#RedFlags

[sentidoysensibilidad]

No todos los monstruos rugen. Algunos usan colonia cara, sonríen con cortesía y te preguntan por tu madre.

🔪 El psicópata integrado es funcional, encantador, frío como el acero quirúrgico. Sabe lo que está bien o mal, pero no le importa. No siente culpa. Puede ser tu jefe ideal o el tipo que te arruina la vida sin pestañear… mientras te da las gracias por tu esfuerzo.

🪞 El narcisista maligno vive para manipular, pero con odio refinado. Necesita ser admirado, temido y obedecido. Usa la humillación como forma de control y si no le haces brillar, te apaga. Tiene una autoestima inflada y frágil a la vez, como un globo lleno de ácido.

🌒 El empático oscuro parece sensible, profundo, te lee como nadie. Pero debajo de esa conexión emocional… hay cálculo. Usa su empatía no para ayudar, sino para herir mejor. Conoce tu punto débil y lo acaricia antes de apretar.

Tres máscaras. Tres juegos mentales. Tres formas de destrucción emocional. Aprende a ver la diferencia… antes de ser parte del juego.

𝑬𝒒𝒖𝒊𝒍𝒊𝒃𝒓𝒊𝒐𝑬𝒎𝒐𝒄𝒊𝒐𝒏𝒂𝒍 🧠

[caosantinomico]

Viernes 21 Marzo 2025

Hola, mi nombre es Madaí, estudiante de 2do casi 3er año en la carrera de gastronomía.

¿Por qué resalto eso?

Porque aprender cosas y luego cocinar para mi familia, para los que realmente importan: mi abuela, mi abuelo, mis primos, mi tía. Me encanta. Ellos saben lo que cuesta, saben lo que pongo en cada plato. El amor, la paciencia, la pasión y la intensidad.

Pero ella, mi madre, llega una vez al mes para quebrantar mi autocontrol con su presencia fría, siempre una vez al mes en su "limpieza profunda" Si es que se puede llamar limpieza al hecho de revisar papeles privados, tirar cosas importantes para los demás… entre ello tirar todo lo que preparo para la comida de ese día. (Hoy precisamente)

No había necesidad, no había razón. Solo lo hizo.

Y entonces yo me pregunto, ¿qué buscaba? ¿Verme mal? ¿Hacerme sentir menos? Siempre lo hace, siempre llega para mandar, para borrar lo que construyo, como si fuera la dueña de todo, aunque nunca estuvo, nunca ayudó, nunca fue madre.

Y entonces yo me pregunto, en silencio, mientras el peso de todo esto me cae encima porque para los demás y para ella misma; siempre hace lo correcto y fue por “accidente” aun cuando se le advierte sobre lo que está bien tirar y lo que no.

¿siempre soy yo el problema?

Aparentemente mi madre verdadera en alma (mi abuela) se pone de su lado y me dice que un error lo comete cualquiera, que solo soy una caprichosa y que puedo repetir cuando quiera. Ella por alguna razón cambia totalmente de personalidad cuando ella viene. Estoy agotada mentalmente, siempre es la misma situación.

Y cuando me quejo después de tragarme mis emociones, únicamente dicen:

“Es tu madre, aguántala, quiérela y entiéndela”

No, no estoy obligada a querer y respetar a una persona que no me respeta a mí ni a mi trabajo.

Te odio “madre”

[m0rb1dspade]

She likes the Human Centipede movies

dumb thing i did like a year ago and didnt post

[prettygayshow]

Green flags are just as important as red flags. this bit is my new ring tone. 

[ok-jaanu]

And I thought bulls are idiots to run after red flags.

[wherechaoswins]

🔥 THE ULTIMATE GUIDE: SHOULD YOU KEEP DATING A MARRIED MAN WHO JUST CONFESSED? 🔥

Let’s talk about it. You’ve been dating a guy, thinking he’s single, and suddenly—BAM!—he drops the bomb: he’s married.

He swears it’s over. He says divorce is happening. But should you stay? Here’s the real talk, no sugarcoating.

🔎 10 THINGS TO CONSIDER BEFORE YOU DECIDE

1️⃣ He Lied Already – If he hid his marriage, what else is he hiding? Lies have a habit of snowballing.

2️⃣ "It's Over" Isn’t Over Until It’s LEGALLY Over – If he’s still married, he’s not single. Separation and divorce are two very different things.

3️⃣ The Emotional Baggage is REAL – Divorce is messy. Even the most "amicable" ones come with drama. Are you ready for that?

4️⃣ You Deserve Transparency – You weren’t given the choice to opt out when he omitted this information. Do you want to trust someone who does that?

5️⃣ How Long Has He Been "Ending" His Marriage? – Has he actually filed for divorce, or is he just thinking about it? Big difference.

6️⃣ Will You Be His "Rebound"? – A lot of men coming out of marriages aren’t ready for something serious. You might be his escape, not his future.

7️⃣ What Do His Actions Say? – Has he introduced you to friends, or is everything secretive? If he’s still hiding, that’s a red flag.

