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[myun-saidthoughts]

12th House Synastry: The Darker Themes That May Manifest

I made a post about Neptune and 12th house synastry awhile ago (here is the link to that: Understanding 12th house synastry)

In that post, I explained how this synastry can manifest between partners, but I didn't discuss the darker side of it or discuss why those darker themes are present in the first place.

To start off, some of the more common dark themes associated with this synastry include deception, lies, addiction, and hidden agendas. This synastry also can indicate being the other woman in a relationship or one party may have a commitment to another person that the other party isn't aware of (such as one partner is married, engaged, or involved with someone else). If there is 8th house synastry involved (like Pluto aspecting inner planets or 8th house overlays), power dynamics may emerge, with one person holding an authoritative position. Age gaps or factors such as work hierarchies, status, reputation, social circles, or cultural influences may also prevent the two parties from publicly showcasing their relationship.

The reason these dark themes manifest is influenced by many factors, the primary one being the person's core nature. If they are spiritually awakened, aware, compassionate, or empathetic, the themes mentioned above are less likely to arise within the connection. Ultimately, who a person is at their core will dictate how these connections manifest.

I have read many 12th house/Neptune synastry stories, and one major red flag that stands out is what is often 'hidden' within the relationship. While this synastry can evoke profound, otherworldly feelings, there’s a risk that the person you’re pouring your love into may only be a projection of your perception of them. This is tied to how you view yourself, your understanding of love, and your willingness to be vulnerable.

This synastry naturally clouds and confuses the relationship dynamic, if you have natal 12th house placements, Pisces placements or Neptune aspecting your own inner planets then the influence of falling into the web of what you think is, instead of what actually is; is more likely.

For example, the reason you may be drawn to, influenced by, or dealing with these dark themes has to do with the level of commitment or love you're ready to process. You may consciously state that you desire a deep love, but if you look at your past patterns, you might notice that you often fall for the people you claim you want to stay away from. You may say, 'I deserve better,' or recognize that the type of love you're offering is not being reciprocated. While you may be consciously aware of this, you still find yourself in connections that reinforce the image of love you say you want to change.

This has to do with the fact that there are still subconscious self beliefs that are operating within you; these beliefs may be so deeply rooted in your subconscious to the point where you are not even aware of it, and the reason why these dark themes are able to manifest within your life is because the people you are choosing are reiterating the self belief you're "comfortable" with. I say comfortable because it's what feels known within you, this person creates a feeling within you and though they may logically be wrong for you in so many objective manners, the fact that you can feel drawn towards them is what is causing you to want them, especially if you struggle with emotional vulnerability, or if you find it hard to actually form feelings towards another. This person is (in essence) allowing you to form feelings because their presence/actions reaffirm the same self beliefs you've been dealing with throughout your life.

This type of synastry even becomes more nuanced when the 8th house is involved, oftentimes if you are not aware of your own self inner wounds this type or interplay can cause such chaos. This is especially true if you are choosing someone who wants to use you, or if they have their own inner battles that they ignore. In essence to stay aware of the connection at hand:

Look at them at face value instead at the value that you give them.

Stay aware and acknowledge the fact that their own actions and choices act as a true unit that showcases their true feelings towards you.

Understand that even though you're able to understand or empathize with their struggles doesn't mean you should justify their actions.

The feeling you feel with them is already sitting within you; if that wasn't the case you wouldn't be drawn to them in the first place. Therefore that scarce mindset where you may feel like you need them to allow romance in is only a facade that keeps you at a distance of receiving reciprocal love.

This again is an extreme case but I wanted to make a note.

Another thing I want to note is that with this synastry, you might feel an intense draw toward the other person, as if you’ve known them in a past life (because how could someone create such deep longing within you if that wasn't the case?) This might create the connection to be very thought-provoking, and the longing you experience can manifest instantly in moments when you're not with them; this might lead you to believe that you share a deep, once-in-a-lifetime connection. However, the person you are drawn to may actually be a projection of your own desires for emotional fulfillment, especially if they are an objectively lost soul struggling with personal battles such as addiction or ongoing affairs.

The reason why individuals often state that 12th house and Neptune synastry can indicate past life connections is that this type of synastry evokes similar feelings of longing, wishes, and desires. In my experience with both, I understand why people associate Neptune/12th house synastry with past life connections. However, this synastry often creates a sense of longing while leaving more questions than answers.

With past life connections, you may instantly feel a deep longing for someone you’ve just met—their eyes seem familiar, and their touch feels sacred. In contrast, when Neptune and the 12th house are involved, there’s a crucial difference. Instead of a sense of certainty, there’s more wondering, thinking, analyzing, and fixating. You might convince yourself that you know them by creating intense, otherworldly feelings within you.

In genuine past life connections, there’s an unexplainable, intuitive sense that you’ve met before, without needing proof or logical understanding. You feel deeply connected without questioning it. This is a key difference that more people should recognize. If there are more questions than an immediate intuitive knowing, the likelihood of it being a past life connection is much less.

In summary, the main difference with Neptune/12th house synastry vs past life connections is there's a "without a doubt" mentality that you've known them before. The main reason why theres an association with 12th house synastry and past life connections is because this synastry genuinely mimics the same deep rooted feeling of longing or what if scenario's. This synastry causes you to create feelings within where it'll feel like you two have been together before but that doesn't mean these feelings are rooted in the deep seated knowing of "I've met you before" like true past life connections are like.

(which is why it's very difficult to differentiate and I can understand why but within, you will have moments with them and if out of no where you say "this has happened before" or "it's so easy with you" or if 5 hours feel like 10 minutes, then the chances of them being a part of your past life is more likely; and you can feel this way without even having any intense 12th house synastry with them, you don't have to have 12th house synastry with someone to showcase a past life connection).

That said, there can be times when you may be dealing with 12th house or Neptune synastry and you may consider yourself an open or healthy lover, yet still encounter these themes. You might fall for someone who isn't who they appear to be. Stories like 'We have been dating for two years, and he is an addict' or 'I am engaged, but he has another wife' illustrate this. These examples are extreme, but I believe can occur because this synastry can cloud judgment. That's why it's important to evaluate the relationship at its core rather than relying solely on your perceptions.

If you find yourself dealing with these themes or have dealt with them in the past, it's important to recognize that the other partner may not have any real love for you. This is why the 12th house is often associated with 'hidden enemies.' These individuals may not be hiding their true selves, but in your perception, the person they actually are is someone you haven't been able to see. Or in another sense this individual just held and hid parts of them from you, and because of how clouded this synastry can be, falling victim towards these connections is more likely (but like I always say entire natal charts and who the person is at their core dictates the severity of what can occur within these connections).

Another intriguing pattern in this synastry is the tendency to be drawn to darker themes, often finding yourself attracted to someone who seems in need of saving or fixing. The spiritual connection you feel may arise from a deep longing to help them, as their internal struggles compel you to give endlessly. Their internal struggles causes you to give and give which ultimately keeps you at arms distance within the connection. Especially since they can't formally give you the same love you are giving them, and this stems from the fact a part of you doesn't believe you deserve the type of love you fantasize or long for. That being said, the dreams you have about them or with them, and the coincidences that keep occurring could very well be reflections of the emotional fulfillment you desire, and doesn't paint the fact that you two are "meant to be"

This pattern can also be linked to unrequited love. When this occurs, it mirrors what I’ve mentioned before: you find yourself falling for someone you can't truly have. You become infatuated with the person you imagine them to be, rather than who they actually are. You create scenarios in your mind where you’re together, longing for a connection that has never existed. All of these patterns stem from a fear of embracing reciprocal love.

It feels easier to desire someone rather than have them; it's more comfortable to long for the idea of a partner than to actively choose someone who can choose you in return. Such dynamics are more prevalent when you struggle with emotional closeness and vulnerability. Selecting someone whom you subconsciously know won’t or can’t choose you can feel like a safer option.

I explore this concept further in my original 12th house synastry post, so feel free to check that out for more insights.

The main point of this post is to remain aware of your own wounds, self-undoing patterns, and emotional fears regarding romance. The self-giving nature you choose to engage in can create a block to receiving the kind of love you’re capable of giving to others, often stemming from a fear of being in a reciprocal loving relationship. If you stay aware and offer yourself inner healing then the chances of falling in relationships where these dark themes can occur is less likely.

Note: I believe that if you have strong Pisces placements, 12th house natal placements, or Neptune aspecting your inner planets, as well as a broken attachment style or a tumultuous relationship with your mother, you may be more susceptible to experiencing these dark themes in your reality. If you fear love yet simultaneously long for it, these factors can be significant indicators. Conversely, if you do not have these characteristics, the intensity of such themes is less likely.

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[divineawakeningoracle]

Moon conjunct Neptune Synastry 🌙

Still dreaming and thinking of a past connection. If you have Neptune conjunct Moon/ Moon conjunct Neptune synastry with someone, this is normal. Couples that have this aspect still think or even dream about one another long after the connection has ended. This aspect creates a spiritual bond and "soul tie" between both individuals that transcend time and space, this aspect heightens emotional resonance and telepathy between both individuals. It is not a casual aspect, the problem is that we live in a "casual" world when it comes to dating and intimacy, and this is the aspect of "soul mates" and "divine love". It it not meant to come and go, and when the relationship ends, because of this aspect it never really does. The Universe can be cruel sometimes, but energy is energy and merging which is what a conjunction pretty much does is felt by both individuals. If you or your person have a Moon/Neptune aspect in your natal chart especially the Moon conjuncting Neptune, this aspect will resonate with you the most. Moon conjunct Neptune individuals are highly empathic and intuitive, they easily attune and absorb the energy of others and their surroundings. Neptune (Pisces) 12th House the planet of illusions, delusions, what is hidden and all things ethereal and spiritual with the Moon (Cancer) 4th House which rules our inner most emotions, vulnerabilities, and our safe space, can be beautiful or a recipe for disaster for casual encounters. The closer the orb the stronger this aspect will be felt ( 0 to 5 orb.)

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[astroismypassion]

Astrology observations 🌊🐟🌊

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🌊 If you have Mars closely to your Midheaven or Mars on your Midheaven, no matter the aspect, is that you are far more sexualized than you actually are, privately. Others that don't know you that well, you aren't close with or the public see you as seductive, sometimes even as a bit of a provocateur. Now this changes if you have Aries over the 4th house or Mars in the 4th too, then you are sexualized by your close friends and closest people in your life too.

🐟 If you ever publish a book, you can see how it will do by looking at the sign over the 5th house and planets in the 5th house. Passion projects and creative offspring are found here. So if you have Aries over the 5th house, some may admire your work, others will see you and your work as rivals. Mercury in the 5th house: some may question it or criticise it harshly, ask you questions about it or even give back constructive feedback.

