#lana unreleased
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One of the funniest parts about the whole “Leo not giving Draxum any grace” idea is that Draxum is one of the ONLY notable older men in the show that Leo isn’t willing to give a proper second chance to OR really hear out in the first place.
No seriously it’s genuinely a Thing.
#rottmnt#rise of the teenage mutant ninja turtles#rottmnt leo#rise leo#rottmnt headcanons#the men I’m thinking of specifically are as follows#marcus moncrief? very quickly just went along with anything he said#then repeating this AGAIN later#(Leo also refers to him as a father figure before ever actually meeting him lol)#piel? Leo happily greets and immediately offers his (and Hueso’s) help to the ex pirate#this is largely due to Leo’s own brother problems but it’s still a part of this trend#hypno? Leo literally stops fighting him to watch his magic act lol plus he helps Warren save him#if we count other older men then the list grows to continue the following#Tim Dunkman? Leo notably does his best to do good in Tim’s eyes#apologizing earnestly to Tim even when it’s not his fault even#and this is another older man Leo refers to as a surrogate father#Leo also quickly falls for the evil hair Yokai Masseur’s lies despite the bad vibes he got#Leo also was the main one who went easy on Bullhop#and let’s not forget Señor Hueso and Leo’s strong attachment to him despite Hueso’s consistent insults and annoyance#like even WARREN gets Leo’s sympathy and assistance when they all helped him get Hypno back#you can even argue that Leo WAS willing to hear Draxum out when they first met#and Leo assumed Draxum was surrendering before the whole ‘BARON DRAXUM DOES NOT SURRENDER’ thing#hell he’s not even antagonistic really to Draxum he just doesn’t really like him#he’ll listen to his advice if necessary#anyway this being a fairly consistent character trait of Leo’s is funny to me#it’s always specifically older men too - Big Mama does NOT get anything but immediate suspicion#not all of them but most of the ones Leo has specific interactions with are like this#I’m just saying!!! Splinter I love you dearly but your boys have Issues™️#anyway each of the boys has something like this going on#Leo’s are just weirdly consistent and happen a lot for a two season show
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give me some whiskey and ill draw The Most Thing i can come up with
bonus:
#xmen#xmen comics#cherik#charles xavier#erik lehnsherr#professor x#magneto#erik magnus lehnsherr#max eisenhardt#snap sketches#this wasnt the personal thing i wanted to draw this weekend but it has been on the back burner for a while so. it counts !!!!!!#i did sketch this last night. MODERATELY hammered and the final comic is Just A Tad diff from the sketch im wheezing#just in terms of angles but still thats huge to me#CHAT everyone knew i was gonna draw SOMETHING as soon as i saw those tentacles#however i flipped the script on you all. probably. idk SOMEONE prob assumed i woulda had magneto use them#but how the turn tables .... have turned. this is so stupid JVLKJVLA if this gets 5k on twitter ill do a charles ver MAYBE.#welcome back to my ongoing series of These Old Men Will Make Their Weird Love Affair Everyones Problem#i have an exam in the morning i need to stop this#ill have to this week like Truly but still VJELRKVJE I GOTTAAAA STOPPP DRAWIN THIS LATE#anyways. please enjoy this is so dumb but i got to try drawing charles' powers in effect so thats nice#i should do a study of that one day ... not anyday soon LMAO GOD moving on goodnight everyone !!
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i HATE seeing a girl get trampled in conversation by men like LET HER SPEAK
#this is what makes us girls#girlblogging#my girlblog#im just a girl#gaslight gatekeep girlblog#this is a girlblog#girlhood#girlblog aesthetic#girl problems#hell is a teenage girl#feminine rage#feminist#feminism#femcel#female rage#female hysteria#proud misandrist#pro misandry#happy misandrist#misandrist#i hate men#empowered women#girls supporting girls#women’s rights#i love women#gaslight gatekeep girlboss#just girlboss things#girlblogger#girlblog#just a girlblog
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he's so pathetic i need him
#never getting over these screenshots i took like. oh my god his eyes.#i love pathetic men so much. this has become a problem#s08e17#house md#hatecrimes md#gregory house#housemd#malpractice md#morgscreencaps#greg house#hate crimes md#houseposting#dr house#hugh laurie#doctor house
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And I present a meal to feast on
#magneto#erik lehnsherr#x men 97#x-men#erik magnus lehnsherr#max eisenhardt#x men magneto#uncanny x men#xmen#xmen comics#he's hot#i mean look at him#that man is a whole meal#hes absolutely delicious#hes so gorgeous#literally so slutty look at him#i love him so much#i have a problem#im ashamed a tad of this
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Help me! cherik brainrot is here
#I couldn’t bear finishing this so this messy sketch is all I could do#but cherik renaissance is real#cherik#x men#Charles Xavier#erik lehnsherr#they made the divorce everyone else’s problem#oh I love lovers to enemies to lovers to enemies to friends to lover#sketch#doodle#x men movies#x men first class#xmen dofp
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It is amazing how the "people that love and uplift transwomen" website will instantly fucking maul a transwoman if she even remotely insinuate that using radfem rhetoric harms trans people
#this is about punkitt making a post literally just saying ''you shouldn't treat masculinity as a threat because it harms trans people''#and straight up getting death threats over it#how is it so hard for people to understand that treating masculinity as a threat directly harms transwomen#that it treats transwomen who show any sort of masculinity as a failure#it reminds me of trans people on 4chan because it enables so much self-loathing#you cannot argue ''men/masculinity are inherently evil'' and claim it's different from radfem/TERF rhetoric because you're trans#it just projects unrealistic body standards onto women#many women including cis women have masculine traits. I know women who have stubble and grow shittons of body hair#like—''biological sex'' is NOT a binary it is a social construct just like any other#and also only hyper focusing hate on masculinity because of patriarchy isn't an effective way of addressing patriarchy at all#hating a group of people based on their traits is not the same as being progressive. acknowledging—and more importantly. teaching people—#—and how it gives them certain privileges over others and to call it out and dismantle those systems is so fucking powerful you have no idea#also I'm going to be so for real with you. the vast majority of transmen do NOT have the privilege you think they do#it's the privilege of being able to pass more than anything. which any trans person would know thats really fucking hard!!!#I love rambling in the tags so much it's so great#sorry for this lol#queer discourse#also addendum: when I say 'women' it's all encompassing. if anyone gets pissy at me for saying 'women' and thinking I'm not including —#—transwomen in that then I'm killing you! you are the problem!
