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How Often Should You Get a Facial? A Dermatologist-Approved Guide
Why Facials Matter
Facials are more than a luxury—they support healthy skin by deeply cleansing pores, exfoliating dead skin cells, boosting hydration, and improving circulation. But like any skincare treatment, their effectiveness depends on consistency and timing.
The General Rule of Thumb
Most skin experts, including dermatologists and licensed aestheticians, recommend getting a facial every 4 to 6 weeks. This cycle matches the skin’s natural renewal process, where old skin cells shed and new ones surface. Regular facials help manage this process and maintain balance.
Factors That Influence Facial Frequency
Skin Type
Oily or Acne-Prone Skin: A facial every 3 to 4 weeks may help manage breakouts and clogged pores.
Dry or Sensitive Skin: Once every 6 to 8 weeks is usually sufficient to avoid over-stripping or irritation.
Normal or Combination Skin: Every 4 to 6 weeks keeps the skin refreshed without overwhelming it.
Skin Concerns
If you’re targeting specific issues like acne scars, hyperpigmentation, or fine lines, you might require a more customized schedule with treatments like chemical peels, LED therapy, or microneedling. Your aesthetician will guide you based on your goals and skin condition.
Age and Lifestyle
As we age, the skin loses elasticity and regenerates more slowly. Those over 40 may benefit from monthly facials focused on collagen stimulation or hydration. Additionally, external factors such as sun exposure, pollution, stress, and poor diet can increase the need for consistent treatments.
Seasonal Considerations
Skin reacts to weather changes, so seasonal facials can be very effective:
Winter: Boost hydration and repair wind-chapped skin.
Spring: Exfoliate and detox after dry winter months.
Summer: Control oil, clear congestion, and soothe sun exposure.
Fall: Repair sun damage and restore balance before colder weather.
When You Might Need More Frequent Facials
In some cases, a short burst of weekly or bi-weekly facials might be recommended, such as:
Preparing for a big event (wedding, photoshoot)
Treating acne flare-ups or scarring
Undergoing an intensive treatment plan for skin rejuvenation
These regimens should always be supervised by a skincare professional.
When Less Is More
Facials done too often—especially aggressive ones—can lead to irritation, redness, or disrupted skin barrier function. Overdoing exfoliation or extractions can cause inflammation and breakouts, especially for sensitive or compromised skin.
How to Know It’s Time for a Facial
Watch for signs like:
Dull, tired-looking skin
Excess buildup or clogged pores
Frequent breakouts
Uneven texture or dryness
Loss of glow or elasticity
If you’re unsure, consult your aesthetician. They can evaluate your skin and recommend the right frequency.
Maintaining Results Between Facials
Even the best facial won’t last without good at-home care. Stick to a routine that includes:
Daily cleansing and moisturizing
Sun protection (SPF 30+)
Weekly gentle exfoliation
Hydrating masks or serums
Avoiding harsh products between visits
Consistency is key for lasting results.
Final Thoughts
How often you should get a facial depends on your skin type, lifestyle, age, and individual skin goals. For most people, every 4 to 6 weeks is ideal. Others may need more or less frequent treatments. By working with a trusted professional, you can tailor a schedule that helps your skin stay clear, hydrated, and healthy year-round.
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The whole transandrophobia discussion thing is weird bc it feels like it's a bunch of poc and jewish trans people being like "here are my experiences of how specifically being MASCULINE had affected me, and the discrimination and violence I experienced based on that. And here is how that relates to me being a racial/ethnic minority"
And then a few loud white trans people going "ohhh you wanna be oppressed so bad you *slur*. This is why there aren't any poc in your movement it's because REAL poc understand intersectionality"
#hot take white culturally christian or athiest leftests do not properly interpret white jewish ppl#like as a poc i and other poc understand that white jewish ppl often get racial privilege#but a) not always b) they experience oppression based off of their ethnicity#idk from my perspective it seems like white goyim either see jewish ppl as 'the disgusting exotic enemy' or 'basically WASPS but they#wanna feel special'#with no nuance. no recognition#look maybe this next part is bc i didnt grow up with jewish ppl and therefore didnt know until I was 18/19 that jewish ppl can count as#white. but like. idk how to say this. i dont wanna speak over white jewish ppl. but like.#jewish ppl that have obvious jewish features (whether Ashkenazi facial features OR they dont have those but wear eg kippahs)#arent like. white. idk pls correct me if this is antisemitic or incorrect or something.#but like. light skinned =/= white obviously.#i just struggle to see how my bestfriend with her lovely dark eyes and curls and nice nose counts as 'white' when ppl call her the k slur#across the street. ykwim?#like white doesnt mean light skinned. it means 'part of the in-group of white ppl'#like my ex who is white and jewish? yeah hes white. if he didnt wear his necklace then goyim wouldnt know. you know#like obvs he still experiences ethnic oppression but he doesnt experience racial oppression#but other ppl with more prominent eg ashkenazi (im singling them out bc most jewish ppl here are ash.) like i dont GET how they have racial#privilege.
