#pro persecutor

[non-dys-sys]

It’s never okay to lock a headmate away, never. They could be the worst person in the world, you still shouldn’t lock them away. There’s a difference between keeping headmates away from eachother and taking away someone’s privacy, free will and connections. You are abandoning that headmate, you are telling them that they are not worth helping, that they don’t deserve to get better. If talking it out doesn’t work for them there are other options, I’d recommend giving them their own space to speak their mind without threat of mistreatment for it, for starters. If someone really doesn’t want help don’t force it on them, just let them know it’s always an option and leave it at that. -Ange

[basicsinpersecutorsnprosecutors]

I have an idea, mind telling the audience what the difference between a PERsecutor and a PROsecutor is? I get pissed off when people mix upon the terms.

A PERsecutor Hurts People WITHIN The System.

A PROsecutor Hurts People OUTSIDE The System.

You CAN BE BOTH A Prosecutor And A Persecutor, But DON'T Get The Terms Mixed Up.

[the-fictive-haven]

This blog and our system are strictly pro-persecutor. We believe all headmates should be given fair opportunity to better themselves and have a reason and right to exist without being treated like dangerous mental patients or attack dogs.

We are also firm on our stance of system accountability.

We have unfortunately had to block an entire system because a particular headmate chose to threaten Nine and attempted to goad him into fighting instead of... any more mature method of conflict resolution.

Persecutors, anger holders, and anyone else of the sort: we do love you and support you (/p). Nine himself is one. The way you're often treated is unfair and inhumane, and we understand that sometimes you may not know how to respond appropriately. That does not mean we will tolerate any hostility towards our system, and if you or anyone in your collective chooses to make threats towards us, it's an immediate block.

That is all.

[scribbledcosmos]

This has not been a good two days

-Riley

[prosecutorbutnotthelawyerkind]

its okay to like your role

it’s okay to like being a host

It’s okay to like being a little

It’s okay to like being a gatekeeper

It’s okay to like being a protector

It’s okay to like being a prosecutor

it’s okay to like being a perseutor

it’s okay to like being a caretaker

it’s okay to like being a trauma holder

it’s okay to like being a system

[xeminial]

Anti endos get the FUCK out of pluralpunk tags

That tag is NOT FOR YOU.

Punks dont stand for hate and bigotry

Ableism and medicalism are not punk. It never will be. You are not a punk if you are anti endo. So fuck off of our tags.

Sincerely, a very pissed off persecutor from a DID system.

[monochrome-clown]

I block people who are pro abusing persecutors btw.

[darthoughts]

you know you're not a classic sysmate when you're thinking about "bad" things (some event that went down six months ago that the rest of the system mourns) and you're like, "oh yeah idgaf" *eats raw pasta like a fucking snack* "fuck [the person involved in that event] actually"

[non-dys-sys]

(ID in alt)

[basicsinpersecutorsnprosecutors]

Hopefully No One Thinks This But Persecutors (And Adjacent Roles Like Prosecutors) CAN Be Girls/Women/Females/Ladies. And Non-Binary And Agender People And Things And Creatures. Persecutors Are Not JUST Boys/Men/Males/Guys. They Can Even Be Littles/Children And Middles/Teens.

Thank You For Coming To My Ted Talk And I Hope You Have A Good Day.

[mystery-aberration]

System roles do not have to be your entire identity. You do not have to conform to the stereotypes of them, and you do not have to hold your role alone or without help. You do not need to keep them forever, either. They may be what you were placed into the system to help with, and they may be something you are good at--but it does not have to be you forever.

I am a persecutor, and that does not mean I should be treated differently or harmed. Being a persecutor does not mean that everyone should be scared of you by default either.

Protectors should not be expected to be strong and emotionless walls to put in front of everything all the time. They do not need to be tools.

Comforters might need a break to unload their own stress and need comfort in turn. They do not need to give all of themselves to everyone else and never expect help back.

Littles may not be littles forever, and should not be devalued just because they are children. They are just as real and alive as any other system member and should be taken into account.

Trauma/memory holders might need help to cope with the things they hold, and sometimes when the time is right it means sharing that burden. Maybe there is no right time, but they deserve support whether they can share those memories or not.

