#except cis men

[fioredivenere]

Lesbian things I did

before realizing I am, in fact, a lesbian.

Being jealous and overly protective to my girl best friends

Having only one girl best friend at a time, because I only ever think of my girl best friend.

My first kiss was to a girl and for the next four years no matter who was in a relationship (with some other guy), we kept kissing each other in secret.

The first time I had unrestricted online access I only ever search for wlw content.

I only ever had crushes either on the super popular guy (bc that's the correct way to have crushes, am I right) or the super shy and introvert guy. Both ways I only ever went for the impossible guy and then oopsies, I Guess I Have to be Single forever.

The guys I ended up dating where always stereotypically feminine guys, either because they were so much shorter than me, or had long hair, or had very soft personalities.

For almost every guy I dated I secretly thought what would I do if they came out as transfemme. I even used a filter to see how they would look like as girls. I am not making this up. Guess what? I always thought I'd stay if they wanted to transition and all.

As a kid I was so obsessed with a weather reporter girl, who's extremely attractive btw, and I still have a crush on her.

As a kid the first time a boy told me he liked me I ran away in fear and disgust, without saying anything, and hid from him for the rest of the time.

In middle school this boy was super into me and tried to kiss me in multiple occasions. Every time I would slap the shit out of him. [note: this boy I was kind of in a "relationship" from the age 5 to the age 11. I never actually liked him and I only referred to him as my super best friend. He used to shower me in romantic gifts (as much as a kid can do) and try (unsuccesfully) to hold my hand, hug me and kiss me on the cheek. We ended this thing because I told him I only liked him for his toys (that I couldn't have at home because they were "boy toys") and I actually liked the popular older kid. I shattered this poor boy's heart, and in return he traumatized me by locking me in a classroom with his older friends holding me up against a wall just to kiss me on the lips a couple years later at 13) Now back to the regularly scheduled program:

I barely ever notice if a guy is attractive, but I think almost every woman is stunning.

I'm super into any kind of femininity, anything associated with it really.

I remember perfectly, down to the smallest detail, what every single best girl friend was. But I keep forgetting the faces of the guys I dated... This specifically might be caused by other reasons, but I listed it anyways because it sounds gay af.

When I tried to come out online as lesbian a year and a half ago I was the happiest I ever been. I then was shoved back into the closed and I buried everything for a year, but you can read more of this on my other post "My queer journey".

When I'm with a girl I like I'm literally so happy I get euphoria and start laughing like an idiot.

My biggest aspiration in life is to own a beautiful country home with a partner. This partner must be not-a-man.

Well, I also made this list.

[f3mtguy]

yeah congrats on passing 100% of the time and being stealth 100% of the time at work. i was constantly asked about my genitals. about how i could possibly have sex. about whether they could see my top surgery scars. about what it 'looks like down there'. i was stalked, harrassed, and threatened with rape to the point where i had a 2 year long burnout and depression and needed a year of help and therapy to even think about reintegration.

trans men's access to male privilege is dependent on passing 100% of the time AND choosing to be stealth 100% of the time. the second youre not, that privilege is gone. so no, trans men cannot access a systemic privilege if it's dependent on such fickle things and i'm tired of everyone only ever granting a platform to trans men if they're cis passing and willing to flagellate themselves and put down other trans men. just switching out bioessentialism for gender essentialism.

[hoshi-kawaii]

Arthur Conan Doyle: what if there was a detective and he was super mysterious and badass and like the smartest man alive but of course was misunderstood and an outcast but in a cool way.

Agatha Christie: what if there was a detective but he was a tiny little fancy man and no one ever took him seriously no matter what he does because of white on white racism. and he's got a silly mustache.

[fumikaaa]

is it just me or does anyone else get really uncomfy when ppl seperate trans men from cis men in conversation when its not to do with being trans . like. ok tell me you dont see me as a man without telling me you dont see me as a man

[vulpinesaint]

engaging in gender the same way i do in fandom. which is to say i'm doing it all on my own blog saying whatever the fuck i want and using all the terms wrong and not taking input from anyone else <3

[clairekeegan]

im sad when women at the gym only do cardio dont let Big Patriarchy lie to you women you all need to be using the machines and getting JACKED!

