#it makes such a diffrence romantically and platonically

[human-ithink17]

I love elmike soooooooo much and if anything happened to them I WOULD throw a fit & I wanna take them and hug and then and squeeze them and I like them both individually and as a pair and anything that they do I defended with my whole chest

AND I wanna pour gasoline and then light a match onto mileven

[sol-draws-sometimes]

Unrelated to this episode but as a twin, everytime I remember Lark had an affair with Sparrow’s wife, I’m just… in disbelief. Like, I hate when people ogle at my twin and I, and are like “WHAT’S IT LIKE BEING A TWIN!” “I WISH I WAS A TWIN!” “WOW! HAVING A TWIN IS HAVING A BUILT IN BESTFRIEND!” However, weird objectification aside, they’re not wrong. I DO have a close bond with twin that I don’t with anyone else. For most of my life (and all my childhood), we were on the same wavelength emotionally speaking. Obviously we had put diffrences, but the way we viewed the world and reacted to things emotionally was almost the same. In middle school, we both were struggling mentally, but we understood each other, she felt like the only irl person who truly understood what I was going through, because she was going through it too. To me, our relationship is taken for granted. No matter what happens, how much we fight or bicker, I have never once in my life doubted whether she loved me or not. Her love has always been, and still is, the strongest constant in my life. And even though the way we view the world and act emotionally is no longer exactly the same, she is still the one person I feel understands me the most.

And that’s why, I can’t wrap my head around the fact that Lark did that. How could he have done that. I could NEVER, see myself betray my sister like that. And yes I’m young, and ace (and on the aro spec), so you could argue it’s not the same but like, even if I were allo, I just, can not see myself having an affair WITH MY TWIN’S S.O.! (also I just hate the idea that cheating is just a thing that happens sometimes like, I’m sure there are relationships that recover from that, but come one, seriously it’s so easy to not cheat) The worst part is that I still think Lark loves Sparrow. Scratch that, I know he still loves Sparrow. I’m not good at wording it, but the best example I can think of, is Lark pretending to be Sparrow so that he could fix Sparrow’s relationship with Normal, so that Sparrow doesn’t have a bad relationship with their son. I’m thinking of that person who made a post about how Lark shows love and I wish I could remember so that can point to that, but it mentioned Lark sewing bulletproof into Normal’s suit. Anyway, Lark LOVES Sparrow, and they are each other’s world. The problem is that they’re codependent with each other, which can make them enable their worst attributes, or let them brush things off that shouldn’t be brushed off.

I can’t imagine doing what Lark did to Sparrow, to my sister. Idk how my sister could EVER forgive such a betrayal. I know some romantic couples can genuinely work together to overcome an affair, so I guess that can be applied to platonic and familial situations as well. But still, Sparrow TRUSTED Lark more than anyone else in his life, for Lark to break that that trust, it just… idk. Also, I definitely understand why Sparrow forgave Lark, they can’t lose their only family left. They are each other’s world. Especially after everything they’ve gone through. Tho I will say, I don’t think Sparrow’s just completely over it either. His wife and brother had a fucking affair together. That has to hurt. Plus, there are little lines when referring to Normal that Sparrow’s said that leads me to believe that Sparrow has some unprocessed feelings about the affair pushed deep, deep down to keep peace.

I wonder how much thought Anthony put into to that plot point. Most of the times it’s played as joke but if you think about it for 2 seconds it’s so fucked. But Anthony cares too much about the kiddads for me to believe it was just a joke, like the Hermie’s dads situation. I wonder what made him think this is a thing Lark would do.

This isn’t supposed to be an “I HATE LARK” post. I think he’s a very interesting character, the way he’s reacting and processing to everything that happened in S1 and S2 is fascinating. And just to reiterate, I know he still loves Sparrow. But still, I keep thinking about how do you betray the person who’s your whole world, who you arguably love the most. Or guess, my real question is WHY. What has going on in his head that led him to doing that. Even from a more selfish standpoint, I don’t think Sparrow currently trusts, or will ever trust Lark the way he did pre-affair. And I don’t think Lark is stupid enough to believe having an affair with Sparrow’s wife wouldn’t irrevocably change their relationship.

I wish I could be more eloquent, but I always forget and every time I remember what he did I just don’t know how to feel about it. Idk, I just keep thinking about them. I can’t help it, I’m a latino twin, they were handcrafted for me.

