#im queer bc its a catchall

[kamishirosiblings]

kamishiro fun fact

kenshin doesnt bother with like queer identity labels simply because he gets mad trying to find ones that make him comfortable and fit him

its also for my convenience so i dont have to remember #hashtag too many ocs

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[morganpdf]

sorry if this is intrusive. long time follower just very slow... i was under the impression you were t4t mlm (related to you with that). are you a lesbian now?

hey! really quick i do just wanna put out there that youre right abt it being intrusive but i am nothing if not a chronic oversharer on the internet so i'm abt to do what i do best<3 and overshare<3 i'm ALSO gonna give you the benefit of the doubt and assume you're asking this from a genuine place & are not just looking to start shit or anything etc but anonymously asking for more details on people's gender/sexuality is Usually unwelcome & uncomfortable

ANYWAYS. i am t4t but have never been strictly mlm/dont think ive ever said i'm mlm? and am also pretty constantly posting abt women so dsvbfghdsv i'm defs curious how that came across 😭😭😭 i don't claim the lesbian label bc im not solely attracted 2 women (just mostly) etc BUT as far as gender goes im just (shrug emoji) transmasc I've been actively bouncing between binary trans guy & nonbinary since highschool and rn nonbinary has been feeling way more comfortable etc. identities shift & change etc honestly im personally most comfortable saying im just p much queer gender/sexuality wise as a catchall & to cover my bases bc i dont really have strong feelings towards any sexuality labels for myself & gender is and always has been goofysilly for me so! yeagh

been toying around w butch lately tho bc its comfortable & i definitely feel like there are aspects of my identity that are still very much Connected 2 my 'sapphic roots' or w/e in a way that isn't consistent w a binary gender 4 me personally (gender & sexuality are very intertwined for me in ways they might not be for other people etc etc etc)

tldr yes im t4t . no im not a lesbian but i believe their beliefs

also im getting the distinct vibe that you are a younger trans guy looking for role models (not a dig!) and while i Get that & know that specific kind of solidarity is Good & Feels Good - remember that solidarity can be found with all our lgbtq+ siblings in the community! anyways i will get off my soapbox now bc i need 2 figure out dinner dghfvsd

[sonjabysonjamorgan]

i definitely understand why people would prefer calling themselves queer, especially if theyre like still figuring things out or they dont quite want to put a label on things but im not wild about it when its used as like a catchall term bc ive heard straight ppl say it and they rly know how to make it sound awful