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thoughts-of-insufferability · 11 months ago
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Probleme die die Welt bewegen, wirklich 👏/sarc
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pseudophan · 11 months ago
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sorry but i think if you saw one of the tour shirts having a defect and you got immediately angry about it accusing dnp and their team of deliberately scamming people instead of going "hm could this possibly be an unforeseen production error" you should delete your account and never post about them or anything else ever again :P
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thegeekcollective · 3 months ago
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https://www.tumblr.com/thegeekcollective/783302336415186944?source=share
the church of jesus christ of latter day saints is not a cult and this post is full of bigoted people spewing atrocious disinfo.
... anon, I understand where you're coming from, but please don't be this aggressive.
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call-me-pup2 · 8 months ago
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"yoU cAnT be sCoTTish yOu doNt tYpE iN Scots????!"
Yes my dude because I fear if I did I would get the
"Omg what are they even saying I can't understand???" comments
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team-focus · 1 year ago
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rip martin blackwood you would've LOVED noah kahan
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best-enemies · 1 year ago
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I've reached season 5 on my CSI rewatch and I'm a few episodes past "Swap Meet", where a woman is murdered after attending a swing party with other couples from the neighbourhood. Near the end of the episode there's a moment that made me jump from my seat:
(Grissom walks up to Sara and takes the seat next to her. He's holding two cups. He hands her a cup of tea.)
[INT. POLICE DEPARTMENT - BRASS' OFFICE]
Erin Brady: Everybody fantasizes about other people. (She glances at Grissom.)
Even you, Mr. Grissom. A neighbor, a friend ... girl at the office.
[INT. POLICE DEPARTMENT - HALLWAY]
(The door opens. Paul Brady walks out of the hallway. Erin Brady walks out into the hallway. Sara is sitting in the hallway chair watching them. She watches as they meet and kiss.)
(Grissom walks up to Sara and takes the seat next to her. He's holding two culps. He hands her a cup of tea.)
LIKE!!!!!!!
Right after Erin ends her sentence with 'girl at the office', the first time Sara and Grissom meet again, he brings her tea. This might be an innocent interaction but to me it seemed like a nod to this relationship they have where both are into each other, know about the other's feelings, but can't/won't do anything about it (although Sara has kind of given Grissom an ultimatum). I don't know if it was intentional - I'm guessing it is, because I picked it up immediately. I might or might not have squealed in delight.
#csi#gsr#i'm very Normal about them btw i don't think about them 50 times per day or anything#need to talk more about these two here#because im obsessed about them in a Normal way#sara is like. my dream wife. i totally get grissom being in love with her for years and barely holding it together#i would not though#i'm 1000% sure she's bi. but the writers have been cowards so far#also she and i dress THE SAME. yes i love 2000s clothes so what#i could talk about her forever she's everything to me#and grissom. oh grissom. i also get why she's been in love with him forever#i mean what the FUCK went down in san francisco did they hook up and sex was so good it scared them#and now they have to live with that tension and they're scared of crossing that line#nah i'm guessing with these two they just REALLY clicked. like. they were an instant match and they knew it#but grissom didnt want to lose focus on work or whatever and they lived in separate states you know#but oh my god i totally get sara. grissom is such a silver fox. he's like one of the hottest old men i've ever seen in my life#you know what i 100% get tumblr sexualizing old men it's completely valid i'm in this now too#he has this LOOK. whenever he's angry at a suspect. and he looks angrily at them. i'm chewing on my keyboard just remembering it#and his smirks#AND THE WAY HE LOOKS AT SARA#im losing my mind#i love all of gil grissom but seasons 4-5 jesus fucking christ#ok enough with the sexualizing i love him as a character SO MUCH. he's absolutely fantastic#one of the things i love the most about him is that he doesn't judge people. whenever the team is confused about someone#or this persons' lifestyle#he's always trying to understand them and not judge them#like a true scientist he wants to understand the nature of things and people#and he's such a sweetheart i love him so much#like there are so many things i love about him i can't fit them all in the tags. same for sara#they're a perfect match for me
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sharky-the-idiot · 10 months ago
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HOLY SHIT GUYS. GUYS.
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BURNING SPICE DOESN'T SEEM LIKE HE'S ONLY ANGRY. I WON. I FUCKING WON.