8️⃣ Do You Want to Be in the Middle of a Divorce? – Exes can be vengeful. Kids, finances, and legal battles get ugly fast.

9️⃣ Are You Okay With Being the "Other Woman" (Even Temporarily)? – Until he’s actually divorced, society (and maybe even his family) might see you as the side piece. Can you handle that?

👀 10️⃣ Trust Your Gut – If something feels off, it probably is. Your instincts are your best guide.

💋 IF YOU CHOOSE TO STAY…

✔️ Set Clear Boundaries – No secrets, no hidden truths. Demand full honesty moving forward. ✔️ Make Sure He’s Actually Leaving – Ask to see proof (divorce papers, legal proceedings, etc.). ✔️ Protect Your Heart – Keep your own emotional well-being a top priority. ✔️ Talk to Someone You Trust – A close friend or therapist can offer an outside perspective. ✔️ Prepare for Complications – Divorce isn’t just a breakup; it’s a full life overhaul. Be ready for the rollercoaster.

🚫 IF YOU CHOOSE TO WALK AWAY…

✨ Know Your Worth – You deserve a relationship built on truth from day one. ✨ Cut Off Contact – Don’t let him guilt-trip you into staying. ✨ Take Time to Heal – Betrayal and disappointment hurt. Give yourself space to process. ✨ Stay Open to Love – A man who is fully available and honest from the start WILL come into your life. Don’t settle for less.

🌟 BOTTOM LINE: YOUR CHOICE, YOUR POWER 🌟

No one can decide this for you. But remember, a relationship should make you feel safe, loved, and prioritized—not like a second option. Trust yourself and do what’s best for YOU.

[abyssalfeeder]

Because I have a feeling they will get butthurt over being read like a book. Bet their favorite color is red, with all the flags they wave. In this case I choose the bear too.

[ejactulationzach]

Just showed a girl my tumblr account. She violently moaner as she impulsively held her hand betwixt her now tightly pressed thighs.

[kc3writes]

Abashed

Yes, I am abashed.

Because I was guilty on you,

Which made me realize how easy it was for you

Yes, I am abashed.

To redefine us again,

Which made me sick again.

Yes, I am abashed.

To see you grow in lust,

Which made hate a must,

In which your toxic traits were a must.

[areyouafraidofdating]

Ain’t this the truth?

[paintcoatseal]

 Why You Should Hire a Painter for a Long-Lasting Paint Job 🎨

The TRUTH About Painting Your Home: Why DIY Is Costing You More Than You Think 💸

😱 Your Walls Are Plotting Revenge! Why DIY Painting Costs You MORE! 💸

(Want the FULL, brutally honest guide? Get all the pro secrets on our blog! 👉 Why You Should Hire a Painter)

Let's be real. If "hire a painter" sounds like a luxury, your walls are probably judging your roller skills right now. 👀 They know that YouTube video + Saturday + THAT bucket of paint won't beat decades of weather and chemistry.

Truth bomb: Painting isn't just decorating. It's science! And those DIY "savings" are probably costing you more in the long run. My bedroom wall molted in 6 months. It happens! 😭

This isn't shade. It's just... the warning no one gave you. Until now.

Cheap Paint Jobs = Hotel Wi-Fi. (They FLAKE When It Matters!) 💔

Most people think paint is just pretty. Nope! A long-lasting paint job is your home's defense against sun, moisture, and the silent war your walls fight daily (especially in crazy climates!).

Pro paint jobs bond chemically, repel mold, and last longer. Your DIY house painting? Looks fine at first (seductive, right?), but within a year: discoloration, flakes, bubbles. Sherwin-Williams says DIY breaks down in 2-3 years. Pros? 10+ years!

It's not the paint brand, it's the prep, tools, curing, patience, obsession that pros do and amateurs skip! 🤷‍♀️

Poor paint = bad looks, weaker structure, lower property value. Want a home that looks good for years? Hire pros who understand durability is commitment!

Why Pros Are Worth Every Penny (No, You're Not "Saving Money" DIYing) 💰

You could DIY. Ruin a T-shirt, grab a dusty roller. Heroic, right? But for every "money-saving" DIYer, there's a contractor quietly fixing their flaking walls 6 months later.

Pros Know PREP Is EVERYTHING. (Scraping, sanding, patching, priming, CURING TIME!) Skip it, and your wall becomes a science experiment. 🧪

Their Tools Aren't from a Garage Sale. Pro rollers, heat guns, sprayers, industrial ladders, pro-grade coatings! Microwave vs. restaurant kitchen. Same concept, WILDLY different results.

Affordable painting ISN'T a myth! Calculate wasted DIY product, botched edges, lost weekends. Pros doing it right first time is usually cheaper long-term!

