#not looking to start discourse or anything

[unholiestverse]

gonna be real with you guys, the new design concept for mcr is not doing it for me. which kinda does put a dampener on my excitement 🤷

[lee-minhoe]

hanjitonin for @strayklds 💖🎁

[riacte]

being a fan of false/ren/both atm is kinda weird and surreal in these times because you have to carefully tread around in your mind to avoid thinking about upsetting things (which consist of like 50% of the total stuff in your head) and you have to rewire your longtime neural pathways but it’s necessary and doable lol

[mars-ipan]

i KNOW that saying it is just gonna attract them to my blog but idc. if you are genuinely a harry potter fan in the year of our lord two thousand and twenty-five you have GOT to move on. read a better book. i do not care how much you love it. i do not care if you “don’t give jkr money.” there is way better shit out there and despite what people say jkr’s beliefs bleed through into her writing hardcore. do not put a single book series over the safety of trans people, for fuck’s sake

[harbingerofsoup]

i bet the in universe daniel molloy discourse is a thing of beauty

[blueberrydanish]

[chokecherryfemme]

I was never hyper-feminine presenting when I was compcishet. Make-up, doing my hair, having my nails done, it wasn't really my thing... Unless I was going out with a "girl" friend. But I never felt happy with how I looked, in make-up or otherwise.

Being femme isn't about appearance, most of us in the community know that, the same way most of us know high femme doesn't mean = the most girly girl sugar pop magical girl, the way it was bastardized by a few people. Ya know?

But, being hyper-feminine ONLY started to be something I enjoyed when I started discovering my femme identity. I love having nails, I love getting to wear make-up and though this is a different topic <hair is sacred and its tied to my indiginiety more than my sexuality> I like having my hair done. I like dressing up to have my butch take me out and show me off. BUT AND HERES A REALLY IMPORTANT BUT OKAY!?! I run a fantasy sex blog lmao, 90% of the time I don't have make up on, my hair is in braids, I'm wearing pajamas or comfy things because I work from home and suffer from chronic pain. Like, I'm only a housewife/trophy wife/hyper-femme butch bait in my fantasies. And I think a lot of the posts on this website, are coming from the same level of fantasy I am. And I think it's really important to remember that, especially in the ONLINE SEX/KINK/18+ blog sphere, fantasies are just that. Even if it's a sfw domestic post, it could just be fantasy, a dream ect.

I recognize not all femmes like that, feel that way, hate the idea of any of that and that's 100% valid!

I just think femmes should be allowed to present either way without being made to feel like they're not femme enough. Ya know?

I get that this is probably going to come off as whiny, but I've seen a lot of posts that demonize femmes acting feminine, and acting like we're role-playing to patriarchal fetishization. It kills me that because I choose to be hyper-feminine FOR OTHER LESBIANS, that some lesbians think I'm playing into some bs terf rhetoric. I also literally would fight to the death, tooth and nail for a femme to never have to shave or wear make-up or pretend to be submissive.

Anyways... I'm no more or less femme than any other, nails or not, hair or not whatever like. It shouldn't matter but can we just stop invalidating how a femme wants to present or dress or act in bed please???

<this can go for butches as well, I'm just speaking for my own femme self>

[ocpdzim]

star trek prodigy fans how old do we think zero is., we’re trying to figure out if they’re the one adult supervising all these kids or if they’re another kid bc those are two pretty different reads on their character

[sofastuffing]

i have a headache

[jonny-b-meowborn]

Some of my more distant friends subscribe to the idea that you need dysphoria to be trans and we talked about it many a time and they still don't get it and it's getting frustrating

[sonseulsoleil]

There is something so so funny and iconic to me about Kit Connor namedropping James Dean, Marlon Brando, and Paul Newman as his style inspirations. He really listed three famously (probably) bisexual leading men. Incredible.

[angorwhosebabyisthis]

me: hermes is a painfully accurate example of how some ways of defending yourself against certain kinds of insidious emotional abuse, gaslighting, ableism, and therapy speak can warp you into a person whose learned helplessness and lack of perspective can result in doing really shitty things, and who passes that abuse along in different forms (hi meteion) + lashes out in disproportionate ways + can be deeply hypocritical.

me: as a disabled person in a society where our systemic mass murder via pressure into government-sanctioned suicide is on the rise, the ancients' society is beyond fucking upsetting to me. i have zero sympathy for anything to do with them pre-apocalypse except for the effects of living in that system.

me: that said, they are a good opportunity to remind oneself that there are children in that burning building; that a society being fucked does not mean they deserve to be wiped out; and that that does not mitigate the harm they do, nor mean that its victims are not allowed to be angry or resist it, including the victims inside it.

me, booboo the fool: oh, this youtube essay about hermes looks interesting--

[nowwithgaypheromones]

I don't really watch their Star Trek and Star Wars related videos unless it's something really special, and according to their Patreon, Star Trek is basically all that's coming up soon. That plus the fact that their last few videos had the guest I wanted to kill means I'll probably end up just like not watching anything from them for a combined two months or something. At this point I'm gonna start discourse again just to entertain myself over that time. Offering everyone the exclusive opportunity to start discourse on anon in my askbox (or you could just ask a normal question I guess)

[francy-sketches]

this argument pisses me off so bad bc yes laena was treated like shit by the writers but no they didn't 'strip her from her canon relationship with Rhaenyra and give it to some white woman' bc they have nothing in common except being friends with an implied romantic relationship. They could have easily had them both it's not like rhaenyra can't have more than one friend lol. Like yea we should absolutely criticize the writers' treatment of laena but I only ever see people bring her up to hate on a character/ship they dont like it's so annoying

[idontwanttospoiltheparty]

I try to keep tumblr arguments in replies, because I'm having a conversation with someone, not purposely repeatedly putting them on blast – but it does mean that one time someone claimed to me that Please Please Me was a gender neutral love song (when it in fact rhymes "girl" with "girl" in its first two lines) – and probably only I saw it?

[mothmx]

*sticks one toe into HH fandom* *sees a cosplayer making thirst traps in Alastor cosplay while also joking about a fanfic where Charlie gets SA’d???*

*closes that tab*