#MixedSignal

[lonehymn]

Halfway Presence

I feel that she’s there for me but at the same time, it feels like she’s just there for the sake of being there. Her words are kind, her actions thoughtful but there’s a distance I can’t explain. Like a presence without depth. A hug that doesn’t warm. A smile that doesn’t reach the eyes.

It’s confusing because I want to believe in her intentions. I want to think she cares. And maybe she does… just not the way I need. Maybe she’s showing up out of obligation, not emotion. Maybe I’m reading into silences that were never meant to speak. Or maybe I’m just afraid to admit the truth.

Sometimes, the hardest part isn’t being alone... it’s feeling alone when someone’s right beside you.

And so I sit with the feeling. Half comforted. Half hollow. Wondering which version of her is real… or if both are.

[la-la-noir]

Why is it that when I want to play, they seek something emotional, but when I crave something emotional, all they want is to play?

[deepoceanedreamer]

….You ever feel needy?

…longing for attention from someone

…but not just anyone?

…you ever become so transparent that you complain to your friends that you want more and you’re feeling needy

But their kind response of offering a listening ear….just doesn’t suffice

I want you

I want your attention

I want you to crave me the way that I crave you

I want you to feel agonizingly pained by the amount of passion you feel flooding your chest

I want you to want my company to talk for hours and experience new things and not just with the goal in mind, of getting undressed

I hope you feel this tension for me and when you do I hope I don’t care

Cause nothing is worse than how I’m feeling right now , sitting in this feeling and unable to share

With you the desperation inside

It makes me angry , it makes me hate you and let me face it , by you, I can’t be satisfied

[missmaybe-not]

Ghosting Games & Glamour Shots: Is This My Reality Now?

Greetings, Maybe Nots and Maybe Yeses! I’m Back with a (Slightly Bewildered) Update!

First and foremost, mea culpa for missing another week. This time, no exotic adventures or charming strangers to blame. Life threw some curveballs, and I needed to take a step back, recharge, and mentally ground myself. Dating? Let's just say it was on hold while I hit the pause button (or not).

Meanwhile, in the Land of Mixed Signals: Speaking of hitting pause, that seems to be the theme with my potential suitors! Military Man reappeared at work for a whirlwind 30-minute visit. His words? "Just dropping by for a kiss." And kiss me he did (smooth operator, I'll give him that). No complaints there, but seriously, love warriors, a quick smooch and a dash isn't exactly setting the world on fire. Especially after what happened with Mr. Miscommunication.

After the kiss-and-dash act, Military Man's messages went radio silent again. He's a social media stalker extraordinaire, watching every story I post but offering zilch in conversation. I tried initiating a chat, seeking some answers, but all I got were question marks or monosyllables that left me more confused than ever. Did something happen? Crickets.

New Guy: The Plot Thickens... Across the border, things were (somewhat) different with New Guy. He was the chatty one, the one who kept the conversation flowing even during his own personal mishaps. Lately, though, the tide seems to be turning. He sent a photo yesterday, all dressed up and clearly ready for a night out. When I asked where he was headed, the answer was as mysterious as his behaviour today. His overall tone shifted – he seemed happier, but also distant. Did he meet someone special on his island? Or is there something else brewing he's not ready to share, and using the kids as an excuse for the sudden change? This whole situation has left me with some serious cold feet about my possible upcoming trip. New Guy does seem interested in me visiting, but his recent behaviour has thrown me off balance.

Dating Pool Blues So, love warriors, here I am, head spinning from the inconsistency of both Mr. Miscommunication and Military Man. The "whys" and "why nots" of their behaviour are enough to drive a girl crazy. Some days, I just want to throw in the towel on the entire dating scene. Some others, I think I should add up to the mess as these potential options feel more like backups than real possibilities. And some other days, the hopeless romantic in me fantasises about Mr. Miscommunication waking up and declaring his undying love (insert major eye roll here).

The Verdict? Still undecided. Stay tuned for the next chapter of this international dating adventure! In the meantime, send virtual hugs and maybe a shot (or bottle) of tequila (because, honestly, this needs all the help it can get!).

P.S. Do any of you love warriors have experience with guys who are all charm and no action? Or the disappearing act specialists? Hit me with your advice in the comments!

[in-tenebris-et-in-solitudine]

It’ll be the ones you’ll do anything for that treat you like you're nobody.