Gatekeepers may need a break from controlling switches or access to front, and should be allowed one if needed. Gatekeeping can be a lot of work.

Hosts do not need to do everything for the body or system all the time. Sometimes, being the host of a system can be hard, and support and breaks are deserved.

Systems often put a lot of weight on roles, and it can impact the way that those who have them can feel about their role. It is okay to fit into your role, but it is also okay to not fit, or to end up not fitting your role over time. Some headmates can feel like a failure if they do not uphold their role, some can feel like they have no other choice even if they wanted to not perform it. But a role is a description, it is not an essence of who you are and will forever be. This may be non-traditional but we use roles exclusively as self descriptors so that we do not get wrapped up in what we "should be". If the label no longer fits, or if you need help more than you might have in the past, that is okay.

Be kind to yourselves, and be kind to your other headmates.

[skullrift]

persecutor to protector pipeline is based actually. learning how to properly handle threats in a productive way is so cool. you’re doing great

- 🥀

[prosecutorbutnotthelawyerkind]

guys let’s try to destigmatize persecutors

[ohana-system]

When we got our job and started making some money we started going to a certain coffee shop all the time to charge battery packs so that we could have a way to charge our phones and other devices while we're homeless. So we just became a regular who bought coffee twice a week, almost every week.

That's all we did. We bought coffee and we were polite about it. We were patient when they were in the middle of a rush. We said please and thank you whenever we asked for something. We were understanding when they made a mistake on our order and asked them to kindly fix it. Once, we had handed one dollar too many to the barista, and when they tried to hand it back, we shrugged and dropped it in the tip jar. That's it.

They got to know us by the name we were using at the time. They're always so accommodating whenever we ask for something. They tell us it's nice to see us. Last week, they accidentally made an extra lunch item that none of them wanted, so they offered it to us before the other customer that was in the shop. When we came in after we lost our job, the barista asked us how we were like usual. actually asked what was wrong when we were honest and said we weren't having a good day. They bought our coffee that day. Next time we came in, we had two interviews lined up. We paid for our coffee and the barista offered us congratulations and encouragement. Two weeks later, we came in again, and we were struggling not to be teary because we got rejected from those interviews. The barista bought our coffee again and offered us reassurance that something would work out.

We just had another interview yesterday. Today, we sat down at the coffee shop and plugged our battery packs in while we sat there on our phone for a bit to nervously check our notifications before we went to the counter. A random customer noticed us and offered to buy us a coffee.

None of these people know who we are. None of them know us as a person. They know our face and that we're well mannered to them, but they don't know anything about us or our values otherwise. We could be someone with opinions and beliefs that go against their morals. We could even be someone they wouldn't normally want to be nice to. Yet, they don't seem to consider any of that.

People are nice sometimes.

People

Are

Nice sometimes.

And that is a big development for me.

I hate people. I am the kind of man who would gladly see the majority of the world burn. I have experienced so much pain at the hands of human beings. In fact, I feel as though we encounter more bad than good.

Lately, however, when I think about burning down everyone and everything, I stop for a moment. I stop, and I think: Well, maybe I don't want that barista to burn. Maybe the person at the gas station, who offered to help us put a new bulb in our tail light simply because they see us all the time and noticed, doesn't quite deserve that either.

Do I now think people might be wonderful after all? Am I going to start trusting people over that? Absolutely not. Buying me coffee doesn't make them trustworthy. It certainly doesn't automatically make them a good person.

Though maybe, just perhaps, it also doesn't mean they should burn either.

- Rue

[unhinged-recap]

I took a shower without having music playing in the background. Figured it would be nice to be alone with my thoughts for once. HUGE mistake. I had completely forgotten about the voices.

[non-dys-sys]

Reminder that you can separate headmates from each other with out locking one of them up. Saying that persecutors shouldn’t be locked away and beaten into submission isn’t abuse apologism, it’s saying that everyone deserves basic human dignity and rights regardless of their actions. Yes, it’s okay to put boundaries in place so that people don’t get hurt. Locking someone away from everyone else is not a boundary, it’s abuse. -Party, Medds