TIME-SAVING That Actually Matters. Hours on YouTube? More hours prepping/fixing? SO MUCH CLEANUP! Pros finish in a third of the time—no missed spots, no spills, no mystery shades. Your time is worth more than gallons of paint! ⏰

Safety (No Acrobatics Needed!). Heights are scary! Pros bring training, harnesses, safe techniques. Zero risk to your ankles. They also handle VOCs safely. Don't gas out your kids with a DIY fan! 🌬️

Guarantees = Peace of Mind. Real painters stand by their work with warranties. Peeling? They fix it. No drama, no ghosting. DIY house painting can't promise that!

At Paint. Coat. Seal., we offer warranties. Happy clients = job done. Simple.

If It Peels, You Pay Twice! Pro job lasts 8 years, DIY lasts 2. That's 4 repaints to match the pro! Four sets of materials, lost weekends, messes, headaches. "Productive," right? 😉

So, don't ask if you should hire painters. Ask how many times you want to pay for the same job before you do it right!

What Does a Pro Painter COST? (And Why It's an Investment!) 💸

Standard US home paint job: $2,900-$8,800 (interior), $2,600-$5,700 (exterior).

DIY Cost? $3,000-$7,000 on materials ALONE. And you'll do it again in 24 months! 😱

What bumps the price? Square footage, wall condition (holes, cracks!), paint quality (cheap = short-term!), labor rates, weather timing. DIY might save upfront cash, but factor in wasted product, botched edges, tool rentals, FIVE LOST WEEKENDS, and desperate calls to that "painter cousin." Economics go sideways FAST.

Want affordable painting? Pay once, not three times.

How to Choose a Pro Painter (No More Ghosting!) 👻

DIY is regret's long road. So, how to choose a painting contractor who won't disappear mid-ceiling?

DEMAND These Things (Don't Just Suggest!):

Proper Credentials: Licenses, insurance, certifications. If they stammer, WALK! You're hiring liability control.

Solid Reviews + Verifiable Work: Go deep on Google, Yelp, FB. Ask for photos from the last 12 months. If they squirm on references? You know.

Actual Estimates, Not "Let's See How It Goes": Pros break down labor, materials, repairs, coats, timeline. No breakdown = you're getting played.

Readable Contract Terms: NON-OPTIONAL! Scope, paint brand, prep, payment, warranty. If they resist putting it in writing, find reliable painters for your home elsewhere.

Weather-Intelligent Recs: Ask how paint acts in humidity/frost. Pros adjust for local climate. Crucial for durable exterior painting services!

Finalizing the Hire (Don't Rush!) 🏁

You've got a shortlist. Don't mess up now!

Contracts are NON-NEGOTIABLE! (Scope, dates, payment terms – NEVER full upfront!, paint SKUs, warranty, contingency for weather!). Verbal agreements are for birthday parties, not paint jobs.

CLARIFY EVERYTHING! Who moves furniture? Patching? Daily updates? Paint type? Cleanup? Never assume, especially with exterior home painting services in unpredictable climates!

CONCLUSION: Get It Right The FIRST Time! ✅

You're trying to hire a painter right. You should! Wrong contractor = lingering mess. Unfinished trim. Hot dog mustard beige walls. 🌭

Recap:

Define project clearly.

Vet for local knowledge.

Ask for real credentials.

Review EVERYTHING (Google, BBB, your gut!).

Compare written quotes.

Use an actual contract!

Every step filters for accountability. For someone who respects your property, money, and time.

Sounds like a lot? Good! You just out-researched 90% of homeowners! 😉

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[prettygayshow]

It’s important to know who talks about sketch comedy in their sleep and who doesn’t.

[in-tenebris-et-in-solitudine]

I outgrew a lot of people and situations this year, and I’m very grateful for that.

[singledatingtips]

5 things to avoid on your first million-dollar date

💥 5 First-Date Red Flags in a “Million-Dollar” Match Don’t let a seemingly perfect date fall apart because of small, silent missteps.

1. Talking about money too early 💸 Discussing income, assets, or investments right away can feel like a transaction, not a connection. Keep it personal, not financial.

2. Turning luxury into pressure 🥂 Yes, fine dining is great. But if your date feels like they’re being judged or tested by your lifestyle, it’s not a date — it’s a performance.

3. Making it all about yourself 🙃 A little confidence is attractive. Too much self-focus? Not so much. The best dates feel like mutual discovery — not a highlight reel.

4. Being rude to service staff 🚫 No wealth can cover poor manners. How you treat others (especially when you don’t need to be nice) says more than your résumé ever could.

5. Asking “test questions” too soon 🎯 “Would you sign a prenup?” “Do you mind dating someone with money?” These might be real concerns, but first dates aren’t for legal strategy. Keep it light, real, and human.

💬 Reminder: Real chemistry happens when you lead with character, not your credit score.

✨ Ready to meet someone who matches your mindset and your lifestyle? Discover meaningful, high-value connections at 👉 MillionaireMatch.com 💛

[dr-vaidya]

Eye Health Red Flags: When to See Your Eye Doctor👨‍⚕️🚩

Your eyes send signals! 🚨 Don't ignore these red flags:

Sudden vision loss or blurriness

New flashes of light or floaters

Sudden eye pain or redness

Seeing halos around lights

Early detection is key! When in doubt, always get it checked.