#Postbreakup

[prosebyday]

I’m a better lover to myself than you ever were to me I make the best coffee for myself in the morning I keep myself warm at night, snuggled up in blankets I worked on the lawn and garden today I cook myself meals from homegrown veggies I’ve spent all week since I sent you away cleaning the house and it’s so much easier just doing everything I asked of you by myself, then waiting for someday when you might do it,  because someday never comes.  I do everything you did for me without the resentment you showed me because I love myself enough, I see my worth, I don’t resent me like you do and I still have so much time on my hands to be a person,  instead of taking on the burden of your emotional needs.  I can’t be a therapist, a mother, a provider each day to my partner.  I can do so much more for myself with that time and energy.  I love you and I deserve so much more.

August 19, 2023 // Grazia Curcuru

[phanfictioncatalogue]

Post Breakup (3) Masterlist

part one, part two

birthday wishes (ao3) - CapriciousCrab

Summary: “Happy Birthday, Dan,” he says quietly, fingers twisting nervously around each other. “Um, would it be alright if I came in?”

cherry (ao3) - awrfdnp

Summary: Dan sees Phil in the park one day holding hands with a man he’s never seen before.

Coffee by Chappell Roan (ao3) - danswideslit

Summary: someone on tumblr mentioned needing a dnp fic with the narrative from coffee and I felt inspired because I love that song a whole lot

'Dan and Phil' (ao3) - BlueJellyTots

Summary: What if they weren't as inseparable as they seem?

Exile (ao3) - danrifics

Summary: I think I've seen this film before

And I didn't like the ending

Finish Line (ao3) - dnpangels

Summary: Six Months after Dan and Phil broke up, Phil is already moving out and in a relationship, but Dan feels like his life has been put on pause. Through his pain, Dan tries to move on, but he is constantly reminded of the memories he made with Phil.

happy, happy birthday baby (ao3) - CapriciousCrab

Summary: There's no tea brewing here. No pancakes sizzling in the pan or a bowl of fresh fruit waiting for him at the counter. No blue eyes lighting up with happiness as he enters the room.

It's his birthday. And he's alone.

Harder Than it Looks (ao3) - Full_Moon_Lover

Summary: "You started coming to me to get me to stop writing bad things about you but I can't help it if you're a shitty hero. You couldn't even get that cat out of the tree. No it's not because we're exes."

or

Dating a superhero is never easy.

I Don't Wanna Love You Anymore (ao3) - galaxy_ash

Summary: Dan and Phil meet and start dating as teenagers, but as time goes on, Phil realizes that their relationship isn't working.

i hate the colour blue ('cause that's what i feel without you) (ao3) - sunfreckled

Summary: He tries to keep himself in the dark when it comes to Dan nowadays. The reason he tells himself every time is that he doesn't need to know what is happening in Dan's life because it no longer is his business. Truth be told, Phil's afraid of what he would find out. He has heard rumours, of course, some fleeting conversations whispered between some of his friends, words he's not supposed to hear.

He tries to keep himself in the dark because he's not sure if he could handle knowing that Dan's happier without him.

It's been a year since they broke up, and Phil is still picking up the pieces.

i miss you. (ao3) - strawberry_saturn (vanillaxheart)

Summary: after dan and phil break up, dan is left distraught. he decides to write out his feelings, because surely the words would never be read.

is it casual now? (ao3) - r3dbull (orphan_account)

Summary: They break up but meet again.

it’s never just coffee (ao3) - dykephan

Summary: Phil will move on first, because he deserves to, and Dan will move on only when he’s freed of the guilt that weighs so heavily on him — so never, maybe. Or whenever he starts feeling that all-consuming numbness again that had created this whole mess. It had its pros and cons.

He feels everything in sharp clarity now. It has its pros and cons.

Only Fools Fall (Crash and Burn) (ao3) - AmbroseRivers

Summary: Things you said that made me feel like shit

OR: It's Phil's fault and he can't do anything about it.

Sick of Losing Soulmates (ao3) - MaeTaurus

Summary: Dan broke up with Phil after convincing himself he couldn't be gay. If that's true, why does Dan feel jealous whenever Phil dates someone else? What happens after a drunken hookup makes Dan realize he is gay? What does this mean for Dan and Phil's relationship now?

So Long, London (ao3) - solarpower21

Summary: This can’t be Phil’s life right now. He can’t be having a panic attack in the bathroom of an airport café after randomly bumping into his ex and being told his flight home has been cancelled.

or: Dan and Phil did the unthinkable and broke up in 2020. They meet again, four years later on Christmas Eve.

trade all my tomorrows (ao3) - SylvesterLester

Summary: It's 2014, and Dan Howell is screwing up in life. Fresh off of potentially ruining his just-started acting career with a heavily-memed public freakout, he's ready to hide away for the rest of his life. Until a stranger reaches out, who might not be such a stranger after all.

Trying to Breathe Without Air (ao3) - Pilferingstarlight

Summary: One night after a huge fight, Phil leaves Dan. Dan spends the rest of the week trying to cope.

we were never in the park (ignoring tornado warnings) (ao3) - pasteldanhowells

Summary: After Phil leaves Dan, Dan starts seeing a therapist. Then, Phil comes back, and Dan starts lying to his therapist about him.

when i walk in the kitchen, my heart hits the floor (ao3) - aura_sky

Summary: Dan walks into the kitchen and he misses Phil.

You came in from the rain (ao3) - cemeterysociety

Summary: Dan and Phil see each other again on a random rainy day after not seeing each other for years after their break up, Dan thought Phil would never forgive him, but intertwined souls always find their way back to one another.

