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the rage i feel when i play junimo cart will be the death of me. i get so physically angry. i’ve been playing this stupid ass mini game for 4 hours and i have yet to beat lewis’ STUPID ASS 50K.
on god, if it didn’t effect perfection. i would bully lewis so much to the point he just leaves the town and i become mayor.
fuck you, lewis. die <3 :)
#stardew farmer#stardew#stardew lewis#sdv#sdv 1.6#sdv rant#i am livid#like no amount of calm can take out my anger#fuck you lewis#fuck u#you’re a shit mayor#and you can’t commit to a relationship#marnie deserves better than you#junimo cart#junimo
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bro can you imagine being tritter. you’re a power hungry cop who just wants to get revenge on the asshole doctor who humiliated you, so you approach his prescribing physician saying “here’s cold hard proof that he committed several crimes and endangered your career”. and instead of testifying against him in light of this information he’s like nooo he didn’t do anything wrong!! it was my fault actually that he committed felonies without my knowledge!! don’t take him away!! send me to prison instead!!! like. what do you even do with that
#can’t get over the car scene where tritter is like ‘you’ll go to prison if you don’t tell the truth about him’#and wilson just goes ‘better me than him’#and tritter just gets inscreasingly baffled by his commitment to being number 1 house defender#gay people bro 😭😭 outside perspective on that relationship goes crazy#house md#hilson#house/wilson#gregory house#james wilson#or like alternatively#can you imagine being julie wilson#and your husband comes home one day and he’s like I lost my job#and u ask why#and he says that house committed too many crimes and you refused to get him fired#my man was down bad 😭 stand by your mannn and show the world you love him
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the thing is that i don’t think it’s imposible to deltarune theorize but i do think they made it very clear that every character who knows anything is actively keeping secrets from You, The Player, and that the tension between what you want to know and what kris as your player proxy wants you to know is a tension that is actively causing them personal harm and also that toby fox is playing some alex hirsch ass red herring games so essentially everything that could be construed as a ‘clue’ to what’s happening (especially secrets and easter eggs) is likely a false trail which is sort of very fun
#pers#like it’s interesting right. like clearly kris is going to real extents to make sure you don’t figure out shit#i’m preoccupied thinking of how the mechanics of this game might continue to warp and sort of turn in on themselves#given the player-kris relationship but also the way that the combat in this game is all through the soul#a fact that was leaned on HARD in the end of chap 4 fight. so what does the game mechanically do next yk#deltarune#can’t commit to making my own tag for it rn so sorry for the main tag you know how it is
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2025 reads / storygraph
The Stars Too Fondly
scifi romcom
20 years ago a deep space mission was supposed to depart for Proxima Centauri but the entire crew disappeared before launch
now a group of friends who’ve spent their whole lives obsessed with it break into the ship to try and figure out what happened - but when they go to look at the dark matter engine, it turns on and starts sending them into space - and gives them strange magical abilities
along with a holographic ai copy of the ship’s captain, they have to deal with their strange abilities, reckon with the fact they might be spending years of their lives in space, and unravel the mystery of what happened to the old crew
bi & lesbian MCs, trans girl & nonbinary aroace side characters
#The Stars Too Fondly#aroaessidhe 2025 reads#I have mixed feelings about this! on one hand; I did enjoy it a lot overall? but also it wasn’t entirely my vibe for some reason#it’s a combination of high stakes plot and sweet found family and romance#the main plot is a bit silly maybe… and the villain kinda… cartoonishly evil.#There was a lot going on and I think I might have preferred if it just focused more on a couple of the elements…#The characters and relationships are fun though admittedly I wasn’t *super* invested in them#+ there’s always an awkwardness to found family that’s already established as found family. like; I guess; if you tell me they are; sure.#also they do feel a bit more like teenagers than 27yos; and the idea that they have PHDs……#I think it’s something you have to suspend a bit of disbelief over.#(I guess not that people with phd’s can’t be silly and fun. and as a 28yo i know people my age are like this. nonetheless)#I did enjoy the development of the main romance though#tho i will say i would have enjoyed an ending to the romance that committed to the holographic gf instead of ‘solving’ that....#however the ‘turns out my sex dreams about you were prophetic visions of the future’ is pretty funny.#I always enjoy a surprise aroace character! even if it’s just an offhand mention#yay vico ortiz narration!!#Anyway if you're into dramatic scififantasy romcom vibes I would check it out!