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[Narrator: Phineas plays anxiously with the bead of caenum on his abacus]
#midst podcast#phineas thatch#midst#never drawing armor again in my entire life (says every artist ever)#anyway. this is him pre Imago#hes described very often as fidgeting with his caenum bead#very rude of jonas to take it off him without providing a replacement to fidget with when he gets worried </3#also dont get on me about the facial scruff because 1. hes been away from a razor for a while#and given how fast he grew a full ass beard by Foundations i imagine he grows facial hair quite rapidly#and 2. i love drawing facial hair. if a man has facial hair i will draw him <3#artposting
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something that has been happening 2 me frequently for like years now and i have no clue why b/c irl i look like the most normal person on this earth
#spacie scribbles#CAN I COMPLAIN FOR A SEC#WHY DOES THIS HAPPEN#THERES NOTHING SPECIAL ABOUT ME I LITERALLY JUST COME TO CLASS AND GO HOME#WHATS GOING ON????#WHY DO YOU LOOK LIKE U WANT TO SHIT YOURSELF????#is this one of those things were i give off a ''mysterious'' aura b/c i dont talk. is that what it is.#i have been told b4 this is the case. i hate to break the fantasy#but im actually like. a normal guy who does their homework whn they go home. im just like. a little autistic also.#baffling being on the receiving end of this treatment (i usually get nervous around and avoid ppl b/c i have social anxiety)#this also ONLY happens to me when someone has a crush on me#which like#kind of lowkey wish wouldnt happen beecuz it gets in the way of me making friendships/conversating#(but also kind of boosts my ego i wont lie. it happens often which. is once again strange to me b/c i dont think im particularly attractive#(i mean i know im physically ''beautiful.'' i just dont know how you can crush on me when u dont know me)#it triggers my ptsd and makes me think i did something wrong idk 😭#you know how it is w/the disorder than makes u heinously aware of any and all minute facial details and body language#we gotta fix that❗❗#crush be gone❗❗#sprays u#most of the time i dont wanna be friends w/ppl but i would just like to have a conversation w/out the other person being So Scared
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I love that the best emotional acting when it comes to facial expressions comes from Lan Wangji (microexpressions) and Jiang Cheng (macroexpressions). Lan Wangji doesn't emote much but when you're keyed in, the tiny little changes in his facial expression are Devastating. Meanwhile Jiang Cheng is feeling Every Emotion, All The Time, and you are going to see it on every inch of his face. He'll go through twenty different expressions in the same amount of seconds and that face journey will be but a brief glimpse into the awful emotional rollercoaster that is Jiang Cheng's life
#mdzs#also on the list of best facial acting is wwx simply because it was fun watching him go from bright and smiley full of joy and life#to his descent into madness and grief and death#but i feel like lwj and jc really take the cake for opposite reasons#it was wild getting to the point in the show where i could easily read lwj's face#and it would be like how. barely anything changed. how do i look at this and know immediately that you are absolutely smitten#and then there's jiang cheng my love absolutely sobbing SO OFTEN#wzc seriously did so good conveying jc's range#i think about the miserable kicked puppy expression when jingyi accuses him of killing wwx So Often#it's so subtle on the first watch but on rewatch ohhh my god#speaking of i kinda wanna do a side by side comparison of wwx's two death scenes#the one in the first scene and the one much later#bc i know it's shot differently#but im also p sure it's acted differently#if i remember correctly jc looks more angry in the first scene#and more conflicted the second time#but i might be wrong
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Do u guys fw hairier Uldren/Crow or is that me just being a clueless lesbian. imo it adds smthn to him I rlly like it
#I do notice how he’s often hairless. I've seen hairier pits and happy trails and are both are sooo good#but I think I’ve seen leg hair on Crow like. once. mmaybe arm hair?#and it’s fine like I used to draw him with no body hair. and in concept art I'm p sure he was hairless on the arms.#I promise I love how ppl draw him it just clicked that I don't think I've ever seen him w stomach hair as I was drawing him today#i think it's funny that oftentimes the only men that get noticeable body hair are ones with facial hair...#i think clean shaven guys can be hairy too. as a treat#strawbby rambles
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Life updates I guess
The Bad News: The drawstring for the light in my room broke off. So now I have no way to turn the lights on in my room. The wall switch still technically worked but it was broken in a way where I couldn't turn my lights off which was why I started exclusively using the draw string. But now I have no way to turn on my ceiling lights atm. Also it's Windy outside RN and it's stressing me tf out.