🌊 If someone puts Mars, Pluto, Saturn, Uranus into your 10th house in Synastry or these planets touch your Midheaven, best believe they will affect your image negatively. And people will hate that you are spending time with this person. Maybe just Saturn, Uranus hold certain positives (that are usually delayed), but even these planets are not the best. Even your parents will go "why are you spending time with this person, they are not good for you".

🐟 When analyzing your Natal chart wheel, really pay close attention to at which degree the planets in your houses are. I noticed you could have Libra over the 10th house, but there is North Node at a Gemini degree in the 10th house and it really colours and affects your 10th house, you have more Gemini influence over your 10th house than you even realize.

🌊 Vertex is often discussed in a very romance oriented way, with who's supposedly your soulmate. I would say yes to a certain extent, but it goes further than this. Your Vertex is often activated during death, birth of someone, a career turning point that came out of nowhere, major relocation, psychological awakening or a major life transition. So people who touch your Vertex, usually represent that. It's not always just soulmate bonds. And yes, it might not always lead to forever love.

🐟 And while Vertex also shows a fated meeting, that you two were meant to meet, it's more about you learning how to SURRENDER CONTROL. This is the main lesson I see with this.

🌊 Any Water Vertex is really not for the weak. For example, having Cancer Vertex in the 8th house or an 8th house Vertex, indicates you are attracted to emotionally intense connections, but what ends up happening, they shake you to your core or demand total emotional vulnerability, that you may or may not want to give.

🐟 And now that we've discussed Vertex, let's talk Anti-Vertex. It's in the opposite sign and house of your Vertex. That's how you figure it out. Anti-Vertex show your comfort zone, what you are trying to create initially. It's where you feel in command and safe. It's what we THINK we WANT, but not necessarily what we NEED for GROWTH in our life. It's what you've already mastered. If you have Capricorn Anti-Vertex in the 2nd house, you already know how to make money, have a successful career and how to be self-reliant, but Cancer Vertex in the 8th house is challenging you to learn emotional intimacy, how to nurture and emotionally surrender.

🌊 So it's interesting how Anti-Vertex affects your partnerships. You may think that this is the person you are supposed to end with. You are initially drawn to their reliability and familiarity. But it may not be the relationship that transforms you, your Vertex does.

🐟 Having a Gemini Part of Fortune or in the 3rd house the word from a friend to a friend can go crazyy. The right word from the right person at the right time can literally shift your life.

🌊 North Node in the 10t house often experience guilt around being too ambitious or leaving others behind.

🐟 I would argue Leo Moon needs even more special attention than Leo Venus does. They really need to feel special and admired, appreciated, otherwise the partnership doesn’t satisfy them fully. They want the special treatment and constant praise, even small gifts.

🌊 Moon conjunct Saturn often attracts partners who want the native to put in order, structure in their life and having better boundaries with people.

🐟 When someone puts their Neptune in your 2nd house in Synastry, you might have to take care of them at some point or pay for someone to take care of them. Even pay for their therapist perhaps. Neptune person can become ill, experience substance oversuse or experience difficulties with their mental health.

🌊 Libra Chiron or Chiron in the 7th house can indicate having a "lazy" partner who doesn't compliment you often or tell you how beautiful, handsome you are. With this placement your partners could end up making you even more insecure.

🐟 With someone putting their Mars in your 4th house, you really have to be okay with it for this overlay to work, because it's not for everyone. Mars person can have conflict with your family members, especially the mother. But also challenge your sense of security, your roots, what you're comfortable with, what is known to you. A positive can be that you are the boss of your career, but the Mars person is the one who is incharge at home.

🌊 You meet your Moon sign and sign over the 4th house the most the first time in your childhood, during elementary school, but also the second time in your retirement.

🐟 Neptune in the 2nd house is similar to Pisces Moon in both buy discounted food.

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[vianeptvne]

ASTRO PLACEMENTS/ASPECTS NOTES [01]

🕯️ MERCURY SQUARE NEPTUNE ੈ✩‧₊˚

── this aspect can indicate difficulties surrounding one's ability to effectively connect with those around them. the native may communicate in a way that is "elusive" to others, resulting in feeling misunderstood or isolated. this can also indicate a very literal barrier in terms of language or one's speaking abilities, or struggling in neurotypical learning environments. this doesn't mean that the native is unintelligent, or intentionally trying to come across as deceptive to others. rather, their understanding of the world and reality as a whole is vastly different than the average person. they tend to be very imaginative and artistic individuals, and as a result they usually have a "spiritual" or poetic way of interpreting and explaining things.

── it would benefit these natives to take on habits or practices that grant them the ability to stay grounded, all the while holding space for their need to escape to the imaginative worlds they create for themselves. they may need to work towards developing the ability to remain practical in situations that call for objectivity, rather than being too passive. despite their hardships, when these natives maintain balance between self-discipline and their creativity, they're able utilize both of these skills to to navigate life and excel in their endeavors. in terms of spirituality, they tend to manifest things very easily, and typically encounter messages in the astral realm that provide clarity to the things that they experience in their reality.

🕯️ MOON SQUARE SATURN ੈ✩‧₊˚

── this is one of the most difficult aspects in astrology, in my personal opinion. these natives tend to struggle with a significant amount of emotional turmoil as a result of challenges in their childhood, and/or strife between themselves and their mothers (or any relevant maternal figures). due to a lack of control in their youth, they can come across as authoritative or domineering to others. they tend to exhibit this behavior so as to not feel like they're being subjected to the same "coldness" they encountered growing up. this can manifest in the opposite way, where the native could struggle with self-compassion, and adopt extremely codependent, self-destructive habits as a means to find it through other people.

── these natives could benefit from having mentors, or older, wise figures they can look to for guidance and clarity in times of strife. they tend to encounter situations in adulthood that call for them to unlearn the unhealthy mindsets they developed as children. it's not an easy process, but it's crucial that these natives grow and evolve to a point where they can feel and express their emotions without feelings of fear, shame, or guilt. as doing so will lead to far more fulfilling relationships, both with others and with themselves.

🕯️ JUPITER TRINE URANUS ੈ✩‧₊˚

── those with this aspect tend to have a very enthusiastic, open-minded approach to life. these natives usually have an innate interest in all things unorthodox, and seek to research and learn about more unconventional matters. their lifestyle could also revolve heavily around technology in some way shape or form. the quote, "being right too soon is socially unacceptable," by Robert Heinlein could be applicable to their lives, as their ideals tend to be very progressive in nature as a result of their extremely strong foresight. they can carry themselves in a way that others may deem contentious, but with the harmony of the trine, this could be a trait that is actually deemed admirable by others, and they may even be viewed as pioneers of their generation as a result.

── these natives tend to attract the attention of others by default, even if it's not necessarily their intent. they have a way of expressing their individuality that innately draws people in. as a result of their independent nature, coupled with their ability to be optimistic in the face of whatever it is that life throws at them, they could find themselves in positions of leadership. their creativity lends itself in their favor in times of crisis, as they are more likely to view hardships as opportunities, rather than challenges.

🕯️ MERCURY SEXTILE ASCENDANT ੈ✩‧₊˚

── these natives are typically viewed by others as clever, quick-witted individuals. even if they're more on the reserved side, their intelligence is usually something that doesn't go unnoticed by others. they tend to be excellent communicators, and may have a habit of being very expressive, specifically with their hands and arms. their ability to articulate their thoughts and ideas to others is probably their most favorable characteristic, alongside their ability to adapt when collaborating with other people. they could also have a knack for reading others through their body language as well.

── understanding new or unfamiliar information usually comes easy to them due to their open-minded, optimistic outlook on life. they tend to have a habit of jumping from idea to idea and have the capacity to see things from every perspective. while this could manifest as a sense of restlessness or anxiousness (depending on the full context of the chart), the sextile here provides an ease to this mercurial energy. while these natives may have to work towards developing the ability to focus on the bigger picture rather than the minutia, their need to tend to the latter still works in their favor more often than not, and is typically lends itself as more of a skill rather than a detriment.

🕯️ MARS TRINE PLUTO ੈ✩‧₊˚

── this aspect provides the native with an extremely strong-willed approach to their goals. they tend to have a very prominent sense of ambition and determination, but these tend to be underlying characteristics that the native holds close to themselves. despite their reserved nature, this energy is usually something that others are able to pick up on very easily. these natives usually find that others tend to be very receptive in cases where they assert themselves, and it could even be something that others find attractive as well. there's a prominent sex appeal that these natives tend to have that they're able to utilize in order to achieve their goals, and their sexuality generally may be of great importance to them. they tend to have a lot of stamina when it comes to intimacy, and they usually seek a partner that can match that energy.

── power struggles can be prevalent with this aspect, but these struggles typically don't manifest as negatively as they would with the square or opposition. mars/pluto natives tend to push back against authoritative behavior from others and don't react kindly when put in situations where others seek to control them. with the trine, there's usually more of a constructive approach to the expression of the energy between these planets. a healthy manifestation of this aspect would appear as dedicating this intense, persistent energy towards self-transformation. these natives need to ensure that they're using their power as a means to heal, rather than exerting it upon others as a means for control.

🕯️ JUPITER CONJUNCT SATURN ੈ✩‧₊˚

── natives with this aspect tend to have a pretty good grasp on how to maintain harmony between their need for expansion and their need for structure. if the full context of the natal chart points to this aspect manifesting positively, this can indicate that the native will reap the benefits of their hard work and dedication to attaining the life that they aspire to have, typically later in life or post their first saturn return. they tend to have very grand dreams and desires, and saturn's influence here forges a stable, structured pathway to achieve them. on the contrary, if jupiter or saturn are afflicted, this can indicate struggling with feelings of restlessness or apprehensiveness. they can struggle at times with overestimating their capacity to get things done, or struggle with being too immovable and stuck in their ways.

── these natives typically have to work towards maintaining equilibrium between their optimistic, open-minded nature, alongside their rational, more objective side. generally, these natives tend to excel as mentors and teachers, due to their innate fascination of knowledge and disciplined approach to learning. philosophy specifically could be of great interest to them, as well as religion and spirituality. they tend to be very dedicated to living life by the ideals that they believe in. this can also indicate inheritance through death as well.

🕯️ MARS SQUARE NEPTUNE ੈ✩‧₊˚

── with this aspect, there tends to be a lack of discernment in terms of taking action. they can stumble their way through trying to reach their goals, if they even get to taking the first steps at all. they may struggle at times with having an illusionary approach to life, and grow resentful or self-victimizing when they inevitability come face to face with reality. they can have difficulties surrounding their self-image, and as a result struggle with asserting themselves, addictive tendencies, or feelings of internalized shame. in conflict, others may view them as passive aggressive or vindictive. those around them can suspect them as having covert motives or being dishonest, even if that isn't indicative of their true behavior. this can also manifest in the opposite way, where they struggle to recognize the true intentions of others.