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aros when the story explores the role of relationships and their effect on sense of self and fulfillment, the acceptance of impermanence and change, the perceived emptiness and isolation that comes from having a different emotional experience than the people around you, the struggle to balance independence with connection to others, wanting to be loved but not at the expense of being ‘imprisoned’ or tied down, choosing to be true to yourself at the expense of meeting others’ expectations—
#something something aro coded villains#Idc. Anything can be aromantic allegory if you try hard enough#I think a major part of Xeha’s story is him feeling like his approach to relationships isn’t accepted or understood by Eraqus#The shift in his mentality from embracing and exploring new friendships freely as the opportunities for them arise (healthy)#To rejecting connection altogether and relying only on himself (unhealthy)#He can’t stand “possessive” relationships and then tragically goes on to *literally* possess so many people#He wants to be free and associates ‘bonds’ with being controlled and powerless#So I think a result of his unbearable loneliness is inflicting that feeling on others#Yes he’s in the wrong but I don’t think it’s fair to say he wouldn’t have any problems if he and Eraqus ‘just kissed’ or whatever#Its not that they didn’t express the “right” kind of affection in their relationship#it’s that they fundamentally didn’t agree on the required level of commitment! Or what love should be in the first place!#his reliance on darkness and loneliness is just another kind of prison#anyway this is why it all comes back to true/selfless/freely given/unconditional love#It’s what differentiates a sanctuary from a prison#Screenshots#aspec#Xehanort
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I hope they explode
#GOD THESE ARE ALL SO BAD. SORRY. I THINK THEYRE FUNNY LITTLE GUYS#nintama#nintama rantarou#忍たま乱太郎#rkrn#pissing off my friends by drawing them about to kiss like five zillion times and then never actually committing to it#YOU DONT GET ITS ABOUT THE UNFULFILLED DESIREEEEE#ugh. whatever. anyway I think they should kiss and make up WHO SAID THAT NO WAY#kema tomesaburou#shioe monjirou#tomemon#留文#tee bee aych there is kind of some sauce to monjirou realizing he likes tomesaburou and having a crisis over his status as a ninja#but in my mind I think hed be more upset about the fact it’s his archrival LOLLL#sorry. whatever. I’m evil and I think there’s also sauce to them if they’re both mutually pining but neither can actually be lovey dovey#because they’re so invested in their special little relationship as opponents… (dreamily)#and like . whatever. who gives a gaf. one of them gets like injured or sick and the other gets irrationally upset about it#we’re supposed to be rivals you can’t just fall on me here!!!! WHATEVER. I KNOW WHAT YOU TWO ARE#quirinahdraws#digital#sketchdump#(entire album full of kenen content) god I hate them so much#tachibana senzou#zenpouji isaku#chougougumi wingmen is a very cute concept to me. Their roommates simultaneously being sick of them and shipping them together :)…
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i know vivienne doesn’t give two shits about her female characters so maybe there’s no point in bringing this up but the way vaggie is written bothers me so much. she has the potential to be one of the most compelling characters in the entire fucking show but instead they waste it and keep her flat and one-note and she deserves so much better than that. like how did you manage to do the ‘main character love interest being boring’ trope on a wlw couple that was not the representation we needed
#tbd //#i love vaggie she’s one of my fav characters but i’m realizing i love the version of her i’ve constructed in my head#rather than what we actually got. because like. we didn’t really GET anything#i like that she’s no-nonsense and reserved and a little mean but where is her depth. you have to SHOW us u can’t just hint at it#she’s literally a fallen angel who is actively going against heaven and in a committed relationship with the princess of hell#and you gave the audacity to give her NOTHING???? when that premise could be so heartwrenchingly GOOD???#this show be stressing me out#vent //#i mean not really but just in case
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renly was stannis’s worst nightmare, gay son and thot daughter rolled into one
gay son and thot daughter rolled into one? no thats theon greyjoy. who said that
#asoiaf#renly is not a thot he was in a committed suspiciously timed relationship for uh. well you can’t count the years on that
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did aizo really switch the hand with which he was holding his microphone just to hold hands with yujiro like that?
#y. you guys know that you can just hold hands normally… right…?#only lxl would even try to hold hands that make it seem like they were going for a handshake that accidentally went too intimate#(but they’re now committed to the bit and it’d be too awkward to let go *now* in front of their crowd of hundreds)#but haha… the way they’re both crying as they look at each other with loving gazes… they’re so happy the divorce was called off man.#sometimes couples counselling can just be the act of introducing a potential third into the relationship#and just watching them *finally* talk it out and walk back the decision to divorce in record time#lxl truly can’t be involved in a r/s with anyone else huh… it has to be just the 2 of them or they’ll break down in tears#rip mr north prince you’ll find a better guy out there somewhere~~~~~#im still unwell sorry guys ill be back to normal soon. maybe. no promises.#lxl regretful divorce arc r e a l
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Bro I watched the this or that Smosh vid with the cheating question for the first time today
I’m actually fucking devastated about Keith, Angela, Amanda, and Olivia literally talking over and laughing at Damien for literally just saying you should hold your friends accountable
Like wtf do you mean he’s holding his standards too high????? For saying he’d hold cheaters accountable????? What????? You’re saying that if your friend told you they cheated you wouldn’t see them differently and want to hold them accountable????