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iamnotlookingidonotseeit · 6 months ago
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fascinating revelations out of my dad's professional coaching of the whole family today
my mom scored astonishingly high on empathy and caring for a woman who seemed to find it next to impossible to express that to me
my dad has done an insane amount of work to be so warm and personable considering that his natural inclination is towards strong reserve rooted in anxiety (just like me!!)
my sister shocked - SHOCKED 🙄 - to learn that she scores almost zero in empathy AND very high on manipulation
actually shocking reveal that my sister always knew she was my mom's favorite. like I kind of assumed she was mean to both of us but apparently most of the biting comments were for me
#in regard to number 3 I'm like bestie. you think you're the protagonist of the world. you tried to get me to come out to our parents#as a way to manipulate them into being happier for you for your engagement#you have a movie script in mind for your life and you try to get others to fit it#of COURSE you're low in empathy and high in manipulation#the mom's favorite thing was actually very surprising to me to hear bc i've never thought about it that way#mom's attitude towards me was so pervasive to my experience of childhood that i never considered that i had it worse than her#vis a vis getting chewed out and in trouble and snapped at and criticized constantly#the impression i got was that mom thought i was a crybaby and fragile and forgetful and dowdy and needy#my sister by contrast was the kind of girlboss my mom could like more easily#(i do wonder then that mom's bestie is a lot like me)#i know my sister got some Mom Comments and impatience and fighting too but it doesn't seem to have stuck with her so much#i dunno how i feel about it all#a lot and i mean A Lot to consider#also learned my sister doesn't really remember our grandma on mom's side and picked up a vibe that she's sad about it#i was a little dismissive in the moment of the idea that she was doting bc i remember her being very brisk and exacting#but i think like my mom she cared a lot but found it hard to express it in ways that weren't like. providing. keeping things shipshape#not very demonstrative and pretty intimidating to a kid#but i still do remember a few good things about her; note to self to tell T those stories#looking at cardinals on the deck. the roofing project. her painting my sister's nails. watching lion king and the old cinderella with us#good moments#it makes me think of the way mom used to really put care into giving us thoughtful gifts but she'd hardly ever play with them with us#i think it would have gone a long way with me at that age if she'd been willing to take the initiative rather than wait to be invited#i always thought that she knew so much and what she could do was so cool; i just never felt comfortable asking#bc she didn't seem like you could just ask her to come have fun#meanwhile my dad Knew a lot less stuff and had fewer cool hobbies but he was goofy and fun and willing to get on the floor#i think i understand why they were the way they were but still im frustrated#bc like t was saying today. now that mom's retired she's actually fun?? she's not stressed and angry all the time and she has time for us?#or at least for my sister anyway... but i will agree; she seems a lot happier#and i wish she'd been able to be happier when we were younger#neither me nor my sister came out of that with anything close to secure attachment
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walpurg · 4 months ago
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I'm not particularly fond of Gale but it's so insane to me how illiterate everyone suddenly becomes when it comes to him and his anger.
Haymitch initially wasn't fond of Maysilee for dressing fancy and having jewelry as well!! He said that he didn't like Asterid much in the past for the exact same fucking reason! The class differences in the districts is one of the ways capitol puts people against each other, something that Gale actually understands. Katniss mentions in the same exact chapter op is referencing, that usually he's the one to point it out , but he's on edge today because it's the reaping.
And he doesn't scoff at Madge for dressing nicely, he scoffs at her because she mentions the possibility of being picked. He has to apply for tesserae many times, his and Katniss' names were written multiple times, his younger brother took a tesserae, despite all Gale's efforts. And Madge didn't! Of course it's not like it's her fault, her family doesn't have any real power, but why are other characters allowed to be misguided in their anger, are forgiven for falling for propaganda, yet a 17 yo Gale should be Above It All. Haymitch initially scoffs at the "don't let them treat as as animals line", because, unlike Maysilee, his family can't allow fancy clothes to "mask" and it's a natural reaction actually! People are allowed to be jealous and petty, it's a very natural flaw.
Gale is one of the few characters who openly blames the capitol since the first book, but ohhhhh he doesn't understand anything, he had the audacity!! To not be happy at the fact that him, his family and his best friend are having it worse than others!!
It's the smallest thing maybe but it's funny to me Sunrise on the Reaping has given me another reason to dislike Gale.
Thinking of Madge on reaping day, wearing her nice dress and Gale giving her shit for it. Like she has a choice. Like she has say. Like it's her fault who she was born to. It's such an interesting example of class vs culture wars. This idea that the people up the road who have a nice house are the enemy and not the faceless people thousands of miles away who profit on their poverty.
Thinking of Maysilee who was very conscious of the way she dressed. Who liked looking nice and dressing up. Who is Madge's aunt that she never met. Who Madge heard stories of growing up about her moms twin sister who always loved fashion and knew the importance of masking and the power of how you present to people. Don't let them treat us like animals.
And when Madge lifts her head and says "I want to look my best if I go to the Capitol" and Gale has the audacity to scoff at her.
It also speaks to how quickly history is lost. He probably doesn't even know her aunt died in the games. Doesn't care. You never ever ever know what hurt people are carrying. What their history is. What their familial struggle has been. Don't punch down. Don't punch sideways. Don't even punch up. Break the chain and destroy the person holding the reins.
