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How to Handle Friend Jealousy: Addressing Issues Head-On
Friendship is a beautiful, fulfilling part of life, but like any relationship, it can come with its challenges. One common issue many face in their friendships is jealousy. Whether it’s about accomplishments, attention from others, or personal relationships, jealousy can sometimes creep into even the closest friendships. When not addressed, it can lead to misunderstandings and resentment. The key…
#friendship advice#friendship issues#friendship jealousy#handling jealousy#open communication#overcoming jealousy#relationship challenges
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When Swinging Goes Wrong: How to Handle the Unexpected
Swinging isn’t always smooth sailing, miscommunication, jealousy, or broken boundaries can happen. Learn how to handle swinging challenges and keep your experience positive! 👫🔥 #Swinging101 #OpenRelationships #LifestyleChallenges #Swingosphere
Swinging can be an exciting, fulfilling way to explore intimacy, deepen connections, and create unforgettable experiences. But like anything in life, things don’t always go as planned. Whether it’s a miscommunication, broken boundaries, jealousy, or an unexpected emotional reaction, when swinging goes wrong, it can be challenging to navigate. Here’s what can go wrong and how to handle it when it…
#avoiding swinger pitfalls#boundaries in the lifestyle#emotional attachment in swinging#ethical non-monogamy#handling jealousy#Jealousy in swinging#lifestyle boundaries#lifestyle mishaps#lifestyle mistakes#miscommunication in swinging#open relationship struggles#relationship communication#swinger community advice#swinger couple challenges#swinger problems#swinger relationship issues#swinging and consent#swinging etiquette#swinging gone wrong#swinging regrets
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op: "i really don't mind-" zeta: "Do Not enable him"
sort of a sequel to this? a lot of people really wanted op to get a hug and i support that. so does prima. zeta isn't really against it, he just wishes prima would at least try to stick to the schedule for primus' sake-
haunted au
#i talk a lot <3#transformers#transformers one#optimus prime#prima prime#maccadam#haunted au#my art#also yes if you're wondering zeta did fit cuddle time into the schedule. normally right after the five minutes of sobbing weekly session.#OP is handling the break-up like a fucking champ thank you very much he can get all his ugly crying out in one go every week#no this isn't unhealthy it's called time management please try to keep up#(<- may or may not be the exact same conversation that happened right before cuddle time was included into the schedule)#also not seen here but megatronus is right out of frame. seething in jealousy.#prima keeps hogging their baby brother and he's so mad about it#tf one
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Joaquin: So since you’re Captain America now, does that mean everyone classifies you as America’s daddy as well?
Sam: I’m not going to be called that…
Joaquin: Shoot I don’t blame them, I mean you are kinda daddy *Smirks*.
Sam: Stop talking.
Bucky: *Spying from a bush* I’m going to kill that dude…
#Joaquin knows what he’s doing#jealousy at its finest winter soldier#Bucky handling his divorce well#sam is so done#joaquin torres#sam wilson#bucky barnes#samquin#sambucky#sam x joaquin#sam x bucky#incorrect quotes#incorrect marvel quotes#incorrect mcu quotes#marvel incorrect quotes#mcu incorrect quotes#thunderbolts#thunderbolts mcu#captain america#cabnw#samtorres#sam wilson x bucky barnes
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do you ever just think about suguru's reaction to someone else flirting with you. because it's something I always go back to.
it's a sitatuton that instantly pisses him off, but he never reacts. his detachment starts with a vacant expression in his eyes and a sweet, bone-chilling smile that spreads across his face. he won't break eye contact with the person bold enough to make their attempt, or even try to stop them.
he eggs them on. like it's a sick, twisted game that strokes his ego.
yes, isn't she beautiful? he'll acknowledge, an eeriness masking his polite words. it's her eyes that get me, or she was made for this dress, he'll follow up as he displays you with bitter pride.
he delicately brushes his fingers up and down your waist. a come hither motion tempting the other to try and touch you as well.
she's all mine, his gestures speak and it's remarkable how the other person instantly shrivels in their boots. how their voice cracks with uncertainty, or how a glow of sweat mists all over their flushed face.
they aren't even sure why they are suddenly uncomfortable.
#suguru handles his jealousy sooo differently than the others in my opinion#geto thirst hours#suguru geto#geto x reader#my dark prince🖤
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it’s always so crazy to me how much weight is put on John and Paul’s romantic relationships and how they affect the Beatles, not Ringo or George’s.
I feel like it’s always “John fell in love with Yoko”, “Paul fell in love with Linda” and that’s why the band fell apart. Which - aside from being absolutely crazy conclusions that lack the nuance of, y’know, acknowledging Ringo and George (and also the whole host of other problems the band had) - is so fascinating to me because what do you mean it all hinged on John and Paul being together? What do you mean the band was absolutely peachy when Ringo or George were in love but as soon as something serious drives a wedge between John and Paul it’s all over?