If you have any thoughts on this, PLEASE DO SHARE THEM WITH THEM WITH ME. (also idk if this conversation’s already been had but I haven’t engaged)

Ps: something, something Lark hates himself so much he tries to ruin his relationship with Sparrow because he feels like he doesn’t deserve love, not even from Sparrow. Yah started thinking about it outside my perspective. I can see that being his reasoning, but still…I just, I can’t image actual doing that. But yah, I think I’m satisfied with that reasoning.

[miioouu]

how would Midoriya, Todoroki and Bakugou act after cheating? why they did it? would they conffess or keep it in secret? their SO would find out? what would do their SO after that? (if its possible with a male SO, pretty please 💖)

🥺🥺🥺🥺 I literally got so heartbroken when I read that ask. I honestly don't think any if them will actually cheat, especially deku he's just too sweet. But whatever. Thank you for requesting!! ❤️💜❤️

Midoriya Izuku 💚

     He didn't mean it, he really didn't. He was just so lost in the moment, in the drunkenness of the night. He thought it was you, the one holding him, kissing him, making him feel so good. It was until the morning, he woke up in a stranger's bed. Panicked, he shoot out of the place, running out of the house and straight to his house, ignoring the throbbing pain of the hunger over. He thought it was you.... Now what?

He stay days in his rooms, feeling guilty for cheating, feeling guilty for betraying you. Though he never told you, and there's no way for you to find out. He still feels like every look you give him, every side remark, every growl and frown, is because of him.

Having more than enough with thr guilt taking over his life, he decides to tell you, pain and regret resonating in his voice as he confess. To say that you were shocked, heartbroken and mad was such an understatement. How could he? He's such an angel, sweet and caring never once hurting you.... How could he?

You had to stay by yourself for a while, taking a break from the relationship. But not being able to see him was even more painful than being cheated on. What were you to do? One thing for sure though, the choice is yours....

Todoroki Shoto 💙❤️

Sometimes, life wasn't fair. Growing up with the father he has, manipulating, demanding, and controlling (im so sorry daddy endeavor plz forgive me i love you so much<3) some things were out of his hands. Like how he likes to use his powers, the people who are allowed to talk to him, the person he has to marry. And sadly it's not you. No it was some person with a strong compatible quirk. Someone who lives up Endeavor's expectations. Someone who Shoto detested. And that someone wasn't you.

Having to go out with said person, made him angry. He knew it could be considered cheating, adding to the fact that he has not told you either. He knew what he was doing is wrong. But he doesn't really have a say in that. But he won't give up, he's was still trying and come up with a plan to get rid of that person, to rebel against his father, and be with you. And that's why he kept it a secret, he got everything under control after all, right?

Well maybe not. But then again, he didn't expect you to be there, the exact moment his "partner" decided to intertwine their fingers into his.... He didn't expect to see you drop your bag as you looked at him with wide eyes, mouth open in disbelief. He didn't expect you to run away from his life like that.

Though he gave you time, and you were luckily a kind person, letting him explain the whole situation to you. You really can't blame him. Actually yes you can. But what hurt wasn't the fact that he held hands with someone else, wasn't the fact that he was someone else's lover. No it was the fact that he didn't trust you enough to tell you, he did not believe in you... You were so confused and lost, wanting to blame him, but understanding completely what he was think. What are you going to do y/n?

Bakugo Katsuki 🧡

Feelings are a lot to do deal with. How is he supposed to know the difference btween platonic and romantic feelings? The diffrence between desire and admiration? Between real love and lust? It was too difficult for Bakugo to comprehend his emotions. Maybe that's what lead him to this.

His heart always seems to beat faster around you, he could never stop the smile that would appear everytime he sees you. He'd lay awake at night thinking about you, and when he finally manages to sleep, he'd dream about you. So why is it that he always ran back to that other person. They meant nothing more than a body he wakes up to from time to time, a body he'd shower with lust from time to time. It meant nothing to him. But sometimes people fall into the wrong habits. And to make it even worse he knew what he was doing was not right. He knew what he was doing is going ti hurt you, and even him. The last thing he wants is to break your heart, when he promised you that he'd keep you safe.

Though secrets are bound to be revealed. What do you do when you find out that your one and only is cheating on you? Do you get mad, angry, furious? Do you cry, sob, feel like your whole world is crashing down? Do you feel sorrow, pain, as if you were nothing to him but a simple toy to play with your feelings? Do you feel insecure, guilty, take the blame for making him feel like he deserved someone better? Feel like you did something wrong? Or is it all of the above? You had told him that you had found out, and in thr mess of it all, surprisingly, it was one the first he'd show a more vulnerable side of him, to the point where he even said those three words that you were oh so dying to hear.... Is it enough to forgive him though?