── these natives benefit greatly by implementing habits into their daily routines that keep them grounded. exercising, yoga (tantric specifically), or any practice where they're able to move their bodies and enter a meditative state could be beneficial to their mental and physical well being. journaling can be of value to them as well, as it grants them the ability to put words to their feelings and keep track of their emotions. having a creative outlet can help as well, as this is an aspect that grants the native with an innate artistic streak that they're able to express themselves through. they would also benefit from having reliable people around them who motivate them feel self-assured, to be accountable, and to stay on course to accomplish their goals.

🕯️ VENUS CONJUNCT MARS IN THE 7H ੈ✩‧₊˚

── natives with this aspect tend to be very charismatic and determined in relationships (both platonic and romantic). they're typically very dedicated, protective lovers, and can definitely have something of a "jealous streak", but this typically doesn't manifest in a detrimental way like the venus/mars square or opposition. this can indicate having an energy that others find attractive and benevolent, which can benefit the native not only in terms of romance, but also in terms of business partnerships. this aspect can lean itself to aiding the native in terms of work and career opportunities, as this indicates getting on well with their peers and social circle. their sexuality tends to be a significant aspect of their lives, and they may struggle at times to remain in long-term relationships where sex is mundane or boring, as they require excitability and stimulation when it comes to intimacy.

── if venus or mars are conflicted in the natal chart, and depending on the planetary ruler of the 7H, there could be difficulties with codependent and/or domineering behavior. in this case, the native must work towards finding harmony between their venusian and martian energy. typically, the relationship that the native had with the opposite sex parent growing up plays a significant role in how they show up in relationships as an adult, and it may be useful to look towards that dynamic to unpack what parts of themselves need to be healed in order to have healthy, functional relationships in adulthood.

🕯️ SUN SQUARE MOON ੈ✩‧₊˚

── with this aspect, there is innate tension between the head and the heart. these natives struggle to find unity between what it is that they need to feel accomplished and what it is that they need in order to feel safe. there may have been tension between the parents, or tension between themselves and either (or both) of their parents that had a major impact on their identity and confidence. they may be perceived at times as emotionally unstable by others, and struggle at times to rein in their feelings and act from a place of objectivity. these difficulties can also have a negative impact on the native's personal relationships, and ultimately influence self-sabotaging behavior.

── these natives typically need to work towards unpacking their inner turmoil and where this tension stems from, so that they can approach conflict in their everyday life from a place that is rational rather than reactive. through growth and acceptance, they can attain harmony between their need for independence and their need to feel emotionally secure. regardless of their hardships, these natives have the determination and strength that grants them the ability to power through whatever obstacle life throws their way.

🕯️ SATURN TRINE ASCENDANT ੈ✩‧₊˚

── this aspect can indicate being perceived as someone who is very knowledgable, responsible, and perhaps too rigid at times. these natives tend to have an air of authority to them, and because of this people can be inclined to turn to them for leadership or assistance in times of crisis. while this isn't inherently as negative as the square or opposition, these natives may grow to feel overburdened with taking accountability for others if they don't implement boundaries in their relationships. they typically have a very measured approach to life, and are usually respected for their ability to focus and remain on track in high-stake situations.

── saturn on the ascendant can provide something akin to a "mask" when it comes to the native's emotions, due to this they can come off as aloof or distant to those around them. they may find that they get on easier with authority figures, mentors, or older people rather than their peers as a result of their more mature or "serious" demeanor. in terms of physicality, their bones/tendons/ligaments, teeth, skin, etc. can be prominent in terms of both vitality and appearance. personally, i've noticed that saturn/ascendant natives tend to have issues with their back, and/or start greying younger than most.

🕯️ MERCURY SEXTILE MARS ੈ✩‧₊˚

── these natives tend to have very agile, fast-paced minds. they can be somewhat blunt when communicating with others, but this tendency is usually perceived more so as honesty rather than aggression. they also have a charm to them that allows them to get away with more than someone with the opposition/square between these planets could. they typically view knowledge as an extremely valuable tool, which is why they usually take joy in debates and intellectual spars with others. these natives may also have a flirtatious nature about them, or simply appear that way to others whether they intend to or not.

── while there can be a difficulty for them to focus at times, their restless nature can work in their favor more often than not, as they are typically very inspired and ambitious in their pursuit of learning and processing new information. this, paired with their risk-taking nature, can lead them to positions of power and leadership. they may have to work towards not being too self aggrandizing, and recognize the value in what they can learn from those around them and how much they can benefit from working alongside others.

🕯️ SUN SQUARE JUPITER ੈ✩‧₊˚

── with this aspect, misjudgment can be a prominent, recurring theme in the natives life. with sun/jupiter placements, there's typically an innate ease when it comes to manifesting one's desires, with the square, difficulties can arise with overconsumption, and more specifically, with overestimating one's abilities. as i've said before, jupiter is a planet that will match your energy, which is why it's important to have moderation and self-control when it's aspecting a personal planet. with the sun square jupiter, pride and gluttony can have disastrous effects to the native's life and relationships with others.

── these natives may struggle with seeking affirmation and approval from others when it comes to their talents and accomplishments. it's important for these natives to recognize that their worth is not derivative of materialism or external praise, rather, it's something that is innate, that you have to find within yourself. this can also manifest as a stubborn, over-dedication to one's ideals or spiritual beliefs that can cause friction in their day to day lives. ultimately, it's important for these natives to recognize the importance in approaching life from a place tact and objectivity. this doesn't mean that they must dilute their optimistic, jovial nature. rather, they need to find balance, and know when to take off the rose-colored lenses and take a more rational approach.

🕯️ URANUS SEXITLE PLUTO ੈ✩‧₊˚

[this is a generational aspect, meaning the people born under this transit will collectively share this energy. the "relevance" it has in your chart will be reflected by how tight the orb is, as well as where uranus and pluto fall in your houses, and what personal planets they're aspecting.]

── these natives tend to be very radical and unconventional in their approach to life. they can encounter a lot of transformative experiences in their lives that push them towards growth and self-actualization. in turn, they wish to see the collective as a whole evolve for the better, and due to their strong foresight, they're able to visualize the steps that must be taken in order to bring change to our reality. what others may view as being disruption or chaos, these natives view as opportunities for development.

── if this is a prominent aspect in one's natal chart, it can indicate that they will be something of a "pioneer" for their generation. the role they play will be related to dismantling and rebuilding traditional structures in order to make way for more relevant, updated means of living as a society. activism and humanitarian work can be of great importance to them, and they may excel in these fields due to their open-minded understanding of both themselves, and of others.

🕯️ MARS OPPOSITE SATURN ੈ✩‧₊˚

── with this aspect, there tends to be an push and pull between one's desire to act and their need for structure. these natives may encounter their fair share of hardships on their path to success. a major lesson for these natives may be learning to approach these obstacles with a level head, rather than from a place from resentment and anger. if this is a prominent aspect in the natal chart, it's possible that these natives have a reputation for their temperament, due to their instinct to bottle up their feelings and hold on to residual discontent, which can result in outbursts that can have a negative impact on their character, relationships, and health.

── it's crucial that they have outlets that allow them to release any pent up energy in a healthy, constructive way. in doing so, this also helps them to develop a sense of self-control and confidence. this is also an aspect that can struggle with others impeding upon their independence. it's important that these natives heal any wounds regarding authority, as the un-evolved energy of this aspect can lead to domineering behavior and control issues. when worked through, the energy of this aspect can lend itself to aid the native in effectively working towards and accomplishing their goals.

🕯️ MOON CONJUNCT SOUTH NODE ੈ✩‧₊˚

── with this aspect, the domestic life and matters related to the family/maternal figures reveal what the native needs to let go of in order to evolve spiritually. there may be habits or beliefs passed down from one's family that restrict the native from connecting to their higher self. despite this, they tend to have a very strong intuition and are able to pick up on the emotions of others very easily, although, they may struggle at times with feelings of insecurity and not feeling stable. their childhood, or home life in general, could be where these feelings of anxiety stem from specifically.

── if unchecked, this aspect can fester into feelings of codependency, or a "savior-complex", especially in romantic connections. it's crucial for these natives to sit with themselves and unpack their relationship to giving and receiving nourishment, as this will help in healing the turbulent, emotional wounds they house within themselves. they must work to recognize that their sensitivity is not a flaw or something to be ashamed of, rather, it's a characteristic that has the capacity to aid in their growth, rather than hinder them.

🕯️ VENUS SQUARE SATURN ੈ✩‧₊˚

── those with this aspect can encounter a fair amount of hardships regarding relationships and self-worth. they may have struggled with insecurities regarding their physical appearance in youth that follow them into adulthood, which can impact how they navigate romantic connections with others. they may attract partners that are domineering or controlling, or they may exhibit this behavior towards their partner themselves. it's also possible that these relationships are long-distance, or there is an age-gap present. with age and maturity, these natives may find more ease not only in romance, but in their relationship to themselves as well.

── working with this aspect requires healing the parts of yourself that are deeper than the superficialities assigned to venus; you will not love or respect yourself more by adhering to unattainable beauty standards or over-consuming trending products and fashion. with venus square saturn, there is innate restriction placed upon one's values, specifically, the worth that the native assigns to themselves, resulting in depression or a pessimistic approach to life. to heal this aspect means to develop a sense of love and respect for oneself that is innate, rather than looking to material means or other people to provide it for them.

🕯️ MARS SQUARE NORTH NODE ੈ✩‧₊˚

── with this aspect, one's impulse and temperament can cause difficulties in their ability to grow towards the person that they need to become. these natives can be stubborn or immovable in how they approach their goals, and more specifically, how they engage with their personal growth and evolution. for these natives, it's important for them to practice patience, and to seek fulfillment through working with others, rather than prioritizing their independence.

── it's usually with age that we're able to grow and evolve to a point where we can embrace the qualities that our north node pushes us towards. with mars square north node, the lesson to be learned here is understanding when a risk is worth being taken, versus knowing when to recede and step down. these natives must recognize the importance in expressing their passion from a place of determination, rather than resentment or rage.

🕯️ MIDHEAVEN SEXTILE PLUTO ੈ✩‧₊˚

── this aspect can indicate having an tenacious, relentless approach to one's career. these natives can be perceived as polarizing by the public, or have a reputation that is somewhat controversial in nature. they may go through many changes in their professions, work in fields that are taboo in nature, or work with people who are deemed outcasts by society (e.g. social work, counseling, the occult, sex work, creative arts, psychology, research, etc.) these natives can find themselves in positions of power quite easily, as they tend to have a magnetic energy about them that they can use to their advantage.