[ace-disgrace-on-the-case]

First post of 2025

Tiddies

[sketchysubstance]

I think I am definitely bi, and I am attracted to cis men, but The Way They Are™ makes me so unattracted to them that I keep thinking I'm a lesbian but then I see trans guys (regardless of whether theyve had surgery/HRT or not) and I'm like "oh my god I get to have men who know what its like to be a woman? Who Get It? Sign me up."

Idk why I hardly see cis women dating trans guys. I mean, I KNOW it's mostly just transphobia, but like. Girls. What r u doing. U got men out there who were raised as women and GET IT, and ur still going for cis men? Ladies, we are fucking ourselves over.

When cis men decide to stop being The Way They Are™ I'll consider dating one, but rn im bi as in "everyone but cis men." Male loneliness epidemic be damned.

[intelligentchristianlady]

Ban Woke Animals

"...the MAGA obsession with eradicating “DEI” is downright ludicrous. In their zeal to Make America White Again, the Trump word police went after the Smithsonian and the National Zoo. 'The zoo boasts prominently on its website that it has ‘more than 2,200 animals representing almost 400 different species,’ Dana Milbank pointed out. 'Could there be a more brazen embrace of DEI?'” (x; the Dana Milbank quote is from the WaPo, behind a paywall)

DEI. I do not think that word means what you think it means...

[thecharliechip]

This has probably been said before, but the whole "all men are evil/men can't control themselves/boys will be boys" thing kinda just circles back to victim blaming. Like you get with a man who's abusive and people who believe that kind of idea will just be like "welp you should've just expected that since he's a man" instead of doing something productive to help victims.

Saw a comment on Pinterest (which sounds like a quote from something) that says "If you treat someone like a villain, eventually they'll begin to fit the mold." And I think that's so well said and something I've been trying to say for so long but not knowing the right way to say it. Like we should have higher expectations for men and when a man meets our expectations it shouldn't be treated as an exception but as the standard for all men.

[author-by-night]

Obligatory “no one should be forced back to office,” but if I have to go I should at least have it written into my work agreement that I get to defenestrate anyone who starts eating like they’ve got caps lock on IRL in the middle of a cube farm.

HHHHHHHYAOUPMNCHMNCHMNCHMNCHMNCH—right out the window.

[putrefacion]

I ORIGINALLY INTERPRETED LUTE’S LINE AS A DIRECT ATTACK ON VAGGIE’S RELATIONSHIP / HOMOPHOBIA, LIKELY STEMMING FROM AN INGRAINED ANGELIC BIAS AGAINST SAME-SEX UNIONS — BUT SO FAR, PER VIV'S LORE, THERE’S DOESN'T SEEM TO BE ANY INDICATION THAT QUEERNESS PLAYS A DECIDING ROLE IN ONE’S PLACEMENT IN HEAVEN OR HELL. SO, I DON'T COUNT THIS IN LUTE'S REASONING ANYMORE,

WHEN LUTE CALLS VAGGIE & CHARLIE’S UNION VILE & BLASPHEMOUS, SHE’S REFERRING TO THE UNION OF AN ANGEL WITH A DEMON. A BEING DIVINELY FORGED CHOOSING TO TETHER ITSELF TO THE VERY THING THEY WERE MADE TO DESTROY? WITH THE DAUGHTER OF LUCIFER, NO LESS? GUESS WHO THAT REMINDS HER OF? IT’S BLATANT PROJECTION. LUTE SEES LILITH & ADAM IN VAGGIE & CHARLIE, & IN ADDITION TO ALL THAT, THERE'S THE FACT THAT ADAM STILL SPEAKS TO LILITH — THAT THERE’S A DEAL BETWEEN THEM; IT'S A WOUND THAT DOESN'T ( & PROBABLY NEVER WILL ) CLOSE,

[vwampires]

forgot that cis men can't get pregnant for a second

[timetravelstudies]

FLINTA is such a dumb fuck acronym bc like we all know it means “wombxn” just grow a spine and say “biological females” like the self aware terfs