Also Keith saying he has friends that have cheated and his response was “don’t do that. stay funky” bro what the hell do you mean?????
Idk why I keep getting attached to creators like I do bro I can’t keep going through this
Didn’t think it’d bother me this much but it actually really does idk
#smosh#smosh pit#damien haas#keith leak jr#amanda lehan canto#angela giarratana#olivia sui#random rant but wanted to post anyways#I know it was last year but I’m still gonna be sad idc#I can’t believe it brooooo#also Amanda and Olivia’s takes about the splitting bill one gave me an ick#broo I can’t keep doing this#I feel like their takes on the Reddit stories are usually good but then they say shit like this???#huh????#saw some comments bringing this up to#like it’s ok to want to hold strangers accountable but not ur own friends?????#ok ig#I’ve never really thought about the topic of cheating but when I do it boils my blood bro#if you’re in a committed relationship and you wanna have sex with someone else#fucking break up#it’s called a committed relationship for a reason#also cheating can be rlly dangerous#cause of stds and shit#I feel like that should be a no brainer but guess not💀💀💀
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working on another I Like You Too fic btw. i got distracted by the whole HRT wait but Im back at it again :3
#N posts stuff#it’s not the fic where augustus also gets HRT sorry girlie#it’s the follow up to ‘lazy’ actually; the next step that is the slow burn of augustus & changeling’s relationship#i do mean slow burn. they don’t decide to become explicitly romantic until After augustus gets run over#which is also around the time the HRT will also come into play for her lol#win some lose some.#no they spend a While in an ambiguous queerplatonic soup#not because of a reluctance to confess romantic feelings tho i wanna be clear about that like. the QP isn’t just a transition state#it’s its own distinct state of the relationship developing. not just a transitory thing that only exists bc a confession hasn’t#to be honest i’m probably some shade of Aro-spec honestly bc i’ve been trying to hammer out the Feelings that Augustus and Changelinf have#but honestly can’t really come up with a solid touchstone in what Romantic Feelings feel like to define it for them. but even that aside#A&C were also both going to be relatively unskilled at defining their own feelings for each other. so the notion of moving to romance isn’t#like. a natural thing it’s kind of clumsily fit into place when they decide to take that step. so idk.#maybe it’d be more accurate to call that QP in its own right? but i’ll tackle that when i get there. at the very least it’s a definitive#Commitment talk after the accident. but right now changeling is still navigating ‘i think i want her to hug me again??’ lol#like i’ve said before. eventually i know they start having sex and then eventually after that they Will get married#regardless of the intricacies of how you’d define their relationship that ceremony Is happening for them lol#but i’m not there yet!!! :3c#i like you too
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enemies to lovers is overdone and i hate it unless it’s well written and complex of course then i will never stop thinking about it
#the mistake bad ya authors commit is making it a straight progression from rivals or nemeses to a loving relationship#the graph needs to be a less a rising diagonal line more a zigzagging rollercoaster thing#you hate each other you want to kill each other you never will because you can’t exist without the other. you’re yin and yang and your#relationship is an eternal fact and you can never escape your gothic double#im not saying what this is about. kill yourself#jamie.txt
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I want to look for sukuna and uraume centric fic (romantic or platonic idrc) but also I know like, all of it is gonna be with Uraume written as a cis woman and most likely used as a self insert prop for bad and boring porn because that’s all there was the last time I looked 😭
#and then the rare few that write them as a femboy but in that really annoying and kinda degrading way#where they’re a super whiny sub bottom with no agency whatsoever ya know??#why can’t I just find anything that accepts uraume as 1. genderless#and 2. that yes they care about sukuna but specifically in the ‘I wanna watch you commit atrocities’ kinda way#they can fuck too idc that just canNOT be their main priority#cuz if it you are NOT understanding either one of them OR their relationship#kaz rambles
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#this is not a fully formed thought#but i’m just thinking that if buddie does go canon#one of the things the writers could deep dive into is#how they both have kind of complicated relationship with sex#i’ve been thinking about that post about eddie and does he know he can say no to sex#and how buck used to try to fill#heh pun not intended#an empty hole inside himself with meaningless sex#and how bothered he was that he might have not been able to please all his former partners#so i just think it would be such a good character study opportunity to have them figure out those things when it comes to their sex life#just. you know. have eddie learn that he is allowed to say no#and have buck understand that it doesn’t mean#that he failed as a partner#and that there are other forms of intimacy#that aren’t better or worse than sex but equally important#and even when you KNOW the other person#like really truly know them#you still need to communicate#because even in a commited relationship that is based on trust and love and devotion#you still can’t read your partners thoughts#and even if it’s hard at first it will make your relationship even better when you just talk#and that sex isn’t just some wordless agreement that just happens naturally when two people are attracted to each other#but it’s something that you NEED to talk about#and figure out what works best for everyone involved#i don’t know i have other thoughts about this but like i said#they’re not fully formed and i’m not able to articulate them#🤷🏻♀️