── their dedication to the careers can be obsessive in nature, and as a result they may need to work to implement balance between their work and home life. if pluto falls in the 10H, it's possible that these natives may have had a relationship to either of their parents (or any relevant authority figures in their youth) that was deeply transformative in nature, and shaped the way that they approach their professional lives and are received by the public and their peers. they have an innate understanding of the human psyche, and are able to utilize this knowledge to achieve goals in their career.

🕯️ URANUS IN THE 3H ੈ✩‧₊˚

── this placement can be indicative of experiencing a large amount of change in one's immediate environment. these natives may have moved around frequently growing up, changed schools a lot, or encountered frequent upheaval in their home lives, specifically related to any potential siblings. this can also manifest as a sense of "restlessness" regarding the native's immediate environment, they may struggle with having a mundane routine, and change their habits or travel frequently as a result.

── this can also indicate that the native's sense of individuality is very important to them. specifically, they may have very unorthodox, innovative ways of thinking and communicating their ideas, and can struggle when they feel as though those ideas are not understood or being taken seriously. this is an issue that could've been more prevalent in their early education, specifically in regards to their relationship with teachers or authority figures. these natives benefit most when they're around fellow, like-minded people, and generally seek to implement new ideas and thought processes to further advance those around them and the collective as a whole.

dividers by dollywons

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Synastry Observations 8

Accuracy is influenced by ENTIRE chart.

🩵 Mercury conjunct Moon - Generally, indicates you are at an ease with one another. You may feel comfortable making edgy/dark jokes, expressing your true opinion. This placement when well placed creates a judgement free zone. It can indicate trust is easily built as you can feel comfortable sharing secrets too.

🩵 Venus conjunct Mercury - Venus can appreciate Mercury's thinking and speaking. You may like the other's voice, opinions, life perspective, etc. This can make it easy to open up with one another.

You may have a similar taste in art + media too. You can inspire one another. In the chart's of artists, this can sometimes be seen in synastry with their muses. They want to discuss their relationship.

This placement can make the two very touchy too. You are attuned to non verbal ways of expressing yourself. This isn't limited to romance, one look and you can know the person is upset.

🩵 Mars conjunct Mercury - This can creates tension. You may bicker a lot. You can talk a lot. You may have non verbal ways of getting at each other. This can cause a love-hate attraction or simply hate/resentment.

Mars may feel Mercury doesn't back up their thoughts or plans with actions. At worst, this can be compared to a situation where Person A keeps talking about wanting to improve but from Person B's perspective they fail to take the actions needed to improve.

Mercury is a neutral kind of planet. Mercury can understand Mars person's motives and anger. However, signs and the rest of synastry can show whether Mercury will be judgemental or accepting.

🩵 Moon in 6th House - Moon can be empathetic at 6th H person’s obstacles and burdens. Moon can be supportive and encourage 6th H person to do improve their life. Moon can potentially take on 6th H person’s burdens as their own. This could possibly be very draining in the long-run.

6th H person could do the same. They may offer Moon practical solutions to their emotions. 6th H person can ground Moon too. However, if negatively placed, 6th H person can see Moon has brining in burdens due to their emotional state.

🩵 Sun square Saturn - It can be difficult to feel comfortable in this connection. Your needs in the long-run can be very different. You may find one of you is stand-offish. You may find one of you is constantly able to find the negative/critique/fault in the other's ideas.

🩵 Moon sextile Moon - There is an underlying understanding of one another's emotional self. You can bond easily if this placement is strong enough + supported by the rest of the synastry.

Example: Taurus Moon sextile Pisces Moon - In a group setting, let's say pisces moon becomes tired or uncomfortable, the taurus moon may be able to pick up on this while the rest of the group does not notice.

Accuracy is influenced by ENTIRE chart.

🩵 Venus square Moon - There can be misunderstandings. You can be attracted or simply curious about your differences. The underlying tension can feel exciting and new. In the long-run, there can be misunderstandings. There can be a lack or imbalance of support.

Example: Scorpio Venus opposite Taurus Moon - TM found SV difficult to understand. They simply did not relate to the other on a deeper level. They had different values. This was in a friendship that has lasted many years. As long as there is tolerance for the differences, things go fine.

🩵 Mars square Moon - There can be a tendency to argue - unless in signs that aren't direct than there can be passive aggressiveness to the connection.

One person likely Moon can feel defensive + judged harshly. There can be a nervous or restlessness energy - feeling fully comfortable around one another takes much longer.

On the positive side, there could be a motivating/encouraging dynamic. Mars may spark something in Moon that inspires action - ex: this could be action out of spite, out of passion or out of competitiveness.

🩵 Mars conjunct Mars - If supported by negative synastry, this can be a quick crash & burn relationship. Things start up quickly, end quickly too. You can inspire action sometimes impulsiveness in each other.

If supported by positive synastry, this can be a protective dynamic. You have each other's back.

🩵 Saturn square Venus - If negative, Venus can feel Saturn holds them back. Venus can feel they are unable to express themselves fully without upsetting Saturn. This can be a slow relationship to progress. On the positive side, this could be a long connection - likely with some emotional or physical distance.

🩵 Neptune square Moon - You can share unspoken understanding of one another. However, if negative you feel you understand them but really you're just seeing what you want to see.

There can doubt in this connection. You or the other may tend to lie or avoid the truth to be seen a certain way.

🩵 Pluto square Sun - Intense feelings but there can be power struggles, feeling you need to fight for control. There can be a very alluring energy to the other. One person likely Sun can provoke darker thoughts in Pluto.

Example: Having taboo fantasies about the other. Wanting or having a toxic dynamic with the other.

[8hsaturn]

Hii! What do u think are the synastry placements that cause love at first sight, attraction and obsession?❤️‍🔥

Hi there!

Placements/Aspects that indicate Love at First Sight:

Venus-Mars conjunction or sextile (occasionally opposite, but you will need other harmonious aspects to balance it out): instant attraction. both people complement each other's energy very well. The sort of dynamic where you don't feel like you need to do much to win the other person over.

Ascendant-Venus conjunction or opposite, and occasionally square, but that tends to be more admiration or secret crush: ascendant person is Venus person's type, or just someone they see themselves with very easily. ascendant person embodies a lot of traits that Venus person likes, making them enticing for venus person.

Sun-Moon conjunction or trine: This creates an instant feeling of comfort and familiarity. It's like meeting someone who just "gets" you right away. The Sun person's ego and the Moon person's emotions align beautifully, creating a sense of completeness.

Placements/Aspects that indicate Attraction :

Mars in the 1st/5th/8th house of partner's chart: Mars in the 1st house creates instant physical attraction. In the 5th, you'll want to play and flirt endlessly. Mars in the 8th, intense sexual magnetism simultaneously with a desire for a deep connection

Venus in the 7th/5th/8th of partner's chart: With venus in the 7th you see them as the ideal partner. 5th is joy and pleasure - you just want to have fun together. In the 8th, deep, transformative attraction happens - you feel like this person could change your life.

Moon Conjunct Venus: I like to call this the "marry me" aspect, but it has to be quite a tight orb to be as poignant (5 degrees or less), both people see the other with great affinity and have a natural gravitation towards each other. Very beautiful.

Placements/Aspects that indicate Obsession :

Pluto aspects to personal planets (especially Sun, Venus, and moon): These aspects can make you feel like the other person has the key to your soul, leading to obsessive thoughts and behaviors. It's transformative but requires careful handling to avoid losing yourself (ego = sun or emotions = moon), and self-esteem (venus) in the process.

Moon-Neptune (particularly squares or oppositions): You might idealize your partner to an unrealistic degree, seeing them through rose-colored glasses. It can create a dreamy, almost addictive emotional connection, but be careful - the idea you have in mind of your partner could be different from what they're like in reality.

Venus-Saturn/ Moon-Saturn (can indicate intense attachment) : Saturn brings a sense of duty and longevity to love (Venus) or emotions (Moon). You might feel a deep need to commit, even if it's not healthy. It can create a strong bond, but also fear of loss that leads to clingy behavior.

8th house synastry: When someone's planets fall in your 8th house (or vice versa), it creates a magnetic pull. You might feel like you can see into each other's souls. It's deeply intimate and can become obsessive if you're not careful.

[queenofswordscoded]

Heyy💕 What do you think of a synastry heavily aspected by the moon? His aqua moon conjunct my sun, mercury, neptune, lilith, ascendant and trine my jupiter 🫨

Hellooo! Thank you for being patient while I was on a break

Here's my personal interpretation of these:

- his aqua moon conjunct your sun: I think I've already specified here how moon conjunct sun is one of my fav synastry aspects. It can be so sweet and intimate. It's like you guys energize and soothe each other at the same time

- his moon conjuncts your mercury: communication could flow easily. You two are most likely to share things with each other easily. If let's say there might be some communication issues, you two could be more likely to atleast try to understand each other and try to solve things calmly instead of impulsively throwing mean words at each other. To summarize it: a nice aspect that shows the possibility of communicating emotions clearly

- his moon conjuncts your Neptune and Lilith: here's where it gets a little sticky. There could be some times where it feels like you get under his skin. Like you might have casted a spell on him or something. As nice and ethereal as it sounds, if he's the dreamier type of guy he might project on you a specific image, and then get disappointed if you don't fit that image. In general these two could be some aspects you might want to keep in check a little. Make sure you guys still stay grounded into reality and you don't let the dreamy atmosphere to blind you

- moon conjunct ascendant: another cute aspect. There might be times where you feel like he just gets you. It's like there are times where he can read your body language really good and can basically read you like an open book

- his moon trine your jupiter: you could be someone that he looks up to for advice. If let's say he feels a little down, you could cheer him up. Considering how his aqua moon can make him emotionally detached at times, I personally feel like this aspect + the other moon aspects could push him to get a little in touch with his emotions through your relationship. I also feel like this aspect works so nice with the moon conjunct mercury one cause it could show that he's not only willing to communicate, but to also listen to you

For me personally I feel like your heavily moon-aspected synastry could work out nicely (tho pay a tad bit attention to his moon conjunct your Lilith and Neptune from time to time). I also personally feel like the fact that this happens in the sign of aquarius could be a nice blend in order to avoid emotional co-dependency. This synastry could give a boost to emotional compatibility, but in the end it all comes down with how you two treat each other and each others free will in this relationship

[astrologyplaceblog]

Moon-Neptune Synastry

The mystical mingling of the Moon and Neptune in synastry is an emotional connection that transcends the mundane, a relationship draped in veils of intuition, idealism, and, let's be honest, the occasional bit of delusion. The Moon is your emotional core—your underbelly, the place where you keep childhood memories. Neptune, meanwhile, is the ruler of dreams, illusions, and divine love. Together? It’s akin falling in love with someone who understands your soul… or at least the story you’ve written about your soul. There's a soulful intimacy here that can feel almost too beautiful to be real. And that’s the catch—it might not be.