The Good news: I ordered a USB desk lamp today and It arrived today and It's giving me some light (having it pointed at my ceiling). It's enough to hang out at my desk and chill, maybe enough to play with dolls But definitely not permanent as the singular room light.
Other Good News: Sub 12 hours from now I'm gonna be going to get a Laser Facial Hair Removal Treatment (first of??). It's been something I've wanted to do for a long time but just assumed it was absurdly expensive. Looked into it and turned out it wasn't. That plus a cosplay I wanna do is what caused me to finally book one of these. Hopefully this turns out well!
#Life updates#some bad news but mostly good news#I wish this desk lamp was a warm color but it's fine#at least I have it now and have light#big excited to get this stupid facial hair off my face#I hate shaving it weekly and how it leaves a permanent shadow#plus It's one of the reason's I don't dress fem that often#glad to see it go
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In my imagination of red and leaf being twins and both autistic I think the only reason leaf doesn't have the same totally blank 😐 face as red is because she did the age old classic of practicing facial expressions in the mirror every day until she learned the basic ones. She also made her default expression a smile 🙂 to seem more approachable.
Unfortunately since the expressions don't come naturally to her and she had to learn them, the can come off as exaggerated/overly dramatic. Which is fine for some people but others find it equally as off-putting as reds poker face. It makes her a little sad when people dislike her because of it bc shes doing her best to fit in but can't seem to get it right.
She puts a lot of effort into masking at least when she's a kid-teenager but once she's older and has made more solid friendships she can let herself relax and not need to stress about it so much, although in social situations she may still slip back into old habits.
Red does not mask and never really has. I choose 2 believe his mom was really supportive and accommodating so he wasn't forced to hide his autistic traits unlike leaf. This is because in my au they are twins but their parents split and leaf had to stay with their dad. Who is not as understanding as their mom.
Idk if he'd be actually horrible to her but he was not as patient or understanding as their mom + leaf also just craved more friends and wanted to be able to socialize more so she eventually learned how. Red is content with the 4 people he knows (mom, oak, daisy, green) and prefered to mostly be alone so he didn't have that motivating factor to do it.
He was very content with having one friend, green, but he was def lonley during their "rival" phase when green stopped hanging out with him and was focused on trying to prove himself in some way only he understood or worried about. Along with that is green also being the master of masking for the most part. I don't see oak as being particularly accommodating and patient with him so while Daisy probably was, she's also not a parent so she couldn't be responsible for caring for green the way oak should've been.
As they got older green also craved to be seen as cool and popular amongst his peers so he started masking heavily and also distanced himself from red. Unfortunately he realizes that being accepted for a fake version of himself by mainly strangers is actually very lonley and he misses their friendship 😢 but atp he probably figures red wouldn't wanna be friends again bc of how green ignored him for so long so I think they don't become close again until After the gym challenge "rivalry"/red dissapearing/reuniting years later. So they were both missing each other a lot but both felt unable to reach out bc of the distance that grew between them when green pulled away. Anyways tldr green pro masker leaf trying very hard to mask but struggling a bit and red rawdogging his autism never masked a day in his life.