[longmeridian]

grudges hurt for a lot longer than anything else i find. there is nothing worse than living day to day and being constantly bothered by what someone did to you months ago.

dont get me wrong this is all easier said than done, and different things take different amounts of time, but you always come out better after you allow it to exist but not ruin u! forgive but dont forget or some rubbish loooool idk

[teintefauve]

[serendipity-adventures]

160 Best Funny Breakup Captions and Puns to Amuse You

Laugh away the blues with our best funny breakup captions and puns, Perfect for lightening the mood in the breakup blues with your gang.

Introduction Navigating the aftermath of a breakup often requires a mix of resilience and humor. This blog brings together 160 of the best funny breakup captions that provide a light-hearted perspective on parting ways. Each caption has been thoughtfully curated to inject a bit of humor into what can be a challenging time, helping to lift spirits and perhaps even summon a smile. The collection…

[myeshachaneyyt]

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[helianthus21]

post-breakup book!Armandaniel reunion will have them completely disgustingly in love and sweet with each other. when they walk into a room every other vampire will be like "oh it's Armand and his fledgling, let's skedaddle lest we get vampire diabetes" so severe is their cuteness

[dykemusic]

local band is having me do some collage buttons for their merch… maybe i WILL monetize my art

[rokuginsblog]

my favs

filtered tumblr likes

bts

masterlist!

yandererich! maknae line

jung hoseok

my prisoner l faeking!hoseok

park jimin

my light l mermaid!jimin

kim taehyung

crazy for you | kth

bicker (s)

enemy (s)

tunnel vision

maybe i do

no kisses (s)

if its not you

jeon jungkook

after last night 

the lucky one

jujutsu kaisen

masterlist!

sukuna

tattooartist!sukuna

bully!sukuna

clubbouncer!sukuna

pregnant with bully!sukuna

sukuna falling in love

the tyrant (ii)

ex-convict!sukuna

yandere!sukuna

jock!sukuna

gojo

lovesick!gojo

bully!gojo&geto

pregnant with bully!gojo&geto

baby trapping vol.2

trustfundbaby!gojo

postbreakup!gojo

finals week with gojo

gojo x cam!yn

college!gojo

ex-husband gojo

geto

baby trapping vol.2

bully!gojo&geto

pregnant with bully!gojo&geto 

piercer!suguru

frat-boy!geto

jealous!geto

toji

toji doesn't understand personal space

ex-boyfriend!toji

mma!toji fushiguro x reader

mafia!tojifushiguro

roommate!toji

mr. and mrs. fushiguro, toji fushiguro

collegeboy!toji

yakuza!toji

arrangedmarriage!toji

debtcollector!toji

unholy (s)

attack on titan 

eren

collegeboy!eren

collegeboy!eren

nerd!eren

bully!eren

connie

connie hates your bf

｡ﾟ･ɞ feelings run deep - connie springer

jean

jean x fem!reader

demon slayer

being your biggest supporters for your streams

rengoku

rengoku x maid!fem!reader

sanemi

arrangedmarriage!sanemi

gyutaro

yandere!gyutaro

tokyo revengers 

dazai 

drunk!dazai&chuuya

chuuya

drunk!dazai&chuuya

sanzu

sanzu x reader

lookism

samuel seo

ego season

steamy sensation

eugene

eugene x reader

eugene x you (engaged)

ryuhei

ryuhei x reader

[slice-of-julysky]

i really should be studying, not drawing postbreakup lesbians

but yet here we are

[philomenacunt]

getting infected with burnerphone thoughts and it's your fault 😔

might make a lyric webweave about them post-breakup. sigh (please tell me more about them postbreakup. pls pls pls /nf)

HDHAJSHDHS oh my god what. oh my godddd......

they are so intertwined....the breakup is so painful and it is so bloody i think.......i think maybe. lex is stressed. about hannah about her job. snaps at steph. it turns into a screaming match. steph is crying i think but she's also yelling and everything hurts and lex is being so fucking mean because she needs to push steph away and it's all annoying and she needs to hurt her so so so bad. and she does and all this resentment.......it just. argh. steph leaves even though steph never leaves. i think

they are the worst exes ever because they don't stop fucking. it's the best hate sex btw.

[longmeridian]

it is nice to be at peace with things!

the first photo is so fun, i think i could’ve done more with it but im happy with it as it is! i would like to make my sentences less blocky it is all a learning process i suppose..

[coolwyous]

I can’t wait for the angst. I’m already frothing at the mouth (LITERALLY)! I ofc wouldn’t mind if it was mainly fluff and barely angst cause you’re writing is amazing but….. I say make them break up and while they’re otw to make up something happens and they both die🥲😊😛

-angst enabler anon

the fact that i said pick one option and u said "no, they breakup and they BOTH die" is so diabolical, i stan angst enabler anon n their insane brain <333 u have god-tier takes bc no why would a DUAL main character death postbreakup absolutely eat!!

[tolerateit]

I don't know why people hate Willam Bowery when Smallest Man exists and seeming committed more crimes against her, made a habit of it, is openly sexist and ableist and she performs a song wishing he goes to prison every concert (Smallest Man). Pretty sure she hates his guts when she's bored. Pretty sure their sworn enemies now. (I don't know her)

because swifties started attacking him before the album came out under the assumption that most of it would be about a 6+ year relationship and felt clowned when it turned out to be mostly written about a highly criticized postbreakup fling instead ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

[edmarienism]

Why does it feel like the postbreakup and relationship angle is a media ploy. Like omar has never been this open about anything and how its the main focus. A lot of artists to that because it makes fans more invested and the songs more personal. It just seems like a big switch

ofc it's a great marketing ploy