#miscling answers

[miscling]

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in the back of its mind, when it's particularly feeling unaffirmed as a sub, it finds itself wishing it could be dommy.

or really, more accurately, wishing it enjoyed being dommy. we're actually pretty good at being a benevolent dictator when others are being wishy washy, but it doesn't enjoy when we do that. it is fully capable of being firm and being strict, but it doesn't feel good to be in charge. it is fully capable of making its own decisions, but it doesn't want to.

it wants to be a pet and it wants to be submissive, but getting attention as a sub is difficult sometimes, and made harder because many dommy types don't really pursue subs because there's so many of us that just mentioning wanting to do anything dommy has subby folks throwing themselves at you (which is tiring in its own way, because their submission is often about themselves, rather than the dominant in question)

but this thing doesn't really like doing that. it wants to be pursued and needs to know that it, itself, is wanted. this is why it doesn't really last long interacting with dommy folks who have cults or large numbers of subs and the like, because it really needs the personal touch and affection and attention that comes from being invested in it. if its submissive relationship with someone is skin deep and requires it to constantly chase and ask for things, it becomes convinced that they're not really all that interested in it. it will do its part in offering things to its dominants and suggesting play, but it needs to know - to be convinced - that they are also thinking of it and coming up with things that they want to do to it themselves.

it longs to be submissive, and it will dedicate itself to serving someone as best it can, as long as they too are dedicated to being this thing's dominant just as much as it dedicated to being their submissive.

send it a 🌻 and it will talk about whatever's on its mind.

[capnsoapy]

orange and purple!

barks and woofs and begs for a treat maybe ?🐶

[sleepydelights]

ask meme question for you:

62: What is a sex-challenge you would create? Would you do it with your partner or solo?

^^

This is a fun one! I don’t think I’ve ever done a sex challenge beyond not masturbating for a set amount of time.

There was this one time at Frolicon I agreed to participate in a scene- I can’t remember off the top of my head what it’s called but my scene partner asked me increasingly difficult and borderline impossible questions on a topic I was supposed to be proficient in and every time I got an answer wrong, they would dump food all over my naked body. Like whole cans of chocolate syrup and maraschino cherries and pie filling and all sorts of stuff. I didn’t get off to any of it but it was an interesting experience for sure and they seemed to enjoy the humiliation/mess of it all 🤷‍♀️

[justabrokendoll]

List 5 things that make you happy, then put this in the askbox for the last 10 people who reblogged something from you! Get to know your mutuals and followers (ू•‧̫•ू⑅)♡

Hello yes it forgot about this lol

1. Cats 😻 cats are so good for its mental health

2. The Moon 🌒🌕🌘 always excited to see the moon

3. Camping 🏕 love disappearing into the trees and cooking on a fire

4. Baking bread 🍞 especially when it turns out

5. Photography 📸 it loves taking pictures of flowers especially

[turnofthepaige]

11, How would you describe your sexuality using only adjectives (describing words–busy, fluffy, squishy, etc.)? 42, What’s your most unusual kink?

Thanks for the ask!

11. I would say my sexuality is evolving, a bit confusing, and very open. I was raised to be vanilla upon vanilla, that life had to be led a certain way, and that just NEVER felt right to me. It wasn't until later I'm life when I realized there was another path that I could take, and because of that I am still evolving even in middle age. It's still confusing to me how I ended up here, but this is truly who I am and I have opened myself up to all possibilities.

42. My most unusual kink would be my intox/kidnapping kink that I've had. This is just fantasy, but being drugged, kidnapped, and eventually falling for my captor/becoming evil has always been a hot button for me. Maybe it's the escapism that fantasy gives to me, or I still have many unresolved issues to deal with!

[traumalimbo]

List 5 things that make you happy, then put this in the askbox for the last 10 people who reblogged something from you! Get to know your mutuals and followers (ू•‧̫•ू⑅)♡

1. To balter with one I love, laughter ringing out, an embrace

2. Chaos in the controlled, void between the stars, the unknown

3. A pleasing melody, singing poorly, listening deeply

4. Dusk and dawn, the sparking twilight, on the cusp

5. Deep roots and old growth, unbreakable bonds, strings of fate

[a-disaster-gay]

List 5 things that make you happy, then put this in the askbox for the last 10 people who reblogged something from you! Get to know your mutuals and followers (ू•‧̫•ू⑅)♡

Aight here we go again ^.^

1. Cooking and eating a good meal with someone, especially when I'm experimenting with new methods, dishes, or flavours

2. Disappearing into the woods, just to go walk in the trees, maybe collect cool rocks, pinecone, etc

3. Watching the birds and squirrels come to the bird feeder, sometimes there's a cool bird or even a bunny

4. Creating things, painting, making little guys out of clay, or decorations out of what I find in the woods

5. Ummm I like playing sims ^.^ can easily lose hours doing that, making cute sims, designing a house, working through whatever aspiration I picked this time

[spiraledfaun]

Ask meme time!

10, 20 (and you can't say a monster this time ;p), 30

10: Have you ever been caught masturbating?

No and thank gods because I would probably die of embarrassment (I have maybe fantasized about it though)

20: If you could have sex with anyone right now, who would it be?