#green is better at masking in the sense that he doesnt struggle with facial expressions and can mimick others social behaviours pretty well#he really learned via watching others and practicing fake conversations in his head until he could navigate most conversations well#he does still have times where he did not account for certain factors or new situations so he has to observe and learn some more lol#leaf struggles with socializing even when she watches and tries to copy bc unlike green who is naturally a bit dramatic and animated#she instead leans heavily into having flat affect like red. she also struggles really hard with picking up on other ppls intent/feelings#the type of person who isnt sure what the emotion were feeling right now is bc she also struggles to identify her own feelings sometimes#red does that too. part of why hes very avoidant and internalizes everything is that he often can't identify exactly what hes feeling#and if he can he doesn't know how to make it feel better/would rather ignore it and try to focus on something else#green tries to internalize his negative emotions but i think hed struggle with it so he js def the type to bottle things up for awhile#but he quickly gets overwhelemed and ends up having a bit of a meltdown when he can't hold it in any more#hes very reactive. part of why his and oaks relationship is difficult to mend is bc green gets very easily triggered by any small jabs oak#makes at him even jf theyre unintentional especially if he compares him/his strength as a trainer to red#when red dissapears it would get worse bc he is constantly weighed down by guilt and can end up lashing out a bit#especially with his bpd making him prone to mood swings/very strong emotions he struggles to process#he gets better at it as he gets older but it's really overwhelming and difficult as a kid/teen bc oak is 0 help and daisy#does what she can to hell him when she can but shes his sister not his mom. im not making her take on a parental role she is also a kid#anyways. thjs js ungodly long#trainer red#trainer leaf#green oak#blue oak#pokemon headcanons
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thinking about trans Julian again specifically thinking about the idea of Julian being trans but electing to not undergo any gender-affirming surgeries
like I was thinking about this the other day in the context of his line about him and Kira being the only other options for a womb when he had to transplant the baby from Keiko, because the implication that Julian has a womb also implies he's elected out of having a hysterectomy for gender-affirming purposes. I say that because we know gender-affirming surgeries- at least the more cosmetic ones- are very easy to undergo (see Profit and Lace, where they very quickly and easily turn Quark into a woman (yes I know it wasn't gender-affirming for him but its the easiest episode to use for my point)) so I feel like it wouldnt be a reach to say that a hysterectomy would be a fairly easy procedure to ask for and undergo
which as ive been thinking about it more I think this like. perfectly tracks with Julian as a character, that he would opt out of undergoing gender-affirming procedures. because I think, considering what his parents did to him and how strongly he resents it, that he would steer clear of anything he would view as "changing" himself. honestly so far in the future I think its safe to assume views of transitioning are very different, and I'd like to think that there wouldnt be nearly as much social pressure to physically transition at all, but even if there was I think Julian would be very resistant to the idea that he would "have" to change anything about himself. Julian is very unapologetically himself in every regard, so im pretty confident in saying that that would translate over to his gender identity and asserting that he is a man, and he doesnt need to change anything about himself or his body to be one
#star trek: ds9#julian bashir#I dont typically put this much thought into my trans hcs but Julian being trans is an hc that fascinates me#from a character analysis standpoint#I think he wouldnt physically transition at all!#I dont think he'd even go on hormones#'but what about the facial hair in the prison camp' afab people can grow facial hair without hormones#'but what about the lack of titty' he could be wearing a binder#frankly I dont think he even would I think he's just flat-chested#it would track with his build. beanpole man#but yeah Julian as a trans man who does not physically transition. things I am thinking about often#like I said Julian does not apologize for any aspect of himself and is very loudly himself#and he doesnt let other people's opinions of him change that#look at his friendship with Miles#Miles loves to remind Julian how annoying he is and Julian thinks its funny#I think its one of the reasons they get along so well honestly#cause sure Miles complains but he also wouldnt change Julian and Julian knows that#I dont read Julian as being insecure about himself#he hates what's been done to him but he isnt like. insecure about it. he knows it wasn't his fault#he hides it for legal reasons not because he's insecure#but I think his resentment over what was done to him ties directly into how he would resist undergoing any procedures or physical changes#frankly I think Julian hates being a surgery patient just in general#I think he hates any procedure he cant be awake for#and he fights like a cat trying to get out of a bath anytime he has to go under#but thats a whole other post and hc#anyways trans Julian supremacy
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Don’t tell me what to do! (Do, do it, he likes it) (Patreon)