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#alison speaks?#to be deleted probably#not to like be weird about things people are already pretty weird about#but like beyond the absolute turn of ‘aCTUALLY this dude we liked for the past six years was a VILLIAN in her story’#it’s the fact that some people have an audacity to look at the relationship they were in for six years#and go ‘yknow what? it was all just so she could get here. it was all about the healing’ and granted yeah#good people can help you be better. a safe person and a safe place can allow yourself the time and safety it takes to grow and heal#but honest to goodness they did NOT commit to their six year long relationships and endure all their hardships#he did NOT support her during some of the worst moments in her career#just for y’all to reduce him to some stepping stone in her story#to view him as if the whole universe revolves around her like#like imo he deserved way fucking better#and honestly unless the relationship ended in a way that i really really really could not believe it did#it’s pretty fucking shitty that he had to put up with all the shit he got from the internet after the split went public#it’s pretty fucking shitty that y’all act like she can’t really do wrong in a relationship#that y’all STILL are unable to see it as anything other than sure humans make mistakes but men are absolutely terrible#like the need to analyze the fuck out of a song yall call deep and sad and so telling#that really just sounds like ‘why couldn’t you read my mind?’ makes me want to YELLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL#anyways that’s enough and maybe the last thing i’ll say#bc honestly if the current relationship ends up not lasting (not that i wish that on them#don’t get me wrong) but like if it doesn’t? just wait for everyone to come up with all the reasons why#this guy who brought her back and made her so happy and blah blah blah was ACTUALLY? a shitty guy the whole time#okay yeah that’s all that’s it#i think the reason this makes me so angry is bc y’all would not tolerate this if the situations/reactions were reversed#and honestly the amount of disrespect for a relationship that did not go burning down in flames between two people together for six years#that shared a life and a home … to get this disrespect i just….#i wish healing and happiness and growth for both of them#but damn
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(tags from @no-1-rosalind-lang-apologist)
By the way "some aroace people still date and have sex" and "it's weird how internet spaces makes every single aroace character romance and sex favourable" can and should co-exist. Sincerely, an aroace person
#tags from prev#like……. yeah. that definitely sums up my feeling on it#at some point i think people heard ‘aspec characters can still date/have sex’ and took it to mean#‘I can still ship aspec characters as long as i mention they’re aspec sometimes’#when in reality if you’re going to ship aspec characters then you can’t do it in the same identical way#aspec people everywhere on the spectrum have complicated feelings on these things#and THATS what i want to see when someone starts shipping aspec characters. personally. i think they should be using those relationships as#a lens thru which to study the characters and how they’re unlike allo people#as an aroace person who has had a pretty complicated time sorting out my relationships with romance and sex#and how those things impact the committed relationship im in#and how those things interact with also being polyamorous#i would love to see people write aspec characters with at least SOME understanding and respect for their identities#show me how their identity changes how they interact with a partner. show me how they think about it#get weird with it. i never get to see romance-repulsed aros in stories. i never get to see aro people who aren’t ace#i never get to see people like me whose identities change moment to moment#show me how their *partner* thinks about it. if theyre with an allo person there are GOING to be feelings there. differences.#and if it's two aspec people together then it gets even MORE complex. how are they the same and how are they different#how does that change the dynamic? how do they talk about their relationship? how do other people perceive it?#please im starving. ive started talking about the things i want to see and now i cant live without it........#also. slightly different. pls more romance repulsed characters. make it more common to see around. this is important#people dont even realize that theyre determined to find ways to erase identities they dont understand instead of trying to understand them#i think on some level allo people 'get' the idea of being sex repulsed bc we live in a sex-negative society and they conflate the two thing#('oh you think sex is gross? yeah that's normal everyone thinks it's gross' is not a meaningful understanding of ace sex-repulsion)#but bc romance is so sweet and pure and good and everyone needs love to survive (said through gritted teeth)#people really struggle to accept or even acknowledge romance repulsion. i know in shipping communities it gets even harder#bc shipping is often ABOUT romance...#but i would still like to see people try. romance repulsed aroallo. romance repulsed friends who get to make faces at each other when peopl#mistake them for a couple. romance AND sex repulsed aroace who still gets meaningful analysis and screentime bc their life doesnt have to#revolve around romance and sex 1000% of the time forever#aspec people have written THE most interesting and compelling versions of some of my favorite characters of all time
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