There’s something in stating they found other people so they couldn’t be together that implies such a toxic codependency but also an insane jealousy of anything that takes the other’s attention away. Point is I think their devotion to each other made the breakup worse.
#and like obv yes the beatles existing hinges on any given members desire to keep participating#like any of them couldve walked away for any reason and that wouldve dissolved the group#but like talking strictly in reporting and also like beatles meta i see abt their breakup#i just find it fascinating how important paul/linda and john/yoko r seen compared to george/paittie or ringo/maureen#and i dont think its wrong for happening bc dang. those gay bitches jealous#but thats my point like#i feel that a lot of ‘why did the beatles break up?’ will be hasty to end the conversation at ‘its bc they fell in love’#no!!#bc they’ve BEEN in love#its because neither paul or john could handle someone else other than eachother being the most important person in their life#this post may just be a roundabout way of saying stop blaming yoko bc john and paul’s jealousy is at the heart of the conflict#which im not saying any of you hot ppl on tumblr dot com r doing#but others are and it annoys the shit out of me bc literally#those gay bitches jealous#the beatles#john lennon#paul mccartney#john and paul#mclennon#<- to the enlightened
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I know reki’s not the healthiest emotionally but i keep thinking of positive mentalities he gave me like>>
“Do it because its fun!”
“Its not about winning—Its about seeing if its possible and testing your limits”
(paraphrasing ofc but like the 2nd beef with adam 90% sure he says something along these lines and im like>> pop off king you dropped this 👑)
#sk8#sk8 reki#reki kyan#sk8 the infinity#life lessons brought to you by anime#i really shouldnt put so much weight into words said by fictional characters#but they areee just reworded versions of what those inspirational speakers i always hated said so 🤷#whatever works>>>#the power of blorbos always wins>>>>#i say ‘not the emotionally healthiest’ because he distanced himself and like inferiority complex or whatever#but actually for his age he couldve handled a lot worse than just yelling out his feelings and taking some time to think through his feelin#-s and what he wants (plus hes aware of his jealousy of langa AND how ‘good friends should be happy for each other’ which is maybe not good#with the should but still)#all my blorbos id defend with my life actually#like call them out for their bs but also i will explain how its well written and why they did what they did>>>#okay bye bye yap
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fleshing out my Relativity Au some more, i fujking love these guys, they're so-
part 1/ part 2
#v's art#gravity falls#relativity falls#dipper pines#older dipper pines#mabel pines#older mabel pines#gravity falls fanart#they're in their upper 40's#we'll say they have an older sibling who gave birth to the stan's mother#bc twin genetics are passed down through the women :)#source: my family + my twin uncles on my mom's side of the family#dipper wasn't necessarily acting on as much hubris as ford#more genuine curiosity#and his reaction to getting reality shifted was “damn that's crazy”#“let me go get an adult to handle this”#cue the montage of him studying interdimensional law bc he has to represent himself in space/time court#smashcut with a montage of mabel commiting every conceivable OSHA violation possible while setting up the shack#she leans into the medium side of the business#copying what Caryn did on the phone when they were younger#but falls in love with the theatrics of it all#its not really a secret that its all fake#but her enthusiasm really sells it#its a different vibe from the stan twins bc dipper is just clever not genius level (and mabel is also smart just differently)#they're not competing as much bc gender difference (its more jealousy)((they swap later))#and theyre both fundamentally devious little shits who love a good scheme#so when dip gets home and he sees his sister for the first time running a scam wearing his name he goes “bet” and steals her's right back#there's no “leave these kids alone” its “oh thank goodness tag you're it bitch”#they fall back into step like they never left each other
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jealous Lizzie
#oh some fun good scenes in this bloody series#and I like how May handle this jealousy so classy#Lizzie Shelby#Natasha O'Keeffe#peaky blinders#thomas shelby#cillian murphy#may carleton#Charlotte Riley#I put my heart into every gifset I’ve made
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Why does Sophia have to make amends to Ember if Ember the one that bullied her. Cinderella. Cinderella what the hell. Cinderella of your sisters only one was redemeed and it was her that made amends. Cinderella.
#I'm watching the movie. i think thats where it starts????#but i did like the way Sophia and Ember handled it.#i just don't understand why Cinderella samg that.#why not just the message nout why and how her sisters behaved and the thing about jealousy?? or. just. “your sister isn't sleeping and she#had more education in magic and might know what to do“#why the make amends. sophia didn't do anything beside existing. cinderella. cinderella do you hear me.
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and the storm lifted.
