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blk-chauvinist · 9 months ago

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Bad Parenting...

Too many adults spend their entire adult lives, recovering from the traumas inflicted on them by bad rearing.

#Bad Parents #Bad Parenting #Child Rearing #Adult Trauma #Red Pill #Self Focus #Healing #MGTOW

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kat-escapingreality · 2 years ago

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Good things happen when you start focusing on yourself.

#focus #stay focused #self focus #happiness #self care

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heyeun-recyclebin · 9 months ago

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Is it the weather? I am hit with nostalgia recently and feeling pretty blue. I decided to permanently delete my social media accounts. I want to focus on healing for now. The door has been closed and I am ready to move on.

#my writing #thoughts #feelings #journaling #notes #opinions #personal post #emotions #blog #diary #healing #move on #social media #self focus #faith

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tonyjwash · 10 months ago

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Get out of Your Own Head!

As I look back at past posts, I see the above topic resurfacing again and again. It’s certainly good advice for all of us. First, to clarify, getting out of your own head does not mean to cease from thinking nor does it mean to leave your body nor any other weird, hooky pooky stuff. We all need to take time to think. We all need to pay attention to the processor. What we don’t need to do is…

#deception #Fear #lies #overthinking #self critical #self focus #self judgment #self-condemnation #stcuk in your past #worried about the future #worry

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bexiescorner · 6 months ago

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dricacchi · 3 months ago

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more sketches

#malevolent #malevolent podcast #arthur lester #peter yang #parker yang #this was also from the daily sketch thingy i was doing (which lasted a week and barely that)#but it was fun tho and i do feel less self-conscious about posting sketches which was the goal #now there are many wips that i reeeally want to work on so i'll focus on that hehe #sketches #days 6 and 7 i believe #my stuff

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lucabyte · 3 months ago

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even dogs pass the mirror test

#hello again everyone. how's it going #isat loop #in stars and time #isat fanart #in stars and time fanart #isat #lucabyteart #isat spoilers #so. had this idea Before getting my hands on the artbook and being validated. literally have a voice note from 4:30am on the 8th where #i frantically noted down this just horrid horrid horrid caption because i'd been musing on the sasasap Dress line all day i suppose #just kind of rotating in my brain the way any kind of first time trying on new clothes for them would be .#just absolutely mental breakdown material and not one i think would be recovered from quickly. they hate being in their own skin #like. a lot? like a lot. the collateral of any kind of transfemme read was barely in my mind until it ended up relevant again while i was #actively working on this. because christ that's a bad combo. 2x different forms of body dysphoria in one. maybe even 3x somehow #plus any scenario where they get clothes is... likely gifted. something they react viciously negatively to in game and i doubt #would improve thereafter. just a veritable katamari of disgust and self-loathing #like i was mostly just thinking abt how a lot of our collective depictions of loop being alienated from their body are rather abstract #in a body horror way mostly. on account of loop being more of a metaphor than a person half the time. so i think i wanted to depict #something closer to just. a human level of body dysphoria. no focus on the whole duplicate thing just... raw disgust for the self #but with the addition of recent discussion and playing ball more with the she/her loop and transfem loop angle...#scenario of leaning into femininity to try throw off suspicion on who they are PLUS realising they might want that PLUS the party #trying to use this to bond with them PLUS body dysphoria PLUS new!gender dysphoria PLUS the usual revulsion for wanting and desire #like. that is a catastrophic combination . not coming out of that one without it getting worse for a few weeks thereafter #that's a real lash out at everyone around them and then recede in shame type breakdown. which im sure looks interesting from #the party's pov because jesus christ that touched a nerve something awful (<- they only have half the context AT BEST)#. so . there's your free scenario to ponder on if you'd want to. seeing as ive done a picture without a shitload of words on it for once #ALSO don't get smart with me in the tags about the mirror test being an absolutely ass test in most regards re: self-awareness #or that things like minnows pass it. i'm a fellow pedant dont worry. it's just that minnow doesn't really have the same ring as dog yknow?#this is supposed to be like an absolutely excruciatingly self loathing thought spoken aloud of a caption. it's pithy and cruel on purpose #and more than a little inspired by (reblogged yesterday) liminal space's 'there is no other dog. it's just you'

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poorly-drawn-mdzs · 6 months ago

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Learning to celebrate the little wins!