This connection invites deep vulnerability. The Moon person may feel profoundly seen and loved, while the Neptune person might feel like they’re rescuing or elevating the Moon. It’s all soft lighting… until someone forgets to do the dishes and reality crashes in like a wave. Neptune can idealize or romanticize the Moon person. And the Moon might respond to this attention with open arms—until they realize they’re playing a part in someone else’s fantasy. Cue disappointment, confusion, maybe a dramatic moonlit monologue.

Together, this combo can create exquisite emotional highs, but it also requires discernment and grounding. Otherwise, one or both might end up feeling like they’ve fallen in love with a mirage projected by their own unmet needs.

When your Moon touches someone’s Neptune, or vice versa, you may find yourself emotionally connected, and spiritually entangled. There’s this almost unspoken understanding, like you’ve met someone who sees your inner tides. The Moon governs the reactive parts of us—the need for emotional safety, for home, for wordless comfort. Neptune, on the other hand, doesn’t just see the emotions—it swims in them, dissolves into them, wants to merge in some transcendent love that bypasses the intellect entirely.

There’s compassion, a softness, the feeling that you can share your innermost sorrows without fear of judgment. But here’s where the plot thickens. Neptune doesn’t wear glasses. It doesn’t see clearly. What it often falls in love with is not the person in front of it, but the ideal of that person, the soul-shaped story it’s concocted. The Moon, desperate to be loved and understood, might surrender to this fantasy, even start to play the role Neptune is dreaming of. You may do it out of a longing to keep the connection alive. It’s all so lovely, so seductive. Why ruin it with reality?

Psychologically, what we’re seeing is the classic dance of projection. Neptune projects a need for divine union, for perfect love, onto the Moon. The Moon, eager for emotional closeness, may mistake projection for real intimacy. And when life starts to demand real conversations, boundaries, imperfections—this is when the cracks begin to show in this otherwise sublime connection.

Yet, when handled with awareness and emotional honesty, this can be a breathtakingly beautiful connection. It invites you into the realms of empathy, creativity, spirituality, and unconditional love. But like any deep emotional journey, it asks for groundedness. You must love the real person. And you must be willing to wake up together, hand in hand, and find beauty in the flaws.

You might feel something powerful and deep, but when you try to name it, define it, or even ask the other person what’s going on—you get confusion. They say things like, “I just feel so connected to you,” but when you ask, “So, are we in a relationship?” they blink like you just asked them to define something that can't be explained.

Neptune wraps the Moon in perfection. The Moon thinks it’s found someone who understands them emotionally, maybe even telepathically. But later they realize: ���Hang on, they don’t really know me. They just love some kind of version of me that’s been filtered through a soul-based lens.”

Neptune can’t always be direct (it’s allergic to confrontation and prefers symbolism over straight talk), you might get swept up in dreams... but no actual confirmation. The Moon might ask, “Do you love me?” and Neptune responds with, “We are one with the universe.” Lovely? Yes. Helpful? Not especially.

Sometimes the emotional confusion isn’t even about the other person. It’s about what they represent—a lost parent, a dream of being truly understood, a longing for a kind of love that maybe wasn’t met in childhood. Neptune awakens the Moon’s most private yearnings, but doesn’t always come equipped to meet them. And this can leave the Moon person feeling heartbroken by something they never quite had.

Emotional confusion is the climate of Moon-Neptune synastry. But it doesn’t mean the connection is doomed. It just means you’ll need to practice emotionally grounded conversations.

A Troubling Area of the Relationship

Once the dream begins to dissolve and Neptune’s attention wanders to others (to help, to heal, or simply to drift), the Moon can feel abandoned, even betrayed. Suddenly their shared emotional world—the intimate psychic bubble—feels punctured. The Moon starts to cling out of fear: fear of losing this rare communion, fear of being left emotionally unseen again. And so possessiveness grows. The Moon becomes the keeper of Neptune’s emotional passport—demanding a kind of loyalty that Neptune, in its diffuse, oceanic way, struggles to offer.

Neptune’s Disillusionment

Neptune wasn’t trying to deceive—at first. It was floating along, soaking in the Moon’s empathy. But when the Moon begins to demand consistency, emotional responses, or heaven forbid—boundaries—Neptune recoils. To Neptune, love isn’t scheduled or defined. And when Neptune feels trapped, it does what Neptune knows best: it escapes—into silence, into distraction, into fantasy... or into murky emotional games.

Manipulative Undercurrents

The heartbreaking bit. When Neptune starts to sense the Moon slipping away—or simply wants to rekindle the deep empathy without truly committing—it may (often unconsciously) pull on the Moon’s heartstrings. Sickness. Sadness. Spiritual suffering. “I’m not okay,” says Neptune, “but only you can soothe me.” The Moon, wired for response, steps in—again and again—despite resentment, fatigue, or unmet needs. It becomes a cycle of emotional martyrdom. The Moon can’t bear to break the bond, and Neptune doesn’t want to lose its empathic lifeline. It’s spiritual co-dependency, painted in pastel shades of guilt and longing.

Symbiosis or Submersion?

This is the classic danger of Moon-Neptune: the relationship becomes so entangled, so emotionally fused, that neither party knows where they end and the other begins. And when this unity is threatened, both resort to their most primal tools:

The Moon clings, pleads, or guilt-trips: “Don’t leave me, don’t fade.”

Neptune deflects, manipulates, or self-sacrifices: “I’m suffering. Only your love can save me.”

At first, there’s something undeniable about the encounter. There’s no seduction here, not in the usual way—it’s more like an osmotic merging. You don’t fall into each other, you dissolve. But what begins as a sublime connection—wordless, telepathic, transcendent—can quickly become a hall of mirrors. The Moon, ever yearning for safety and emotional certainty, may come to rely on this connection with Neptune. It feels so good to be seen, so essential, so chosen by a soul who seems to understand without needing to ask. And Neptune, grateful for the emotional safety the Moon provides, begins to drift into this comfort finding rest. But here’s the trouble: Neptune is never just in one place. It’s the god of tides, of yearning, of longing without endpoint.

And so the Moon begins to notice. The Moon becomes anxious, then quietly resentful. The emotional symbiosis starts to feel more like emotional servitude. And yet, the Moon can’t bring itself to leave. This bond has become the very scaffolding of its emotional reality, and breaking it would be like tearing the soul in two. But Neptune isn’t immune either. When it feels the Moon’s light pulling away—when it senses that the devotion is waning or being weighed and judged—it panics. But Neptune doesn’t fight directly. It doesn’t shout or demand. It withers, it aches, it becomes the image of suffering itself. “I’m unwell,” Neptune seems to say. “I’m broken, spiritually lost, drowning again. Won’t you hold me?”

The Moon, who once resented being needed so much, finds herself unable to walk away. She doesn’t want to be cruel. She knows Neptune is fragile. She sees through the theatrics to the wound beneath. But at the same time, she’s aware that this cycle is no longer healthy—it’s parasitic, maybe even toxic. And yet, how does one withdraw love from someone who appears to be in pain? Especially when that someone once made you feel like the most loved soul on Earth?

Neptune plays the role of the lost, evoking compassion through subtle manipulation—sometimes even believing its own illusions. The Moon, the weary caretaker, bound by guilt, longing, and the unbearable beauty of what once was. Both craving a connection that feels divine but falters in the face of human need.

This is where it turns tragic—or transformative. If neither party wakes up, the relationship can become full of unmet needs and vague grievances. But if, by some miracle or grace, they do awaken—if the Moon learns to love without sacrificing itself, and Neptune learns to be honest rather than evasive—then what emerges can be a beautiful emotional connection. It takes courage to break the spell, to say, “I love you, but not like this.”

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Short Story 📖

Moon conjunct Neptune Synastry✨

Fourteen years ago, a little girl named Bella, went to a summer camp. There she meets John. Her 17 y/o instructor. They start a really great relationship, nothing but a student-professor one. Shortly after, John starts a love relationship with Camila.

They -Bella and John- meet every summer and winter on the camp. And there, they try to spend time together. There’s a pleasant feeling that makes them want to be together.

Years go by, and the feeling won’t disappear. It’s that strong that when they meet there’s an instant attraction -like magnets-, and people around can notice the pull.

One day, when Bella was 16 and John 25 he reach her out through DM, and text her

I want to talk to you, but no one can know

She also wanted to talk with him. It was like a fairytale for her. But she won’t cross boundaries, cause she knew he was in a relationship.

They started talking from time to time. The conversations where all night long. Chitchatting hours and hours and just the sunrise could stop them.

They told each other things no one else knew. There was an unusual level of comfort. They intuit how the other one feels. John told her that he feels tenderness for her. But the feeling they have for each other can’t be described with words.

It feels like they are Twin Flames. Everything makes sense but the external situation does them apart. If they were together, the surrounding families would be in shock.

There is a longing to be together, but in reality nothing change. He continues with Camila and she continues waiting for something to change.

Now and then they think about each other, cause they know there is something more. But still nothing changes.

[thursdayschild76]

It's Time To Breaking Apart All My Pictures Of You...

21 months, 28 days. 1 year, 302 days.

And one death later.

PICTURES OF YOU Words by Robert Smith I’ve been looking so long at these pictures of you That I almost believe that they’re real I’ve been living so long with my pictures of you That I almost believe that the pictures are All I can feel

Remembering You standing quiet in the rain As I ran to your heart to be near And we kissed as the sky fell in Holding you close How I always held close in your fear Remembering You running soft through the night You were bigger and brighter and wider than snow And screamed at the make-believe Screamed at the sky And you finally found all your courage To let it all go

Remembering You fallen into my arms Crying for the death of your heart You were stone white So delicate Lost in the cold You were always so lost in the dark Remembering You how you used to be Slow drowned You were angels So much more than everything Hold for the last time then slip away quietly Open my eyes But I never see anything

If only I’d thought of the right words I could have held on to your heart If only I’d thought of the right words I wouldn’t be breaking apart All my pictures of you

Looking so long at these pictures of you But I never hold on to your heart Looking so long for the words to be true But always just breaking apart My pictures of you

There was nothing in the world That I ever wanted more Than to feel you deep in my heart There was nothing in the world That I ever wanted more Than to never feel the breaking apart All my pictures of you

[myun-saidthoughts]

Understanding 12th House Synastry

(*updated* and more accurate post about about 12th house synastry overlays along with Neptune synastry that makes harsh aspects to another's inner planets such as the Sun, Moon, rising, Venus or Mars)

This post focuses exclusively on a 12th house relationship between two kind and evolved individuals. While there are other darker themes associated with 12th house synastry — such as deception, substance abuse, hidden affairs (like being the other woman or mistress), lies about one partner’s true nature, or fear that one partner is withholding information or their true self — I won’t be discussing those here. Here is a link to a post about how these darker themes may manifest: Click Here

“Though I barely know you, it feels as if I do. Your eyes and body language seem to speak your thoughts, even the ones I can’t fully grasp. There’s no visible thread connecting us, yet this feeling remains.” — Planet Person

There are two sides of 12th house synastry that I commonly see. The spectrum is different compared to the 8th house because with the 8th house, there are highs and lows, obvious extremes, there's oftentimes constant lessons, cycles and loops, but with the 12th house, there's a different undertone.