[carloswritesooks]

10 signs a Woman not interested in you

When a woman doesn’t show interest in you, her energy will tell you before her words do. It’s important to recognize the signs early—not to shame her, but to protect your heart and your dignity. Here are the clear signs it’s time to step back and stay away: 🚩 10 Signs She’s Not Interested (and You Should Walk Away): She Takes Forever to Respond (or Doesn’t Respond at All)If she replies with…

[olaweelet123]

Changing Stories and Mixed Signals #paternitycourt #truth

[wherechaoswins]

Is He Flirting Seriously or Just Having Fun? 🤔💘

Trying to decode a guy’s flirting can feel like cracking a secret code! 🔎💭 Here are some key signs to help you figure out if he’s genuinely interested or just enjoying the game. 👀🔥

Signs He’s Flirting Seriously 💖

✅ Deep Conversations 🗣️ – If he goes beyond surface-level talk and wants to know your dreams, fears, and thoughts, he’s likely invested.

✅ Consistent Attention 📅 – Does he text, call, or check in regularly? Consistency shows real interest!

✅ Remembers the Little Things 🧠 – If he recalls your favorite coffee, pet’s name, or childhood stories, he’s paying close attention.

✅ Body Language Speaks Volumes 💞 – Leaning in, mirroring your actions, or maintaining strong eye contact? Major signs of real attraction!

✅ Protective Vibes 🛡️ – If he’s concerned about your safety, well-being, or happiness, he’s emotionally involved.

✅ Future Plans Include You 🌍 – If he talks about vacations, holidays, or even next weekend with you, he’s thinking long-term.

✅ Jealous but Respectful 😏 – A little jealousy (without possessiveness) can indicate he truly cares.

Signs He’s Just Flirting for Fun 🎭

🚩 Inconsistent Behavior ⚖️ – Hot one day, cold the next? He might not be serious.

🚩 Flirts with Everyone 😏 – If he’s charming with everyone, you might not be special—just one of many.

🚩 Avoids Emotional Depth 🧱 – If he dodges deep convos or personal topics, he may just be enjoying the moment.

🚩 No Effort to Make Plans 📆 – If he’s all talk but never makes real moves, it’s likely just for fun.

🚩 Physical Over Emotional 🔥 – If he’s more into touching than talking, his interest might be surface-level.

🚩 Ignores You in Certain Settings 👀 – If he flirts privately but acts distant in public, he may not want anything serious.

🚩 Doesn’t Check In 📵 – If he disappears for days and comes back only when it’s convenient, it’s a red flag.

Final Verdict 🧐

💡 Trust your gut! If he makes you feel secure, valued, and included in his life, he’s likely serious. If he leaves you confused, he’s probably just having fun. 🎢

[joelekm]

Are You Unintentionally Leading Her On? Find Out Now | Honest Talk about Women

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[ericblancony]

Mixed signals mean anything to you? Uhm, and good morning.

[labyrinth-lavie]

WHAT IF?

What if I told you? Could it be better? Will it turn everything bitter? What if I’ve been brave? Would it be enough to win you? Will I endure the sting of losing the fight for you? What if everything is just an illusion? Will you clear up my confusion? What if you will only puzzle my emotions?

[tarot-duality-art]

XVIII. The Moon

Medium: Acrylic on canvas

Key Words: Surreal, Subconscious, Shadow Self, Confusion, Mixed Signals, Hazy 

Description:  The Moon harkens back to hazy, dreamy imagery. The environment around her seems to drag and smear into her. Often when we are overwhelmed, we can feel disassociated with reality, falling into a distant, foggy version of life. Thoughts move aflutter around us, but do not seem to grab our attention. It becomes easy to be lost to the noise of life, become part of the background. 

13/14

[anna3196441]

THE DATE

I smiled after a long time,

I forgot about my sad life,

I got so lost in your eyes,

was it real or all in my mind ?

The laughs we shared,

The stolen moments,

The urge to kiss you,

Were you shy or unintrested ?

For you, it was not good,

but wasn't bad either,

you said it is a good thing,

I say, a maybe is a no.

Now its the after,

Are we back to being just friends ?

Or we might soon be lovers ?

Should I let go or hold on harder ?

[deepoceanedreamer]

I hate that you have so much power over me

So much that now that we aren’t talking and I have to text 10 friends just to make up for our lack of conversation….

And you’re only ONE person….just you

YOU ALONE had me satisfied

Now not even 10 convos with 10 different people feels the same as when I would talk to you….

[shopluth]

love and confusion. #shorts.