#Doodles#SCII#Damned#DAX#ZEX#Helix#Max Vyer#Dexter Favin#All four here for a change!#I keep forgetting ZEX's bruises agh why I love bruises#I don't know why it won't stick in my mind! Injury signifiers are some of the best agh#Drawing him on-model to earlier and less-abused times! No longer accurate! Will be again though hopefully maybe possibly lol#If he doesn't lose an eye in the meanwhile - he did manage to avoid getting haunted so there goes his arm scar!#All the more reason to Definitely Include his bruises in that case uou Trade one for the other! Sheesh sheesh#I'll get it one of these times lol#It's probably something to do with DAX not getting any facial bruises smh all covered by his clothes#Speaking of - more internal owies the lot lol#He really is so dramatic - ZEX didn't die when he took the medicine you'll be fine just a bit swimmy#And he got to hear ZEX being forceful and commanding he ought to be grateful (lol)#Still mad about it tho lol - he's doing So Much for the sake of the mission and protecting ZEX and now he's totally going to die for it!#Okay DAX lol#It really reminded me of Max getting sick and complaining that he'd die hehe - intentionally mirroring of their respective mismatches? :3c#Who knows ♪#He really was So offended that ZEX reprimanded him lol ♫ He's always playing the disinterested straight man! Don't call him on it! Haha#He's having a rough day Admiral headaches are no fun#I wonder how often VUX get eye-aches from staring at things for too long hmm straining their eyes as they can't move their necks really hmmm#All this extra mobility and for what! For Dexter's body to give him nicotine withdrawals! Haha those are so unrelated
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she snorts cocaine at dinner parties in beverley hills
she goes to church every sunday and has a repressed sapphic crush on her best friend
nevertheless they are as close as can be
#text post#ive had the idea for this post in my head for the longest time#barbie#dolls#i just love how midge's original face was such an overcorrection for the problems parents had to the original barbie#they thought she was just such a hussy w her makeup and lashes and BOOOOOOBS#(and she was! so? she served cunt!)#so they had to make midge as down-to-earth girl-next-door-looking as possible#in order to sorta. let ppl get over it#and it's amazing how ppl reused the 'they look like sluts' thing w bratz dolls in the early 2000s#i even hear some ppl say now that they think the bratz are too 'mature' looking bc of their makeup and facial expressions#they PRETEND it's about the clothes but honestly they wouldn't have a problem w a less sleepy-eyed doll wearing most of those clothes#bratz wore crop tops from time to time in the original run but they really weren't dressing in any other way ppl often found objectionable#they just think the face is too 'sexy'#and i mean i get not liking the way the bratz faces look. if they creep u out or just arent ur style#u know what doll brand i just really hate the faces of and cannot get past no matter what? rainbow high#god those things are fucking freaky to look at with their fish eyes. im sorry to the fans i just cant join u. the faces put me off too much#there's nothing wrong w not liking the way a doll looks. u just shouldn't moralize it or sexualize children's hobbies#bc the children aren't looking at them that way#sorry this turned into a rant i can literally never be normal about dolls#i love original midge btw this is not a hate post. we stan midge
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HORSE! HORSE! HORSE! HORSE!
Finally gave my sona a ref...? Because I realised that I've never made clear that the Horse only sometimes directly represents me. And when its not doing that. It's a big stupid animal LOL.
#horrible inconsistent creature ! i don't draw it very often or with much worry about staying on model. NOW THE FUNNY PART#is that i only realised i hadnt made this clear when i realised the mascot!horse. i habitually use it/its pronouns for. a set i dont use!#it aint me! not unless i am posessing it. at which point it is a mouthpiece. rather than a real fursona lol. i dont have one of those#original character#oc art#furry anthro#sfw furry#furry ref sheet#lucabyteart#anyway i guess. the horse's pronouns are it/its and my pronouns are they/them. and so goes for this creature when i use it as avatar#the main difference really is the facial expressions. anything TOO emotive and its me. empty and i was just drawing The Horse#it used to be a my little pony oc! as you can tell by the wings. and then i just kept drawing it bigger and bulkier#these drawings dont quite get across how TANK-ESQUE i draw them sometimes lol. big sauropod legs n all#its supposed to be like. 15 hands tall or something insane like that
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I just really like the way Yusaku's expressions are drawn okay
#these are all from ONE EPISODE#I love the way the animators utilize his features to show his internal thought process while not detracting from his Resting Autism Stare#I'm not an animator so I can't put my finger on what exactly it is#but its something about how his brows are always sitting right on top of his big ol eyes and he doesnt squint or blink often#yet he still gets such a full range of expressions#also yugioh characters pupils shrinking to show surprise or fear is such a good part of the art style#and yusakus range of expressions are DOUBLY FUN when paired with Ai 'facial expressions are just emojis with squash and stretch added'#spk watches vrains#yugioh#vrains#yugioh vrains#ygo vrains#ygo#yusaku fujiki
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also i have realized i rly do have mild(?) face blindness. i didn't realize how bad it was until recently but holy fuck I don't think I'd remember what my family's faces look like if it weren't for photos. i thought i was fine remembering faces but actually all that i rly recognize is skin colour + tone, haircut (plus colour), glasses or no glasses, general face shape, and occasionally if there is a specific feature that sticks out to me i will remember it with words but can't remember it by visuals. if somebody gets glasses (or removes glasses) or changes their hair too drastically, i simply Will Not recognize them (until they talk and/or if they have a very specific way of dressing themself).