#fersona #While I don't have the capacity to do Hourly Comics Day #I did journal my day hour-by-hour and the sheer difference in my self-care and routines is *staggering*.#Honestly both Feb 1 2024 and 2025 were rough days...but this year I had a far better outlook on it all.#The funny part is that when I drew this a few days ago I actually *was* celebrating not crying.#Might have still cried on Feb 1st. A meagre 4 times. But I also had lot of good moments!#January is a very hard month for me and frankly I've been in a fugue state for most of it.#Drawing helped me pull through these last 2 years but this year I've been finding myself so upset at how I can't seem to focus anymore.#So updates and posts have been slow. I'm just slow. I'm tired and burnt out from work and grieving.#But you know what? The days I do manage to post; I'm never shamed for how long it took. You're all just as excited and kind.#I'm coming home and eating better and sleeping more and spending time with loved ones.#This is all to say; you can be a lot happier when you realize that life can be taken a little slower.#I'm more grateful that words can possibly convey.#If you related to the mindset of constantly feeling like you've 'failed' the day; please know you have done more than you realize.#I'm struggling with it everyday! I'm in the trenches with you!#Life is too short and painful to not celebrate what you *do* accomplish! It's hard work but it is worth it!#Bit by bit...we will learn to live. *Really* live. And enjoy it!

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blk-chauvinist · 8 months ago

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Why She's 35+ & Single...

Listen up, Men! This is one of the reasons she is single at 35.

There’s a tragic yet common cycle that keeps many women single and disillusioned, and it all stems from delusion. During their prime years—typically from their late teens to late twenties—these women, at the height of their desirability, squander their time chasing after men they want but who don’t want them back. These men, often high-status and highly sought-after, have no intention of committing to them. Yet, blinded by their own fantasies, these women keep giving their best years to men who only see them as temporary options.

At the same time, they dismiss the men who genuinely want them. These men might lack the flash or status of the ones they chase, but they offer something far more valuable—stability, respect, and the willingness to commit. However, to these women, such men are deemed “boring” or “not on their level.” They overlook them entirely, convinced that they can do better, all while pouring energy into men who won’t even remember their name in five years.

Fast forward to their mid-thirties, and reality begins to hit hard. The men they spent years chasing are either settled with other women or still not interested. Meanwhile, the men they once rejected have grown into high-value individuals. These men have built careers, developed themselves, and gained confidence—and now, they have options. And here’s where the delusion collapses: when these women turn back to the men they once dismissed, they find that these men are no longer interested.

Why? Because these men have moved on. They’ve learned their worth and won’t settle for someone who only sees their value now that her own options have diminished. The men who were overlooked in their younger years are no longer willing to be the backup plan. They’ve found women who respected them from the start, or they’ve raised their standards and won’t tolerate being someone’s second choice.

This is how many women find themselves single well into their thirties and beyond. They spent their prime years chasing illusions, ignoring good men, and now face the harsh reality of a market that no longer favors them.

Men, this is where your discipline and focus come into play. You may feel overlooked now, but don’t let it discourage you. Use this time to build yourself—physically, financially, emotionally, and intellectually. While others are wasting time, you’re sharpening your edge. When the tables turn—and they will—you’ll be the one with options. But remember this: don’t ever allow yourself to become someone’s Plan B. If a woman only starts paying attention to you when her options have run dry, respect yourself enough to walk away.

A woman who didn’t value you at your lowest doesn’t deserve you at your peak. The same way she made her choices in her prime, you have the right to make yours. Choose someone who sees your worth from the beginning, not someone who comes back out of desperation.

For the women reading this, let this serve as a warning. If you’re spending your best years chasing men who don’t want you and rejecting the ones who do, you’re walking a dangerous path. Time doesn’t wait for anyone, and the window of opportunity closes faster than you think. Start valuing men who respect you, and stop wasting time on men who don’t.

Men, understand this cycle and learn from it. Build yourself, stay focused, and never settle for less than you deserve. When your time comes, you’ll know your worth, and you’ll have the power to choose wisely.

Stay disciplined. Stay sharp. The world is watching.

Aklahyel Goni (Facebook)

#MGTOW #BMGTOW #Bad Women #Bad Choices #Feminine Narcissism #Walk Away Fellas #Self Focus #Dysfunctional Thinking #Feminist Lies #Red Pill

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motivationmindset52 · 2 years ago

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