#insta block

[sugarpubby]

when they have a cute/interesting blog but reblog nazi shit

[dreamties]

Polyam! Ghostface Comforting GN! Reader About Their SA

A/N- yeah. hiii. it's billy !! im back. again. plz read with caution- there is no mention of the assault itself (it is alluded to many times; there are no intimate details), still. you know yourself best. stay safe lovelies <33

I tried keeping the assaulters identity neutral- but let me know if i messed up and used he/him pronouns at all and i'll edit the post :3

Billy is unable to understand the full scope of your traumas, however, he understands that it runs deep, that if your anything like he is that you feel it in your bones and the ache of your body.

Trauma is so personal and crushing. He wants nothing more than to take that away from you, endlessly lift your spirits, he wants to make you feel whole again. Loves you too much to see you like this.

He can't do that. As much as he and Stu can do, they can't erase what has already happened. He will be there as much as he can, for whatever you need. He has always been devoted to his loves- it increases tenfold when you open up about your assault.

Stu automatically wants to kill the perpetrator, takes Billy aside to tell him all his gruesome thoughts- until Billy stops him. Tells him, roughly, to shut up. You don’t know what you're talking about, man. Our little love needs to make that choice on their own.

Billy talks about it with Stu beforehand obvi. Billy wants to wait for you to ask them about killing your assaulter, while Stu would go to you and ask straight up if you want to be the one to kill them (if you want them dead. He won't understand if you desire to keep them alive tee bee aich, but he'll honor your choice).

Stu just like. He doesn't get it. He doesn't handle it well at first. He's far too brash and laughing- well. Not laughing, he knows enough to realize that would have been a bad move. Though he seems to not know enough as he's all jokes still.

Both boys are so emotionally stunted- Stu has only had to comfort girlfriends before (which, he was admittedly not the best at. He stole apologies and one liners from movies) and the brief vulnerable moments that Billy allows himself to show. C'mon, give him a pass, okay? He's trying :(

Stu's comforts are all hugs and cuddles and gifts- depending how you react to those things, maybe he won't have to branch out too hard. Either way you'll need more than one source or level of comfort- Stu WILL learn new things for you, though.

He has a hard time if you don't want physical touch! He gets all whiny about it and it pisses you off, you have to give him a stern talking to that it's NOT about him and he has no right to act like that. Psssh whatever . . .

(he's really sorry though. He promises)

He buys you so many things, as if that will ever make what happened okay. He hopes you appreciate it though. He'll get all sorts of comfort items, food and stuffies and stuff that he KNOWS you love. He'll buy it in bulk if he has to lol

For learning things, it's hard on all of you, but he and Billy will try their darndest to be emotionally available (just for you, babe!!). Billy is good at listening, Stu needs to get better with it.

Billy just listens to what you have to say, and I think on really emotional nights he opens up about his own trauma. He opens his wounds so you know he genuinely cares and is committed to you. Regardless of anything and everything. Billy will make himself a permanent fixture in your life, always.

(again really not that Stu wouldn't but it's so different y'all)

ALSO NIGHTMARES OHMYGOD

If you have nightmares they'll stay up with you until you're ready to fall asleep (or at least try).

They make it an all-nighter and pretend they were always planning for movie night. If you want to watch something that's not horror? Yeah, that's okay!

Most of Stu's VHS collection is horror lol

Though he does have some buddy comedies and cheesy romcoms. He owns one or two mysteries cause Billy likes them.

Anyways !!! Have your pick darlin' <333 They won't judge or complain

Admittedly they aren't great with panic attacks. Billy gets anxious- what if he makes it WORSE? He'd hate himself for it. Stu is surprisingly good at grounding you though :D

All in all- it's an adjustment for everyone. They're gonna be there for you forever though, okay? Good luck getting rid of them <3

[fandom-hoarder]

"Reblog from real people, ai sucks!"

- person who just posted a bunch of ai wincest gifs🙄🙄🙄

[kimboo-york]

Me, reading fic rec: Oh this looks great!

Me, checking tags like a responsible fangirl: All clear! I'll really enjoy this fic!

Me, invested in the story: Wow what a fantastic story!

Also me, finding untagged Jiang Cheng bashing: fuck.

Tag your character hate, you jackasses!

[flyingpochama948]

More of that necrophilia bullshit claim in the Elise tag on Elise day? No, not on my watch.

[idjitwithanimpala]

had to block the first w!ncest shipper I've had on my blog in a few weeks.