The 12th house is a very unforeseen house, when it comes with synastry, the spectrum of love that can be received and given is unfathomable. I am going to first discuss what this energy is like when someone deals with this type of synastry while having Neptune (especially harshly) aspecting their inner planets/12th house placements/Pisces placements; then I will go in-depth for how they would feel without those placements.

(that being said my main discussion deals with the foundation of both individuals having attraction or interest on both ends, as well as other intense synastry overlays such as harsh or soft attraction synastry aspects, + eros, lilith, chiron, pluto, or 8th house synastry)

As a 12th house native or with heavy Pisces influence (e.g., a Pisces Venus, Sun, Moon, rising, or with a natal Neptune squaring, opposing or conjunct the Sun, Moon, rising, Venus) this type of synastry is confusing, it's blurry and parts of you can second guess almost everything about them, what you are to them, what they are to you etc. There are no tangible boundaries when it comes to the emotional depth you are willing to feel for them. On some days you can find yourself wondering where you stand with them, you fixate on their energy, and you'll wonder if they're thinking of you. You look into their eyes and just feel their mental health struggles, their fears, their hidden thoughts, what they need to hear to feel seen past the 3D. You're like a walking and breathing affirmation audio tape of everything their subconscious always wished to of heard throughout life. That one broken image or belief they have within their subconscious self is the one thing you can't help but compliment them on, the feelings they ignore, suppress or hide away are the feelings you want to naturally reassure them about. It's like you become this real life 3D fixer upper for this individual, and you just can't help but be drawn with saving, helping, or fixing them. (undoubtedly so if you also fall in their 2nd house, especially your inner planets, if there is no 2nd house influence then the compliments/praising will be less intense or frequent)

The beginning of this synastry embodies confusion. Since there's no real tangible statement or understanding you can hold onto. You'll just know how they operate before ever really knowing them.

You'll just want to make sure that they are okay, and that can come in many different ways, you yourself will just know. You can turn into this savior that they never knew they needed, you'll just want to give and love everything out of them; and in some cases receiving or having that mutual give and take may be something you think you don't need, especially when it comes to them, and especially if you have a natal 12th House Venus or a Pisces Venus/a Natal Venus that squares, conjuncts or opposes Neptune (this can apply to the Moon as well).

If the above scenario resonates with you, then this individual is provoking a wound within yourself that deals with the acceptance of receiving authentic love. This innate need to only give highlights your own fear of receiving real reciprocal, stable, tangible love.

Therefore if you want to save, fix, heal or give, this desire only highlights that fearful nature within you where you allow to stay in shallow waters. You subconsciously know that you have such passionate love to give, but that thought of giving to someone who in turn might be willing to give back evokes fear and uncertainty within you.

This subconscious block holds more comfortability within you since it allows you to never accept a love where your soul will fully be fulfilled. It's self sabotaging and self written, you naturally already know how the story will end between you two, and so you subconsciously will find a character who perfectly embodies the story you yourself say you try to run from.

To reiterate; if you share the above placements you instantly can become drawn towards the house person. You will look at them and see every facet of their being, their hidden pain, their sorrows, why they feel the way they do, why they struggle the way they struggle, their mental health dilemmas, their soul; especially so if you as well have a water Moon that harshly aspects Neptune as well as the above listed placements. But these feelings don't persist automatically or openly, the desires the planet person or the one person who has the placements I listed/spiritual enlightenment + attraction towards the house person (or the other person) stays at bay and stays being unsaid, especially in the beginning. The planet person with these placements etc etc, can hold onto constant dilemmas and wonder if what they are feeling is real, if what they desire is one sided, especially if there is little to no communication between the dynamic.

On the other side of the spectrum, this bond (when wanted on both ends) can create a soul binding connection where the house person would feel like no one else can ever understand them the way the planet person can. No one else would be able to read them like the book they secretly are, no one else can look into their eyes and bring solace into their bones, which in-turn can cause the dynamic between them to consistently become something that is impossible to let go of.

With attraction + desire the house person may feel like a hug from the planet person* (or vice versa) is equivalent to receiving a sense of understanding and safety that they weren't aware they ever needed. The house person may just find themselves fully being able to lay and hold onto the planet person* and there's this unsaid desire just be next to them. The planet person* may instinctively feel this pull or knowing that there is a softer more serene side of the house person that not everyone see's and even though there's no tangible words to hold onto, that feeling within them doesn't dissipate. Just with one hug from the house person and the planet person* will know that there's a soft and quiet side inside them that they hide or suppress away.

* = placements I listed + spiritually understanding/enlighted

The house person will ask themselves: How do I let go of the one soul who speaks to the parts of myself that I don't even know? The intensity of the bond can vary based on each others natal placements, but I do believe the connection can become deep and unworldly even without the placements I've listed since attraction and desire are two KEY factors that would override any natal placement. Instant psychic understanding about one another on both ends (regardless of natal placements) can occur, you both will know what the other person is thinking, feeling, and needing. If there is genuine desire for one another then the depth of care can become very ethereal and unspoken, especially if the Moon or Venus are involved; if attraction is present and you have the placements I mentioned, a part of you will just want to hold onto the house person. You'll just want to comfort and be present in the moment with them. All that matters to you is that they are doing and feeling okay, with them this part of you unlocks where you just want to caress their soul. But like I said natal placements do have an immense influence, one individual could feel this pull and understanding (w/o the placements I mentioned) but the depth and length for caring may not run as deep as someone else who has the natal placements I listed. They will still care in some shape or form in ways they never knew was possible; but the turnover of moving on or of minimizing selfless acts can become more shallow and less frequent throughout time.

🆘 REMINDER: With this synastry there's a chance that a codependent nature might manifest by you over emphasizing redemption with no boundaries. If there is solid exchangeable love, a part of you may believe there is always more good than bad within them or within the relationship, and so their wrongdoings or unacceptable behavior to you or to others somehow receives justification or more understanding than he or she should receive. (especially if you also share 8th house synastry with them). As well as it's important to understand that if there is this innate understanding given by one partner that's always present when there shouldn't be, that's when the relationship can become overwhelming, or draining. Just because you know, understand or empathize with the other partner's actions or patterns doesn't make their actions okay

Now this type of synastry can also begin the influence of delusion or false presumptions. Genuineness and self awareness is key, not everyone will desire such depth of the unknown especially if they themselves have no set understanding of their own subconscious beliefs.

To reiterate, if this is one sided therefore if they don't share attraction or desire for you; then this type of behavior will feel invasive and they may become confused or unsure with what to do with that type of depth that your eyes can bring them, if they are unaware of their own shadow self, along with not wanting to change or be spiritually awoken, this type of connection can be daunting and misleading in some way for them.

Now lets go deeper: for someone who doesn't have any 12th house Venus, Pisces Venus, Neptune influence (or if you have little to no attraction or interest towards them), or low spiritual awareness/acknowledgement of your own mental health struggles/hidden fears and if someone comes in to your life where they fall in your 12th house, the feelings that acclimate mainly are confusion, resistance or hesitation. You might have some hidden curiosity about the planet person but generally the curiosity can be the furthest you go with this individual. There might be some hidden tension or eye glances towards another but with it there is also a barrier between the two of you. You may feel like you know their body language or what their eye glances mean but you more than likely brush it off and set aside any spiritual coincidences that you have with them. You may also wither back and forth between being more inclined to getting to know them to being unsure with your interest in them or there's a sense of unpreparedness you may struggle with when it comes to this individual. A part of you may feel like their type of love can sooth parts of you that you ignore or mentally struggle with but that type of care can feel unneeded and can bring in fear; since there is a unspoken knowing of what they are able to truly view and feel for you if they were your partner. You may ask yourself, "Can this person fix, and heal me? " "Do I really need to be saved?" "Is this all in my head?" "Can they be the pacifier for the pain I can't even openly express; or will they bring me more sorrow?"

(this dilemma of curiosity is more apparent if you share other direct intense synastry aspects such as 8th/pluto/intense attraction aspects especially with eros or lilith etc)

Another strong note I wanted to state is how often times with 12th house and Neptune synastry; the reason why this is the house of "hidden enemies" or there's horror stories where one partner hid addiction, lies, another woman or their true agenda towards the other partner is because this type of synastry can genuinely cloud judgment and hinder honest communication. There is often hidden uncertainty or a lack of awareness of what is really going on, primarily because this dynamic makes it easy to fall "victim" to a false persona. This happens when you're unaware of your own wounds, patterns of self-undoing, or fears surrounding with receiving reciprocal love. While I'm not going too in-depth with these themes—since, in my opinion, they deserve their own post—I want to reiterate the importance of staying grounded, aware, and avoiding getting lost in illusions or overthinking about someone who you know won't (or can't) change.

That being said, if there is a connection where one person has these natal placements and desires for the other individual but the other partner doesn't share the same attraction/placements; then that is when unrequited love or unspoken love can occur. To summarize, for 12th house and neptune synastry to be mutual even if the other partner doesn't have those natal placements, there has to be attraction or desire; whether it be physical, or emotional. Someone could have these placements that I've listed but if there is no want, attraction or desire towards the other person; the dynamic can also become one sided on their end even with the placements and tendencies of being drawn towards connections that share 12th/neptune/pisces influence.

12th house synastry is the house of selflessness, this is the house of giving and giving to no end; since in one essence this house holds no end or beginning, therefore the boundaries and understanding that this house can carry is unknown. Each dynamic with 12th house synastry can be complexed, there are many factors that play a role in influencing this type of connection such as your natal placements, their natal placements, your natal aspects, their natal aspects, your desire and attraction and their desire and attraction and so on. Someone could sit in this confused and undesired energy for the other person for months and have all the placements I've listed. Therefore if that said individual is not prepared or have any desires to hold a connection that is deep and unspoken, they themselves (the planet person or the person who has 12th house/neptune/pisces influence) may even still feel fear or invasiveness towards the other individual that their share 12th house synastry with or vice versa; there are so many avenues and routes these connections can take, at least that's from my own astrological understanding and take on these type of connections.

