#or aro. or both!
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sometimes i cant stand reading stories with a heavy focus on romance/dating/sex cuz i simply Do Not get it and half the time im mad at the characters for not being rational abt shit and the other half im just like why??
#does this make sense#its like when my friends are telling me abt a bf and in like why are you taking this lying down just dump him#and they go but i love him 🥺🥺🥺🥺#and its super frustrating bc like?? have aome self esteem damn#anf they get mad at me bc i dont get it and like fuck maybe i really dont but id like to think id have standards either way#and the other half im just like this is confusing me bc i can not imagine why anyone would care abt this shit#this is mostly when i read like high school characters cuz im like#ur sixteen why does this matter to you#but IM the weird one bc sixteen is The age where it matters to people apparently#so i dont read romances#i usually dont mind when theres a romance in an otherwise like#fantasy action genre or whatever#especially if its like integrated nicely#like uh whats an example....like percy jackson that was a nice one where the romance was like important but like integrated very nicely#and the stupid bits were more like god you really are like 15 years old arent you#however sometimes theres a romance and im like whyyy is this here i dont want it?#for example. i started reading blue exorcist and inreally liked it but i could NOT STAND the like burgeoning romance with uh#rin and the plant girl incant remember her name rn this was like easily five years ago minimum#and i was like man. man what the fuck#i hust didnt want it and it felt shoehorned in to me?#so its like touch and go. another example is six of crowd and kaz and the other girl man whats her name? inej i think?#anyways yeah i didnt really like that one either but i cant tell if its bc i just didnt like the romance in my thief story#or if i just fundamentally disliked kaz so fucking much i didnt want him to romance inej who was so cool and does not deserve to be subjecte#subjected to Him#we'll never know bc i will never finish reading that book bc of aforementioned dislike#anyways#fadcinating to me that it took me so long to discover im ace#or aro. or both!#one of those but figuring out which requires experimentation and i dont care enough to do that!#michi tag
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#don't take that too seriously#i know some genders amd sexualities aren't really talk much about either#but it doesn't change that ace and aro are really too often forgotten#and when they are talk about its really either black or white when both ace and aro are spectrum and are really complexe#and i rarely see them well represented during pride month#pride month#asexual#aromantic#sorry for my bad English dogs it's not my first language o7
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First base: scaring the shit out of the other with knowledge too vast to process
Second base: Watching TV shows together
Third base: performing major cosmetic surgery on them
Fourth base: getting them a job by lying on their resume
#artificial condition#asshole research transport#murderbot#the murderbot diaries#(ik murderbot used it/its pronouns im using they as to refer to whoever one might reach these bases with)#(and ik they are both like. aro. these can totally be platonic/queerplatonic bases)
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think about it
#xfohv#bfdi#osc#battle for dream island#x finds out his value#sixnine#tenfourteen#1014#4x#fourx#four and x are both aro to me#but the thing they got going on is so weird idk if queerplatonic is appliable too
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Michael Sheen weighs in:

Previous interview with Michael Sheen:

#image description in alt#vampire vs werewolf#michael sheen#he’s played both#twilight#aro twilight#lucian#underworld#lucian underworld#tweet#twitter#michael fucking sheen#welsh seduction machine#werewolf#vampire#good omens#michael sheen tweet
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noelle is as tall as susie because she's standing on a stack of textbooks to get on her level
#“guy” is gender neutral in this context‚ yes?#nutdealer posting#my art#suselle#kruselle#theyre my ot3. idk if kris is dating them or aro or both but this is the dynamic#deltarune#utdr#dr#dr fanart#krusielle#krususelle#aternate spellings can suck my dick
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I was inspired from on high (Patreon)
#DDoodles#Shitpost#Dan and Phil#UT#Handplates#Gaster#What a tag combo lol#POV: You insulted the Dreemurrs#The G in LGBT stands for Gaster now you know#AroAce skelefam supremacy lol - the whole skeleton family tree are aroace we love them for that <3#Someday I'll write that essay proper about why all my faves are aro/ace to some capacity lol#For now it's goofs and gaffs#Literally As Soon as they both played these cards - I am so thankful to Phil for making an ace joke to the + honestly#Nothing drives me up the wall more than ''A is for Ally'' like no tf it is not thank you <3 If you must you can have a second A but come on#So the + ace joke primo excellent thank you#Dan was immensely correct for his addition tho - made it too perfect I immediately saw Gaster's grumpy face about it#I see him everywhere............... (lol)#Extremely excellent and correct choices leading to an inspiration this is why I watch them religiously#Definitely no other reasons like they're a bright spot in this dark world always deriving joy and light#Gaster also fits that bill huh - too many beautiful lads out there really thank you <3#Alright enough silliness for now#Love yous#<Oh you can barely tell that I was tipsy while writing these tags lol
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I don't really draw/post allo Holmes a lot but I'll do it if it's funny.
