#because i dared to say people avoidant attachment are not the spawn of satan??? | Explore Tumblr posts and blogs

me-and-me-fr · 1 year ago

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They’re having discourse on Tiktok about attachment issues. Attachment. Issues. You know, the thing usually caused by some trauma or underlying mental issues. Cool, great. They love to victimize people with anxious attachment styles, while villainizing people who have avoidant attachment styles.

Both can be terrible to someone in a relationship.

Both are capable of recognizing that and changing it.

Call me chronically online all you fucking want, but if you believe someone is undeserving of love because of a trauma response, maybe it’s you who needs to take a step outside.

#i hate tiktok #sorry for the rant i admit its out of a place of bitterness #but i cant fucking stand it #i had an ex who i now believe anxious attachment #i dont blame her for how she acted but to make someone like her out to always #be a victim? are you fucking kidding????#not to mention the constant almost inhumane replies ive been getting on that site telling me i should never fall in love #because i dared to say people avoidant attachment are not the spawn of satan???#rant over urgh #🦇#anxious attachment #tiktok is stupid #attachment issues #avoidant attachment

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