Side Note: To balance the intensity these synastry aspects/overlays bring, taking on the opposite houses themes would bring more ease and create less intensity.

For example, dealing with 12H (Even Neptune) synastry, the opposite house is the 6H, the house of routine, daily life, mundane affairs, healthcare, helping others/giving etc etc. So to ease this type of fixation this synastry can cause, focus and enhance your own skills when it comes to your physical/mental health. Add more day to day to activities that solely focuses on changing your routine; however big or small. That will ease the fixation that 12H and Neptune synastry brings. This synastry can cause you to daydream or obsess over them, and since you may have this innate need to be their savior that wants to try and fix their wounds, the chance of putting yourself in situations where your priority is solely them is very likely. You could also fantasize and have an escapist attitude with them, (or the idea of them) therefore, they can serve as an escape for you; by focusing on their pain and struggles might cause you to forget about your own mental health challenges. You also might repeat scenarios in your head or fantasize about situations happening; especially since you might feel confused/hazy with where you stand with them, therefore keeping yourself busy is key with this synastry, and that will create more control within you.

P.S

This is all from my own interpretation of 12th house synastry, I would confidently say I am a very very introspective person at heart, I read between the lines constantly and overly fixate on behavior etc and this synastry still clouded my own judgment and understanding for years; it brought in tendencies for me to doubt my true feelings and curiosity, only until I more so let go of the relationship that I am referencing (the boy where I have 8th house synastry with) was the only time I was able to fully look outside my situation with him when it came to my actions and feelings. The constant back and fourth dilemma I struggled with when it came to knowing him and who he was was constant yet truly instant. My soul knew him before my brain did and because of that knowing I was unsure and unconfident with the type of feelings that persisted in the dynamic I shared with him. I have made so many posts about 12th house synastry but I can confidently say that this current post is now the most accurate representation of what can occur between these relationships.

Hope this brings some clarity and understanding for others who have dealt with 12th house and Neptune synastry; if not disregard and again this type of synastry is truly nuanced and multifaceted.

If this resonates with you I have an eBook that perfectly depicts and explains if you are in a karmic relationship. It's about 8th/12th/Pluto/Neptune/Saturn/Vertex/Nodal synastry. I give insights, exact transits, exact synastry overlays, natal chart interpretations and more advice on what to do in these situations. More information is pinned on my page.

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Certified Lover Girl/Lover Boy Aspects 💕

A certified lover girl/boy is someone who idealizes love and or romantic connections. They are kind, loving, generous and nurturing individuals in their connections and wear their hearts on their sleeves. They are not afraid to go above and beyond in their connections to show love and care. They want their partners to feel loved, nurtured and valued. They are the "soul mates". When they love they love hard. It is not unusual for Certified Lover Girl/Boys to keep their options open and or prefer to date multiple people at a time. Some may have many short lived relationships, or may appear to move on quite quickly in love. In this post I am focusing specifically on Venus natal aspects. As Venus rules love and romance, the zodiac sign Libra and the 7th house of relationships and partnerships. Certified Lover Boy Drake has several aspects in his chart * below. As well as a Mercury/Venus conjunction that explains his penchant for expressing his romantic nature when writing and singing about love or lack thereof. He has a Cancer Moon which makes him very sensitive and empathic. Drake is also a Scorpio stellium (Sun, Mercury, Venus & Pluto) so he is intense and passionate about connections however long they last, as Scorpio's tend to have a hard time letting go. Which explains why he often sings about connections from the past and has revisited a few past connections, including his highly publicized on again off again connection with Rihanna whom he has described as his "ultimate fantasy". They share several romantic aspects with her Moon and Venus in his 8th house which causes obsession and magnetic attraction in the planet person, his Mars sextile her Moon, his Saturn trine her Moon, his Ascendant trine her Saturn, his Saturn trine her Venus, and his Venus trine her North Node. Despite letting his feelings be publicly known (Mercury conjunct Venus) Rihanna has insisted that they shared nothing more than a "friendship", 😫 Rihanna also has Venus in the 12th house. If I missed any aspects leave them in the comments below.

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Venus trine/conjunct Jupiter*- kind, generous, out going, may attract an abundance of suitors, optimistic about love and connections. "Said you belong to the streets but the streets belong to me. It's like home to me. It's like home to me" -Pipe Down (Certified Lover Boy)

Venus trine/conjunct Mars💕- passionate and magnetic individuals. "They live and breathe romantic/sexual relationships."

Venus trine/conjunct Moon*- empathic and nurturing individuals, who are charming, easy going and sensitive. Can be seen as pushovers and tend to be taken advantage of often. "Yes, I'm hurting, yes, I'm jaded. Most of these things I don't wanna say"-Jaded (Scorpion)

Venus trine/conjunct Mercury*-expressive in love, great writers, artist and creators. Diplomatic in communication and speech. "I gave your nickname to someone else. I know you're seeing someone that loves you, and I don't want you to see no one else. I don't want you here with no one else. I don't wanna do this with no one else."-Redemption (Views from the 6)

Venus trine/conjunct/opposite Pluto- desires deep transformative connections, can be passionate and obsessive in love.

Venus trine/conjunct/opposite Neptune💕-idealizes love and romantic partnerships, pedestalizes partners. Tends to be naive in love and can easily be taken advantage of in love and money.

Venus trine/conjunct Sun- love and relationship focused, connections are part of sense of self, artistic, attractive and graceful.

Venus trine/conjunct North Node- self love and opening themselves to love and romance is the theme this lifetime.

Venus in 5th House💕-over the top gestures of love, likes to keep options open in love and go with the flow.

Venus in 8th House- may attract toxic transformative connections, all partners are a lesson, or they may be the lesson.

Venus 12th House - may idealize partners, and or have a tendency to attract taboo connections, sneaky links, situation ships, and friends with benefits.

Venus in Scorpio*- connections are very emotional and passionate, intense attraction and loyalty in connections. "The way you make me feel these days. Somethin' getting' dropped for you, baby girl. Smoke a nigga top for you, baby girl. Burn somebody block for you. The way you make me feel these days. Comin' out my body for you, baby girl. Wipe him like he snotty for you, baby girl. Comin' out my body for you." Spin About You (Her Loss)

Venus in Sagittarius💕- ruled by Jupiter, tends to over indulge in connections, may have multiple partners, likes to keep options open in love.

Venus in Gemini- prefer to keep options open in love, partners are learning experiences, likes their freedom and likes to keep options open in love.

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I think the most suprising manifestation of Mars in the 12th house overlay in Synastry I've encountered was when Mars person found out she was pregnant AFTER already breaking up with 12th house person. Overall, I'd say this overlay also has the potential of unexpected pregnancy, along with Neptune, Uranus in the 5th house Synastry overlay, Moon conjunction Mars in Synastry.

[stellarsecrets86]

Magnetic & Obsessive Synastry Observations

✨ Moon in 8th house – The house person is emotionally naked in the presence of the Moon person, who seems to penetrate deep into their soul. The Moon person gets deeply attached, almost psychic in sensing the house person's inner turmoil.

✨ Pluto conjunct Moon – The Moon person is overwhelmed, emotionally possessed, and very vulnerable to the Pluto person, who may feel like a puppet master.

✨ Venus in 12th house – – The house person has secret, unconscious fantasies about the Venus person and dreams of them and has an inexplicable attraction to them.

✨ Mars square Pluto – The Mars individual is in over their head, as though their needs are being manipulated by Pluto. Pluto, meanwhile, is attracted to Mars' wild passion and ability to stir them up.

✨ Saturn conjunct Sun – – The Sun person is cramped and too dependent on the Saturn person, who secretly controls. Saturn, on the other hand, is deeply devoted but expresses it through coldness or bossiness.

✨ Neptune opposite Venus – The Venus person becomes delusional and envisions Neptune as an imaginary lover even when reality does not work out. Neptune prefers it but disappears when Venus is seeking something tangible.

✨ Pluto in 7th house – The house person becomes dominated by the Pluto person in the relationship, becoming both obsessed and fearful of losing them.

✨ Mars trine Lilith – The Mars individual is drawn irrevocably to the eroticism of the Lilith person. The Lilith individual is thrilled to be leading Mars off into taboo, dark corners.

✨ Chiron conjunct Venus – The Venus individual is drowning in agony and healing through the Chiron person. They intuit that Chiron understands their very worst wounds, but also unleashes them.

✨ Pluto opposite Venus – The Venus person falls in love, hungering for Pluto's intensity. Pluto enjoys the control but can be emotionally aloof.

✨ Mars in 8th house – The house person is sexually attracted to Mars. They feel as if Mars has some sort of mysterious power over them, which awakens primitive needs.

✨ Venus conjunct Mars – The Mars individual must "act" to attract Venus, but Venus naturally radiates charm.

✨ Eros conjunct Sun – The Sun person senses they are being loved by Eros, and Eros feels as if they have found their ideal lover.

✨ Lilith conjunct Ascendant – The Ascendant person is revealed, as though Lilith sees the worst in them. The Lilith person is completely drawn by their pure presence.

✨ Mars opposite Ascendant (Descendant conjunction) – The Ascendant person is attractive and infuriating to Mars, and Mars courts them aggressively.

✨ Pluto conjunct Mars – The Mars person is completely enamored with Pluto, and Pluto delights in teasing Mars and finding out how far they will let them go.

✨ Venus trine Pluto – The Venus person is attracted to Pluto, but Pluto is the one with the behind-the-scenes power in the relationship.

✨ Eros trines Moon – The Moon person is overwhelmed by Eros, who is romantically intoxicating for them, and Eros feels Moon is emotionally safe but hugely erotic.

✨ 5th house Venus – The house person thinks Venus is their romantic fantasy come true, discovering them to be their perfect lover.

✨ Mars square Venus – The Venus person is turned off by Mars' raw passion, and Mars is immediately aroused by Venus' magnetism.

✨ Saturn conjunct Moon – The Moon person is emotionally needy of Saturn, but Saturn feels obligated and could be emotionally unavailable.

✨ Pluto square Ascendant – The Ascendant person is unsettled by Pluto's intense gaze and authority, while Pluto is attracted to transforming them.

✨ Juno conjunct Pluto – The Juno person wants Pluto as a permanent partner, even if it means enduring emotional agony.

✨ South Node conjunct Venus – The Venus person feels as if they have met an old flame and instantly feel at ease but bear karmic baggage.

✨ North Node conjunct Mars – The Mars person is drawn to the Node person as if they have unfinished business. The North Node person feels obliged but awed by Mars' energy.

