#extroverts are scary

[roxiearth]

The audacity extroverts have like they send a text and if I don’t reply within a minute, they CALL! And it’s not even like for any emergency! Just to ask something stupid like how is my mother doing now!! Believe me if she died I would’ve sent an email, so maybe calm the fuck down you extroverts!!

[sunsetsandsunshine]

Ur so cool!

guh,, i wanna dm you but I wanna ask and im so shy

- 🫐

Awe 😭💓💕💗⁉️

🎶Thank youUuUuuU🎵…(I’m not as cool as you think but I WILL except the compliment)

No pressure if you don’t want to; talking like this is perfectly fine for me 🙂‍↕️👍🏾!

[bookinit02]

socialized. need to sleep for 10 years

[emero0]

You ever just “huh wouldnt a cosplay group be fun? How do i do that-“ and then move on and do nothing about it cus new people are scary? TvT

[kalmiaclown]

Interacting with fandom is so fun and so scary like "yayyy I get to talk about my interests!! Yippee yippee!!! 😸🎉" but also "I'm talking to people 😨 im gonna vomit 😨😨"

[baby-prophet]

I was trying to see if he'd invite me to the movie hes seeing tomorrow but he didn't take the bait and I dont want to invite myself ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

[rabbitsfrommars]

Hello fellow girlkissers do you guys think women are actually into girlflops or is it just on this website? I feel like you get the consensus that like the girlies love pathetic women and I... I'm a pathetic woman but I am too scared to talk to other lesbians irl because women are just so so so froths at the mouth

[ramshitposts]

The flaws with your logic to dating someone being "become friends with them first" is that a) you make it further than you thought and the guy you've been stealing glances at for months is now just this guy you have Conversations with Everyday (insane transition to comprehend) and that b) now you have a friendship to ruin forever if you ask him out and he says no. So that's nice.

[firewolf111]

You know, turns out I'm the same online as I am in person. Here I was thinking "Let's try something new and be my true self with people who might relate."

My true self is an antisocial hermit, I guess.

Cause I really want mutuals and an active online presence and to just meet people who I might relate to. But I'm too anxious to do what's needed. I know I have to reach out. I know i have to comment, like, reblog, follow and interact with other tumblrs and all that, but that is terrifying.

So I'm screaming into a void, pretending like people can hear me, fully knowing I'm lucky when a single random traveler stumbles upon my little hermit cave.

I guess I'm just going to keep hoping I'll get lucky even though I know I'm not. Because I'm too terrified to change my ways.

So yeah, so much for being a different person online because this is exactly why I had few real life friends.

Social anxiety sucks.

[angeltism]

having a massive convo on how to make more friends . why is this so hard

[fermentedrice]

Very (extremely!) friendly reminder that my ask box/DMs/whatever form of communication on any social media is/are open and everyone is welcome to barge in and say hi!! Talk to me about anything! Brainrot over bg3 (or anything really)! We can word vomit about our ocs and ships!! (degenerates are very welcome too we don’t kinkshame in this house) (by degenerate i mean DEGENERATE) (as long as we’re both adults of course)

[baorisa-hieroglyphica]

FEELS NICE to finally feel comfortable posting on tumblr again without the distinct feeling of having hundreds of ppl looking at me posting casually about stuff :D

[stitchthesewords]

i cant speak to ur wider reputation but To Me ur the cool intimidating mumscarian mutual 👍🏻

[chip-does-stuff]

WHAT DO YOU MEAN I WANT TO TALK TO PEOPLE CONSTANTLY??? THIS IS TERRIFYING????

[technicolorxsn]

howwww do u talk to ppl who r skittish