[ID: a digital drawing of Sherlock Holmes, sitting on the edge of his bed with his elbows on his knees and hands together, a blush on his face. There are three thought bubbles over him with either Watson laughing or a close up of Watsons arms and hands. /End ID]
#my holmes tends to be various degrees of aromantic asexual or both#technically this could still count as aro Holmes#Sherlock Holmes
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Superhero besties that fight for fairness and equity together: The Just Friends
#no they're not dating#yes they're both aro#no they're not in a qpr either#one of them can fly#the other has super speed#any other questions?#aro#aromantic#aspec#queer#lgbtq#original
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im still thinking about that post about bingge not actually enjoying sex all that much and now it's got me thinking about acespec binghe. I wonder how much of bingqiu's sex life is about actual sexual desire or just a desire for intimacy. as we've established, bingqiu both want a Crack Open Shizun's Ribs And Live Inside Him situation but they can't actually do that, so sex is the closest they can get to the intense kind of physical and emotional intimacy they want. we need to introduce luo binghe to concepts like steven universe style fusion or pacrim drifting, getting those two to mindmeld would potentially create the craziest dude in existence but I think it would make binghe incredibly happy
#svsss#the more i think about it the more i really like the idea of high sex drive ace binghe#god wouldn't it be funny if sqq's panic about making the protagonist asexual before he realized he was gay turned out to be TRUE#surprise idiot he's gay AND ace#gray aro + high sex drive ace + bi binghe#and demiromantic + sex neutral ace + gay sqq#this is part of my evil plot to make all my favorite character aspec#anyway. i think bingqiu should fuse or something#i think it would fix something in binghe but it would also make both of them worse#I mean there's a chance that binghe's crazy + sqq's crazy somehow cancel each other out and create a Normal Dude#but that seems unlikely. if anything they'd amplify each other#i think they'd enjoy the intimacy though. what's more intimate than sharing a body and soul?#my meta
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Local aroace absolutely delighted at the fact that isat has multiple aspec characters. (Odile can probably be read as just a preference thing but I like to think she’s demiro :] for my aro heart)
#in stars and time#isat fanart#no spoilers! I’m at act 3 rn :) just finished everyone’s quests#isat siffrin#isat mirabelle#isat isabeau#art :0]#aroace art#The fact that it wasn’t just mirabelle but was also sif made me smile!#like it was already nice to have her but idk … the little sense of solidarity is sweet :) and having even one aspec character is already a#rarity. So her and sif both being at least acespec is very sweet#Also them hitting us with mirabelle saying she has no romantic preferences bc she “likes everyone equally ^_^” is so funny#like 50% of aspec people I’ve seen went thru that exact pipeline.#the pan/poly to aro pipeline. God bless our troops (mirabelle isat)
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hi!! if you'd be down i'd love to see an aromantic or genderfluid shark! any kind of shark but more specifically a thresher shark or leopard shark ^_^
*cradles shark gently* I just think they're neat.
#ask#art request#art#my art#aro#aromantic#aro pride#genderfluid#genderfluid pride#shark#leopard shark#shark art#pride#pride art#queer#queer art#digital art#animal art#lgbtqia+#lgbtq+#critter series#hey. love the username *winks in moon knight fan*#(*and nudges in moon knight fanfic writer* you may know a certain eternal sunshine series of mine that i did art for a while back)#you and i were both in the moon knight mystery swap as well! small world huh#and now i am here to give you shark! i hope you enjoy :D#id in alt
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chocolate was half off this week...
they bought as much cheap chocolate as they could and ate all of it together . couples bonding. though now his majesty has a stomach ache
This was meant to be for Aro week (which is why they're green!!!!!) but i kind of fumbled and almost missed it. i still managed to crank this one out even if it's not what i had in mind
clearly i experimented a bit. to questionable success. but i think it has its charm!!!! nevertheless i made some more normal looking ones here ↓
happy last 12 hours of aro week
#king dedede#meta knight#metadede#kirby#kirby series#my art#i make them romantic with mk as arospec. but dedede got caught in the green blast so he can be aro too for today#i think because of the colors it can be read as them both aroallo which would be soo cool..
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i need a stronger word than friend. not best friend no because. no. no no. you just don’t get it.
sure, this is my best friend, this is my closest friend.… but. it just feels like an understatement.
they’re not a partner or a significant other, no, it’s not like that… but we’re built for each other. soulmates. twin flames. the half of me i’ve been missing.
so like… where… is the word for that. i cannot keep saying ‘my friend’ whenever i am talking about them on here i’m going insane
#this is a real aroace struggle#especially because we’re both aroace#this is the lifestyle we live#aro#ace#aromantic#asexual#aromanticism#asexuality#actually aromantic#actually asexual#aroace#aromantic asexual#i’m tired#zzzzzz#soulmates
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No hold on I'm gonna make an extra post about this:
I wouldn't choose to be alloromantic
If I were given the choice to either remain aro or become alloro again, I would choose aromanticism.
And I think a lot of people need to hear that.
#aro#aromantic#actually aromantic#safeforaro#alloromantics are encouraged to reblog this#aros aren't the only ones who need to hear that our orientation isn't a consolation prize#too many ppl - both aro-specs and alloros - think that being aro is okay only bc it's not something we choose#with the implicit belief that if we COULD choose then OF COURSE we'd choose to be alloro#bc it's clearly the 'superior' option#and honestly? it's not.#they're equally valid options and which one is 'superior' depends entirely on your own needs and preferences#and my preference is *being aro*#so if you're aro and you feel like yeah sure it's OKAY that you're aro bc you DIDN'T choose this#but if you could you WOULD choose to be alloro?#well maybe being alloro really would be better for you. or maybe it's just internalized amatonormativity.#and I cannot answer for you which one it is - the only one who can is you#all I can do is raise you the OPTION that it might be amatonormativity and then leave you to consider it#so this is for the aros who need to hear that option#and for the alloros who pity us for supposedly getting the short end of the stick#we are not a tragedy
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being neurodivergent / aroace is having everyone else telling you their experiences and not being able to relate to it AT ALL, and feeling left out because you can't relate to them sucks so much, we're literally that "my whole life is a lie" thing.
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