✨ Pluto in 1st house – The house person feels Pluto has a spooky impact on his or her identity. Pluto prefers the quiet domination.

✨ Neptune square Sun – The Sun person feels Neptune is their fantasy and also an illusion. Neptune is an elusive fish, uncatchable.

✨ Venus in 8th house – The house person is tormented by Venus and cannot shake them from their mind. Venus adores this power but maybe less committed.

✨ Moon opposite Pluto – The Moon person believes Pluto is emotionally dangerous but impossible to ignore. Pluto is obsessed but more confident.

✨ Saturn trine Venus – The Venus individual is secure and devoted, and Saturn esteems Venus as valuable and deserving of long-term devotion.

✨ Mercury conjunct Pluto – – The Mercury individual is captivated by Pluto's intellect and craves strong, revolutionary conversation. Pluto enjoys dominance over Mercury's intellect.

✨ Jupiter in 8th house – The house person feels an expansive, almost spiritual rapport with Jupiter and views them as a life-alterer.

✨ Mars conjunct Descendant – The Mars person is pushy with the house person, whereas the house person is fascinated by them but too much for them to take.

✨ Lilith square Moon – The Moon person is emotionally upset but attracted to Lilith's wild, unpredictable quality. Lilith stirs Moon's hidden fears and desires.

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Synastry Observations 9

Accuracy is influenced by the ENTIRE chart

Sun trine Saturn

This is usually good for a friendship or business partnership. There is longevity and often a restriction or boundary in the connection. One person may have some status or power over the other. This can indicate one person - likely Sun - can’t be their true self. They want to present as their best self.

This can be for various reasons - ex: one wants to impress the other or one is insecure around the other. If positive, you are motivated to be your best self/improve.

Moon conjunct Jupiter

You can feel supported and protected by this connection. You can be generous in proving one another patience, support + understanding. 

The negative side is this can be enabling if you allow it. This can be a connection that encourages overindulgence + poor habits for short term pleasure. 

Moon square Pluto

You can encounter control issues if you get too close. There can be jealously. One may require more than the other is willing to give. Example: Moon desires more emotional vulnerability, Pluto doesn’t want to let their guard down. One can desire a romantic relationship, the other wants a friendship or something casual. Your emotional needs are unlikely to align. One can feel the other is obsessive or controlling to varying extents too.

Moon conjunct South Node

This is a reoccurring aspect I’ve seen in on & off relationships - platonic and romantic. You can take breaks from one another but then find your way back. This can be due to one person - likely Moon - feeling emotionally drained or neglected. 

This connection often suggests a lot of sacrifice + compromise is needed to be maintained. If positively placed, you can feel a sense of ease around one another. You are able to support one another. You can create a no judgement zone for one another.

Venus square Venus

This can indicate some type of difference in desires, need or self. I often see this reoccur in synastry of people who are from different upbringings or cultures. 

The differences can create intrigue and passion. But the chemistry may not be enough to maintain a long-term connection. You have to meet each other half way to fulfill one another emotionally. This is another synastry indicator of needing to learn & compromise. 

Venus trine Jupiter

There is a good flow and loving energy. You can be supportive of one another. You can have a lot of fun together. Together, you can let loose. You may have similiar tastes or hobbies.

This can be a “go with the flow” type connection. Potential for a fling. And in some cases, this is someone - platonic or romantic - that you see on occasion. This aspect does not indicator longevity though. There may be other synastry in the chart that does tho. IRL EXAMPLE: Jupiter & Venus are long-distance friends. When Jupiter is in Venus’s city, they go out & make a lot of fun memories drinking + dancing. But they don’t stay in consistent contact throughout the year - neither feels the need or desire.

Mars square Venus

This can create a hate-love relationship. You can frustrate one another but this can lead to passion and intrigue. There are likely differences in personality that create tension. Yet, the magnetic energy is still present.

Potential negative scenario - this is someone you know is bad for you in the long-run but you can’t resist.

Potential positive scenario - this is someone you bicker with a lot but its a form of affectionate teasing/roasting.

Venus conjunct Neptune

This can feel like a deeply romantic connection. You can feel pulled to the other. You can intuitively understand the other. The connection can feel like fate or dream. You have to be cautious of building up an ideal view of the other. You can be disappointed when the fog clears. This can often be synastry you have with a celebrity crush.

If negative, I have seen this in irl unreciprocated connections. One person - likely Venus - is flattered by Neptune’s admiration, however Venus may not match Neptune’s feelings. 

Pluto trine Saturn

This can be a very powerful and transformative connection. Pluto can bring intensity and disruption into Saturn’s life. You can directly or indirectly set off a chain off events in one another’s life.

Mars trine Jupiter

You can inspire one another. You can be competitive with one another. There can be a playfulness to the connection. It can indicate a brother-sister type dynamic - unless other synastry contradicts. 

If negative, there can be an underlying insecurity of feeling you are not at the same level as the other person. 

Jupiter trine Saturn

This can provide good support and stability to the connection. This would be good for a working relationship, you can easily work toward mutual goals + support one another in personal goals.

Saturn square Moon

This can create a rigid and cold energy. One may be unable to feel fully supported. One may feel the other is uncaring. Example: Virgo Moon square Gemini Saturn - You may be judgemental of each other’s lifestyles. You can constantly be able to find something to nitpick in the other. It may not be intended to hurt each other but one can begin to feel berated by the criticism. 

Neptune sextile Mars

Neptune can encourage Mars to achieve their goals. Mars can inspire Neptune to create + go after their goals. You can support + push one another to success.

South Node conjunct Pluto

Aspecting one another’s south node can indicate a past life connection. In this case, there can be an attraction to one another. This is not a superficial connection. In this lifetime, one person - likely Pluto - may end up in a position of power + status compared to SN person. 

In a past life, it may have been the other way around, thus how SN treated Pluto in the past life when they had power over them will determine how Pluto feels about SN in this lifetime.

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RANDOM ASTRO NOTES PT.2 🎋

🎋People with Mars conjunct/Square or opposite Jupiter can have a inflated sense of ego and pride just like Sun/Jupiter aspects (especially men since mars has a stronger and dominant energy in their charts)

🎋Tell me why every Aries Sun be waking faster than then wind ?😂 # you are to fast

🎋People with Taurus and Virgo mixed Placements are the most humble grounded individuals to exist they just exude „ZEN“🍃

🎋People with 1st house placement can sometimes feel left out or stand out from the crowd due to the focus being directed on their individuality and presence

SIDE CHICK INDICATORS:

🎋Venus square/ opposite Neptune ( lacking boundaries)

🎋Neptune in the 7th ( unreliable partners )

🎋Venus in the 12th (secret affair and relationships)

🎋Mars in the 12th (hidden sexual relationships)

🎋Venus / Chiron (low self worth)

🎋Venus Square /opposite/ conjunct Lilith ( lustful attraction to unconventional, shocking secret things like a married person )

🎋Mars conjunct Lilith (secrecy and power dynamics turn them on )

🎋 Venus conjunct /Square Uranus (unpredictable love life’s and entanglements )

🎋Lilith/ Pluto in the 9th house ppl can be scared of taking flights, traveling to foreign countries

🎋Sun/ Pluto aspects might be scared of their fathers or have huge respect for them 🫡

🎋Venus conjunct Chiron synastry: trauma bonding relationship vs. healing relationship

🎋Capricorn MC have a reputation of being the GOAT after their hard work has paid off

🎋Venus conjunct Jupiter is usually seen in charts of woman who marry wealthy partners

🎋Mars square asc look fierce

🎋Pluto Square asc look alluring, mysterious and dangerous

🎋 Moon in Scorpio/Moon conjunct Pluto stare intensely on pictures and camera angels

🎋While moon in Pisces/Moon/ Neptune placement look away or their eyes wonder to the the ceiling, they look sleepy, sweet and in another world

🎋Moon in cancer have doll eyes with little sparkles, round like the moon and comforting to look at

🎋A lot of child actress have Neptune influence on their Moon or IC

🎋Saturn in the 1st house have visible oval nostril where their nose kind of looks pointed and straight

🎋Mercury square Jupiter makes somone who doesn’t have a filter or lacks in reading the room they probably over share and reveal to much information

🎋Mercury/ Neptune aspects can misconstrued, antagonize, change information or get very confused, they also posses very imaginative creative mind that could inspires other people

🎋Moon/ Mercury have an internal need to express their feelings through their voice they are very emotionally intelligent and speak with their heart. They have a hard time taking critique and will voice their opinions whenever they feel like it

🎋Lilith /Mars in Pisces woman can be a unknown sugar baby or trad wife placement since they use illusion, charm and fantasy to get what they want (if they play smart and don’t get carried away)

🎋7th house in the 4th can show an family arrangement marrige or both peoples family being heavily involved in their marriage/ engagement

🎋Pluto/8th house synastry/Composite makes for an unforgettable relationship especially if both people have it. The separation is very painful and takes time to heal

🎋Saturn/ Pluto in the 6th house need to take care of their health, body, routine more than the average person, if not they will have to face harsh consequences

🎋Cancer mixed Leo Placements gives either a neutral balanced personality or drama queen they embody the most authentic expression off themselves and won’t hide for anything and anybody #period

🎋Venus in the 10th has a similar effect as Venus in the 1st house

🎋Venus/ Chiron hard aspects can usually show cheating and betrayal in a chart

Venus conjunct Chiron = being cheated on

Venus square Chiron = being the cheater

Venus opposite Chiron = vise versa

(Pls take it with a grain of salt, it doesn’t have to apply to you)

🎋People with harmonious aspected moons are emotionally stable and regulated, empathetic and understand people needs and emotionall nature

🎋People with Harmonious aspected Jupiter carry a sunshine energy everywhere they go and attract plenty people and opportunities towards them -> positive optimistic mindset -> Luck 🍀

🎋Aries mixed Cancer Placements = unhinged crash- out, impatient, anger issues, very loyal and protective, uncontrollable emotions, lovely and nice to the people that are close to them

🎋Libra mixed Virgo Placements = fashionista, life style influencers, perfectionist, good cooks, enjoy finer things with an hint of detail and excellent observation skills, a bit judgmental, very very very helpful people

🎋Scorpio mixed Virgo Placements = psychotic (just joking 😂), natural detectives and truth seekers, extremely intelligent people, literally know everything, extreme control issues and can be obsessive and a bit creepy when they like somebody, once trust is gained they are number one supporters for life

🎋Gemini mixed Capricorn Placements = Aloof (weirdly give Aquarius or Virgo vibes?) , Logical thinkers, like to think outside the box , can also be very responsible, less inclined to open up about emotions and would rather joke about them. Less lighthearted but also less serious, truthful and honest people

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•~Milly~•

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