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tiredpresence · 20 days ago
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There's nothing that destroys the urge to write more than watching fellow writers tear others apart re: past fic betaing experiences and 'what a horrible time' it was reading and betaing fic for people they claim they're friends with (I'd press X to doubt considering how they were talking about those friends and those fics; I might have had a few frustrating moments figuring out how to give advice while betaing a fic that had major issues myself, but there's no need to be so fucking mean and I certainly wouldn't be communicating that way to a friend whose fic I was working on. Or anyone's even if I didn't know the person well!)
#this is a stupid thing to post abt#and part of it is probably just that the heat wave has me overheating and easy to anger#and that im frustrated with my own writing rn#but also. there's such a mean streak that's come over fic writing/writers in general over the last five years or so that's so upsetting#maybe your friend wrote the characters a bit OOC but like. is it worth giving them feedback so harsh#that you quote openly when discussing said feedback!#that it makes them ask you to not read their fics at all any more not even just re: betaing them#im not an amazing writer but I try my best and i assume the same of everyone who writes#the folks I've beta'd for and those I've just read and found out in the wilds of ao3#there's wanting to help and then there's 'give me the fucking pen I'll fix it for you'#if your betaing advice is giving the latter then you need to step away from the fic & ask your friend to find a new beta#again this is stupid to be angry over but it just sapped my energy to write for the day#and i'm not even any of the folks mentioned in this discussion so I can't imagine how any of them felt/might still feel#this is why I beta for and ask for betaing from only close friends#I know we'll give it to each other straight but not so bluntly as to be mean#you can tell when someone hasn't ever been a part of an actual in person beta/concrit circle bc they show it at times like this#you never learned how to give concrit gracefully yet expect that everyone will give that to you#while you get to be blunt and catty and cunty abt it but no one can get mad at you for it bc 'you're different'#fuck off with that shit lmao#at least now I know who to never attempt to get to know better in hopes of finding someone to beta a fic for me lmao#and I hope the friends being discussed have found others to beta for them going forward
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I've had people swear to me up and down that at like ages 22-25 a switch just flipped in their brains and they turned from stupid teens into mindful adults and like. Cool. My constant anxiety and other issues forced me to grow up faster than my peers and yet I'm still a retarded piece of shit that can't solve any of his own problems bc I've trapped myself in an infinite loop of cyclical reasoning for why I can't have nice things. I don't think made up brain chemistry is gonna help. Just let me go to work and do it badly like God intended until I can die a tragic death like the sad but ultimately useless and irrelevant NPC that I am.
I can't keep having the same conversations about love languages, mbti, iq, bmi, "brain fully formed at 25" and shit over and over again...
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sunsetsmakemesad · 5 months ago
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Had an insane yap session with my sister about vincent
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eldritch-bisexual · 8 months ago
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Raaaaaaant
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forehead451 · 11 months ago
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stream of consciousness type deal.
#people's experiences of you will be so drastically different from what you're like when relaxing/unmasking at home and they'll be shocked#when you live together and you thought you let them see what you were like normally except most of the time theyve seen you at home its an#Occassion™ so ofc im gonna be alert and jumping around and talkative bc theres a lot happening and im really happy theyre there#and i can be still. but once they see me day after day exhausted and overstimulated its different bc i am different#i dont feel like i am but i am#and if they dont believe when you explain whats happening then shit hits the fan#for a while i did not understand why they were getting so mad at me at dinner#the other people there understand how i can be foggy or overstimulated and just need to eat and im happy to be there i just need to not look#at anyone or say much and im dizzy from working all day. i need to mash for a bit all ill be good. theyve been generous to take me as honest#when i tell them what im doing.#but a person who is not used to seeing me that way will start thinking im rolling my eyes at whats being said when im actually staring into#space or trying to refocus or trying to get my body to stay in itself instead of drifting off and they think im quietly judging and ik like#im so sorry but fr im not even listening to the group conversation and im not thinking anything negative about you im just gathering my body#i SWEAR. also its agreed that i take part in a group meal instead of isolating with my food bc i need to eat right now too#now that ive stopped working and im going to go back to working after this meal so. this is what i have to do. it is understood and you're#somewhat new to being here on a daily basis but I'm serious i just have to do this and im not being shady im just Something™#(aka exhausted/overstimulated/neurodivergent.) but when i get up with the gathered dishes without making eye contact im automatically angry#and im judgemental and manipulative and trying to control everyone's mood by making my problems everyone's problems with my sighing and eye#rolling. im like. again im not rolling my eyes im trying to focus my eyes. and im not sighing at whats being said im letting out the breath#i realized ive been holding bc im holding myself back from an anxiety rollercoaster drop bc im very overstimulated rn and i was asked to be#here to share meals and deal with it in front of everyone and you arent understanding that id be doing the same thing in private#nothing's WRONG im just OVERSTIMULATED RN and im pulling my body back and im not thinking anything about ANYONE in this room but im starting#to NOW bc you keep assigning meaning where ive told you repeatedly theres none and i get why you're interpreting it this way but i promise#thats not what im doing and your reasons for why im doing it are not accurate.
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