#ffxiv#zenos#my art#yes yes the royal menagerie doesnt have that many flowers it was easier for me...#also doesnt he look beautiful in that field of flowers???#stormblood#stormblood spoilers#everyday i wonder who was the poor shmuck assigned to handle zenos's dead body#<- said while seething in jealousy#IT SHOULD HAVE BEEN ME!!! IT SHOULD HAVE BEEN ME
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so far what i really like about the ex morning is the way they talk about being exes
like idek i can't quite articulate what it is yet but i think a lot of it has to with the fact that in most bls
1) the time a couple is actually in a relationship is less than half of the episodes and
2) having ex partners is often not even discussed or if it is, it's with notes of jealousy or just a short off-hand mention to state the sexuality of a character
#let's normalise having ex partners methinks#and let's normalise talking about it because it's just a part of life#like idk i could go on a whole rant about jealousy as a trope and the thing is i don't mind a lot of things in fiction bc it's there to get#characters from plot a to plot b#but sometimes i miss my realism you know#even in ridiculous bls#and then when the realism comes knocking at my door suddenly i get all giddy because hi! there you are! i missed you! come on in!#sure this show has it 'easy' because discussing the ex partner doesnt make a new partner jealous#but in some ways it's even more unexpected how they handle it because i can easily imagine scenes like in the tech shop#that have one of the characters act super defensive and go nOOOO WHAT I WAS NEVER IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH THAT JERK PFFFHT#and that would maybe get a quick laugh but it would be so annyoing lol#rambles#the ex morning
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What would the ro’s do if a stranger went up and started flirting with the mc crushing stage
Hi, anon!
My lack of proclivity toward jealousy is being exposed with these asks. 😂 I've always found (romantic) jealousy to be a bit odd. I can never relate to it, and when I try to break it down with critical thinking, I always come to the conclusion that it's an emotion borne of a conception of possession (over a person's body or attention or love or etc), which has never made me particularly comfortable. I'm not saying this is necessarily the case for anyone, I just can't imagine experiencing jealousy myself without the other criteria being true, and it never will be. I understand that people feel it, of course, and I can understand other reasons why a person might feel it, but it's not en emotion that I've ever been able to personally feel myself.
And this bleeds through to my writing a lot because my characters are rarely ever the jealous sort. (Maybe it's because I'm poly... or maybe I'm poly because I don't feel jealousy. Could not tell ya.)
So having said all that, I'm really not sure what each of the ROs would do if a stranger started flirting with MC. I can tell you this: the characters that are most likely to feel jealousy in this scenario are Yulia and A2. (Path might get jealous over MC, but only in a deep romantic stage.) In the crushing stage? I can't imagine they would do much of anything about it besides perhaps putting their best foot forward when they interact with MC. It's MC's choice who they wish to accept or reject flirtation from, and it's not their business to get in the way of that. All they can do is try to make themselves seem like good options.
Now, if a stranger was flirting with MC and it was clearly unwanted, that might be a different matter...
Thanks for the ask!
#i've talked about it on my ninelives blog too#i just don't handle jealousy well#it's nearly an alien emotion to me#ask#valiant extras#character asks#valiant ros
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coworker soap desperately wants to go over to your place and when he finds a pair of those pink fluffy handcuffs cause he can’t stop snooping around, he insists on using them on you and staring way way too hard without blinking
i think if Johnny found fluffy handcuffs at reader's apartment, his mind would snap. he'd come back to himself an hour later balls deep in her with her legs around his waist.
#sorry there's no way that guy is rationally handling his crush having sex toys#he's either going insane with jealousy or his brain is melting from sheer horniness
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@fortruechaos asks: clearly your mind is elsewhere. ( PROMPTS FOR A LITTLE JEALOUSY / accepting! )
“ I'm thinking... ” The blue hedgehog murmurs. “ I can do that, you know. Think. ” Sonic was sitting there in a field, absentmindedly picking up the grass and just throwing it away. Because his mind is definitely elsewhere. ( And it was bothering him. ) Holding back a sign of frustration, Sonic breathed in deep and looked up towards Shadow. He attempts a smile which doesn't reach his eyes.
“ So, what does the Ultimate Lifeform want today? A race so that your ass gets beaten by yours truly? ”
#>> . speeding through mail ( answered )#>> . no food or movies? i'm outta here! i like running better ( verse: main )#fortruechaos#( he may be jealous- who knows i made this vague-ish LMAO )#( i don't think sonic can handle his own jealousy he don't like it )
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After you and Clay started dating, how easy or how hard was it for you to be comfortable with Clay using bondage in his sessions with other Lee's? And was it easy or hard for you to be comfortable for other Ler's to use bondage on you?
Oh, easy!
Clay and I were play partners for a little under a year before we naturally transitioned into a romantic relationship. While just platonic play partners, we were already playing with others and using bondage! Before committing, we agreed to remain open and non-monogamous to continue playing with people how we’d like!
Bondage can be intimate, and some couples do exclusively use it for each other. That’s a valid and possible boundary!
Though, not for us. We love bondage~. 🖤
#honestly the hardest thing after committing was the jealousy of him playing with pretty girls- I have plenty of posts on it and how I deal#with it. you can learn how to healthily handle jealousy! now jealousy just sparks my Ler/lee moods lol#my posts#answered#ask#anon#Clay#clayticklish
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