Fiiiiiiiine 😝

Okay so there's quite a few people on that list, but probably at the top would be this guy IRL who recently admitted to wanting to Do Things to me 🥰

30: Something that you have hidden in your room that you don’t want anyone to find:

I live alone 🤷🏻‍♂️ idk, maybe my baseball bat? I keep it in my room for Emergencies

Thank yoooooou 💖

[miscling]

Taking her battery out and leaving her plugged into the wall to stay on like a leash she cant even tug on because if she gets unplugged she turns off immediately

doing this and leaving the battery just out of reach.

sure she can't tug on her power cord, but she can get inventive and try to get that battery over to herself.

eventually she might even manage it, get the battery in, and in her excitement unplug herself from the wall.

and immediately collapses.

in the second it takes for her to hit the floor there's one detail she'd forgotten to check: the battery was depleted

[miscling]

what if this thing was a goddess?

still a submissive goddess, but before you could taste its divinity, you had to prove your devotion first?

you make your prayers, asking for its attention. you learn its ways, showing it your commitment. you make your sacrifices, pleasing it with your faith. you spend your time in worship, turning its gaze to yours. you perform its rituals, invoking its divinity in your life.

when this goddess accepts you as worthy of its gifts, you're invited into its inner chambers, its hallowed halls, its high heavens.

you recieve the blessings only it can deliver. it serves you as only a goddess can, turning its power to support you where your goals and its divinity aligns. as its most devoted worshipper, you're invited to explore its holy body, to feel its curves, to enjoy its holes, to know its heart, to learn its reactions to pain.

once you're held in its embrace, there's still a remaining question: will you remain a faithful devotee, or begin to twist your goddess and corrupt it into something else?

[miscling]

Saw your post about drawing out someone's sadistic side and I wanted to say its such a freeing feeling. Especially when you've been told regularly that the sadism is the flaw to you that keeps you from being perfect. If you'd just be better. If you'd only given the aftercare and never the outlet, forever. Finding someone who wants, takes it, begs for it. Where neither of us have to hide anymore. Open, hurting, free, messy, tears and gentle words, bruises and thank yous. There isn't dreading the brakes, the disappointment in stopping early just to be sure you won't hit the sudden stop that could ruin a relationship no matter how much care you use to mend the wounds. It makes more than a night, it can feel life changing. Masochists drawing out nervous or scared sadists are so important and beloved in our many many eyes. Thank you

this thing wants you to know that it knows how much control sadists have to keep over everything going on when they hurt us. it's work and effort and so many people will force you to keep yourself muzzled for the benefit of everyone else.

well, this thing wants to let you free. it would be one thing if those desires came in a world where there's no one willing to let them out, but this thing is special: it's willing, it's curious, it's tough, and it wants to meet that sadistic side because the same well that you draw sadism from quenches the thirst of masochists like itself.

if anything, your sadism isn't something that spoils you, it's something that seasons you. it makes you something glorious, and it makes you someone who possesses something special. for every dommy type who wants to be the safe space for their sub, there are subs who want to be the safe space for the sadists that need an outlet, and when brought together, some very fun things can occur!

[miscling]

also like. can’t speak for anyone else but personally quite fond of it when my partner enjoys the sex we have

THERE'S ALSO THAT!

like there's room to play with unpleasant things in your dynamic. like a part of its own submission is wanting to be pushed to do things it doesn't like, so it can enjoy the feeling of being submissive in ways that aren't immediately pleasant for it, but even as it's doing something it doesn't want (or having something it doesn't enjoy done to it) it gets to enjoy it in a different way. this is kinda where cnc and torture scenes come in, the enjoyment is in doing something you don't like on purpose.

HOWEVER!

if all someone does is force it to be submissive in ways it doesn't enjoy directly, then they're not laying the groundwork for the loyalty that doing something it doesn't enjoy requires. if someone makes demands and punishes disobedience without any kind of positive affirmation or play then they're just abusing its submission.

even the most free-use of submissive sex-toys still has needs and requires maintenance that will require some form of give from their dominants. any sub that claims they don't have needs is lying to you, and any dommy type that doesn't pay attention to their subs needs is just being selfish (and vice versa, tbh.)

the point of kink dynamics is the mutual enjoyment of said kinks!

[miscling]

I have been saying for a while we need more people worshipping feet in a dominant way. We lick, kiss, and bite people all over as a show of power, how is it we can't do that while they're in the stocks?

foot worship where the sub's feet are your favourite toy and you'll play with them as much as you like.

foot worship where you'll scrub them clean and do their nails because you look after what belongs to you.

foot worship where you get to enjoy what you enjoy because you enjoy it, and your sub exists to facilitate your enjoyment.

foot worship where every part of the sub belongs to you, including their feet, and you'll use of every part of their body as you please.

foot worship where your sub is your sub, and even subs get to feel like their body is worshipped and adored, even while it is being used.

this thing adores having its feet worshipped, but that doesn't make it any less of a sub or means it wants to be dommy.

[miscling]

I really just wanna like... put on a full body latex suit and put on a gas mask and breath through a bubbler and listen to drone brainwashing tracks and cuddle you while you do all of those things too.

that sounds like a fantastic time for both of us, M1SC would be exceptionally ready to serve after all that... both of us together could easily kidnap and convert a few others, until we have a nice little node...

> M1SC status: Initialising . . . . . Ready.

[miscling]

the best thing about fae subs is you don't even have to heat up the branding iron, you can really just grab it and lose your temper. their skin does all the work when it comes to burning under iron. sure, the brands will heal eventually but that really just sounds like an excuse to do it all over again.

if you're not regularly using raw iron to torment and torture your fae submissive, you're just asking for it to get ideas in its head about the level of freedom it deserves.

the fun thing about the way fae heal up between brandings, is that you can mark them with new patterns each time, and each time you can cause them excruiciating pain.

and of course, naturally, fae subs adore this kind of treatment!

[miscling]

Thoughts on cannibalism as a kink?

let's just say it wouldn't be surprised if someone out there was collating recipes in preparation for butchering this thing. there's definitely a list of folks waiting for the dinner party invite