Again, if I find out you ship it, I will block you as I have no respect for you as a person for shipping such a vile thing, I think you're nothing more than a fucking degenerate. If you ship it, you deserve no respect and you will not be welcome on this blog.

I will give you shit for doing so, nothing but freaks in my opinion.

[ctommyisnt]

Ugh that one technoblade artist that treats tumblr like an algorithm is pissing me off

[ghoulofmydreams]

FIFI IS A CHILD.

[froegs]

me? i guess i was a shoulder to cry on

[cern1cal0]

habemus papam❕❕❕

[yuutaguro]

What do you think about Fushikugi?

that i like it and should draw more it (soon)

[dead-inside-demiboy]

While I have no hate towards the relatability that people with bipolar have with Gangle this episode, I would also like to point out some love to the idea of Gangle having BPD instead and some of my reasonings as a fellow borderline myself.

The main difference between bipolar and borderline mood swings is the amount of time they last. Bipolar typically lasts weeks to months. What we see with Gangle is way more similar to BPD where the mood swings last for a lot shorter of a time period, typically from several hours to several days.

Secondly, how said mood swings are triggered. Bipolar mood swings tend to be a case of adding up factors but the actual turning point is pretty random. BPD on the other hand is triggered by feelings of rejection. And when do we see Gangle's happy masks commonly falling off? When shes getting shit from the others!

Then, Gangle's manic episode. It was an amazing portrayal of a manic episode, and was scarily relatable to my own experience (with manic-like BPD mood swing symptoms) . I love how this episode shows how people don't give as much sympathy to those with mental illnesses when symptoms can no longer be romanticized or hidden away. I also think that this is especially prominent for those with cluster B personality disorders, where your mental illness is constantly demonized.

And then there are so many scenes and moments that Gangle had that are just...textbook BPD symptoms. Examples of these are:

the dissociation episodes, those are incredibly common with this disorder and they happen at the peak of mood swings too and they are INTENSE.

The constant masks. Gangle has a very interesting character symbol where no matter what, they are wearing a mask, for the sake of there isnt a real face. It is really relatable to the depersonalization that a lot of people with BPD experience where it feels like no matter what you do you are just putting on a new mask.

Not as bad as Ragatha, Gangle is a people pleaser, you see that whenever they get tormented, she never once defends herself

And finally, the fear that everyone hates you once your episode ends and the belief that you don't deserve any good friends or close relationships that leads you to self isolate and not reach out. (Fuck man props to Zooble I dream of a friend like that)

[mamawasatesttube]

ok allowing myself one more petty ass post. but i actually need white people to start critically reading posts and not just shutting down their brains because the op claims they are a poc and anyone who criticizes them ever is racist so they must be right! reblog!

like. im sorry but there are people of color in this world who are anywhere from just fucking stupid to actively malicious, and they are also capable of using big words like "neocolonialism" or "gentrification" but that doesn't mean they are using those words correctly. for example, if someone (poc or not!) is out there claiming an individual actor is capable of neocolonialism, that's a big ol red flag that they don't know what they're talking about! because "neocolonialism" is a term that specifically describes the actions of governments exerting pressure on other governments, usually economic, without direct military intervention. it is a specific word with a specific meaning.

in my opinion, throwing words related to colonialism, social justice, racism, etc., around without actual regard for their meaning, is a great way to actively hamper efforts to discuss the actual concepts in question; just because someone is using these words does not mean they are doing so effectively or in good faith.

moreover, in my opinion, it is actively forcing people of color to put in more effort than white people if white people do not want to bother thinking critically about the words they are willing to share. must we be the ones to vet every single post? why are you guys not able to recognize when a given post (even if the op is a poc) is antiblack or misogynistic or homophobic, if it uses Social Justice Language™? is it some kind of white guilt thing? performative sharing of posts that SEEM like they know what theyre talking about but are actually just #woke word salad, is not helpful to anyone. please learn to read critically.

[rachamemories]

Serial harassers of bigger creators found me now I guess and are leaving juice boxes and gifs of the letter J on my posts of platforms I'm barely on.. I'm there so little I didn't see it for over 2 weeks..

[nqueso-lies]

Don't tell me that fb isn't GA, btw. All comments on the Henren post over there are either homophobic (about six) or only about Henren/Aisha and Tracie.

Not one 'Bring back Bobby' comment.

Vs Instagram which is mostly 'Bring back Bobby' and the occasional Buddie. It's amazing that when we talk about Tommy, a white character, we're racist. But not giving one shit about the two black, lesbians on the show because you'd rather have your white peepaw??? Please.

[spooksicl-e]

happy valentine’s day!!!! loving love loving john h watson