i can remember my characters faces bc those are lines on a flat surface, and i also tend to give characters distinct features that i Remember rather than like... just knowing what they look like. i think in words a lot. so with Millie I remember "messy hair, couple of eyelashes, freckles, big-ish nose, big eyebrows" or with Wardell I remember "square face, tired eyes, upturned nose, has facial hair scruff in triangle shapes" or with bramwell ... well Bramwell is simply a lot of shapes tbh. i just know his shapes djdkdl. i guess i have like... a set of instructions i follow to create the faces rather than just Knowing™ what they look like. weird!!!!
#🐑🌻#i was explaining it to irl friend today and she asked ''do u remember ME though???'' and i was like. uh. yeah. sure. :o)#bc she obviously seems to think its a matter of importance rather than. just how my brain works fhdkdl#like u are important to me trust me. i just. cannot comprehend faces apparently 😭😭#i could meet my literal soulmate and then they get a haircut and put on wildly different clothes and remove/put on glasses-#- and i would probably be wholly unable to recognize them fhfkdl#unless they had some kind of specific facial feature that i was able to use as a mental landmark#like. with Guzma i have his nose as a mental landmark fjdksl its a very specific shape that is not v common#so if someone irl had that I'd probably be able to still recognize them. probably. maybe. .... possibly not if they changed enough LOL#anyways it rly is just how my brain works fhdkdl idk why ppl so often assume it means I don't care enough#same w remembering names. buddy i have huge gaps in my memory. i have a brain that never fully formed properly bc of continuous trauma.#i promise it is not that I don't care enough abt u. it is simply that i cannot fucking remember Anything ever fhdkdl#i forget shit that is personally important to me All The Time 😭😭
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i know they say dont trust any decisiosn ypu make after 9pm but fuuuuuck its seeming really believable idk chat
#ignore these tags they r not important#i really hope my piercings fully heal soon#so i can take out my earrings and leave them out#not for comfort reasons (physically they feel fine!)#but because after wearing them for a few weeks ive really noticed how like#peoples attitudes towards me have changed#they more often assume i'm female now and they... seem to infantilize me more#idk vro#and like yeah “men can wear earrings too!!!” use your brain mother fucker in the deep south men do not wear earrings#men do not wear bracelets. they do not wear colors. they do not wear necklaces. they do not wear rings unless they are married.#and idk i feel like ever since i syarted wearing more jewelry ive been getting misgendered a lot more#and its rly discouraging because like#to be perceieved as male you have to be devoid of emotion and life#and its just like. tgats kind of fucked me up for years now#and probably contributed to my (lack of) emotional regulation skills lol#and its made me so fucking insecure about. everythinf#the way that i stand. the way i walk. my posture. the way that i eat/drink. the music i listen to. the way i make facial expressions.#like if its in daily life u kno im insecure about it 💯💯💯#i mean i would just like. start dressing more “traditionally masc” with like beiges and greys and shit#but i just think that'd make me look more fem because of my body shape (which looks like this -> 8)#idk chat maybe i am doomed to never go out in public
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hey people who know how to draw ford (and also stan maybe) how the fuck did you do that
#he has human anatomy. such as defining facial features.#and what does my style have? nonhuman anatomy thats often designed to not make any fucking sense#and good luck finding facial features we dont have many of those here#what if i just. destroy the chin. get rid of it#what if i just dont draw his face. what if a put a giant black box over it like how they censor peoples faces sometimes#what if i make him look unnerving on purpose#i fuckin wish but unfortunately i have to look “normal”.#we dont have fun here
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