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"Why do you ship them???? Why "X male character" and "X male character" can't be just friends????"
And one of characters in question is looking at the other as if they were angels or a beautiful mytical creature.
#cobra kai#lawrusso#bbc sherlock#johnlock#arrow#the flash#olivarry#x men#cherik#the hobbit#thilbo#star trek#spirk#teen wolf#thiam#gotham#wayleska#star wars rebels#kalluzeb#voltron legendary defender#klance#bro i swear#excuse you#but you don't look at your rival enemy or friend like that#and it's not my problem if you can't see the difference between a “I love you my friend” look#and a “You're my soulmate and I want to be by your side forever" look
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Sword of Krakoa
#xmen#x men#doug ramsey#douglas ramsey#cypher#x men comics#x of swords#new mutants#marvel#marvel comics#xmen fanart#my art#fanart#illust#Doug in X of swords you are EVERYTHINGGGGG to MEEEEEE#love it when i get fully insane about a character bc my brain will be like:#oh so you want a cape of flowers and an art nouveau frame? on it boss no problem
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Andrew minyards closet is FULL. he’s the complete opposite of Neil, loves shopping, loves buying clothes (and buying neil clothes).
And what does neil do? Instead of wearing the clothes Andrew buys him, he just wears Andrew’s clothes
#why does my phone not capitalize neil#anyway he goes directly to the source#they’re a bit big on him and they smell like andrew and he LOVES it#andrew pretends to hate it but is OBSESSED#is this because I’m crazy about buying clothes and have a spending problem?? maybe.#but anyway#Andrew’s always like ‘I literally got you like four hoodies and you’re wearing one of mine?’#Neil’s just like ‘duh#they’re in love your honor#trans neil josten#trans andrew minyard#t4t andreil#aftg#all for the game#the foxhole court#the raven king#the king’s men#andrew minyard#neil josten#andreil#andreil headcanon#the foxes#aftg trilogy
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i’m still just thinking about how in apocalypse the thing that stops magneto from destroying the world is an edit of charles just seeing the good in him.
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not even his DEAD wife and daughter?
or maybe mutants from the brotherhood?
nope. charles
#i wonder if magda had to just deal with her husband bringing up this old friend of his#but like i love magda though she didn’t deserve to be fridged that quickly 💔😢#the writers failed in giving these guys beard they’re still gay af#cherik#charles xavier#erik lehnsherr#magneto#moira caused most of the problems in this movie anyway#and yet charles is now randomly somewhat obsessed and checks in everynow and then?#girl she’s technically the reason ur bald and paralyzed#bro did not look interested when they kissed in fc#IF SHES GONNA BE A LOVE INTEREST DONT DELETE THE SCENES WHERE THEIR RELATIONSHIP DEVELOP?#petition to remake the x men prequel but cheeik are actually on screen lovers#i’m rambling in the tags lol#who’s still not over their ex? cherik
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Sometimes, when Ice gets really irrational amd unreasonable about stuff and he doesn't want to hear reason from anybody or anyone, Mav sits on his lap. For five minutes to an entire hour just to make sure Ice actually listens and understands what it has been said to him.
Ice finds it a little annoying at times, but it helps more than he likes to admit.
(It's a win-win in the end because five minutes get to be ten because Mav can kiss the will of arguing out of him when he gets like that. They don't always kiss, but after a while, even just the weight of his husband's body against his does the trick.)
#icemav#tom iceman kazansky#pete maverick mitchell#brought to you by myself and that one problem i can't seem to be able to solve at work doesn't matter how i look at it#men in love#sometimes ice is unreasonable but mav has the solution
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